May 2016 Moms

Comments from Strangers Thread

I don't think I have seen this topic posted on here yet...

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  • @yogahh damn, I wish I would have said something back like that! I was just stunned!

    I did respond with "A sister is amazing thing to have. I feel extremely blessed," but adding some snark might have done me better!
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  • My daughter's teachers and some moms all said "Wow you look great! How much longer?" When I replied 8 weeks at the time. They gave me a concerned face and said "Oh. You have some time to go." So I don't look good for 7 months pregnant!? Gee thanks. 
  • @yogahh awesome for standing up for yourself!!
    I've been really lucky, I haven't had any comments other than the usual, 'when are you due' and things like that. But, there's still 9 weeks to go...
  • Not a stranger but my coworker said "Wow. If I didn't know you I would say you were 9 months and ready to pop!!" I'm almost 32 weeks and have gained 28 pounds. I replied "Well I would hate to hear what you would have said if you would have saw me pregnant with my daughter...I gained 60 pounds" Shes a sweet woman, but I don't believe she thinks before she speaks. 
  • yogahh said:
    I was literally just logging on to tell about my experience getting lunch today...

    I am at the deli, and the girl behind the counter goes "how far along are you". When I say "2 months today" shes goes "wow, that's a big one". I was calm, but told her " that is really rude". When she asks why, I told her she has NO right to comment on MY body. Pregnant or not. I mean, I wouldnt tell a fat person they are big, so why is it ok to tell a pregnant person the same? 

    I know a lot of you have posted about similar experiences and I have to tell you, STAND UP FOR YOURSELF. If we don't tell people how effing rude they are, they will continue to behavior. I will continue to tell people to STFU anytime I get this comment for the next 2 months, and you should too!


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  • I was walking to my classroom and was stopped by three different members of the staff and all three asked how long I have left. When I told them they all acted shocked like I should be giving birth any second!  Definitely puts extra pep in your step to start the day... Not! 
  • Pretty much the creepiest thing I've experienced!! 
  • yogahh said:
    Norway23 said:
    Not technically a stranger, but an acquaintance who I barely know got on his knees to try to actually kiss my belly. It was pretty horrifying... 


    DAFAQ?????
    I'm sorry but I'm sitting at my desk laughing my ass off at that visual as well as your gif.  Praying no one comes in here for a few minutes so I can compose myself.
  • A couple weeks ago:

    "When are you due?"
    "I have about 10 weeks to go!"
    "WHAT? It looks like you are ready to go now!"

    Thanks, lady. I already feel huge without your comment!
    I got this from EVERYONE at my dad's birthday party this weekend!!

    Two random ladies passed my husband and I in Kohls this morning. They were walking towards us talking, one saw my belly and said "oooh baby!" and kept walking. Awkward!
  • Aquinna82 said:
    yogahh said:
    Norway23 said:
    Not technically a stranger, but an acquaintance who I barely know got on his knees to try to actually kiss my belly. It was pretty horrifying... 


    DAFAQ?????
    I'm sorry but I'm sitting at my desk laughing my ass off at that visual as well as your gif.  Praying no one comes in here for a few minutes so I can compose myself.
    Hahah I'm able to laugh at it now too. Its just too crazy
  • @yogahh While it doesn't excuse
    the rudeness, if you really did say "Two Months Today" I can at least understand her shock. Was that a typo, or were you joking with her, or what?
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  • @yogahh While it doesn't excuse
    the rudeness, if you really did say "Two Months Today" I can at least understand her shock. Was that a typo, or were you joking with her, or what?
    Not really sure where you are going with this??? Are you saying its ok for anyone to comment on your size? Does it matter if I am 2 months or 2 days away from my DD? Not everyone is the same size at every stage of pregnancy. And excusing it is not acceptable in my book anymore. 

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  • dsmith211 said:
    yogahh said:
    @yogahh While it doesn't excuse
    the rudeness, if you really did say "Two Months Today" I can at least understand her shock. Was that a typo, or were you joking with her, or what?
    Not really sure where you are going with this??? Are you saying its ok for anyone to comment on your size? Does it matter if I am 2 months or 2 days away from my DD? Not everyone is the same size at every stage of pregnancy. And excusing it is not acceptable in my book anymore. 
    I think she meant 2 months as in 2 months into the pregnancy. Not 2 months from the DD. I can see the confusion there, but really it shouldn't matter regardless. Idk why people find it acceptable to comment on someone's size.
    That makes more sense! No, she asked how long until my DD...in which case I said 2 months today. 
    @lalala2004, yes, typo in my original post!

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  • @yogahh yeah, I was super confused by your OP. I was thinking "Yeah. If you tell people you are only 2 months pregnant, you might get some strange reactions!"
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  • yogahh said:
    @yogahh While it doesn't excuse
    the rudeness, if you really did say "Two Months Today" I can at least understand her shock. Was that a typo, or were you joking with her, or what?
    Not really sure where you are going with this??? Are you saying its ok for anyone to comment on your size? Does it matter if I am 2 months or 2 days away from my DD? Not everyone is the same size at every stage of pregnancy. And excusing it is not acceptable in my book anymore. 
    I obviously know you meant you had two months remaining in pregnancy, but I read it as being two months along (8-10 weeks).  I agree that it's still not okay to say, but most of us look waaaaaaay different than we did 5-6 months ago.
  • At my prenatal workout class that I go to every week, my instructor's husband who helps with office stuff always comments on how my belly is looking, and I actually like it because he always acts so excited about it. This week he looked at my belly and said, "Wow... I have to tell you, it's a LOT bigger this week!" From a lot of people that would feel rude, but I was feeling so uncomfortable and huge that it actually felt nice to have him validate what I was feeling. It also made me feel good that baby is growing - I totally get how people commenting on how small you are is equally unsettling now as being told you're really big.

    And @Kennedy0830 - that is insane. I would be spending the rest of the week thinking about how I could have tried to avoid that stomach poke or given him the snarliest response ever, but no idea what I would actually do in that moment!
  • A couple weeks ago:

    "When are you due?"
    "I have about 10 weeks to go!"
    "WHAT? It looks like you are ready to go now!"

    Thanks, lady. I already feel huge without your comment!
    I got this from EVERYONE at my dad's birthday party this weekend!!

    Two random ladies passed my husband and I in Kohls this morning. They were walking towards us talking, one saw my belly and said "oooh baby!" and kept walking. Awkward!
    I was walking out of a restaurant a few weeks ago and when we passed through the crowd of people waiting to be seated someone yelled out "she's having a baby!!" in a really weird voice.  It was a bizarre moment.
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