@ZoeyH14 Never-ending prayers and thoughts are going out to you ! Im a high risk pregnancy and the fact that this could have easily happened to be makes me extremely sympathetic. No one should ever have to make the decision you had to make. EVER. I know there are absolutely no comforting words for you right now but please know my thoughts and prayers are with you, your husband and little one as you embark on this horrific journey. Like you said Dec 14 moms are snarky as hell but we really do stick together when someone needs it the most! PLEASE do not hesitate to post with an update on how your doing or if you need some snarky comments to brighten your day when things get to be to much in the upcoming weeks. I firmly believe there is something greater in store for you and that your Rainbow baby will be in your arms when your least expect it!
I'm really sorry to hear this. I am sorry you had to make such a difficult decision. I am sending you and your beautiful baby thoughts and wishes for a peaceful transition.
bfp#4 3/19/2014 edd 12/1/2014 please let this be the one!
I am so sorry for your loss. I respect your decision, but I just want to share this similar experience a niece of mine had 3 years ago. She had her A/S at 18 weeks, and she also was told the baby would not make it, there was little to no amniotic fluid, and the baby was not developing as she should, she was pressured to just give up hope and terminate ... The doctors did not consider it a viable pregnancy. Her doctors (3 different opinions) asked her why did she want to bring a baby to this world if they just knew she was going to be a "vegetable" even if she was born.... Well, my niece is all about having faith and she always declined the option of terminating. She always said. "If god wants to take her, it will be he who takes her" well, baby Karen was born at 26 weeks. She was in the hospital for about 4 months, and still the doctors told her she would jot be a "normal" child, she would have brain issues and growing problems. Well, I must tell you that today, she is one of the smartest little girls i know, she talks full sentences, comprehends everything she is told, she is bilingual, and she walks! Even tho she was told she would never be able to walk on her own. She was potty trained when she was 14 months old! She just mesmerizes us every day.
I just wanted to share this with you. Again, I respect your decision.. And I will have you and your angel baby in my prayers. I just feel that false diagnosis do exist. But I can NOT imagine what you must be going thru. You as well as my niece had to make one of the hardest decisions ever! And that is something that only the strong can go thru. I can not imagine how difficult and how much thoughts you had to go thru making this decision.
I'm so devastated and heartbroken for you. I'm so sorry you are having to endure this pain and I will most assuredly be praying for you and this sweet precious angel baby.
What a difficult decision to be faced with. I am so sorry you are going through this. Wishing you and your family as much peace as possible during this very tough time.
My heart breaks for you. I'm so sorry. You will be in my T&Ps
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I am so, so incredibly sorry. I can't even imagine what the past week or so has been like for you. I will absolutely be praying for peace and comfort for you and your family.
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I just wanted to share this with you.
Again, I respect your decision.. And I will have you and your angel baby in my prayers.
I just feel that false diagnosis do exist. But I can NOT imagine what you must be going thru. You as well as my niece had to make one of the hardest decisions ever! And that is something that only the strong can go thru. I can not imagine how difficult and how much thoughts you had to go thru making this decision.
Sending you big huge hugs.
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