Got my drink and my 2 step (drinking thread)

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I don't think anyone is offended. Toys are just a tool. A  lot of my personal issues concerning sex came from only being able to find pleasure with another person. I wasn't comfortable with myself or my body unless someone else was involved.  Masturbation in general helped me breakdown my personal barriers with that. Toys are valuable but they're just a tool. You're right @mcbenny. There are many ways to get there and it gets so much easier as you get older.

KingLED

mischiefmanaged611 said:

EllyD14 said:

bay511 said:

bay511 said:

Removable massaging shower head FTW.

I have one but our water pressure isn't strong enough in this apartment! I may move for that reason. And yes, I just got laid. BROWN CHICKEN BROWN COW

I'm planning on it as soon as DH is done playing his video game.

That's what pause buttons and auto saves are for. Spoken as a gamer.

Not all games have pause/auto save. Spoken as someone that's waiting for a game of LoL to end...

H's game can't be paused either. First it was WoW and now it's DOTA.

DOTA 2?

I cannot get the hang of DOTA2 for the life of me. LoL is just so much more intuitive. THen again, I only tried it when it was still very much a beta. But it just seemed awkward.

klondikebar

Os have definitely become easier as I've gotten older. I have way way way less sex now so I have fewer though:(

KingLED

mischiefmanaged611 said:

@EllyD14 Yes, its DOTA 2. He loves it, its kind of like his mistress. It looks like a lot of fun, but I avoid MMO's because I am shy about playing games with people. If he was home Im sure he could go on a spiral about how great it is.

League of Legends is better.

KingLED

Really, though. If you're interested in trying to play a DOTA clone you should check out LoL. It's a hell of a lot easier to get in to and figure out.

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When I'm talking about TTC stuff with people the phrase waiting to O always makes me giggle.

KingLED

aditigirl said:

I'm not reading this thread. Haiiii.

It's totally worth a read. 

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KingLED

aditigirl said:

aditigirl said:

I'm not reading this thread. Haiiii.

It's totally worth a read. 

----------------------------------- I skimmed and I think there's talk of sexual abuse and I'm totally not up for that trigger tonight.

Fair enough. 

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LuckyDad

Shopping list:

Replacement for broken vibrator
Handcuffs
(More) bondage rope

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Monkeybabe

My foot hurts =/

On Monday, I rushed out the door, because I wanted to leave for zumba before my H went to get Z, who had just woken up from her nap. Well, I was still wearing flip flops, so I did zumba bare foot. I think I hurt my foot somehow, and after doing zumba this evening it hurts worse.

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MermaidsMagic said:

guiltypleasures said:

When I'm talking about TTC stuff with people the phrase waiting to O always makes me giggle.

Are you TTC or planning on it?

I know. I'm one of those people now. Asking strangers about thier uterus occupation plans.

Yep we're TTC. We've been trying for awhile and things aren't going great but we recently changed doctors so hopefully my body will act right soon or at least we'll have more answers.

Monkeybabe

Good luck, @guiltypleasures

Monkeybabe

I'm so glad I'm still awake.

[Deleted User]

Now I kinda want to wake H up and do it again.

Monkeybabe

So, uh, jAp, how was your date? In detail.

[Deleted User]

Lots of detail.

jesuisfatiguee

justAphase said:

I just had sex in a park. I thought this was a good place to put that.

You're the best.

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Nobody said that you absolutely had to use a toy. Toys are helpful for a lot of women. That's it.

jesuisfatiguee

mcbenny said:

There was definitely an attitude here that I didn't imagine. I wasn't drinking. I don't care. My point was self pleasure does not HAVE to be with a toy. For some, toys can be too much. A reminder of a masculine. For some that alone can be distracting.

You can do self exploration. Touching yourself all over. Concentrating on your fingers touching the skin and the feelings that come from that. You don't have to go straight to the vaj. Start there. Make note what areas feel good. Are you feel aroused in any way? Do you like your breasts being touched? Can you get your nipples hard? Do you like that? Think about past times you were aroused or almost O, what was going on. Communicate this to your partner. If you can do verbal, write it down. Let them know what areas are your good areas and what are not. Are there certain things that shut you down and turn you off? Let your partner know. You can do self exploration as many times as needed until you get comfortable with touching your own body and learning it.

When you are ready, move on to your vulva. Explore yourself, touch yourself. Concentrate on your fingers touching the skin and the feelings you get from it. Stop if you are uncomfortable. Close your eyes if you have to. Can you feel your clitoris get full? Can you get yourself wet? Just by touching no penetration needed at this point. How does it feel when you touch your clit? How much touching? What motion? Rubbing? How much pressure? One finger rub? Two finger rub? Do you prefer the motion of a vibrator?

We can agree that learning what you like on your own first opens many doors.

**fans self**