It seems like several of our regular contributors are ready to move off TB. We will keep this poll open for probably about a week to make sure all our active members see it.
**If you are brand new, please refrain from voting at this time but feel free to start participating regularly.
Me: 27 DH: 27
Married 6/15/13
BFP #1 5/8/16, EDD 12/31/16- DD born 9/10/16 at 24 weeks
~In our hearts forever~
BFP #2 10/14/17, EDD 7/1/18
Facebook Group 29 votes
No, I will never move to Facebook
Too soon (please specify when you feel you will be ready)
Re: Facebook Group
ETA--also I would miss you and hope you feel comfortable enough to join at some point! ❤️
@themoonandme, I’m personally ok with whatever you are comfortable with.
Married 6/15/13
BFP #1 5/8/16, EDD 12/31/16- DD born 9/10/16 at 24 weeks
~In our hearts forever~
BFP #2 10/14/17, EDD 7/1/18
Married 6/15/13
BFP #1 5/8/16, EDD 12/31/16- DD born 9/10/16 at 24 weeks
~In our hearts forever~
BFP #2 10/14/17, EDD 7/1/18
you got added to the Facebook group. Lurkers and drivebys obviously didn’t get love it’s and wouldn’t get added. We did have a few members who became active later and this gave them a chance to be included when everyone felt comfortable.
About the lurkers issue, I'm starting to feel nervous. I do read all the posts almost every day but only comment a couple of days a week (with some exceptions). Being shy and inexperienced extends to my online self...
The voting system sounds quite good to me, that way it's a general decision and gives an option for everyone.
DD - 12/28/17
TTC #2 3/2019
BFP 5/2019 || MC - D&C 5/2019
BFP 2/2020 || EDD 10/10/2020
TTC since: 2/13
Long, anovulatory cycles
Began fertility testing 12/13
Ultrasound and bloodwork: Everything looks good (according to my ob/gyn)
HSG: waiting to schedule
SA: scheduled with RE for 1/6/14
So I guess I'll just vote to move off the bump since that seems to be the popular opinion right now!
@ccstlln1 I thinkthat if we go with a private group it can't have something where you fill out questions with requests to join because you literally can't find the group unless you're invited to it.
But yes, if it's a private group it will not allow anyone who is a group member to see anything more than your public profile and no one outside the group will be able to see that you belong.
Aside from names instead of user names I actually think it is more private than The Bump.
In my last BMB I think there were 5 admins and they allowed people in who had a certain number of posts. It’s been a few years now though so I could be mistaken.
Also, echoing the sentiment of those who were active early and then took a break - I know I've only been active for a couple of months since I found out so late about being pregnant, but I would love to be a part. But I think I've been fairly active since then? But if it does make anyone uncomfortable I understand entirely.