Pregnant after a Loss

Yup, that happened

Today my MIL asked me if I thought my home doppler could have been the cause of my baby's death...yeah...no...thanks for that... 

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  • Wow...

    I am sorry!

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  • imagemightymousy:

    Today my MIL asked me if I thought my home doppler could have been the cause of my baby's death...yeah...no...thanks for that... 

    Dude, my MIL asked me the same thing.. she said I checked too much. Hmm

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  • Some people see the blatant lines and cross them anyway.

    I'm very sorry this happened.

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    imagemightymousy:

    Today my MIL asked me if I thought my home doppler could have been the cause of my baby's death...yeah...no...thanks for that... 

    Dude, my MIL asked me the same thing.. she said I checked too much. Hmm

    Yeah your doppler made your cervix crap out, because that makes sense, wtf. 

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  • imagestlucia_wife:
    What a b!tch! I would of not said some not do nice things. Hugs.

    LOL yeah I was polite about it but on the inside I've been super irritated ever since. 

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  • Man, MM, now I have to go and smack around your MIL for being a twatwaffle.  You know I can't fly.  Raincheck?

    I'm so sorry that you had to deal with your MIL ignorant mentality, hun.

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  • imagerlajambe:

    Man, MM, now I have to go and smack around your MIL for being a twatwaffle.  You know I can't fly.  Raincheck?

    I'm so sorry that you had to deal with your MIL ignorant mentality, hun.

    LOL I appreciate the sentiment even if you can't come ;) 

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  • wow. that's awful.  That would've broken my heart. :( sorry you had to go through that hun.
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  • That was beyond inappropriate; I am so sorry she asked that.

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    Wow. I have no words. I've been told numerous times that having so many ultrasounds is dangerous to my babies. I trust my OB, ya know, the one with the medical degree. People kill me.

    I know right?! So much ignorance. 

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  • Yikes...god bless you for not slapping the hit out of her!
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    MIL's are horrid

    Yes 

  • imagePink Camino:

    imagekatharine25:
    MIL's are horrid

    Yes 

    Amen to that! 

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  • imagehuckleberry08:
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    This.

    I am so sorry someone can be that ignorant.
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  • You should have smacked her upside the head with your doppler.  I think that's the only way a doppler could ever do any harm. 

    (((Hugs))) hon.  I'm sorry.

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  • imagencchnat:

    Ouch! 

    That sucks; I'm sorry. HUGS!

    My MIL is convinced that it was the ultrasounds that caused us to lose ours. 

    Wow! So what's her excuse for why they didn't do any harm to this one then? Freaking crazy people! 

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  • What!!!!!!!! That's craaaaaazy!!!! I'm so sorry sweetie booo to your mil!!

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  • OMG. I'm so sorry. 


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  • Oh my! Sorry MM. What in the world would posses someone to not only think something so dumb but then spew it out!

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  • I have no words.  Are people seriously that dumb?
  • imagemisternmiss:

    You should have smacked her upside the head with your doppler.  I think that's the only way a doppler could ever do any harm. 

    (((Hugs))) hon.  I'm sorry.

    Bahaha!!! Omg thank you! I needed that lol! 

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    Ouch! 

    That sucks; I'm sorry. HUGS!

    My MIL is convinced that it was the ultrasounds that caused us to lose ours. 

    Wow! So what's her excuse for why they didn't do any harm to this one then? Freaking crazy people! 

    I have no idea. She's absolutely BSC. When my husband told her I was pregnant again, she told him that we needed to tell the doctor we didn't want any ultrasounds at all this time. I just rolled my eyes. Then when we were home at Thanksgiving, my FIL wanted to see the pictures from the first ultrasound, she refused to look at them, because "obviously I wasn't listening to good medical advice."

    Lady, you are a dietician; not a doctor or a nurse. Grrrr!

    (Sorry! Didn't mean to hijack your thread, MM.) 

    haha no problem, that's what it's here for! Wow she sounds like a piece of work! *hugs* 

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    Oh. My. Gosh. That's terrible! I can't believe she said that..although do you know what mine said to me? 

     "I guess you guys will do anything to get out of coming for christmas, won't you?" 

    B/c THAT'S why I'm having a baby... 

    OMG she can't be serious?! Woooowwww 

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    Yikes. I'm sorry she said that to you!

    My MIL told me that both of my losses were God's way of telling me I shouldn't have any more children. =     

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  • I'm so sorry, people are so insane, and rude.

    My grandmother told me ultrasounds caused my ectopic, not really sure how that worked since I didn't have any u/s before I was diagnosed. I just roled my eyes.

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  • Seriously?? WTH. They should sell brain to mouth filters at Walmart.
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  • Wow. Sounds like your MIL suffers from diarrhea of the mouth. Sorry she said that. Hugs.
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  • wow..just wow. Big hugs MM! That was so uncalled for! Shame on her!
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  • Wow! Sorry MM. (((hugs))) 


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  • Wow. Some people do not think before speaking. I'm sorry.
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  • WOW!!! You deserve a medal for not smacking her!!
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    Oh no she didn't!

    I'm so glad you know that had nothing to do with it...wish she did.

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  • Sorry that happened. Sometimes people say ignorant things and do not think twice about it. It's funny how good, wellintentioned people can say such hurtful things.
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  • Crap like this makes me appreciate my MIL a little more on days that she drives me nuts.
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  • Ugh, WTF is wrong with her!
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  • There's not a chance in hell that would've ended well in the Ravenclaw household. I would not have been able to leave that conversation with any grace intact.
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    Wow, simply wow.
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