DH has been obsessed with wanting to catch the baby in delivery. I said "fine" without much thought, thinking there was no way the midwife would OK it. I asked her at my last appt and she said "oh yes! Absolutely! We love when dads want to catch!" Well... shit. Ok, I guess he's catching lol.
Mine is catching too
I'm kind of jealous, DH is freaked out by blood so he isn't catching. Lol
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My DH wants nothing to do with catching, cord cutting, or anything else medical - he's such a wuss
My husband is medical and he wants nothing to do with any of that. Get shot in the face he's your man, want him to catch a baby or cut the cord and he gets all weird.
DH was a total jerk last night and didn't leave work until 10. I got a coupon today for outback and sent it to him thinking he'd tell me no way. He just called offering to take me!
my H does not want to catch the baby or see me down there when I'm birthing. I'm ok with that. But then when I ask him if he wants to cute the cord he says "ok" not like he WANTS to be like he will do it. I don't know if he is excited or thinks that is just what I want to hear...
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Was the baby circumcised? Sometimes it can look strange if its uncircumcised and you don't have experience with one. I thought my sons looked so strange but after play dates I noticed he fit in with all the other uncircumcised babies. And now that he's older its more "penis" looking.
I know what you mean, but this make me crack up!
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I just ordered Jimmy John's simply for the sake of having root beer delivered to my door. Yep.
I'm so jealous of your JJ ordering capability. What do you and H usually get from there?
DH isn't much of a JJ guy anymore, but I usually get the Vito with cucumbers and a little bit of mayo and mustard. Then a root beer and salt and vinegar chips on the side. These days though, it's mentally more like "root beer with a sandwich and chips on the side."
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@joytomylifex Was the baby circumcised? Sometimes it can look strange if its uncircumcised and you don't have experience with one. I thought my sons looked so strange but after play dates I noticed he fit in with all the other uncircumcised babies. And now that he's older its more "penis" looking.
I know what you mean, but this make me crack up!
I know! I felt weird typing it but I couldn't come up with another way to explain what I meant!!
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my H does not want to catch the baby or see me down there when I'm birthing. I'm ok with that. But then when I ask him if he wants to cute the cord he says "ok" not like he WANTS to be like he will do it. I don't know if he is excited or thinks that is just what I want to hear...
I haven't even asked my DH yet, partly because I keep forgetting, but also because I'm not sure exactly what it is I even want to hear. On one hand I think it would be nice hearing that he wants to be involved, but on the other hand I think I'd be relieved to hear him say he'd rather just stay up by me. The thought of him seeing my lady bits in all their gory glory makes me rather anxious.
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I feel like either my body is shrinking or my child is grabbing my skin and squeezing it together. I want a boob lift or my body stretched out. No matter how fat i am it seems like my whole upper body has been taken over by baby. This must be what it feels like to be squished into a box lol.
This is not what it feels like to be squished in a box. Nor an oil drum, either... BTDT.
I'd tell you more about why I know these things, but that's classified. For reals.
Somedays, I'd vote for a box over this though.
someone else may have asked this...
BTDT?? story!!!
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Just ordered a Chicago Cubs Moby wrap off zulily. I think I'm giving it to him for his birthday (4/22). I hope I didn't waste my money and he likes it.
I feel like either my body is shrinking or my child is grabbing my skin and squeezing it together. I want a boob lift or my body stretched out. No matter how fat i am it seems like my whole upper body has been taken over by baby. This must be what it feels like to be squished into a box lol.
This is not what it feels like to be squished in a box. Nor an oil drum, either... BTDT.
I'd tell you more about why I know these things, but that's classified. For reals.
ETA: And apologies, as noted earlier my reading comprehension really is lacking today! I saw BTDT and posted, didn't see the extra bit about it being classified!!!
Anyone know of any good comprehension classes, this is becoming a bit of a nightmare!
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@Emily041285 Oh man. I want to get the Mets one for my GF! She's not KU, but they want to start trying soon. I've never seen anything like those before!
I saw them at BRU a while ago, but I was not paying $55 for it. I just hope he ends up using it. He's a huge Cubs fan. Not gonna lie, I'd get the Mets one and just hold on to it. As my SIL said you could always sell it on eBay. I've never seen them so cheap!
I walked into the preschool at work today to talk to a coworker who was sitting on the floor. First words out of her mouth, "wow, you're getting big!" Sooooo I think 36w was where I stopped looking cute.
Unrelated: my doc checked out my arm today and said that she will likely have me skip the Tdap next pregnancy because of my reaction. I've only started developing allergies over the last 6 years or so (mostly foods, but some environmental as well), but it's possible that this may be one of them.
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DH has been obsessed with wanting to catch the baby in delivery. I said "fine" without much thought, thinking there was no way the midwife would OK it. I asked her at my last appt and she said "oh yes! Absolutely! We love when dads want to catch!" Well... shit. Ok, I guess he's catching lol.
Mine was so into catching our first but due to the complications with delivery he wasn't able to. He was so disappointed, as was I. He was unable to catch our second because I was induced...again disappointment. I asked if he wanted me to find out if he could try again and he was all down and told me if I felt like bringing it up I could. I feel so bad he hasn't had his chance to catch one of our kids because he really wanted that experience and now he doesn't want to get his hopes up.
I glad your midwife is open to it.
Sorry, lady hopefully third time's a charm for you guys!
my H does not want to catch the baby or see me down there when I'm birthing. I'm ok with that. But then when I ask him if he wants to cute the cord he says "ok" not like he WANTS to be like he will do it. I don't know if he is excited or thinks that is just what I want to hear...
I haven't even asked my DH yet, partly because I keep forgetting, but also because I'm not sure exactly what it is I even want to hear. On one hand I think it would be nice hearing that he wants to be involved, but on the other hand I think I'd be relieved to hear him say he'd rather just stay up by me. The thought of him seeing my lady bits in all their gory glory makes me rather anxious.
Yeah, I told him 'you realize this is front row seat to blood, hemorrhoids, poop, and a super stretched to the max vag, yes?' He's still really down for it lol. He's not phased by much.
I learned yesterday that circumcision might not be covered by our insurance - is anyone else running into this issue? I need to call Blue Cross tomorrow but thought I'd find out from you ladies first what your coverage is.</
It's no longer typically covered as far as I know. It's considered elective.
I just ordered Jimmy John's simply for the sake of having root beer delivered to my door. Yep.
I want jimmy johns and root beer now.. That cupcake I just had didn't cut it at all!
My mom made DH cupcakes for his birthday....
They tasted like muffins with frosting ( good frosting). My mom is usually really good at baking. DH has been craving cupcakes for weeks... I feel disappointed for him. I thought they were gross
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Yeah that deserves a nut kick. For sure.
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I know! I felt weird typing it but I couldn't come up with another way to explain what I meant!!
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Eta: they are available online at BRU
Sooooo I think 36w was where I stopped looking cute.
Unrelated: my doc checked out my arm today and said that she will likely have me skip the Tdap next pregnancy because of my reaction. I've only started developing allergies over the last 6 years or so (mostly foods, but some environmental as well), but it's possible that this may be one of them.
BFP #1 May 20, 2013 MC June 27, 2013 BFP #2 August 2, 2013 Baby Boy born 4/25/14 (3 weeks overdue!)
April 14 August Siggy Challenge- "This time last year.."
Sorry, lady
Yeah, I told him 'you realize this is front row seat to blood, hemorrhoids, poop, and a super stretched to the max vag, yes?' He's still really down for it lol. He's not phased by much.
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BFP #1 May 20, 2013 MC June 27, 2013 BFP #2 August 2, 2013 Baby Boy born 4/25/14 (3 weeks overdue!)
April 14 August Siggy Challenge- "This time last year.."
They tasted like muffins with frosting ( good frosting). My mom is usually really good at baking. DH has been craving cupcakes for weeks... I feel disappointed for him. I thought they were gross
I'm a bad daughter
BFP #1 May 20, 2013 MC June 27, 2013 BFP #2 August 2, 2013 Baby Boy born 4/25/14 (3 weeks overdue!)
April 14 August Siggy Challenge- "This time last year.."