Newb in town

mrscurlygurl

katnipeverclean said:

cko521 said:

I still don't get why you thought she was fake though. I just don't understand why/when you started thinking she was fake. And if she is real, I imagine her wife might not be super happy about shat went down, so she may be dealing with real life stuff, which could also explain why she's not here. I guess I'm just a little lost. And shocked.

If you take a minute and read back through the thread @litera explains it all in great detail. It's not just her. There are several old regulars who have been here since our babies were poppy seeds (not just the past few months) who feel that there are obvious gaping holes in her story.

Aww...they used to be just little poppy seeds! 

ghostof5letters

1982Babies said:

ghostof5letters said:

TallMomma29 said:

@Jensavicci is that why you couldn't tell me where you bought that super cute plaid maternity shirt in your HDBD pic that one time?  Because you didn't actually buy it because that photo wasn't you?    

I only remember that because I REALLY wanted that shirt. 

This made me laugh really hard, because, I too loved that shirt. 

y'all should reverse image search that shirt

Thankfully, I'm not pregnant anymore. 

cuntasaurusrex

ghostof5letters said:

1982Babies said:

ghostof5letters said:

TallMomma29 said:

@Jensavicci is that why you couldn't tell me where you bought that super cute plaid maternity shirt in your HDBD pic that one time?  Because you didn't actually buy it because that photo wasn't you?    

I only remember that because I REALLY wanted that shirt. 

This made me laugh really hard, because, I too loved that shirt. 

y'all should reverse image search that shirt

Thankfully, I'm not pregnant anymore. 

#preg4eva

cookieinva

I don't usually get too caught up in the snark or drama but if someone on an internet board is accused of not being who they say they are, sure there could be lots of feelings to deal with but whatever...it is easy enough to clear up quickly so everyone can just know the truth and move on.

We're not talking about solving Fermat's last theorem here people. Just post a pic and quash all suspicions.

Or don't, and don't.

This looks like peace out, girl scout.

cuntasaurusrex

There is no one in PA named Jenevieve that could be her. We've had several self proclaimed pro-Googlers on the case for months.

cuntasaurusrex

Link please!

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coybig

just so all the noobs know...  I'm a dude.  don't want any more surprises around here. 

Soon2BMrsN

emilillies said:

The HDBD from 4/2 has a belly pic that looks off. The belly curve is jagged.

Has anyone gone back to see how many HDBD pics she actually posted? It doesn't seem like many, if memory serves.

1982Babies

uws22 said:

just so all the noobs know...  I'm a dude.  don't want any more surprises around here. 

show us your wang to prove it, @uws22

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Glad I don't go back to work until Monday.... Hot damn.

coybig

@1982Babies - only if you take a pic of your...  oh, wait.  nevermind.  you already did that.  fine.  here's my Wang

cuntasaurusrex

And quote it!

1982Babies

@uws22, you play a good hand.. here you go.

TallMomma29

There were several times I had this "something is off" feeling but I never thought she was full blown completely made up.  I started suspecting she might not be completely who she says she is when she posted a picture of "DW" that was just some random lady standing in a room of a house by herself (there may have also been a bird in the photo).  You've been dating since high school but the picture you post is a person by herself?  I don't know why that seemed so sketchy to me but I distinctly remember having this gut feeling that something was off at that point.

Also, it would be virtually impossible to be a real life wedding planner (not just SIMs weddings) who has (Jen's words, not mine) no friends and is "awkward in person."   

But I really, really hope we are all wrong because "Jen" was really nice, and if she really is fake this is just so creepy and weird.  

chevronseven

Soon2BMrsN said:

emilillies said:

The HDBD from 4/2 has a belly pic that looks off. The belly curve is jagged.

Has anyone gone back to see how many HDBD pics she actually posted? It doesn't seem like many, if memory serves.

Actually I did a few months ago. When she won Hottest Bumpie I got curious as to what she looked like because I never remembered seeing her. She didn't post them regularly and most of the few she did post were just belly, no face.

1982Babies

emilillies said:

The HDBD from 4/2 has a belly pic that looks off. The belly curve is jagged.

cuntasaurusrex

Weird. She also isn't wearing her "wedding ring" in that HDBD pic

1982Babies

My wedding ring still doesn't fit.
(

littlemissmarla

pintsizemama15 said:

littlemissmarla said:

I'm not understanding the people who are having a hard time rationalizing that THIS STRANGER could be fake. We're all basically strangers to one another. I could say I invented Post-Its...

There's no reason for anyone to get butthurt. If someone wanted to call me out saying my pics were fake, I could easily post a thousand pics to disprove them and I could post them quickly. Avoiding the situation is just making everyone even more curious. I consider myself a regular on here and I'm not invested in Jensavicci's life.. but now I want to know who has been posting all this stuff.. AND WHO AM I SHARING PICS OF MY CHILD WITH. Obviously, it's an open forum and anyone can come in and look but it feels more like a violation of trust when you have someone who was here since the beginning be questioned - and I think people want to know the truth. 

I think some bumpies need to watch a season or 2 of Catfish. 

that's why i generally don't post pictures of my son. you made that choice knowing full well any of us could be anybody and not who we say we are.

Obviously, and I stated that I'm aware of the possibility that anyone can come in and search the boards..etc. Someone creating a person, investing a years worth of time into this community and being one of the top posting/commenting individuals is disturbing, more disturbing than a drive by. 

emineminem

1982Babies said:

My wedding ring still doesn't fit.
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Mine either! I'm still in my $10 amazon knockoff.

drunkenhandstand

Since Jen's most likely a dude…. does this mean I win hottest bumpie? 

….Too soon?? 

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1982Babies

missquela said:

My wedding ring still doesn't fit.
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Mine either! I'm still in my $10 amazon knockoff.

@missquela, mine's like 1/4th inch away from being comfortable.. I found a silver ring with gold accents on the sidewalk last week and I've been sporting that.

ashleymarie1027

Disclaimer: I'm not a newb, but I'm by no means very active here (so I recognize my own irrelevance)

However, Am I the only wallflower here wondering who has time for all this? Maybe I never truly understood the "bump culture" til today, or maybe I'm just not an internet person, but I just am not that invested.

Maybe that's why I don't get many love tits, or many responses to my posts, or get invited to join FB groups. Oh well. It's been good for learning, and a fun distraction from real life.

*blends back into the wall*

chevronseven

I've always been curious about her but never thought she wasn't real until now. I had wondered how someone with 3 kids and her own business had the time to Bump as often as she did. And I thought she looked very young to have that many kids and a business, but of course that doesn't really mean anything.

chevronseven

ZeroZeroOne said:

This doesn't surprise me. I forget which BMB it was but wasn't there a long time reg who collected money for a loss mom and spent it herself? This shit happens all the time sadly.

It was the mod for the May 2014 board.

January Bride

There were also ridiculous stories about her business that were so obviously untrue.

First, if she really had a wedding business, why can't any of us find it on Google? If none of us can find it, how can these potential brides find it?

Second, she posted a story July 17th about a crazy bride who wanted to get married in a cemetery. When Jen told her she wouldn't do a wedding this way, the bride started trying to curse Jen by laying out chicken bones all around her office and had to be taken away by security. W. T. F. So absurd. This crazy chicken bone bride had to find Jen somehow (if she even existed). If we can't find Jen's business, how did she? Especially since Jen said this business has several employees - it has to be large enough to be searchable.

Also, she has shared her Pinterest account and has wedding boards on there that are small and don't offer much substance. If she was really a wedding planner, she would have a more professional Pinterest. Even if it was her personal page, she wouldn't risk having a client find that.

drunkenhandstand

January Bride said:

There were also ridiculous stories about her business that were so obviously untrue.

First, if she really had a wedding business, why can't any of us find it on Google? If none of us can find it, how can these potential brides find it?

Second, she posted a story July 17th about a crazy bride who wanted to get married in a cemetery. When Jen told her she wouldn't do a wedding this way, the bride started trying to curse Jen by laying out chicken bones all around her office and had to be taken away by security. W. T. F. So absurd. This crazy chicken bone bride had to find Jen somehow (if she even existed). If we can't find Jen's business, how did she? Especially since Jen said this business has several employees - it has to be large enough to be searchable.

Also, she has shared her Pinterest account and has wedding boards on there that are small and don't offer much substance. If she was really a wedding planner, she would have a more professional Pinterest. Even if it was her personal page, she wouldn't risk having a client find that.

Yes and her fabricated stories of being the Queen B at her business. I believe she referenced how they like to "pretend" she's like Meryl Streep in the Devil wears Prada. You know her and her full "staff" of people at her business that is untraceable. There is no way in hell you run an event planning business in this century with multiple people working for you and not be on social media. No. Way.

ghostof5letters

I agree with everything The Anne said. 

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squnkie

ashleymarie1027 said:

Disclaimer: I'm not a newb, but I'm by no means very active here (so I recognize my own irrelevance)

However, Am I the only wallflower here wondering who has time for all this? Maybe I never truly understood the "bump culture" til today, or maybe I'm just not an internet person, but I just am not that invested.

Maybe that's why I don't get many love tits, or many responses to my posts, or get invited to join FB groups. Oh well. It's been good for learning, and a fun distraction from real life.

*blends back into the wall*

Yes thank you! I'm in the same boat


Also, as a side note - reading some of the stories yall said Jensavicci told, she sounds spookily like my last relationship. Turned out he was a full blown sociopath (called anti-social personality disorder now) and had been lying about basically his whole life. He invested 3 years into our relationship, so it's not completely crazy if she's like him and invested 1 year in TB. She may be a woman named Jen, and those may be her pictures, but she could be lying about her life to make it sound much more fantastical. It's what my ex did exactly. Just a thought.

Wrights22

Come on....

zellatrix

Coming out of lurking just to say that if I were being accused of this there is no way I would be hiding and shaking because I was so upset. I would have posted a damn picture of myself, no makeup or anything, no photoshop and said, "Hey bitches, now you can shut the fuck up." The fact that this is not happening is unnerving. Just respond already and tell us we are all wrong. 

1982Babies

zarkarella said:

Coming out of lurking just to say that if I were being accused of this there is no way I would be hiding and shaking because I was so upset. I would have posted a damn picture of myself, no makeup or anything, no photoshop and said, "Hey bitches, now you can shut the fuck up." The fact that this is not happening is unnerving. Just respond already and tell us we are all wrong. 

Salsera29

I've been taking a "wait and see" approach, but the longer she goes without responding, the more I am Team Catfish. There are basically 3 possibilities:
1. She's for real and not responding because she's so upset.
2. She's taking time to fake some "proof."
3. She's busted and gone forever.

I'm leaning more towards 3 every hour that goes by.

1982Babies

jessafish said:

I think we all know that when she does show back up there will be some TOTALLY VALID reason why she was gone all day today. For the first day in months...

A year...

zellatrix

For fucks sake, that took me five minutes and only that long because I had to find a crayon. 

Nichole8787

I was really hoping she'd show back up and be all BOOM proof! but nope I think she's gone....

Jbosarge85

Those of you that she's texted, why not call the number? See if a woman picks up (if anyone even picks up)