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giraffeluvspi

Encchanted said:

ChrissieMeas said:

ChrissieMeas said:

lancomechica said:

ChrissieMeas said:

chiboo9 said:

So since we're trying to get to 50 pages anyway, and I'm really not trying to instigate things. Just genuinely curious. Was the drowning story true? I was really perplexed to hear when that happened and I felt so awful for her about it.

She posted it on FB if that means anything, so the story was consistent. 

I was going to say the same thing.  The timing was just weird when things were posted compared to when the actual events occurred. 

I remember feeling something odd about the FB version of the posts, but I can't remember what made me think that... 

Unfriended?!I made a few jokes, but c'mon now. 

She's gone on a spree. She and I had something like 40+ mutual friends; now it's down to 24. I was unfriended, too. Of course, I dropped the ban hammer on her head.

Probably for the best. I was wondering if it might be a good idea, for protection and all, but I guess I was still holding on to her being a good person. She did message me when we were near the Wllops Island rocket that blew up to make sure we were ok. That was throughtful. 

sparkymcgeee

I know a lot of ladies here unfriended her. At least four I can think of off the top of my head. I can't believe she has any left from our group.

ashie624

Lol she unfriended me and I don't think I've said anything about the whole ordeal except it made me sad. :-??

ashie624

Lol she unfriended me and I don't think I've said anything about the whole ordeal except it made me sad. :-??

chiboo9

Ok, good. Not good as in "good, the accident happened", but good as in "good, she's not that dirty to make up something so awful". I was never FB friends with her so that's why I was curious. Not that everyone needs to voice their standing, but I'm on Team Nice But Needs Help, based on the recent turn of events.

[Deleted User]

Not everyone is as mean as you, Liz.

[Deleted User]

>-) guess who.

chiboo9

We should make all of Page 50 a gif party page.

chiboo9

collers4 said:

chiboo9 said:

We should make all of Page 50 a gif party page.

I think you should drink up and make it a BUI page those are always a fun read.

Nooooo. I've given up drinking for a while. At least maybe until Christmas Eve.

chiboo9

Page 50!!!!! Let's do this!!!!

chiboo9

chiboo9

maryannespier said:

Oops! Photobucket fail!

/ded

chiboo9

ashie624

chiboo9 said:

X_X

ashie624

I may have nightmares now

chiboo9

Everyone better start gif'ng or more are coming...

lancomechica

lancomechica

What in the hell is this??  Earl on Crack?

theuntaggablek

EagleWife said:

theuntaggablek said:

My MIL boxed up every toy from the 70s and sent it to us. My parents sent some hand me downs too.

I am thinking a big trip to salvation army is for later this week. A few roys arecool but why pay postage to mail junk across the country? Just take it to the local thrift store already!

@‌theuntaggablek - if there's a fisher price rocking apple in there, I'll pay you to ship it to me! General Delivery, of course.

ETA: apparently @theuntaggablek is still untaggable at times.

 

Totally had that one. I think it is in my parents' attic.

reallylongusername

iandloveandyou1 said:

Does anyone recognize this one?




















*hint* "Top That"

Teen Witch!   Didn't even need the hint!

ashie624

She messaged me earlier telling me not to take the unfriending personally.

She also said she really does has 5 kids and the drowning was real.

I will miss her too. (The her I knew) And wish her the best. I hope things get better for her.

PrimRoseMama

LadyBlue07 said:

I'm still mostly just sad about this. Even if she was pretending the whole time, I think it's fine to take time to mourn the loss of someone I thought was my friend. I didn't know people had these suspicions about her. All of it surprised me. 

 And I don't think any of you are liars. Maybe all of the talking behind backs did happen. I didn't see any of it, but I never look for it.

It does feel like a pile-on now, but maybe that is okay, too. I don't know. 

 I talk more to you guys than anyone else except my mom, daughter, and husband some days. I'm sad this happened to our community. This is different than MOH.

This is not related to anything recent in this post. It's just what I've been thinking about today. 

@LadyBlue07‌ >:D<

And +1 / ditto to all that you said.

coco2787

Stupid broken crying emoticon.

mrshudson618

So what does it mean that she hasn't unfriended me? Just that we weren't close enough to matter?

fabk

I am still loving this thread. I like knowing I started the Spam that never ends!

KateJuly2013

The first thing I did was unfriend and block her. Some things are black and white. Whether her intention was malicious or she is mentally ill, I don't need or want that kind of stuff in my life. I wish her the best though, hopefully she can figure her life out.

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lizabethann06 said:

It's been a crazyass week.

Tell me about it, seriously.

mrshudson618

Citrusfamily said:

@ladyblue it made me sad too. she and i were always close on her bc well, we're old and have 12 kids bt us:) i don't think shes malicious-just mistaken or misguided. idk but like @KateJuly2013‌ said, somethings are a priority and keeping my family safe is first. If I'm wrong - then that would be terrible but i dont think i am and i needed to error on the side of caution. Also, are we not fb friends?...message me on fb so i know who you are, i would never not friend you. I'm just so easily confused bt here and there i dont accept til I'm sure who you are. @chiboo9‌ That was amazing!!!!

@citrusfamily I don't think it has been said enough that whatever happened, I am sorry that you were the one it happened to.

blairwitch

Citrusfamily said:

Also, are we not fb friends?...message me on fb so i know who you are, i would never not friend you. I'm just so easily confused bt here and there i dont accept til I'm sure

I know what you mean I think I need to make a list somewhere with fb names and tb names. I know some but not all right away.

sparkymcgeee

juliedave151 said:

ashie624 said:

She messaged me earlier telling me not to take the unfriending personally. She also said she really does has 5 kids and the drowning was real. I will miss her too. (The her I knew) And wish her the best. I hope things get better for her.

But was the pregnancy, heart problem, being in a coma, or being hit by a truck real? :-?

She said she was in a my volvo saved my life campaign. That can be googled. It's nowhere to be found. Her kids were models? Really cause that can be googled too. 

ashie624

juliedave151 said:

sparkymcgeee said:

juliedave151 said:

ashie624 said:

She messaged me earlier telling me not to take the unfriending personally.

She also said she really does has 5 kids and the drowning was real.

I will miss her too. (The her I knew) And wish her the best. I hope things get better for her.

But was the pregnancy, heart problem, being in a coma, or being hit by a truck real? :-?

She said she was in a my volvo saved my life campaign. That can be googled. It's nowhere to be found. Her kids were models? Really cause that can be googled too. 





You have a good memory because I don't remember either of those things. Maybe I just didn't pay enough attention and skipped over things. Who knows. I haven't slept a full night since July 2013.

No clue. I don't even remember most of that or I wasn't around at the time. This is what she said to me.

Like I said I wish her well..

And for @citrusfamily I'm sorry for what happened.

TheLittleRedM

@-) So much to read....

My takeaways from what I can remember reading:

1. It's incredibly sad to hear what she did I don't really know what to say beyond that because I don't really think there's much more to say that hasn't already been said.

2. I imagine I am basically the same on and off the site. More talkative in RL, but IDK...never thought about it. 

3. I never think about bumpies talking about each other behind their backs until it's brought up. Probably because I'm not FB friends with anyone, I don't have any phone numbers, and I rarely message people unless I have a question about something. Hmmm....I'm like the hermit of J13. Now, it's all I can think about. Do people talk about me? What do they say?? Do they think I'm a lying liar who lies??? Aaahhhh!!!! *hides in corner*

4. After typing up #3, I'd say I'm different in RL because I swear I'm not an anti-social hermit! Reaching out and making friends is hard guyz.

5. OMG. What if I really am a real hermit?? Is this why I can count my friends in RL on like, one hand?? Okay, maybe two or three. But still. @-)

blairwitch

@TheLittleRedM‌ unless you can rival DH and his sister in anti social behavior, I am sure you are far from a hermit. I haven't seen his sister in years. She only lives 5 miles from mil. She never comes to any family functions. DH works from home. He leaves the house on average once a week for football gatherings. Once the season is over there will be longer stretches where he hasn't left.

TheLittleRedM

@blairwitch Glad to know someone is worse than me I hate being a hermit. I didn't choose the hermit life, it chose me. Seriously, though, I have two friends here in town. One commutes to work so I never see her because all her free time she spends with her boyfriend. The other I also never see...not that she works, so I don't know why we never meet up. Her lack of returning texts or calls could be a huge factor, though.

valstulas

maryannespier said:

Despite recent events and learning some things that went on behind backs, I have to say that I think she can be very kind and thoughtful. I enjoyed our gtgs. Her family is lovely and sweet.

This.

She unfriended me and I don't entirely get it. We had nice GTG's. She's great with her kids. And she did text me from time to time to check in on me.

She's not all bad. Despite what's going on, she was a friend. The end was bad, but there were some really good parts, too.

I know I make jokes, but that's my coping mechanism. Lots of shit has gone down over a long period of time. It's stressful.