Never claimed to be better than anyone. Just saying that maybe you are hurting someone with these judgments. Even if they are"fun" for you, which I still don't get.
Apparently its fun for you to come in here and act all high and mighty, then call people twats and say that the lord Jesus engages in sexual congress with himself
@jltilling What is your end game? That we all apologize and tell you how right you are? I know we all have babies and nothing better to do on a Friday night, but really.
What exact are you hoping to accomplish here? I don't get it.
@jltilling What is your end game? That we all apologize and tell you how right you are? I know we all have babies and nothing better to do on a Friday night, but really.
What exact are you hoping to accomplish here? I don't get it.
@jltilling What is your end game? That we all apologize and tell you how right you are? I know we all have babies and nothing better to do on a Friday night, but really.
What exact are you hoping to accomplish here? I don't get it.
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Nooooooooo!!!!!!! Please stay! I'm not done converting to a nice person yet!
Damnit... Now I'll have to go back to being a (TOU violation)
And someone show me the mean girls mentality on June15??? Let me say it yet again because it is not getting through, this thread is meant to be funny. We really don't judge people for most of these things. I've seen nothing but nice supportive posts here for weeks. You are the one that revived this thread.
And yes, please don't leave. I have another hour before my first night feeding. Stay. Carry on.
WAIT!!!!! Before you go, can you make a big long post that ends with an epic gbcb?! It's been so long and I could use it for nostalgia.. You brought up the old bump and now I need a gbcb
@ElRuby don't worry, @jltilling doesn't turn blue from spray tanning. Yes, we were both here before the exodus. The irony here is that she's actually a supportive member of a real community that doesn't need to judge other moms to bond and get their kicks on a Friday night.
I usually keep my mouth shut about some of the stupidity I see around here, but for real?! I think we're all just pretty much trying to survive this thing called motherhood. Maybe not everyone is doing their best, but I don't think the ones that aren't are hanging out on online parenting forum looking for support. I really hope no one on here is struggling with PPA or PPD and questioning their parenting abilities even further. I've lurked enough to know that you all can really support each other during tough times, but this is just sad.
@ElRuby don't worry, @jltilling doesn't turn blue from spray tanning. Yes, we were both here before the exodus. The irony here is that she's actually a supportive member of a real community that doesn't need to judge other moms to bond and get their kicks on a Friday night.
I usually keep my mouth shut about some of the stupidity I see around here, but for real?! I think we're all just pretty much trying to survive this thing called motherhood. Maybe not everyone is doing their best, but I don't think the ones that aren't are hanging out on online parenting forum looking for support. I really hope no one on here is struggling with PPA or PPD and questioning their parenting abilities even further. I've lurked enough to know that you all can really support each other during tough times, but this is just sad.
You know, the funny thing about this is, we have a support thread for PPD/A, which you would know if you actually lurked here a lot. And that a lot of the women having fun here in this thread, have given support for those with PPD/A.
@ElRuby don't worry, @jltilling doesn't turn blue from spray tanning. Yes, we were both here before the exodus. The irony here is that she's actually a supportive member of a real community that doesn't need to judge other moms to bond and get their kicks on a Friday night.
I usually keep my mouth shut about some of the stupidity I see around here, but for real?! I think we're all just pretty much trying to survive this thing called motherhood.
For one - well, what are you doing here tonight, then? And for two - if you hang out here a lot and see a lot of 'stupidity', then why don't you say something beforehand? What? You needed backup first? So... Then @jltilling actually has more cojones than you cause she was willing to step out and say something out of nowhere.
Y'all are putting some words in my mouth. I didn't say I lurk a lot, I said I've lurked enough. The spray tanning was reference to an incident on The Bump J15 long ago. Yes jtilling does have more cajones than me - won't argue that one. She's a badass and I hope I'm as cool as her if/ when I have 3 kids. Plus I have called stuff out before, but it wasn't as crazy as this thread. Whew, you guys were really desperate to try to rip my post apart there, I guess. You can say you support those with PPD/ PPA all you'd like, but when you create a thread that calls into question others parenting decisions, it's not very supportive.
Goodness lady. We have threads for happy, sad, support, political discussion, and yes, humor. Have some women judged things I do on here, yes. Am I crying out "mean girls!" Or "we have a community!! Or "wah". No get it together, we're allowed to disagree and discuss things that irk us. What irks me, won't irk you. So just because it effects you, I can't mention it?
Apparently there's no distinction here between respectfully disagreeing with someone and being straight up rude. Like I said before, it's too bad that your only source of fun and bonding is to tear others down. I understand that it's hard to admit that you're wrong when you need to look cool in front of your friends, though.
I miss everything ugh. I somehow missed the part where we are the bad guys?!?! I'm guessing the removed posts where super sweet supportive words of just awesomeness.
Re: I secretly judge...
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What exact are you hoping to accomplish here? I don't get it.
as my memory serves me correctly, many of us survived the great bump exodus of January 2015. Yet, I have no clue who you are. Go figure
Damnit... Now I'll have to go back to being a (TOU violation)
And yes, please don't leave. I have another hour before my first night feeding. Stay. Carry on.
@ElRuby I'm almost bikini ready.
The irony here is that she's actually a supportive member of a real community that doesn't need to judge other moms to bond and get their kicks on a Friday night.
I usually keep my mouth shut about some of the stupidity I see around here, but for real?! I think we're all just pretty much trying to survive this thing called motherhood. Maybe not everyone is doing their best, but I don't think the ones that aren't are hanging out on online parenting forum looking for support. I really hope no one on here is struggling with PPA or PPD and questioning their parenting abilities even further.
I've lurked enough to know that you all can really support each other during tough times, but this is just sad.
And for two - if you hang out here a lot and see a lot of 'stupidity', then why don't you say something beforehand? What? You needed backup first? So... Then @jltilling actually has more cojones than you cause she was willing to step out and say something out of nowhere.
Whew, you guys were really desperate to try to rip my post apart there, I guess.
You can say you support those with PPD/ PPA all you'd like, but when you create a thread that calls into question others parenting decisions, it's not very supportive.
get a grip