I'm still speechless! To profit from someone else's loss is just beyond low! I don't have much of anything in fact we still don't technically have a bed to put LO in 2 weeks from now. But I would have never thought about using the money entrusted to me by others for a good cause for my personal gain. Its just so disgusting !!!
So, how did we find out that Erbear is a thieving bitch? Just wanna read the drama...
Unfortunately, we cannot post any personal information due to The Bump's TOS.
Most unfortunate.
We pressed and pressed for updates over a few months' time span and, after receiving one too many evasive non-answers, contacted the charity directly. They confirmed no donation in the amount that was supposedly sent was ever made, nor any record in married or maiden name of supposed donator. So then people were called out, people provided obviously doctored donation receipts and bank statements with dates that did not even match their previous answers, and, well...
So, how did we find out that Erbear is a thieving bitch? Just wanna read the drama...
Unfortunately, we cannot post any personal information due to The Bump's TOS.
Most unfortunate.
Unless of course she'd like to attempt to clear her name and provide the forged documents on TB for your analysis and personal opinion, however she seems to believe that if she just lays low, we would all forget about it. Those of us who have seen them are truly disgusted and after several days of ensuring a proper gift was being sent in memory of this mom's lost child, could not wait any longer for her to remove herself as mod.
I confess that when you volunteered to handle the funds raised for that very special mother who recently lost her son, I was worried. My first thought was, "this lady wants to buy her entitled ass that PBK glider to sit in," but I figured that entitlement didn't necessarily equal batshit crazy person who would steal hundreds of dollars.
And as time went on, and for months for you were deflective and defensive, I confess that I started getting really pissed.
And when finally, after months of your bullshit excuses, you were directly called out and asked to provide receipts for the donation and proof that you didn't steal the money that was raised to memorialize this late loss... you said you went to the hospital because you were suddenly sick (you get sick at such convenient times! When the going gets uncomfortable, Erbear gets sick). And you were active on TB and posting from the hospital, but you couldn't provide the e-mail/receipt for the donation. And I must confess, I was all
I didn't feel bad.
And then, when you provided that receipt with a photoshopped donation date that was for before we even had the donation plan, I was like
Because I knew you were officially full of shit.
And when you posted those doctored bank statements... girl...
The fonts didn't even match in her "bank statement". You could see where she copied and pasted over lines (the lines just stopped where she inserted something)
The date the "donation was made" was BEFORE we decided where to donate the money.
SO many things didn't line up. And there's more, I just don't want to think about it. Perhaps should could help me out here.
I believe karma is a bitch. I'm glad someone finally called that whore out! (Although whore is a nice term since at least with a whore you know what you're getting upfront.) If that bitch doesn't feel an ounce of shame there will be a special place in hell for her. I don't regret donating.
The fonts didn't even match in her "bank statement". You could see where she copied and pasted over lines (the lines just stopped where she inserted something)
The date the "donation was made" was BEFORE we decided where to donate the money.
SO many things didn't line up. And there's more, I just don't want to think about it. Perhaps should could help me out here.
Not to mention the number copied and pasted on was actually crooked. Insult to injury is what that was.
Is this for real? Am I reading this right or is it some sort of sick joke?
This. What in the actual fuck? Did @ErBear1010 really do this?
This is 100% legit. The decision to flame on TB was a hard one for us to make. We love our loss moms and are very protective of them, and would never want to do something like this lightly unless we felt it was absolutely necessary.
So, how did we find out that Erbear is a thieving bitch? Just wanna read the drama...
Unfortunately, we cannot post any personal information due to The Bump's TOS.
Most unfortunate.
Well, she's a member of one of the Fb groups. So, I'd advise she removes herself from that group before I page her there and publicly ask her to leave. Or, I'll just find one of the Fb admins to remove her. I'm not remaining ina Fb group with her.
Is there any way we can remove her as a Mod from our BMB?
I really wanted to give you the benefit of the doubt...but your horribly photoshopped "proof" that you did what you were supposed to made me ill. If you had just come out and said, I fucked up. I spent the money and can't replace it...well we still would have been pissed. But this is just so beyond shitty. You need to be removed as mod IMMEDIATELY. We're done waiting.
So, how did we find out that Erbear is a thieving bitch? Just wanna read the drama...
Unfortunately, we cannot post any personal information due to The Bump's TOS.
Most unfortunate.
Well, she's a member of one of the Fb groups. So, I'd advise she removes herself from that group before I page her there and publicly ask her to leave. Or, I'll just find one of the Fb admins to remove her. I'm not remaining ina Fb group with her.
Is there any way we can remove her as a Mod from our BMB?
Wouldn't that be nice. Supposedly she asked to step down several days ago, but sounds like she lied about that too. Shocking.
TTC #1 since February 2011 Me: 29 (3/5/13- high NK cells) DH: 28 (5/8/12- MFI low morph and motility) Cycle #21 (IUI#1), Cycle #22 (HSG 9/21/12) and Cycle #23 (IUI#2)= Cycle #24- December Snow Bunny IVF #1 ER 12/6/12 (14R, 11M, 9F), ET 12/9/12 transferred 2 day 3 embies Bleeding and low betas=very cautious C/P 5W3D Cycle #26 March Lucky Duck- FET #1 scheduled 3/20/13- CANCELLED- lining issues Cycle #27 May Emerald- FET #1.2 delayed- Starting Trental for 3 months + natural cycles Cycle #28-30= Cycle #31 August Shooting Star- FET #1.3 transferred 1 hatching blast 8/21/13= Betas 8/30 (108) and 9/3 (565)
U/S 9/19/13- HR is 128! U/S #2 10/4/13- HR is 174! It's a BOY!
Jumping back in - I called the charity we were donating to and they confirmed that nothing but a $25 donation the night after she was called out was made. I'm happy to share the number of my contact if anyone is interest.
OK, so here's the deal. This has to be MUD. This is someone who wants to see reactions from people because they think it's funny. I don't get this type of person, but they exist.
So, given that this is probably MUD, I realize that this may be a waste of my time. BUT just in case it is not, these are my thoughts:
If this is in fact true I think you need help, OP. Serious psychological help. You sound like you're in the manic phase of a bipolar episode right now. And when I say that, I hope I'm not offending anyone who is bi-polar who may be on here. Not all people who are bi-polar have mania to this extreme, and not all people with mania will act this selfishly.
OP you sound manic and narcissistic. If you feel like hurting yourself or others right now, please go to the ER. If you don't feel like you are a danger to yourself or others then PLEASE seek help first thing tomorrow. You may not realize it, but you are being super destructive to yourself and to everyone around you right now.
Also, please don't post here again until you've figured your stuff out. This kind of shit is depressing to read - even if it is just MUD.
Wait, is this the same sunshine mission that we donated to? I wondered how safe it was, but figured it wouldn't hurt me and could bring some kindness from pain into a life. You have to be a special kind of hateful to steal from somebody who has already been dealt a painful blow. How truly horrible.
She said she requested to be removed as a mod. We, as a group, emailed the bump gods (through our other mod) requesting the same and were ignored. Today we hear they're "working on it" which necessitated the public call out. All very unfortunate business.
OK, so here's the deal. This has to be MUD. This is someone who wants to see reactions from people because they think it's funny. I don't get this type of person, but they exist.
So, given that this is probably MUD, I realize that this may be a waste of my time. BUT just in case it is not, these are my thoughts:
If this is in fact true I think you need help, OP. Serious psychological help. You sound like you're in the manic phase of a bipolar episode right now. And when I say that, I hope I'm not offending anyone who is bi-polar who may be on here. Not all people who are bi-polar have mania to this extreme, and not all people with mania will act this selfishly.
OP you sound manic and narcissistic. If you feel like hurting yourself or others right now, please go to the ER. If you don't feel like you are a danger to yourself or others then PLEASE seek help first thing tomorrow. You may not realize it, but you are being super destructive to yourself and to everyone around you right now.
Also, please don't post here again until you've figured your stuff out. This kind of shit is depressing to read - even if it is just MUD.
A lot of people can assure you, this is not MUD. Shitty people exist.
I'm horrified.
Yeah, this is the internet and people are crazy, but USUALLY the bright and warm spot is that we come together in times of tragedy and heartbreak trying to help however you can.
Disgusting.
OK, so here's the deal. This has to be MUD. This is someone who wants to see reactions from people because they think it's funny. I don't get this type of person, but they exist.
So, given that this is probably MUD, I realize that this may be a waste of my time. BUT just in case it is not, these are my thoughts:
If this is in fact true I think you need help, OP. Serious psychological help. You sound like you're in the manic phase of a bipolar episode right now. And when I say that, I hope I'm not offending anyone who is bi-polar who may be on here. Not all people who are bi-polar have mania to this extreme, and not all people with mania will act this selfishly.
OP you sound manic and narcissistic. If you feel like hurting yourself or others right now, please go to the ER. If you don't feel like you are a danger to yourself or others then PLEASE seek help first thing tomorrow. You may not realize it, but you are being super destructive to yourself and to everyone around you right now.
Also, please don't post here again until you've figured your stuff out. This kind of shit is depressing to read - even if it is just MUD.
You might want to read the rest of the responses. This is not mud.
Wait, is this the same sunshine mission that we donated to? I wondered how safe it was, but figured it wouldn't hurt me and could bring some kindness from pain into a life. You have to be a special kind of hateful to steal from somebody who has already been dealt a painful blow. How truly horrible.
Yes. A portion of the donations was obtained from ERbear and has been used to ensure that a gift is sent to the mother. However, approximately $550 is still unaccounted for.
OK, so here's the deal. This has to be MUD. This is someone who wants to see reactions from people because they think it's funny. I don't get this type of person, but they exist.
So, given that this is probably MUD, I realize that this may be a waste of my time. BUT just in case it is not, these are my thoughts:
If this is in fact true I think you need help, OP. Serious psychological help. You sound like you're in the manic phase of a bipolar episode right now. And when I say that, I hope I'm not offending anyone who is bi-polar who may be on here. Not all people who are bi-polar have mania to this extreme, and not all people with mania will act this selfishly.
OP you sound manic and narcissistic. If you feel like hurting yourself or others right now, please go to the ER. If you don't feel like you are a danger to yourself or others then PLEASE seek help first thing tomorrow. You may not realize it, but you are being super destructive to yourself and to everyone around you right now.
Also, please don't post here again until you've figured your stuff out. This kind of shit is depressing to read - even if it is just MUD.
This is legit not MUD. If we could spew her personal info and the photos on TB we would, but per the rules, we cannot.
OK, so here's the deal. This has to be MUD. This is someone who wants to see reactions from people because they think it's funny. I don't get this type of person, but they exist.
So, given that this is probably MUD, I realize that this may be a waste of my time. BUT just in case it is not, these are my thoughts:
If this is in fact true I think you need help, OP. Serious psychological help. You sound like you're in the manic phase of a bipolar episode right now. And when I say that, I hope I'm not offending anyone who is bi-polar who may be on here. Not all people who are bi-polar have mania to this extreme, and not all people with mania will act this selfishly.
OP you sound manic and narcissistic. If you feel like hurting yourself or others right now, please go to the ER. If you don't feel like you are a danger to yourself or others then PLEASE seek help first thing tomorrow. You may not realize it, but you are being super destructive to yourself and to everyone around you right now.
Also, please don't post here again until you've figured your stuff out. This kind of shit is depressing to read - even if it is just MUD.
I don't know how many people it will take saying this is 100% real for everyone else to believe it, but it is REAL not someone wanting reactions or to "be funny."
Popping in from N14 and wow. This is disturbing on so many levels. I'm so sorry to the mama who lost her wee baby. Hugs and love to her. This is senseless and disgusting. Hugs to this board. I hope she is removed ASAP as a mod. karma never forgets. This is no exception.
Re: A Very Special Thursday Night Confession
I will never wish harm on another person, but karma is a bitch and I hope she catches up with you and gives you a giant taste of your own medicine.
Most unfortunate.
The date the "donation was made" was BEFORE we decided where to donate the money.
SO many things didn't line up. And there's more, I just don't want to think about it. Perhaps should could help me out here.
DS: 11/8/11 | 9 lb 7 oz, 22 in
DD: 5/22/14 | 9 lb 9 oz, 21.5 in
This is 100% legit. The decision to flame on TB was a hard one for us to make. We love our loss moms and are very protective of them, and would never want to do something like this lightly unless we felt it was absolutely necessary.
Is there any way we can remove her as a Mod from our BMB?
1. The person called out in this thread for doing these things is the person who did these things.
2. Yes, this is real.
TTC #1 since February 2011
C/P 5W3D
Betas 8/30 (108) and 9/3 (565)
Me: 29 (3/5/13- high NK cells) DH: 28 (5/8/12- MFI low morph and motility)
Cycle #21 (IUI#1), Cycle #22 (HSG 9/21/12) and Cycle #23 (IUI#2)=
Cycle #24- December Snow Bunny IVF #1
ER 12/6/12 (14R, 11M, 9F), ET 12/9/12 transferred 2 day 3 embies
Bleeding and low betas=very cautious
Cycle #26 March Lucky Duck- FET #1
scheduled 3/20/13- CANCELLED- lining issues
Cycle #27 May Emerald- FET #1.2
delayed- Starting Trental for 3 months + natural cycles Cycle #28-30=
Cycle #31 August Shooting Star- FET #1.3
transferred 1 hatching blast 8/21/13=
U/S 9/19/13- HR is 128! U/S #2 10/4/13- HR is 174!
It's a BOY!
Also, GOMI.
so sorry to the mama who lost her wee baby. Hugs and love to her.
This is senseless and disgusting. Hugs to this board. I hope she is removed ASAP as a mod.
karma never forgets. This is no exception.