Married my wife 8/2007 ~ TTC #1 since 7/2011
9 IUIs = 9 BFNs
IVF October 2012: 22 eggs retrieved, 17 fertilized, 5 frozen
ET #1: 1 blast = BFP; Blighted ovum discovered at 7w5d; D&E
FET #1: 1 blast = BFP; Missed m/c discovered at 9w5d; D&E
Karyotyping: normal ~ RPL Testing: normal ~ Hysteroscopy: normal
FET #2: 1 blast transferred 10/25; BFP 10/31!
EDD 7/13/14 ~ Induced at 37w4d due to pre-eclampsia ~ Born on 6/28/14
*Everyone welcome*

Re: Health and Wellness Check In
QOTW: Planning out all my meals for the week on Saturday so my wife could make them for me before she left for her trip. Otherwise I'd be hitting the drive-through every day!
9 IUIs = 9 BFNs
IVF October 2012: 22 eggs retrieved, 17 fertilized, 5 frozen
ET #1: 1 blast = BFP; Blighted ovum discovered at 7w5d; D&E
FET #1: 1 blast = BFP; Missed m/c discovered at 9w5d; D&E
Karyotyping: normal ~ RPL Testing: normal ~ Hysteroscopy: normal
FET #2: 1 blast transferred 10/25; BFP 10/31!
EDD 7/13/14 ~ Induced at 37w4d due to pre-eclampsia ~ Born on 6/28/14
*Everyone welcome*
DP and I got a coupon that waives the entry fee for the Y so we're gonna join this week! I'm excited
They have a warm pool, a big workout facility, and a hot tub! I think it'll be motivating. We promised ourselves we'd go at least three times a week after dinner. Going there right at 5:00 is such a nightmare because that's when EVERYONE goes to exercise so we thought it may be best to wait until later.
Eating has been waaaaaaaaaay off track. I think the stress of waiting for AF or a positive HPT has made me eat more than I should. I gotta try to control that better. Sigh.
I don't like focusing on weight loss because it calls up for me all of this diet industry crap. And I know it is not the only important thing.
That said we are now 10 weeks from starting IVF and this is not the weight I want to be for that process or for pregnancy. (Obviously I'd much rather have pregnancy at this weight than no pregnancy, but I have 10 weeks so I'd like to do what I can during that time to shed some pounds and increase my cardiovascular health).
I can do it. I just have to actually make it a priority. And make it a priority all of the time. It is too easy for me to justify things (whether eating something or skipping exercise) and I need to not do that. I need to get serious.
QOTW: health and wellness wise the best decision I made this week was probably finally going grocery shopping
We're queer. I'm 33, have severe stage 4 endo, and had both fallopian tubes removed. My love ("Manada" on the boards, 32) was diagnosed with diminished ovarian reserve. We did Partner IVF (my eggs, her uterus). We lost our twins Tavin and Casey at 21 weeks gestation.
Our IUIs
with @Manada: IUI# 1-7 (December 2012- September 2013) all BFN. Tried natural, femara, clomid, puregon/follistim, clomid and menopur combo, both the ovidrel and HCG triggers.
Our IVFs:
IVF #1 my eggs November/December 2013: Cancelled IVF due to poor response
IVF #2 my eggs/Manada's uterus January/February 2014
BCPs and lupron overlap Stimmed: 1/22-2/2: Bravelle and Menopur (dosage ranged from B300 and M150 to B375 and M150 to B300 and M225)
2/4 retrieved 10 eggs. Endo was much worse than expected. Only 3 eggs fertilized; February 7 transferred two day 3 embryos, froze one. All great condition.
BFP eve of 6dp3dt; Beta 1 (11dp3dt): 110; Beta 2 (13dp3dt): 175; Beta 3 (15dp3dt): 348; Beta 4 (19dp3dt): 2222; Beta 5 (21dp3dt): 4255
1st ultrasound (3/6 6w 1d): TWINS!!!! Twin A measuring 6w1d with a heartbeat of 118bpm. Twin B measuring 6w0d with a heartbeat of 113bpm.
***July 18, 2014 we lost our beautiful babies at 21 weeks gestation. They were born too early. Tavin Sara T. and Casey Elizabeth T. are beautiful and precious and we will love them and miss them forever.***
FET #1 December 2014
And I am also in the same place you are now regarding IVF and pregnancy -- I have this FET looming, I don't want to be this weight when I start it, and yet I also want to enjoy my life in the meantime. I'm obviously not going to lose (or even try to lose) 40 lbs by October, but dropping 10 wouldn't be bad. And I'm hoping I'll be able to start exercising more soon so that I can improve my cardiovascular health as well.
9 IUIs = 9 BFNs
IVF October 2012: 22 eggs retrieved, 17 fertilized, 5 frozen
ET #1: 1 blast = BFP; Blighted ovum discovered at 7w5d; D&E
FET #1: 1 blast = BFP; Missed m/c discovered at 9w5d; D&E
Karyotyping: normal ~ RPL Testing: normal ~ Hysteroscopy: normal
FET #2: 1 blast transferred 10/25; BFP 10/31!
EDD 7/13/14 ~ Induced at 37w4d due to pre-eclampsia ~ Born on 6/28/14
*Everyone welcome*