Side note, I really don't understand FB congratulations. I'm getting a bunch from people who literally work 30 feet from me. Some of whom I can see from my desk. You can't get up and come say happy birthday in person?? I don't get it.
@NeneCakies how did you get yours?
I tripped and fell in front of a Shipley's trying to get a donut.
Ouch @triplea598! I hope the donut was glorious and helped soothe the pain. Mine are from playing on the hardwood floor with DD and running into low furniture. All. The. Time.
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My work has been weird for a while but lately it's been making me want to scream instead of cry.
I'd like to scream too but really I just took offense to something someone said even though that person isn't worth my time.
And it has just been weird around here anyway. We have a new COO and no one knows what her pupose is. The budget still hasn't been approved and there are major changes coming that no one wants to talk about. I may have a pretty large project coming up but I won't know until they approve the budget.
I think they've turned off the air in my building. It is hot. HOT. I don't work well when it is hot. And I think it exacerbates my headaches. AND, I've realized recently that NSAIDS give me hives. So no advil for me. Tylenol is worthless.
I kept apologizing after telling Cute Dad all that stuff from my background and he kept telling me not to apologize, but I couldn't stop myself.
It was like... a Canadian Twilight Zone nightmare.
Aka me
I just don't know how to stop those words from coming out of my mouth sometimes. Why are we the same person??? Are you my long, lost twin????
He gets serious bonus points, though, because he didn't get angry or agitated about it (which a lot of people do). So, at least I never had to apologize for apologizing. That is truly the worst.
what is going on in the UO/FFC thread? The last time I was in there, it was getting a little NSFWish so I haven't been back. I've challenged myself not to click on it, but it is hard.
Did she forget about work? Isn't this the job you want?
Yes, this is the job I want. Apparently she emailed my boss this morning, but boss was offsite all day and forgot to tell me. OM's mom did finally get ahold of her as well.
I feel like I should give back one of my degrees today. I tried everything and the only thing that finally calmed LO down was when I put on Frozen. She's not even 6 months old.
Teething. It's always teething.
-My son was born in April 2012. He pretty much rules.
I know I'm new here, but I'd like to drop some heavy WTFery if I may.
Long story short, my 9 year old stepson has a super rare cancer (less than 100 cases worldwide), and his mom (my H's ex) set up a "Team" Facebook page for him for support. That's all fine and dandy, but she is displaying his entire life on the internet, and he has no say in it whatsoever. She posts extremely dramatic, detailed and exaggerated updates to garner sympathy and money, and posts horrible, blurry pictures of him looking awful. The kid doesn't even know what Facebook is, but 2000 of his closest "friends" know his whole freaking medical history! Instead of being there for him when he is transported via ambulance or getting his port accessed, she's taking shitty pictures.
That's not even the tip of the iceberg, but this will go on forever if I continue. I wish I could take him and my girl and move far, far away and take care of them both by myself.
I know I'm new here, but I'd like to drop some heavy WTFery if I may.
Long story short, my 9 year old stepson has a super rare cancer (less than 100 cases worldwide), and his mom (my H's ex) set up a "Team" Facebook page for him for support. That's all fine and dandy, but she is displaying his entire life on the internet, and he has no say in it whatsoever. She posts extremely dramatic, detailed and exaggerated updates to garner sympathy and money, and posts horrible, blurry pictures of him looking awful. The kid doesn't even know what Facebook is, but 2000 of his closest "friends" know his whole freaking medical history! Instead of being there for him when he is transported via ambulance or getting his port accessed, she's taking shitty pictures.
That's not even the tip of the iceberg, but this will go on forever if I continue. I wish I could take him and my girl and move far, far away and take care of them both by myself.
I'm so sorry about your SS. I am from a blended family as well.
You have to let go. Be there for him as much as you can. You being wrapped up in what his mom is doing/not doing is doing nothing for you but adding additional grief.
I hope for the best for your entire blended family, especially your SS.
I actually really needed to hear that. I spend a lot of time being angry about it and angry at H, who is so passive about everything that he never says anything to her. It just makes me sad that some day he will probably see that his entire horrible ordeal was displayed for thousands to see. We all know that nothing is ever really deleted from the internet and the picture that she paints is just not indicative of the actual situation. Thanks for the well wishes.
Man, sorry to be a debbie downer. Back to buttering babies!
I know I'm new here, but I'd like to drop some heavy WTFery if I may.
Long story short, my 9 year old stepson has a super rare cancer (less than 100 cases worldwide), and his mom (my H's ex) set up a "Team" Facebook page for him for support. That's all fine and dandy, but she is displaying his entire life on the internet, and he has no say in it whatsoever. She posts extremely dramatic, detailed and exaggerated updates to garner sympathy and money, and posts horrible, blurry pictures of him looking awful. The kid doesn't even know what Facebook is, but 2000 of his closest "friends" know his whole freaking medical history! Instead of being there for him when he is transported via ambulance or getting his port accessed, she's taking shitty pictures.
That's not even the tip of the iceberg, but this will go on forever if I continue. I wish I could take him and my girl and move far, far away and take care of them both by myself.
This is something I would not be okay with and I would call a lawyer ASAP. IMO that's extremely sensitive information that should not be public/shared with that many people. I think a judge/mediator would agree.
Harry Styles = Life Ruiner
There’s a lightningin your eyes I can't deny Then there’s me inside a sinkingboat running out of time Without you I'll never make it out alive But I know, yes, I know we’ll be alright
Re: Randoms/Whines/WTF Wednesday
My work has been weird for a while but lately it's been making me want to scream instead of cry.
I'd like to scream too but really I just took offense to something someone said even though that person isn't worth my time.
And it has just been weird around here anyway. We have a new COO and no one knows what her pupose is. The budget still hasn't been approved and there are major changes coming that no one wants to talk about. I may have a pretty large project coming up but I won't know until they approve the budget.
Sometimes working in HR is awful.
I've got all kinds of problems over here.
1) how meta
2) that's kinda embarrassing for Facebook as a ratio
I feel ripped off I'd I'm not rewarding good service directly
Sigh. At least I got a free cookie
Harry Styles = Life Ruiner
There’s a lightning in your eyes I can't deny
Then there’s me inside a sinking boat running out of time
Without you I'll never make it out alive
But I know, yes, I know we’ll be alright
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J. 1.14.13 my reason for breathing