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June 2014 Moms
supgabs
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Feeling my baby move..(t&ps please) latest update pg 12
supgabs
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And it breaks my heart..
Some of you may know that we found some health issues with my son at my a/s. He has a multicystic dysplastic kidney and a white spot on his heart. Because of his white spot I qualified for the Verifi blood test. Well my results came back and they weren't what I was expecting.
Apparently they found an extra copy of the chromosome 13 and not enough copies of the chromosome 18. The genetic counselor told me this was an extremely rare find and they aren't sure exactly what it means. She said that their MFM clinic has never really seen results like this before. She told my SO that there are three reasons why this may have happened. It was either a bad lab result, there could be something wrong with the baby, or there could be something wrong with me.
I don't even know how to feel right now. I go from crying my eyes out to wanting to scream to wanting to break things. I don't understand why this is happening to us.
Feeling him move around is tearing me up. I love this little baby so much and I want the best for him. It's killing me not knowing what is going to happen to him. I am considering getting an aminocentesis but that scares me as well. Why couldn't I just have a boring, uneventful pregnancy?
Some of you may know that we found some health issues with my son at my a/s. He has a multicystic dysplastic kidney and a white spot on his heart. Because of his white spot I qualified for the Verifi blood test. Well my results came back and they weren't what I was expecting.
Apparently they found an extra copy of the chromosome 13 and not enough copies of the chromosome 18. The genetic counselor told me this was an extremely rare find and they aren't sure exactly what it means. She said that their MFM clinic has never really seen results like this before. She told my SO that there are three reasons why this may have happened. It was either a bad lab result, there could be something wrong with the baby, or there could be something wrong with me.
I don't even know how to feel right now. I go from crying my eyes out to wanting to scream to wanting to break things. I don't understand why this is happening to us.
Feeling him move around is tearing me up. I love this little baby so much and I want the best for him. It's killing me not knowing what is going to happen to him. I am considering getting an aminocentesis but that scares me as well. Why couldn't I just have a boring, uneventful pregnancy?
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Re: Feeling my baby move..(t&ps please) latest update pg 12
Lots of good thoughts and prayers for you and your LO.
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I'm so sorry - thinking of you and your family! I hope you can get some more definitive answers soon.