Remember my friend that told me she wanted to get pregnant before me? (then an old condom came out when she peed?) Well she did, and the way she told me was super sh!ty. I called to se if she could take a long lunch and she said she couldn't becuase she is taking Thursday off but didn't want to tell me why because I would be mad at her...I said, are you pregnant? She said yes. Are you mad at me? (sorry for not doing the whole dialog quote thing)
The details: she is a slut, its a different guy than the one she was with last month. I'm happy for her but yes I am jealous and hate myself for it. Ugh, and now I am judging her lifestyle I need to stop. I truly wish her a happy healthy pregnancy.
But, I think she is lying. She said she is 3 weeks and 4 days, doesn't that seem early? And, she has a Dr. appt on Thursday. I asked her why and she said to make sure everything was ok. I told not to waste her money and (she doesn't have insurance) because I didn't think they would even see you until 8 weeks or something. Anyway, hearing her talk about it made me realize how much I have earned from this board. I just wanted to thank you all for teaching me so much and apologize for being a bi-ach to some of you.
I'm sure some of you can relate to how I feel, I also know I may be opening the flame gates. BIO!
Re: Friend Update
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**Siggy/Ticker Warning**
TTC #1 since May 2012
May 2013: First R.E. appointment
DH: SA is good
May 2013: CD3 Blood work-normal
June 2013: Hsg-Right tube blocked
July 26, 2013: Starting Follistim for IVF #1
August 2013: IVF #1 Cancelled- Abnormal embryos
October/November 2013: IVF #2 w/ICSI
November 8, 2013: Transferred two early blasts (no frosties)
November 18, 2013: First EVER BFP!
Beta#1: 91 Beta#2: 288
1st U/S- 5w2d Saw yolk sac!
3rd U/S- 7w4d HB of 157bpm!
TEAM BLUE!
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DS #1 born 05/25/2012
BFP#2: 06/12/2013 ---- loss
DS #2 born 4/08/2014
BPF#4: 2/1/2016 --- 2/23/2016 suspected molar pregnancy--- 3/15/2016 D&E - diagnosis MM
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Exactly what I was thinking...didn't read it all though, too much crazy in one place.
mrsashleyk
just had to say i love your siggy
I found out I was pregnant last time at 4 weeks and some days. I called my family practitioner to ask what the next step was, and she had me come in to her to have a pregnancy test done to confirm (just a urinalysis). It was positive and she called an OB for me, but my appointment wasn't for almost 2 months later.
I agree with pp, maybe she has some problems (or since you say she's a sl*t, maybe she has some STDs that should be taken care of right away?). But like you said, she could easily be lying as well.
I think she is a biatch for saying she wants to get pregnant before you. That's incredibly rude (even if she doesn't know about your TTC journey). She seems very dramatic and into herself. I'd side eye her majorly and question if she is pregnant or not. Just know that you are the bigger person, because you didn't say that you wanted to be pregnant before her, and also because you want her to have a H and H 9 months. Screw her for being a biatch.
HAHAAHHA so true!!! And like PP's have said; who cares? Sounds like you really don't like her anyway. Why would you even want someone like that in your life? Sounds like bad vibes to me.......
TTC #1 8/2012~Chronic Pelvic Pain Condition began 10/2012~Told I was crazy by many doctors until a good specialist DXed a labral tear and bone impingement in left hip 4/2013~Surgery on left hip: 5/31/13 SUCCESS!!! Pain flares to continue indefinitely (but mostly gone).
Resumed TTC 6/2013~Chronic stomach pain and distension: 8/2013~TTA 1/2014 Until Resolved ~7/2014: Trip to the Mayo Clinic--SUCCESS!! Finally on the road to getting better.
Resumed TTC 7/2014! Third time's the charm....8/2014 Visited the RE~DX: MFI/low morph~Straight to IVF with ICSI! 9/2014~Transferred 1 perfect beautiful 6AA blast with 10 to freeze!!!~10/8/2014: BFP!!!! EDD: 6/17/15 STICK LITTLE BEAN!!! IT'S A BOY!!!!!
HAHAAHHA so true!!! And like PP's have said; who cares? Sounds like you really don't like her anyway. Why would you even want someone like that in your life? Sounds like bad vibes to me.......
TTC #1 8/2012~Chronic Pelvic Pain Condition began 10/2012~Told I was crazy by many doctors until a good specialist DXed a labral tear and bone impingement in left hip 4/2013~Surgery on left hip: 5/31/13 SUCCESS!!! Pain flares to continue indefinitely (but mostly gone).
Resumed TTC 6/2013~Chronic stomach pain and distension: 8/2013~TTA 1/2014 Until Resolved ~7/2014: Trip to the Mayo Clinic--SUCCESS!! Finally on the road to getting better.
Resumed TTC 7/2014! Third time's the charm....8/2014 Visited the RE~DX: MFI/low morph~Straight to IVF with ICSI! 9/2014~Transferred 1 perfect beautiful 6AA blast with 10 to freeze!!!~10/8/2014: BFP!!!! EDD: 6/17/15 STICK LITTLE BEAN!!! IT'S A BOY!!!!!
Thanks for listening.
seriously, neither of you are good friends to each other. cut your losses and go your own way.
To address the least BSC part of this...
Since at ovulation, you are considered 2 weeks pregnant, 3 weeks and 4 days would be 11 dpo. So no, it's not too early for a BFP.
Burp.
One of my mom's friends got pregnant right after she had me. The friend was holding me one day and my mom caught her saying to me that she was glad I wouldn't be getting all the attention for too much longer.
Edit-phrasing