Rude replies on questions.

sam301

it is just me or are there a few too many rude ladies on this forum?
Every question that I've read from curious mum2bes has at least one rude lady attacking the them or attacking someone who's posted a reply. I've posted 2 questions since joining and have had extremely rude feedback from women also.
Opinions are great to have but some people just take it too far.

Don't rate this forum at all.

SouthernCharmedLife

It's rare that anyone is ever attacked here. It's more likely that you just didn't get the answer you wanted or someone disagrees with you. Neither of which is rude. Its life. Do you always agree with everyone?

It's an Internet forum. You're going to get a variety of responses.

SouthernCharmedLife

sam301 said:

it is just me or are there a few too many rude ladies on this forum?
Every question that I've read from curious mum2bes has at least one rude lady attacking the them or attacking someone who's posted a reply. I've posted 2 questions since joining and have had extremely rude feedback from women also.
Opinions are great to have but some people just take it too far.

Don't rate this forum at all.

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Mamabeagle

This is against TOU.

Rude is very often in your interpretation of a comment and not in the intent. Essentially, adjust your own attitude and you will see a straight forward answer for what it is.

djdawn29a

Personally..I have seen this alot..I am a
quite laid bk person..so I don't take it badly..I'm liable to respond with a witty smiley...lol...but...some ladies r skeered about things and just need some advice and I feel like a few r just plain mean/rude..it takes less effort to reanswer a question sometimes then to constantly tell peeps to go to the search and b scolded for not doing research... Just sayin...

sanayeli

I thought it was just me but yes I have seen a lot of rude comments . Like man pregnant women are mean.

sanayeli

Women

ZoeyRaeJames

I have yet seen "rude". But I've noticed some ladies here seem to be very defensive, and sometimes stand offish! Not sure why, to be honest. I guess it's just the way some people are. Which is sad!

djdawn29a

Agreed...

cMichelle0423

SouthernCharmedLife said:

It's rare that anyone is ever attacked here. It's more likely that you just didn't get the answer you wanted or someone disagrees with you. Neither of which is rude. Its life. Do you always agree with everyone?

It's an Internet forum. You're going to get a variety of responses.

This. There's a difference between someone being rude and not getting the sugar coated answers you want to hear.

celainev

sam301 said:

it is just me or are there a few too many rude ladies on this forum?
Every question that I've read from curious mum2bes has at least one rude lady attacking the them or attacking someone who's posted a reply. I've posted 2 questions since joining and have had extremely rude feedback from women also.
Opinions are great to have but some people just take it too far.

Don't rate this forum at all.

Well, remembering you from your last topic, I know for a fact that no one was rude in responding to you. People are more honest on the internet then you'd probably get in real life. That's just a part of life. In fact, it's a blessing. Starting a board like this, however, is a bit shady.
Instead of starting a new board about how you were treated on your old board, maybe talk to the individual person about how their response made you feel as if they were being rude to you. From what I recall, you were extremely defensive when you did not receive the responses you maybe wanted to hear.
Don't expect to be cuddled on this board. And don't expect this topic not to blow in your face.

celainev

And to quote you from your last board topic, after a fellow member gave you some helpful advice which was in no way rude, this is what you said in response:

"Clearly you people didn't read what what I said. I'm not forcing anything on her, I don't bring it up at all and never try to be centre of attention. Don't answer or discuss things you have negative things to say about. Are you on this forum to make other women feel terrible? Why bother answering things."

So you told another member, who was actually being pretty nice, that they are only on this board to make other women feel terrible.

And who is being rude again?

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