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Yup, that happened

Today my MIL asked me if I thought my home doppler could have been the cause of my baby's death...yeah...no...thanks for that... 

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  • Wow...

    I am sorry!

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    Today my MIL asked me if I thought my home doppler could have been the cause of my baby's death...yeah...no...thanks for that... 

    Dude, my MIL asked me the same thing.. she said I checked too much. Hmm


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  • Some people see the blatant lines and cross them anyway.

    I'm very sorry this happened.

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    Today my MIL asked me if I thought my home doppler could have been the cause of my baby's death...yeah...no...thanks for that... 

    Dude, my MIL asked me the same thing.. she said I checked too much. Hmm

    Yeah your doppler made your cervix crap out, because that makes sense, wtf. 

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  • ::facepalm::

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  • What a b!tch! I would of not said some not do nice things.

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    What a b!tch! I would of not said some not do nice things. Hugs.

    LOL yeah I was polite about it but on the inside I've been super irritated ever since. 

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  • Man, MM, now I have to go and smack around your MIL for being a twatwaffle.  You know I can't fly.  Raincheck?

    I'm so sorry that you had to deal with your MIL ignorant mentality, hun.

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    Man, MM, now I have to go and smack around your MIL for being a twatwaffle.  You know I can't fly.  Raincheck?

    I'm so sorry that you had to deal with your MIL ignorant mentality, hun.

    LOL I appreciate the sentiment even if you can't come ;) 

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  • wow. that's awful.  That would've broken my heart. :( sorry you had to go through that hun.
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  • That was beyond inappropriate; I am so sorry she asked that.

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    Wow. I have no words.

    I've been told numerous times that having so many ultrasounds is dangerous to my babies. I trust my OB, ya know, the one with the medical degree.

    People kill me.
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    Wow. I have no words. I've been told numerous times that having so many ultrasounds is dangerous to my babies. I trust my OB, ya know, the one with the medical degree. People kill me.

    I know right?! So much ignorance. 

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  • Yikes...god bless you for not slapping the hit out of her!
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    MIL's are horrid

    Yes 


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    MIL's are horrid

    Yes 

    Amen to that! 

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    ::facepalm::

    This.

    I am so sorry someone can be that ignorant.
  • Ouch! 

    That sucks; I'm sorry. HUGS!

    My MIL is convinced that it was the ultrasounds that caused us to lose ours. 



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  • You should have smacked her upside the head with your doppler.  I think that's the only way a doppler could ever do any harm. 

    (((Hugs))) hon.  I'm sorry.

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    Ouch! 

    That sucks; I'm sorry. HUGS!

    My MIL is convinced that it was the ultrasounds that caused us to lose ours. 

    Wow! So what's her excuse for why they didn't do any harm to this one then? Freaking crazy people! 

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    Ouch! 

    That sucks; I'm sorry. HUGS!

    My MIL is convinced that it was the ultrasounds that caused us to lose ours. 

    Wow! So what's her excuse for why they didn't do any harm to this one then? Freaking crazy people! 

    I have no idea. She's absolutely BSC. When my husband told her I was pregnant again, she told him that we needed to tell the doctor we didn't want any ultrasounds at all this time. I just rolled my eyes. Then when we were home at Thanksgiving, my FIL wanted to see the pictures from the first ultrasound, she refused to look at them, because "obviously I wasn't listening to good medical advice."

    Lady, you are a dietician; not a doctor or a nurse. Grrrr!

    (Sorry! Didn't mean to hijack your thread, MM.) 



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  • What!!!!!!!! That's craaaaaazy!!!! I'm so sorry sweetie booo to your mil!!

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  • OMG. I'm so sorry. 


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  • Oh my! Sorry MM. What in the world would posses someone to not only think something so dumb but then spew it out!

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  • Oh. My. Gosh. That's terrible! I can't believe she said that..although do you know what mine said to me? 

     "I guess you guys will do anything to get out of coming for christmas, won't you?" 

    B/c THAT'S why I'm having a baby... 

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  • I have no words.  Are people seriously that dumb?

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    You should have smacked her upside the head with your doppler.  I think that's the only way a doppler could ever do any harm. 

    (((Hugs))) hon.  I'm sorry.

    Bahaha!!! Omg thank you! I needed that lol! 

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