I have been letting things fester and not speaking up about what is bothering me so I finally broke down and laid it all out. I told him how I feel and that sometimes he is making things harder for me. I admitted a lot of it was my fault for not speaking up so he assumed I liked being "supermom" and doing everything. Granted DH doesn't always get the message immediately and has a habit of bringing up issues I thought had been resolved (but I think it is b/c he has nothing else to b!tch to me about) but I think he may understand some more.
Re: DH and I had a big "talk"
I hope he understand how you were feeling.