August 2023 Moms

**READ THIS FIRST** Board Organization

Welcome to the August 2023 BMB! (I used/adjusted this template from the July 2023 BMB/every other BMB for the last several years on TB).

If you're new to TB, we're excited to have you! Below you will find information on how the flow of BMBs work, guidelines and helpful links. 

Some links that you may find helpful:

How-To Guides:
  • How to quote: Hit the "quote" at the bottom of the post you want to quote. You will be taken to the reply box with the quote set up already.
  • How to tag: Add a "@" in front of the username of the person you are talking to.
  • How to change your username: log in to TheKnot, hover over My Knot, and click Account Settings. If you are having issues doing it that way, you can email community@thebump.com and ask them to change your username. Give them a few suggestions just in case your top choice is taken. It may take up to 24 hours for the name to update.
  • How to insert a spoiler box: click the drop down list arrow next to the paragraph symbol (third from the left, next to bold and italicize) and choose spoiler. It will insert a grey box, and everything that you type in there will go into the spoiler.

For the sake of board organization, here are some simple guidelines for posting threads:

DO: 
  • Introduce yourself in the "Introductions!" thread.
  • Feel free to start one of the weekly posts listed below.
  • Post your own thread if you have a confirmed loss (please use a TW).
  • Post a thread that would apply to the entire community and doesn't fall into one of the categories for daily threads listed below (Ex: what to pack in your hospital bag, baby gear, etc.)
  • Comment, share advice and show support for your fellow bumpies; this is a two-way street, to get support, you must show it as well.
  • Be respectful: some of us have gotten pregnant on the first try; for others, it’s taken years and treatments; many on here have also experienced losses. Please keep that in mind when posting something. 

DO NOT:
  • Start a thread asking about symptoms; please post this in the current weekly "symptoms thread" - this is helpful because it keeps the board from getting cluttered and makes it so we can all see the whole discussion in one thread, rather than having one thread about MS, one about food cravings, another about vivid dreams, etc.
  • Ask the community if you are pregnant, it is against TOU.
  • Start a thread asking for relationship advice; a professional is better suited for this task.
  • Post pictures of your pregnancy test, this is also against TOU.
  • Post a thread that asks a question only applying to yourself unless you suspect you may be going through a MC.
  • Get bent out of shape if someone calls you out for not following these guidelines; if you expect to be part of a supportive board (which we are), you need to be able to take the time to learn the ins and outs of the board.

Weekly threads suggestions! Feel free to add any others you think would be helpful/fun. 

MONDAY
Monday Bitch Fest 
Weekly (or monthly) symptoms thread 
Weekly randoms

TUESDAY
GTKY ("Get to know you" posted with a thought-provoking question) 
High Risk Check-in

WEDNESDAY
Hump day/bump day 
PAIF check in 
WTF Wednesday

THURSDAY
PGAL check in
Unpopular opinion (UO)
Thankful Thursdays 

FRIDAY
Flame Free Confessions 
TTGP Grad check in 

MONTHLY
What my pregnant self is eating/crying?               
AMA mama check in 
Ask a STM+
Product Spotlights (a place where FTMs can ask about baby products and where STMs can provide their recommendations)

Once we all get farther along, we will also have pinned threads for things like ultrasounds, sex announcements, and birth announcements.

I've copy/pasted this from previous boards, and it seems to be the way that they are all organized, but of course we should feel free to tweak for our needs! For example, some boards do weekly ticker changes while others do weekly due date check-ins (ex, DD 1st week of June, etc.). 

If anyone has a suggestion for other threads, please feel free to comment a suggestion.

Let's have a great BMB ladies!


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Re: **READ THIS FIRST** Board Organization

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  • Are we doing a "TW - spotting/bleeding/threatened mc" thread for this group? Just curious! I know it helped me a lot in my last bmb.
  • @wendy838 yeah I was just thinking about putting one up. I can get that up and running in a hot second. And when did we want to have an ultrasound sticky as well/start hump day bump day?
    PG #1: 36w5d 12/25/19
    PG #2: EDD 8/15/23 Miscarried 9w1d 1/11/23
    PG #3: EDD 12/15/23
  • @stashattack ooh yeah those are the fun ones! People are likely going for their first ultrasounds soon. 
  • @wendy838 I'll do the ultrasounds thread up tomorrow and start HDBD this coming Wednesday. 
    PG #1: 36w5d 12/25/19
    PG #2: EDD 8/15/23 Miscarried 9w1d 1/11/23
    PG #3: EDD 12/15/23
  • How does adding meal prep monday to the mix? It's something we did in my old BMB and it was helpful for finding new meal ideas sometimes!
    PG #1: 36w5d 12/25/19
    PG #2: EDD 8/15/23 Miscarried 9w1d 1/11/23
    PG #3: EDD 12/15/23
  • @stashattack YES. Bonus points to anyone who posts stuff that freezes well to tuck away for post-baby OH GOD I STILL HAVE TO FEED THESE OTHER PEOPLE times.
  • I would love a meal prep Monday.
  • I'll add it to the rotation then!
    PG #1: 36w5d 12/25/19
    PG #2: EDD 8/15/23 Miscarried 9w1d 1/11/23
    PG #3: EDD 12/15/23
  • Did we want to do monthly check-in for: FTM, STM/STM+, AMA/High Risk (did we want to separate these two?)?

    Since things were just getting started this month I didn't start a ton of the monthly boards but come the new year I will :) 
    PG #1: 36w5d 12/25/19
    PG #2: EDD 8/15/23 Miscarried 9w1d 1/11/23
    PG #3: EDD 12/15/23
  • I would love both of those! 
    TW: MMC
    BFP1 12/24/14 - EDD 09/07/15 (D/C 8w1d)
    BFP2 6/12/15 - EDD 2/22/16 (D/C 10w3d)
    ———
    Diagnoses and Treatments
    PCOS (myo-inositol, excercize)
    Indeterminant levels of APS IgM antibodies (baby aspirin)
    Sub-septate uterus (hysteroscopic septoplasty 12/18/15)
    ———
    BFP3 05/02/16 EDD 01/09/17 DS born 01/05/17
    BFP4 01/28/19 EDD 10/?/19 🤞🙏

  • We had a monthly baking/cooking/crafting thread in TTGP to share projects and other things we were creating. Any interest in something like that here?
  • @stashattack yes! Whatever seems to work best. I think separating might be fine. 
    Dx: Non-IR PCOS
    Baby Girl K #1 Born 3/8/14
    Baby Girl K #2 EDD 3/3/19
  • stashattackstashattack member
    edited December 2022
    @novelblessings I'll do separate ones!!

    @gingermama29 hell yeah we can do that!! Maybe it'll motivate me to knit our friends their Dino baby hat I've been meaning to make 🙈
    PG #1: 36w5d 12/25/19
    PG #2: EDD 8/15/23 Miscarried 9w1d 1/11/23
    PG #3: EDD 12/15/23
  • Would we like a monthly appointments thread? Or is talking about them in the weekly checkins good?
    PG #1: 36w5d 12/25/19
    PG #2: EDD 8/15/23 Miscarried 9w1d 1/11/23
    PG #3: EDD 12/15/23
  • I prefer to keep our group is pretty small. We could do monthly. I kinda would like for our checkin to be all together since our group is so small. Is that something anyone else is interested in? 
  • we can try one big checkin and see how that goes on Monday if other people feel similar. It feels like the group is stacked towards the later half of the month anyway!
    PG #1: 36w5d 12/25/19
    PG #2: EDD 8/15/23 Miscarried 9w1d 1/11/23
    PG #3: EDD 12/15/23
  • I agree with having one weekly check in for all edd would be better, there’s hardly any discussion because there’s so few people
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