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jensavicci

BPaws said:

Df has been gone for 3 days now. Day 1 was great. Day 2 was harder. Today, DS is being impossible. He's basically screamed in my face for the last 4 hours- for no reason other than he misses Dad and he's exhausted from not sleeping last night. I'm so freaking over this week. I've gotten 6 hours of sleep in the last 3 nights (seriously, I tracked it with my fitbit).

I'm so fucking done. I have no patience or energy to handle a toddler today.

I would just step away for a minute, count to 10, breathe and just get yourself together. I know it's hard so I'm sending Internet hugs! You can do it!

dobbyisfree

DH is worried at work - they gave a bunch of people vacation at the end of July early August and hes worried theyll give him a hard time about taking 2 weeks for the baby. Im not worried, they cant say no to FMLA. He sent his boss a reminder about it this am, and she hasnt talked to him all day (which is abnormal) and hes more worried. I wish he would just relax about it, its their own fault if they approve other vacations and are short staffed, especially since they knew about his plans in January!

tourqeyes

The best news I have gotten all month, maybe all year.

THE PEACH MILKSHAKE IS BACK AT CHIK FIL A.

tourqeyes

jessa8907 said:

tourqeyes said:

The best news I have gotten all month, maybe all year.

THE PEACH MILKSHAKE IS BACK AT CHIK FIL A.

That sounds amazing and I am now wishing we had a Chik Fil A.

You quoted me and now I am sad I misspelled ChiCk fil a in my excitement of it all.

PEACH MILKSHAKE AFTER I PICK TANNER UP FROM SCHOOL WOOOOOOOO

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tourqeyes said:

The best news I have gotten all month, maybe all year.

THE PEACH MILKSHAKE IS BACK AT CHIK FIL A.

Last week at the beach we drove by one that had this on their sign out front.  So excited!  A few days later we were at a different location, but since I had seen the sign that they were back I went ahead and ordered one.  I was told they wouldn't have them until Monday.  WTH?  The other location said they had them!  

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katnipeverclean

LiteraChick said:

Pretty sure the Snickers mini bar I just ate out of a stashed bag at work was leftover from Halloween.

Do I give a poo?


(this is from the woman who can't eat leftover pizza if it's been sitting longer than an hour unrefrigerated, so I'm a certifiable freakshow with expiration dates)


Would you eat it?

From Halloween? Hell yeah! I found a snickers santa from I don't know when (could be christmas 12 or 13) and I ate that without shame while I was packing up my house!

kwh33ls

@literachick, I'd eat it from two Halloweens ago. I'd give it a sniff, but I'd eat it with no shame.

jensavicci

Some parent at my kid's school approached me because my daughter repeatedly asked her daughter where her "fake" hair was. Apparently, right before I picked DD up, the little girl lost her weave and DD was trying to help her find it, during which she said "fake hair" a couple of times and the mom heard it. The mom comes to me swearing her daughter was embarrassed and is trying to call my daughter out on it. Meanwhile, the girl found her weave and is swinging it around like a baton in the background singing "my fake ponytail!" Clearly, she wasn't embarrassed. So I'm thinking "no the fuck this woman didn't just approach me about fake hair..." It wasn't even a good weave. Seriously ladies....if you held that weave to a flame, terrible things would happen to it. So, I asked her what she would preferred DD call it. Plastic or Tumble weave? So she stomped out. I'll probably hear more about it tomorrow but whatever. Don't approach me with BS. I honestly feel bad for the daughter for having to wear that thing. That's probably why she took it off.

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@LiteraChick‌

I think the mom was embarrassed. But girl, if it embarrassed her so much, why would she put it on her daughter? Smh crazy bitches. And trust me, at some point in time, someone WILL come to you about your child over dumb stuff. So put your dukes up and get ready to defend your kiddo.

@MSUDucks‌

Who knows! Her daughter had a perfectly good head of hair.

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TallMomma29

Quote from my OB today:  "I did an ultrasound because I was worried the baby might be measuring too small, but she's totally fine.  You're just really big."  I get that a lot ;-)   

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MonkeyJD

So guess what DH did not do while I was gone all day....that's right, paint the nursery window sill & put up the crib #-o Instead he napped on the couch all day then when I come home & go to put in a load of laundry he tries to tell me that he'll do it & I should take a nap. I don't want a nap! I wanted to come home and see our crib set up.

And now he's napping again. I've been home for an hour @-)

TallMomma29

LiteraChick said:

TallMomma29 said:

Quote from my OB today:  "I did an ultrasound because I was worried the baby might be measuring too small, but she's totally fine.  You're just really big."  I get that a lot ;-)   

Tall girls hate "big" we prefer "glamazonian" ;-) And honestly, you look gorgeous. Right on track!

P.S. Did DH go with you to see LO?????

Amen sister!  Sometimes I hear people call me "grande" in Spanish and I tell them that I am not grande, I am alta ;-)

He did go!  We also got to see a little 3D!  Due to my anterior placenta and limited space in there, we weren't able to get good pictures because she was snuggled up to my placenta like it was her pillow.  But it was cute to get some little glimpses of her face and her cute little nose and for DH to get to see her :-)   Also she already has quite a bit of hair... I'm hoping she won't be a baldy till 2+ like I was! 

mrscurlygurl

BPaws said:

I met my OB today. She was fantastic. She was warm and kind and addressed my fears with real concern and genuine caring. She laid every fear I had to rest and was incredibly kind. And she will be away during the 2 week window I need to schedule my cs. I want to cry. I have to meet a NEW OB in another 2 weeks. In the meantime, they will be scheduling my csection and I have to see my regular doctor. I was hoping to develop a good repoire with my OB before delivery.

That blows. And seems kinda strange. Shouldn't they have known approx dates for your CS when making the appt with this first OB? Are you doing appts every week? Why do you have to see your other doc in the meantime?

Myanswer true

I bargained with myself that if I took a walk the long way around to Taco Bell, I could have that for dinner. Then they go and break my pregnant little heart by being closed for remodeling. WTH!

On the up side, one of my students hooked me up with a discount and extra honey mustard at Wendy's... and the frosty in a waffle cone helped soothe my disappointment.

jensavicci

@JamieSejkora

You keep changing your profile pic and I can't keep up with who you are lol stop messing with my mind woman!

jensavicci

@JamieSejkora

Haha no worries, I know your name! :P And I even didn't know that could even happen with facebook. Hm. Glad you got it sorted out!

TricksyPixie

I failed my three hour... So I came home with pills, a meter, etc. I have to meet a diabetic educator Monday, and my doc said I will be seeing him weekly for a while. I just... It's not a big deal, it's manageable... But it sucks, and I feel sad, and like it's my fault. I'm just feeling a little in the dumps. It's not a very happy day.

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TricksyPixie said:

I failed my three hour... So I came home with pills, a meter, etc. I have to meet a diabetic educator Monday, and my doc said I will be seeing him weekly for a while. I just... It's not a big deal, it's manageable... But it sucks, and I feel sad, and like it's my fault. I'm just feeling a little in the dumps. It's not a very happy day.

 I'm sorry

helloblueeyes

I really fucking hate when there are no dinner plans when i get home. 

If you knew you weren't doing anything for dinner, send me a god damn text so i can make a game plan. 

Asshats. 

I actually miss the time when it was my responsibility to decide meals. At least i knew i would eat every night. 

beff12

I have a friend at church that is 36 weeks pregnant. She was there last night and looked soooo uncomfortable, half on the brink of tears and half like she was going to fall asleep. We were talking afterwards and she said she's okay, just so uncomfortable and so ready to have their little guy. They measured him at about 6 pounds at her ultrasound on Tuesday. I felt so bad for her, and then I realized we're all about to be in that boat! Eeek!

jnnfrrose6

beff12 said:

I have a friend at church that is 36 weeks pregnant. She was there last night and looked soooo uncomfortable, half on the brink of tears and half like she was going to fall asleep. We were talking afterwards and she said she's okay, just so uncomfortable and so ready to have their little guy. They measured him at about 6 pounds at her ultrasound on Tuesday. I felt so bad for her, and then I realized we're all about to be in that boat! Eeek!

My SIL is due next week. At 32 weeks she was measuring 43 weeks. She actually asked her dr for an induction last week but he refused. I just can't even imagine.

BoraBoraBaby

beff12 said:

I have a friend at church that is 36 weeks pregnant. She was there last night and looked soooo uncomfortable, half on the brink of tears and half like she was going to fall asleep. We were talking afterwards and she said she's okay, just so uncomfortable and so ready to have their little guy. They measured him at about 6 pounds at her ultrasound on Tuesday. I felt so bad for her, and then I realized we're all about to be in that boat! Eeek!

Nooooo!! I'm uncomfortable at 30 weeks and I can't deal with additional discomfort. Please say it gets bad around 26 weeks and stays only that bad. Please. Now.

mrscurlygurl

TricksyPixie said: I failed my three hour... So I came home with pills, a meter, etc. I have to meet a diabetic educator Monday, and my doc said I will be seeing him weekly for a while. I just... It's not a big deal, it's manageable... But it sucks, and I feel sad, and like it's my fault. I'm just feeling a little in the dumps. It's not a very happy day. I'm sorry sweetie. But, it is NOT your fault. Stop that train of thought right now. It will all be okay Big hugs!

MonkeyJD

Crap, crap, crap, shit, damn it and all the other cuss words. DH was concerned by some buckling he noticed on the wood floor in the kitchen. He moved the fridge & discovered all the wood was wet & there's mold. It extends over through the pantry (which we didn't see because of the trash can & dog food container) and even into the dining area. This is not something we can afford right now and he was so frustrated and upset that he started to tear up which of course made me cry. I hate that he is so stressed about this and I can't really do anything about it.

Maybe tomorrow's job interview will turn out well and we'll start getting some extra income [-O<

jnnfrrose6

Sending good thoughts your way for the interview tomorrow @MonkeyJD‌

MonkeyJD

Thanks @jnnfrrose6‌

BoraBoraBaby

@MonkeyJD‌ I'm so sorry!! Sending good vibes.

chrinikki1

My SIL apparently made a special call to our mutual guy friend to tell him how much I'm showing. He made a point to tell me it was kinda weird that she said that. I asked if that meant she was talking about how fat I was and he said yes. Why would she talk about this?! Every time I see her she comments about how big I am- which I thought was weird but never thought was meant malicious. She did get irritated when I told her I'm clean eating and won't splurge with her. She is bigger so maybe a competition thing? I'm so confused. I know this is not nice but the only place I can go is she's jealous because she 1)did too many drugs in her 20s/30s 2)waited to long and says she's too old (46) so she can't have kids. But would that really be cause for maliciousness? I seriously want to not see her for the rest of my pregnancy but she's throwing my shower. Errrr.

jensavicci

@MonkeyJD‌

Oh man I'm sorry about that hugs for you!

mrscurlygurl

Sorry @MonkeyJD. Fingers crossed for y'all!

mrscurlygurl

chrinikki1 said:

My SIL apparently made a special call to our mutual guy friend to tell him how much I'm showing. He made a point to tell me it was kinda weird that she said that. I asked if that meant she was talking about how fat I was and he said yes. Why would she talk about this?! Every time I see her she comments about how big I am- which I thought was weird but never thought was meant malicious. She did get irritated when I told her I'm clean eating and won't splurge with her. She is bigger so maybe a competition thing? I'm so confused. I know this is not nice but the only place I can go is she's jealous because she 1)did too many drugs in her 20s/30s 2)waited to long and says she's too old (46) so she can't have kids. But would that really be cause for maliciousness? I seriously want to not see her for the rest of my pregnancy but she's throwing my shower. Errrr.

It's weird for her to call a guy to talk about another woman's weight. She definitely sounds jealous. Sounds like a situation where you should just feel sorry for her because she is clearly unhappy and it's not a reflection on you at all.

MonkeyJD

Thanks @BPaws‌ @BoraBoraBaby‌ @MSUDucks‌ @jensavicci‌ @alwaysnc4me‌ @mrscurlygurl‌

@MSUDucks‌ It came from the water valve in the wall where we hook up the ice maker. The bad part is, it wasn't there last year when we painted so it could have been leaking since. We won't know how bad the mold is until we rip out the hardwood.

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beff12

@BoraBoraBaby‌ let's hope so! She said she hoped to have him in the next two or so weeks, and someone suggested she could possibly have him in five weeks. She is very sweet, but you better believe she shot daggers at them for mentioning it!

@jnnfrrose6‌ I feel bad for your SIL I hope she has her LO soon and can find relief!