WTF Wednesday

SCSmith2011

Let's get this going. This board has already caused me a couple WTF moments this morning.

Danielle0311

WTF phantom symptoms?! Leave me alone, go away and let me sweat out this TWW in Peace! You makin me crazyyyyyyy lol

missnacholover

WTF self?  Do you have a hole in  your mouth?  Spilling coffee between the boobs on your white sweater is NOT cool first thing in the morning.  Now I have to walk around with what looks like a poop stain between my tits all day.  Awesome.

MrsP924

Oh thank you for starting this! I was just going to but saw you did. :-)

Ok, here's my vent:
My friend and I'm going to use this term loosely as lately I've been wondering how good of friends we are after all these years things that I didn't realized upset me I am now seeing for the first time but I won't get into that too much now. Let's just say she's flaky and I'm starting to see that after all the years I'm probably just a "back burner" friend to her.

Fast forward to now. She's pregnant with number two. Don't get me wrong I'm happy for her. But my problem is her first one was an Opps baby. She was not married at the time (not that there is anything wrong with that at all) she got engaged shortly after decided to get married 2 weeks before my wedding day. And now this pregnancy happened after a month of her "trying". And mind you she told me when she was trying how hard it was for them. Really? Try almost a year of trying then complain to me how "hard" it is. (Okay, this is getting longer then I intended!)

Ok so what is really bothering me is today I told her how emotional it has been for me as I am approaching a year of trying. I told her how I was sorry for backing away from her a bit. Although DH told me she hasn't been the best of friends to me as long as he's known me. So I don't know why I felt like I needed to apologize to her. But anyways, so after I told her my feelings lately her response was have you talked to a pregnancy therapist? Seriously?! Wtf?!

Ok sorry for my long vent. Didn't mean to ramble like that. Thank you for reading this and being such a great group of ladies!

LuckyPenny1231

WTF husband! Why were you so crabby last night? You are lucky I've already O'd so I don't need you right now. Please get over your man period quickly.

SCSmith2011

WTF newbs, stop trying too hard. (This is not all newbs. Just certain ones and the lovely ladies on this board have already pointed out the ones who are trying a little hard.)

Also, WTF self stop getting distracted and just review this document that's been sitting on your desk the last few days.

missnacholover

cramcakes said:

SCSmith2011 said:

WTF newbs, stop trying too hard. (This is not all newbs. Just certain ones and the lovely ladies on this board have already pointed out the ones who are trying a little hard.)

So.much.this.

Seriously.  If I see one more joke "Am I pregnant" intro, I'm gonna scream.  It.has.been.done.

sister13

slappalicious said:

WTF work meetings?!  How am I supposed to get work done if all I do is sit in meetings all day long?

This was me yesterday.  And WTF my boss who doesn't want us to bring our computers into the meetings.  So now we end up sitting there and arbitrarily discuss things that we could just look up on the fucking computer.  

icaughtfire

WTF work? Why does shit always hit the fan on my day off?? I can't wait to go into work tomorrow to clean this mess up. 

MusicFanatic

WTF body?  It woke me at 4am and I couldn't fall back asleep.

And now I'm sooooo tired.  I'm seriously yawning as I drink my second cup of coffee.

I don't have insomnia much, so that sucked big time.  And I can't nap, naps make me more tired. Is it bed time yet?

QueenOfSpades622

WTF SELF. Why did you chose to go to work training on your day off instead of just waiting a month.

FemShep

WTF, weather?  Can we *please* stop with the snow?

WTF, companies I'm interviewing with?  Why do you take SO LONG to respond?

WTF, self?  Kick yourself in the ass, change your attitude, and get moving.  I know it's frustrating, I know you've got a lot of shit going on, but sitting around eating chocolate twizzlers will not help.

missnacholover

slappalicious said:

missnacholover said:

WTF self?  Do you have a hole in  your mouth?  Spilling coffee between the boobs on your white sweater is NOT cool first thing in the morning.  Now I have to walk around with what looks like a poop stain between my tits all day.  Awesome.

Run into the bathroom and douse it with water.  You'll be wet for a little bit, but it can get the coffee out.

I did as soon as it happened.  Still there, although lighter!  I need to keep a tide pen in my desk!

NerdyLucy

WTF face.  You're out of control, especially since I've stopped BC.  I know, I know.  It's somewhat expected, but damn.  This breakouts actually hurt.

 

 

WTF self/kitties/DH.   I can't get sleep in the morning, and I'd like to have at least 3 consecutive hours to temp, but this hasn't been an option for the last week or so.  I temped just fine in January, but my February chart is horrible and likely inaccurate.

MrsP924

MusicFanatic said:

WTF body?  It woke me at 4am and I couldn't fall back asleep.

And now I'm sooooo tired.  I'm seriously yawning as I drink my second cup of coffee.

I don't have insomnia much, so that sucked big time.  And I can't nap, naps make me more tired. Is it bed time yet?

I hate when this happens! This happened to me last week. Hope you get a better night sleep tonight :-)

anitad84

WTF company I was supposed to interview at this evening.  You call to say the owner hired someone yesterday...but you even told me that was your first day of interviews!  Maybe I'm crazy, but I just think that's a dick move. 

SCSmith2011

Another one. WTF self, why did you wait so long to call the pharmacy that they have to overnight you your fertility meds?!!??!?

Jpinky9

WTF tonsils!!! You decide to have a major flare up and cause me to be awake all night and in a great deal of pain!!

Bring on all the Tylenol and Popsicles in the city!!

MrsP924

Jpinky9 said:

WTF tonsils!!! You decide to have a major flare up and cause me to be awake all night and in a great deal of pain!!

Bring on all the Tylenol and Popsicles in the city!!

Hope you feel better!!

MrsP924

englandxo said:

WTF body! WHY ARE YOU SICK!? 

I woke up feeling fine. I am currently dying at my desk. I definitely have a cold, and it hit me like a ton of bricks. I almost made it through the winter without getting sick. ALMOST! 

Don't die!!! Hope you feel better soon :-)

ngolimento

WTF body. Not only do you pick up a random cold in February, but you wake me up at 4am to tell me about it?!?! Yaaaay Walmart at 4 fooking AM.

Southernpeach80

WTF body! My LP needs to get in line! Had big temp drop and spotting this morning which will probably turn into my full blown period later today, which means a freaking 8 day LP again. WTF!!

ALHickok1

Wft nose, I just want to be able to breathe normally!

janda426

WTF me while sleeping: Stop telling myself it's ok to skip class because I'm too tired to get my ass out of bed!

This WTF I feel a little bad for but, WTF grandpa. We told you we wanted to help fix your car and would do what we can. Well, I get a call yesterday that the new tires he got were $500 and the mechanic said soon he's probably going to need to get a whole new transmission to the tune of about $1400, so "if we can cover the tires now and help with the transmission in the future he'd appreciate it" que my *wut* face. We agreed to give him $500 towards the transmission but I had never heard anything about needing tires. We don't have $2000 to give you, grandpa. I'm sorry. The deal was $500, period. Which is already a shit load of money to us. Ugh.

nannabee21

WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK, HOSPITAL! 

I went to your ER the night of my miscarriage. By the time I got to the ER, I had already passed everything and all you did was an ultrasound to confirm that.

WHY THE FUCK WOULD YOU CODE MY VISIT AS AN ABORTION??

Because thanks to your fucking coding, my insurance won't cover the $4000 charge. And if I want them to, which of course I do, I have to write an appeal letter to the insurance company and get my records sent over and wait 30 days to see if I can appeal their decision and that's BULLSHIT. Because if you would just code shit correctly, I'd have to pay a $50 copay and thats it.

You better get your shit together because if the insurance continues to deny my claim because of your stupid ass coding you WILL get tired of seeing me and hearing my voice complain to you that you will do something about it.

Jpinky9

MrsP924 said:

Jpinky9 said:

WTF tonsils!!! You decide to have a major flare up and cause me to be awake all night and in a great deal of pain!!

Bring on all the Tylenol and Popsicles in the city!!

Hope you feel better!!

Thanks!! Me too!

mmb248

@nanabee21 - I'm sorry you have to deal with that.

Sometimes, I think that insurance companies go out of their way to deny claims.  You would think at some point they would understand that most hospitals/doctors refer to miscarriage as spontaneous/missed abortion and that there is a difference between the medical term being used for miscarriage and an elective abortion.

MrsP924

Here's another WTF I hate being on mobile for the bump. Everytime I click on anything my phone stalls! Ahhh work getting in the way of my bumping!

nannabee21

Thanks guys.

I'm just frustrated about the whole situation. I called the insurance who called the physician billing dept twice. I know it's technically a spontaneous abortion, but apparently in medical coding, the only thing they can put is "Abortion, unspecified, uncomplicated" or something like that. To which the insurance doesn't cover that diagnosis. Supposedly the physician billing people reviewed my medical record and determined that there was no other diagnosis to use, therefore I will have to file an appeal to the insurance. The lady said there was a good chance it would be overturned and the insurance would cover it because after my medical record is reviewed, they would see that it was obviously not an elective abortion. It's just so much of a hassle because I have to get my records sent over and write a letter and wait a month.

If the billing dept would just recode it and resubmit it, that process wouldn't have to happen. I just called and spoke with someone myself at the physician billing office and she was going to send my request again, and I have to check back with her on Friday. If it's still a no, I'll be appealing. It just sucks.

mander82

WTF  cat....stop eating shit that makes you vomit....you cannot digest plastic.   

Pretty sure a little plastic tab from step daughters ipad screen protector was in her vomit this morning....at least thats what it looked like.    If thats not what it was, then I have no clue what it could have been.

She knocked over my rose the other morning too and spilled water everywhere.   BAD KITTY !

wishiwaspreggo

My piece of shit car broke down again.  It's a 2003 Ford Focus and I will never buy another Ford again!  It's been in and out of the shop every 6 months for a major repair ($500+) since I bought it off my dad in 2007.  Now the ignition is busted.  My mechanic said "Actually, this is a pretty common problem for Ford cars.  It was going to give out on you eventually."

HATE!!!!

MrsP924

wishiwaspreggo said:

My piece of shit car broke down again.  It's a 2003 Ford Focus and I will never buy another Ford again!  It's been in and out of the shop every 6 months for a major repair ($500+) since I bought it off my dad in 2007.  Now the ignition is busted.  My mechanic said "Actually, this is a pretty common problem for Ford cars.  It was going to give out on you eventually."

HATE!!!!

FORD = found on road dead

nannabee21

ScrappyLika said:

nannabee21 said:

Thanks guys.

I'm just frustrated about the whole situation. I called the insurance who called the physician billing dept twice. I know it's technically a spontaneous abortion, but apparently in medical coding, the only thing they can put is "Abortion, unspecified, uncomplicated" or something like that. To which the insurance doesn't cover that diagnosis. Supposedly the physician billing people reviewed my medical record and determined that there was no other diagnosis to use, therefore I will have to file an appeal to the insurance. The lady said there was a good chance it would be overturned and the insurance would cover it because after my medical record is reviewed, they would see that it was obviously not an elective abortion. It's just so much of a hassle because I have to get my records sent over and write a letter and wait a month.

If the billing dept would just recode it and resubmit it, that process wouldn't have to happen. I just called and spoke with someone myself at the physician billing office and she was going to send my request again, and I have to check back with her on Friday. If it's still a no, I'll be appealing. It just sucks.

This makes me interested to see what's going to come of my D&C.

Hopefully things don't turn out this way for you. I'm sure you feel the same in that I'm ready to put this behind me. Keep an eye out for your statements.

anitad84

My 2nd WTF, if I may...

WTF boss...you tell everyone you are going to Chicago for a funeral, but leave notes on your desk that prove you are going to Connecticut for a job interview????  I hate you.

mander82

wishiwaspreggo said:

My piece of shit car broke down again.  It's a 2003 Ford Focus and I will never buy another Ford again!  It's been in and out of the shop every 6 months for a major repair ($500+) since I bought it off my dad in 2007.  Now the ignition is busted.  My mechanic said "Actually, this is a pretty common problem for Ford cars.  It was going to give out on you eventually."

HATE!!!!

FORD backwards =  Driver Returns On Foot  

lol....I am a Chevy girl   

Sorry you are going through this though,  car problems are sooooo frustrating

letsgox

WTF cleaning lady! Why would you text DH saying, "Have a nice weekend, it might be a good one to conceive a baby," after emptying the bathroom trash and seeing my OPK wrappers? You may be thinking it, but don't do that. We barely know you and this is your second time being to our house.

anitad84

muskiefan07 said:

WTF cleaning lady! Why would you text DH saying, "Have a nice weekend, it might be a good one to conceive a baby," after emptying the bathroom trash and seeing my OPK wrappers? You may be thinking it, but don't do that. We barely know you and this is your second time being to our house.

Da fuq?  That's just weird. 

nikiz628

WTF DH? Trash day is every Wednesday and you forgot to pull the tote to the curb AGAIN. Another week we have paid for and not had the trash picked up.

janda426

muskiefan07 said:

WTF cleaning lady! Why would you text DH saying, "Have a nice weekend, it might be a good one to conceive a baby," after emptying the bathroom trash and seeing my OPK wrappers? You may be thinking it, but don't do that. We barely know you and this is your second time being to our house.

And that would be the last time I use that cleaning lady. She totally sounds like the type to snoop through all your shit while you're gone.

janda426

wishiwaspreggo said:

My piece of shit car broke down again.  It's a 2003 Ford Focus and I will never buy another Ford again!  It's been in and out of the shop every 6 months for a major repair ($500+) since I bought it off my dad in 2007.  Now the ignition is busted.  My mechanic said "Actually, this is a pretty common problem for Ford cars.  It was going to give out on you eventually."

HATE!!!!

H has a 2006 Ford fusion and good lord that thing is a piece of shit. We are NEVER buying a ford again either. Foreign cars all the way. I love my Hyundai.

letsgox

janda426 said:

muskiefan07 said:

WTF cleaning lady! Why would you text DH saying, "Have a nice weekend, it might be a good one to conceive a baby," after emptying the bathroom trash and seeing my OPK wrappers? You may be thinking it, but don't do that. We barely know you and this is your second time being to our house.

And that would be the last time I use that cleaning lady. She totally sounds like the type to snoop through all your shit while you're gone.

True. DH and I are discussing this when I get home!