We had our first OB appointment yesterday. After the exam, several blood tests, and lots of questions we got to the ultrasound and discovered there was no heartbeat. I was supposed to be 9 weeks yesterday. The ultrasound tech said the fetus measured about 6 weeks or so.
My husband and I are both really sad, but coping well and back at work today. This one just wasn't meant to be I guess. I go in next week for a D&C. Once I get through that, I think I will be okay.
I had the best glass of wine last night though...that made a bad day just a little better. Trust me...I am really not crazy!
Good luck to all of you!
Re: Signing off...good luck to all
BIO
We had 2 years of IF trying to conceive #2 and one loss during that time. We are currently trying for #3! had another loss the end of June
The first glass of wine is always the best. I miscarried the day before my first appointment and I deemed that day "The Day The Earth Stood Still". It was hard, but I got through it. Make time to grieve and don't hold it in. That was my mistake and my emotions came out like a tsunami one day.
It will be okay, though........time heals all wounds even though the emotional scars are still there. And there will be a time when it will be YOUR time.
Hey, look at it this way, they must have needed more angels in the sandbox up there....at least that's how I have think of it........