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(TW) Good Luck everyone...

...but I'm out.  My symptoms all but disappeared last week and last night I had a tinge of blood and a tiny clot.  U/S today showed sac measuring 5wk 6, no heartbeat, no baby visible.  I should be 7w1d. More blood and spotting after that exam. 

I feel ok. I kept thinking "how am I going to handle another baby," and now I don't have to, so there is a bit of guilty feeling I'm struggling with. I don't think I will be trying again as this was a huge suprise pregnancy and I'm 42.  But I kinda wish I could forget these last 3 weeks and the emotional rollercoaster of it all.... 

Good luck everyone! Hope for a happy and healthy 9 months for you all. 

Re: (TW) Good Luck everyone...

  • bmo88bmo88 member
    edited January 13

    I am so sorry to hear this. Definitely give yourself time to heal and grieve.

  • I am so sorry for your loss, @Eveinshock. Please be gentle with yourself as you heal and process your feelings. My heart goes out to you.
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  • @Eveinshock I'm so sorry. Good luck to your family. Wishing you well and that you heal well.
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    @Eveinshock I'm so sorry. Take care of yourself 💓💕

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  • I’m so sorry. 
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  • I’m so sorry, be kind to yourself and take care.
  • I'm sorry for your loss. I hope you and your family can continue to find happiness.
  • I am so sorry for you loss. Be kind to yourself as you navigate all of those emotions. 

    BFP #1: 12/1/14 said goodbye 1/2/15
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    BFP #4 12/4/20
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  • Sorry to hear Eveinshock - thinking of you during this time. Sending you all the virtual stranger love. Take it easy and give yourself all the grace during this time ❤️
  • @Eveinshock I’m so sorry.  Give yourself some grace.  Sending you lots of healing thoughts.  
  • @Eveinshock so sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself
  • @Eveinshock I'm so sorry you're here too:( Like you we already have 2 (a 7 year old and 18 month old) and I'll be 42 in a couple of months. I think we're probably throwing in the towel after this too. Sending you so much love ❤
  • I’m so sorry to read this. Thinking of you tonight. 😔
  • I'm so sorry.

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  • @Eveinshock Don't beat yourself up with guilt.  I think everyone has that "omg how am I going to do this" thought, even if they don't have any kids yet.  Just because you worried a little didn't mean you wanted it any less.  I hope you can give yourself time to grieve.  There are so many emotions that come along with this type of thing.  Best wishes to you <3


  • I'm sorry to hear that. You're entitled to all the complicated feelings. Take care.
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