I won't be online tomorrow, so I thought I would post this early.
Hello all! I know it's still early, but there has already been discussion of the best Maternity clothes, so I thought we would do that next.
Brands you love? Shopping hacks? Tips for strategizing different outfit coordinations? Questions about timing your maternity clothes purchases? How about questions or advice to accommodate different body types? Work-wear vs. formal-wear vs. workout clothes? As for pillows, J-shaped vs. U-shaped? Tips on avoiding maternity pillow purchase and instead constructing elaborate forts with regular pillows? Please share!
Prior and Upcoming Product Spotlights
Re: product spotlight: maternity clothes and pillows
As for body pillow I splurged and got the Leachco Snoogle Total Body Pillow. It is amazing. For my second pregnancy I got the navy cover to replace the white one it came with because that one was looking gross, but otherwise it was still great. The one downside is that it is annoying if you want to turn over in the middle of the night, but since it was painful for me to lie on my right side it wasn't that big a deal. I can't wait to pull it out again, but I feel like my boys will realize what's up, once I do, so I have to wait until 12 weeks when we tell them.
*Rainbow 8/2015*
*Expected Rainbows 12/2018*
*Loss of Twin 5/2018*
March 2016 Moms: January Siggy Challenge "Pregnancy Problems"
H&M is having a sale and there's some maternity clothes included. I'll be trying out those jeans and ordering a couple of tops.
*Rainbow 8/2015*
*Expected Rainbows 12/2018*
*Loss of Twin 5/2018*
*Rainbow 8/2015*
*Expected Rainbows 12/2018*
*Loss of Twin 5/2018*
@texas_t Good to know! I did order a set of the long sleeves.
@SkilledSailor I have to say their regular clothes don't fit me well though... I'll have to only buy a few items to try.
@mimser My last pregnancy I picked up a couple of thyme from their store and a lot from the thrift store. I was sad to see them go, but I wasn't in Canada when they had their crazy clearance sales.
I found size 8 o 10 normal clothes worked for me so I don't think I'll have to pick anything up this time round. But I found dresses were great, you don't have to worry about the pressure on your belly and most maxis or stretchy dresses can accommodate a bump easily.
My old maternity clothes are too big right now, so I bought a band off Amazon to hopefully let me wear my regular pants for a while. I never found a pair of maternity pants I really liked. Full panel makes me claustrophobic and the Target ones just slid down.
I had some amazing pink blush pajama pants and dresses. They're so pretty and comfortable. Old Navy has some good stuff, too! I'll have to try H&M, too!
I just got some leggings from Blanqi that are great for this, but the material is too thick to wear into next Spring.
Also, does anyone sleep in bras? I never have, but it's getting to the point where I'd like more support for the girls when I toss and turn. I'd like a soft bra but with cups to keep the girls separated - I get pretty sweaty when I sleep these days.
@yellingbanana OMG Ross is my favourite store for any clothes, would love to be able to go raid their maternity/baby section! When we cross the border my 3 favourite places to stop are Trader Joe's, Target and Ross.
My friends tell me the Target maternity tops are awesome but again, not accessible here. I bought a few from the GAP and the material is nice and they're nice and stretchy so I'm going to use the tank tops for layering under my baggier shirts for now.
Although not specifically a maternity bra, these Bali bras from Amazon are incredibly comfortable. No underwire, and they fit fairly generously. I'm normally a 34DD and the medium fits nicely even with all the bloating/swelling.
TTC History:
Me: 36 MH: 39, TTC since Dec 2017
Aug '18: PCOS dx
Nov '18: MH SA - 19mil
Dec '18-Mar '19: Letrozole + TI - all BFN
Apr '19: Letrozole + TI, - BFN. Repeat SA (27mil) & DNA fragmentation test (17%)
Aug '19: Letrozole + HCG trigger + IUI + prog supp - BFN (MH: 16mil)
Sep '19: 2nd IUI, same protocol - BFN (MH: 16mil)
Dec '19: IVF #1 w/ICSI, PGT. 5 retrieved, 4 fertilized, 3 blasts, 3 PGT-A normal.
Mar '20: FET #1, perfect 5AA blast transferred. BFN.
Sept '20: FET #2, 5BB tsf. 9/18/20 BFP!! EDD: 5/27/21. MMC 11w
Feb ‘21: FET #3, last 6BB blast transferred. BFP, EDD 11/2/21. MC 5w3d.
May '21: IVF #2 w/ICSI, PGT. 8R, 7M, 6F, 6 blasts - 3AB, 3AB, 3BB, 4BB, 5BB, 6BA. Fresh tsf 5/13/21 - BFN.
June '21: PGT-A results = 3 abnormal, 1 low level mosaic. Referred to new REI, had consult with 2nd RE in between.
Sept '21: RPL, immune testing normal
Oct '21: IVF #3 w/IMSI, PGT. 33R, 26M, 23F, 9 blasts (7 day 6, 2 day 7). PGT-A = 5 normal, 1 mosaic
Dec '21: Positive for endometritis, RX Flagyl & Keflex
Jan '22: FET #5 - Kitchen sink immune/RIF protocol incl. PRP, intralipids, prednisone, medrol, nivestym, fragmin - CP
Feb '22: FET #6 - Kitchen sink immune/RIF protocol w/higher doses of pred & fragmin - BFN
Mar '22: Mock cycle for ERA - cancelled, repeat endometrial biopsy instead. Still positive for endometritis. RX ciprofloxacin & amoxicillin.
Apr '22: IVF #4 w/IMSI, PGT. 28R, 23M, 16F, 11 blasts. PGT-A = 6 normal.
June '22: FET #7 - Microdose lupron downreg w/kitchen sink immune/RIF protocol - double embryo transfer. BFN.
July '22: FET #8 - Mini stim w/Puregon + trigger, kitchen sink immune/RIF protocol. BFN.
Sep '22: Taking a break
Dec '22: Attempted abdominal myomectomy, fibroid too close to cervix and major blood vessels. Wasn't removed.
Feb '23: FET #9 - Modified natural w/baby asp, HCG trigger, PIO, PRP, Medrol, HCG wash, embryo glue - BFP!! EDD 11/11/23
My birthday is this weekend and I already know my fiance is planning on getting me a body pillow because I'm a cranky, sleep deprived wench. I prefer the U shape, so hoping he reads the reviews and looks at the shape first lol
Thankfully my mom just gave me a garbage bag full of shirts that are 1-2 sizes bigger than I usually wear and most of them will work for maternity because they're long and flowy. That oughta work for the next little while (I mean, other than the fact that I'm going to look like my Mom
TTC History:
Me: 36 MH: 39, TTC since Dec 2017
Aug '18: PCOS dx
Nov '18: MH SA - 19mil
Dec '18-Mar '19: Letrozole + TI - all BFN
Apr '19: Letrozole + TI, - BFN. Repeat SA (27mil) & DNA fragmentation test (17%)
Aug '19: Letrozole + HCG trigger + IUI + prog supp - BFN (MH: 16mil)
Sep '19: 2nd IUI, same protocol - BFN (MH: 16mil)
Dec '19: IVF #1 w/ICSI, PGT. 5 retrieved, 4 fertilized, 3 blasts, 3 PGT-A normal.
Mar '20: FET #1, perfect 5AA blast transferred. BFN.
Sept '20: FET #2, 5BB tsf. 9/18/20 BFP!! EDD: 5/27/21. MMC 11w
Feb ‘21: FET #3, last 6BB blast transferred. BFP, EDD 11/2/21. MC 5w3d.
May '21: IVF #2 w/ICSI, PGT. 8R, 7M, 6F, 6 blasts - 3AB, 3AB, 3BB, 4BB, 5BB, 6BA. Fresh tsf 5/13/21 - BFN.
June '21: PGT-A results = 3 abnormal, 1 low level mosaic. Referred to new REI, had consult with 2nd RE in between.
Sept '21: RPL, immune testing normal
Oct '21: IVF #3 w/IMSI, PGT. 33R, 26M, 23F, 9 blasts (7 day 6, 2 day 7). PGT-A = 5 normal, 1 mosaic
Dec '21: Positive for endometritis, RX Flagyl & Keflex
Jan '22: FET #5 - Kitchen sink immune/RIF protocol incl. PRP, intralipids, prednisone, medrol, nivestym, fragmin - CP
Feb '22: FET #6 - Kitchen sink immune/RIF protocol w/higher doses of pred & fragmin - BFN
Mar '22: Mock cycle for ERA - cancelled, repeat endometrial biopsy instead. Still positive for endometritis. RX ciprofloxacin & amoxicillin.
Apr '22: IVF #4 w/IMSI, PGT. 28R, 23M, 16F, 11 blasts. PGT-A = 6 normal.
June '22: FET #7 - Microdose lupron downreg w/kitchen sink immune/RIF protocol - double embryo transfer. BFN.
July '22: FET #8 - Mini stim w/Puregon + trigger, kitchen sink immune/RIF protocol. BFN.
Sep '22: Taking a break
Dec '22: Attempted abdominal myomectomy, fibroid too close to cervix and major blood vessels. Wasn't removed.
Feb '23: FET #9 - Modified natural w/baby asp, HCG trigger, PIO, PRP, Medrol, HCG wash, embryo glue - BFP!! EDD 11/11/23
https://www.motherhood.com/collections/maternity-nursing-sitewide-sale
- Trying out lots of brands of maternity undies, and really love these. Wish they weren't so spendy per pair. I got one and now I want more.

- Madewell over-belly skinny jeans - I ordered a size up from my regular size and I shouldn't have 'cause these run true to size, but they're super comfy. I'll wear a Bellaband over them until my hips/belly grow into them more. I tried some under-belly ones from Rent the Runway first and didn't like where they sat.
- Spanx Mama Faux Leather leggings - a splurge item for sure, but will be great to have nicer leggings that don't look like yoga pants if we ever go back to the office.
ASOS is hit or miss...not super high-quality and the "model v. reality" pain is real, but for the price it's worth putting in an order and returning anything you don't like. Note that most of their stuff is hang-dry, not dryer safe. Here are ASOS faves:- Ribbed midi-dress - it's about to get real cold here in NYC, and this is so cute and cozy on
- Long-sleeve tiered forest green dress - wanted something cute to wear at home for our first married Thanksgiving
- Black button-side t-shirt - cute roomy shirt, can wear post-baby for nursing
- Lilac oversized mock-neck lightweight sweatshirt - wanted a couple not-black things for work video calls
I'm waiting on a couple more things to come in from a couple other brands and will share those here. Shipping is taking forever for certain places (H&M in particular, but ASOS and Shopbop were pretty fast) - something to consider if you need maternity stuff and for holiday shopping.Blanqi is also having their Black Friday sale right now... I've heard good things.
*TW* have not personally tried them yet but it was on my list pre-MC so I'm going ahead and getting a few "faith" purchases, for next time.
https://www.blanqi.com/#
TTC History:
Me: 36 MH: 39, TTC since Dec 2017
Aug '18: PCOS dx
Nov '18: MH SA - 19mil
Dec '18-Mar '19: Letrozole + TI - all BFN
Apr '19: Letrozole + TI, - BFN. Repeat SA (27mil) & DNA fragmentation test (17%)
Aug '19: Letrozole + HCG trigger + IUI + prog supp - BFN (MH: 16mil)
Sep '19: 2nd IUI, same protocol - BFN (MH: 16mil)
Dec '19: IVF #1 w/ICSI, PGT. 5 retrieved, 4 fertilized, 3 blasts, 3 PGT-A normal.
Mar '20: FET #1, perfect 5AA blast transferred. BFN.
Sept '20: FET #2, 5BB tsf. 9/18/20 BFP!! EDD: 5/27/21. MMC 11w
Feb ‘21: FET #3, last 6BB blast transferred. BFP, EDD 11/2/21. MC 5w3d.
May '21: IVF #2 w/ICSI, PGT. 8R, 7M, 6F, 6 blasts - 3AB, 3AB, 3BB, 4BB, 5BB, 6BA. Fresh tsf 5/13/21 - BFN.
June '21: PGT-A results = 3 abnormal, 1 low level mosaic. Referred to new REI, had consult with 2nd RE in between.
Sept '21: RPL, immune testing normal
Oct '21: IVF #3 w/IMSI, PGT. 33R, 26M, 23F, 9 blasts (7 day 6, 2 day 7). PGT-A = 5 normal, 1 mosaic
Dec '21: Positive for endometritis, RX Flagyl & Keflex
Jan '22: FET #5 - Kitchen sink immune/RIF protocol incl. PRP, intralipids, prednisone, medrol, nivestym, fragmin - CP
Feb '22: FET #6 - Kitchen sink immune/RIF protocol w/higher doses of pred & fragmin - BFN
Mar '22: Mock cycle for ERA - cancelled, repeat endometrial biopsy instead. Still positive for endometritis. RX ciprofloxacin & amoxicillin.
Apr '22: IVF #4 w/IMSI, PGT. 28R, 23M, 16F, 11 blasts. PGT-A = 6 normal.
June '22: FET #7 - Microdose lupron downreg w/kitchen sink immune/RIF protocol - double embryo transfer. BFN.
July '22: FET #8 - Mini stim w/Puregon + trigger, kitchen sink immune/RIF protocol. BFN.
Sep '22: Taking a break
Dec '22: Attempted abdominal myomectomy, fibroid too close to cervix and major blood vessels. Wasn't removed.
Feb '23: FET #9 - Modified natural w/baby asp, HCG trigger, PIO, PRP, Medrol, HCG wash, embryo glue - BFP!! EDD 11/11/23
Basically they are inserts for pregnancy that can be reversed, if sewn well, for babywearing. Ours will be summer babies so we probably don't need to worry about that.
https://dineandtwine.wordpress.com/2014/09/23/baby-belly-maternitybabywearing-jacket-extension-panel/amp/
https://ocah.typepad.com/carriers/2013/11/easy-to-sew-baby-wearing-coat-free-diy-instructions-.html
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07JFCSN5Z/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_EQhOFbEF6CP5S