Estimated Due Date / Weeks + Days:
FTM/STM/STM+:
Team Boy/Girl/Surprise:
Interesting baby fact / Baby is the size of:
Upcoming appointments:
How are you feeling:
Rants / Raves:
Questions:
GTKY: if you could have dinner with one celebrity or historical figure, who would you choose?
Re: Weekly Check-in 1/30
Oh man I have no idea… I’ll think on this one
Also it’s hard finding a balance between wanting to still be there for the kids and cuddle them, but also afraid of DS being rough or elbowing me in the belly. The more we talk about being gentle and set boundaries around it the harder time he has being gentle.
Third time mom
Team green 🍏
Feb 9th and 16 for my last ultrasound here and probably last prenatal appointment.
I've been able to see outside kicks for awhile but today I caught them in camera 🥺
My two year old has been saying "me mate it" about making his own snacks or doing tasks around the kitchen and it's so cute I'm not sure why it gets demonized in parenting memes, it's not rude, it's so cute to see him full of enthusiasm and self confidence that he can "make" something all on his own.
Rant is that we have another four days at least of below zero temps and every day for the past two weeks it's snowed. I don't mind winter usually but my poor son wants to go outside so badly and we can't. 😭
I want to say Taylor Swift but realistically I'd have nothing to talk to her about probably lol.
Rave: his doc has been amazing, and so have my work colleagues who are covering for me. If you're a FTM, interview pediatricians until you find a good match- it's worth it!
FTM/STM/STM+: FTM
Team Boy/Girl/Surprise: girl
Interesting baby fact / Baby is the size of: mango
Upcoming appointments: anatomy scan on Friday!
How are you feeling: a little more nervous these days
Rants / Raves: rave for my acupuncture mat!
Questions: nothing I can think of rn :)
GTKY: if you could have dinner with one celebrity or historical figure, who would you choose?
Reese Witherspoon for sure.
21 weeks
Stm
Boy
Size of an endive
Anatomy scan February 10th
How are you feeling?: hungry lmao. So much eating. My boobs feel huge and my nipples have like tripled in size, I hate that.
Rants/raves: while I have more energy lately, I have no motivation lol
Questions: none currently
Gtky: omg that's so hard. I really dont know. I have a fascination with serial killers and a few I'd like to ask some questions to, but certainly not sit down and have a meal with lol. If you had asked me in me young, angsty teenage days, I'd have said Kurt Cobain in a heartbeat.
Omg Israel Keyes kills me. And he's dead so we will never truly know! I know there are all the documentaries and interviews, but I feel so many of those answers aren't real, because so many serial killers are always looking to put on a show and they don't answer honestly. Right now I'm obsessed with the Australian podcast, monsters who murder.
I read one article about Lindsay Clancy and my mental health is awful, I'm having nightmares and so much anxiety now, I don't know how you do it but I admire you!
Re boobs I thought maybe mine wouldn't grow more because come on how much more can I reasonably take but all but one of my brand new bras is painfully too small, joke's on me for splurging last fall on a bunch of nice non nursing bras only to outgrow them a few months later 😵💫 it's probably largely from swelling because they don't seem bigger, just more full if that makes sense? I'm not sure if I should buy more bras or just limp along with 1 for the next 17 weeks till I wear nursing bras.
I'm probably in the minority but I really prefer dark aeriolas over my normal. Is anyone else leaking colostrum?
I also bought nursing bras this week and am already wearing them because they're large enough and cozy enough to wear through the rest of this pregnancy and will work for my nursing days coming up too! I have no shame in wearing them prematurely lmfao.
@thescarletmom I'm in the same boat, by nipples I did mean areolas lmao. I should have specified there. Mine are darker naturally, but pregnant/nursing they're soooo dark! No leaking yet!
Children and babies dying in accidents or from health issues hurts too but I do wave of light every year and honor their names in my loss community and that's always been something I could handle but crimes themselves I'm just not able to stomach without crippling anxiety.
Re nursing bras if they didn't stick out of my square neckline dresses I'd already be in them too, they're so comfortable 😍
@francesgs I had some the beginning of my pregnancy and then it went away but it's back again. 😵💫 I haven't leaked into the bed yet though, that's my least favorite thing!
@thescarletmom I feel that so hard and I think you're spot on! You're right though I just don't have the stomach for it. I desperately want to watch that show about the flds with Andrew Garfield, under the banner of heaven maybe?but I got as far as the first episode before I could feel my mental health in a downward spiral because it hit so close to home with my background.
Rant- Being sick (cold/flu) and pregnant is my life. Neverending.
Rave- Received the ultrasound report from my anatomy scan and everything looks great! I'm SO relieved. It feels like the last major hurtle to jump with my anxiety and now I'm just trying to really connect with this little boy.
Hmm. Maybe Robin Williams.
Your news is yours and I want to keep you as the center, but if it helps: I also have to have a scheduled C-section because of a traumatic first birth that left me unable to deliver vaginally again. A C-section is not what I would have chosen, so I understand and hear your feelings. I've known my situation since TTC for #2, so I have had longer to process. If you need a C-section (and I hope you won't), you will have a C-section buddy in me! ♥️
I hope your placenta moves up! My SIL is due in March, and her placenta was low at 20 weeks. It's moved up now and she expects a vaginal birth!
21w 1 day
baby #5
Boy
Next appointment on Feb. 17
No questions right now.
that’s a tough one. I have a weird infatuation with the JFK assassination, but I think I would rather sit down with lee Harvey Oswald or Jack Ruby, so I can learn what really happened lol.
If it makes you feel any better, mine did move by the next US and it was a LIFETIME of waiting, or so it felt. I am hopeful yours will move too. My OB who I loved but retired told me she doesn't even want to tell moms as they worry most the time unnecessarily, which is never good when pregnant, but hard not to. The placenta sure does have a mind of its own. I'll be thinking of you as I remember how unnerving that wait was.
And your feelings of not getting the birth you want or imagine are completely valid. We all have how we want it to go in our heads and we all know deep down what happens will happen. It does not change the longing of what you want. And there is nothing wrong or selfish about those feelings. My last baby came July of 2020 so I totally align with how you feel about this time around. What a Rollercoaster that was. We live in the boonies and are self employed, but still an insane ride it was. We just played outside ALL the time. That helped for sure. 🙏 you're in my thoughts.