Upcoming appointments: 5/19 for reg appointment,GD test and Monthly blood work
How are you feeling? Like I'm either 80 years old or days away from giving birth XD
Raves/Rants:Rave: I love dressing the baby bump right now! So many options its my favorite accessory XD Rant: I hate feeling so sore all the time and literally everything is so swollen. I popped my hip Saturday and couldn't get up or move around for an hour after.
Questions: Anyone else just done with nurses blowing their veins? I have monthly blood work that'll go up to bi-weekly next month and every time they blow my vein.
GTKY: What did you make / eat over the weekend? I had pizza, french fries and Saturday grilled out with steak and corn also watermelon and for dessert Banana Pudding!
Bumps!!! (If you would like to share. ❤️) This is from 23 weeks
All of those food sounds so yummy right now! @mrswheeler812 can you tell I'm hungry??? LOL sorry they're struggling with your veins, that does not sound like fun. :/
EDD/weeks+days: 24w3d Aug 21
Team Finding Out/Pink/Blue/Green: Green
Baby is the size of a(n): Papaya!
Upcoming appointments: not till next week, a teleconsult for my VBAC
How are you feeling? Not bad! We had a nice warm weekend, and even went for a little family drive. It felt so nice to have a semi-normal Sunday fun day together!
Raves/Rants: Rave: DD's new crib / toddler bed came in last week, but still just waiting for the toddler bed rail from the manufacturer to arrive before we set it up! Hopefully that comes in this week... Rant: I feel like such a dummy / bad mom, but she tumbled pretty badly down the stairs in her favorite rain boots this morning. :s She is alert and we've been reading / playing in her room for the past hour, I gave her a little ibuprofen to help any swelling, but she's not crazy about the frozen peas on her face. I hope she doesn't end up with a big bruise on her cheek for Mother's Day! 😣😣😭😭
Questions: <b>Any tips on continuing to help DD get ready for her baby brother or sister's arrival? </b>We had been reading the big sister book (which I have no idea where that ended up actually, I've been meaning to get another similar one), have her switched into sleeping in her own room now and talking up the big girl bed, and I plan to work with her a bit on her baby book so we can look at pictures together.
GTKY: What did you make / eat over the weekend? Sunday dinner turned out awesome and so easy! I made mozzarella chicken sausages from Costco with frozen broccoli, rotini, onion, garlic, and oil. OMG super-yummy!
@BusinessWife Oh no! Hopefully DD will be okay. If it helps any, DS1 fell off the playground after church the day before school started this past fall so he went to school with a band-aid on his chin. His first day of school pictures have him with a big old band-aid on. I felt like such a bad mom sending him to school looking like he got beat up.
EDD/weeks+days: 25 + 5
Team Finding Out/Pink/Blue/Green: blue
Baby is the size of a(n): baseball glove
Upcoming appointments: not until next week
How are you feeling? sore, DS1 wanted to go running this morning and now I am feeling it. I am also super tired.
Raves/Rants: I stepped on the scale for the first time in a few weeks and about flipped out. I have been eating things I should not be eating (carbs, snacks, cookies, etc) and it totally showed. So far I am up 30lbs this pregnancy where with DS1 I didnt gain anything until the end and it was under 15lbs total. I was significantly heavier my last pregnancy so I didnt need to gain as much weight but I know my doctor still didnt want me to go over 20lbs this time. I would like to try to stay on track the rest of this pregnancy. I did pretty well yesterday and so far today but we will see how the rest of the week goes. I had GD with DS1 and do not want to have it again this time so I am trying to do better with my eating habits.
Questions: none
GTKY: What did you make / eat over the weekend? Saturday we went to IL's house for an immediate family memorial get together to celebrate my MIL who passed away a week ago so we just had fried chicken wings and sides (potato salad, coleslaw, macaroni salad). For lunch Sunday, I made cheeseburgers (I had a major craving for it). Then Sunday night, DH made chicken drumsticks, mac n cheese and greens for dinner.
Bumps!!! (If you would like to share. ❤️) I have yet to take a bump pic, DS1 I never felt like I looked pregnant so I never did it, this time around I'm like, well I didnt do it last time, why do it this time? We will see if I ever do one this pregnancy.
@BusinessWife We have been just constantly including baby in everything that we can. Also the show Daniel Tiger is supposed to be really good it shows him going from an only child to learning about the new baby and learning how to get used to the different dynamic and taking care of the baby. DS is super protective of the bump and doesnt like others to touch it (neither do I but its cuter when he slaps someones hands) Plus as much as we can safely we let him see his younger cousin who is a year younger than him.
@mrswheeler812 thanks for the tips! We may have to check our more Daniel tiger, we've only watched an episode here and there. It's such a drag tho because she has a couple baby second cousins we haven't even seen since Christmas, and if weren't for all this stuff going on, it will be a great way for her to get used to being around a little baby more... :/
@pengy16 I hear you on the weight struggles. My eating had been all over the place! Right now the midwives haven't said they are too concerned, but I didn't really need to gain any weight at all this pregnancy, and it sure feels like there's still kinda a long way to go... :/ I'm hoping as things ease up, we can at least get back closer to our normal grocery shopping a bit. It's especially hard right now.
@BusinessWife How old is your daughter? I think I remember that she is just a few months older than my son and I have not even thought about the transition to the toddler bed yet. I should probably get on that... 😳
She is about 19.5 mos @riatortillaxo for us it made sense because she was only in a minicrib (and tall!) and also bc it is side-carred, it wasn't really safe anymore because she could crawl right through our pillow barricade! lol She was already accustomed to napping on her Montessori style floorbed in her room tho, so it was pretty easy to just give her a bigger floor mattress first, and of course she is busy climbing all over everything at this point, so I think she is ready.
I was surprised to hear from a friend Lucy's list recommends waiting till closer to 3! I had never heard that, but she has really never slept in a four walled crib (except for when she was under a year at daycare) and was easily cot trained in school at a year. They say the floorbed helps them learn physical boundaries sooner, so maybe that has something to do with it? Idk
Baby is the size of a(n): palm is the size of a Starburst
Upcoming appointments: May 12th for a tummy check
How are you feeling? Surprisingly, not bad. I feel large, my pubic bones & back hurts. I have a manageable amount of energy rn.
Raves/Rants: RAVE/RANT - We decided to make the kitchen our next remodeling project. We've ordered a lot of the big items and they should be here within the next 2 weeks. My husband is going to get paint this week to paint our cabinets and convert our bay window into a bench seat. We are going to tear down half of our pantry space and convert into open cabinets. The whole room will really look different and I'm excited. Meanwhile, we have made 0 progress on LOs room This gives me slight panic. I think because I can't just go out and browse things to buy for his room, I just haven't wanted to undertake it yet. Hoping the kitchen is a quick turnaround because I told H the baby room has to be our next priority.
Questions:
GTKY: What did you make / eat over the weekend? We had two socially distanced picnics this weekend. Saturday we went to my ILs farm for their birthday so we packed picnic-y food: grapes, pretzels, cheese sticks, and peanut butter + jelly sandwiches. Sunday we did the same but for my mom's birthday. We had mac and cheese with cut up hot dogs for easy transport haha It was actually pretty tasty!
So glad you found a safe way to enjoy some family time! @kgrgreen I hope for your sake the kitchen is quick, too! :# I would LOVE to be painting our kitchen right now too, but being a rental and probably moving in the next year or so, DH is not into it and would rather spend the paint $$ on the new house, which I get. Feel free to share a reveal when the work is done! :D I love that stuff.
Realistically, how much needs to be done for LOs room?
@mrswheeler812 Props to you for getting dressed, period! (I have been failing miserably in this WFH life.) Bump is adorable.
@BusinessWife Falls are so scary! DS fell off the bathroom counter on my watch a month or so ago, and I felt awful. Glad she's doing well. As far as getting little ones ready, does she have and/or show interest in baby dolls? I hope to buy DS one closer to due date so he can take care of his baby along with me. The other thing on my to-do list is weaning the pacifier. He's almost two so we need to do it anyway, and I need him to forget about it before he sees the baby with one and gets insanely jealous. We tackled the potty training thing (a little older than your daughter) but haven't been brave enough to touch the crib situation; throwing money at the problem and buying another one. Props to you!
@pengy16 Solidarity. I had to get on the scale yesterday for my OB televisit and I'm up 20 lbs (and not yet 24 weeks). Whoops. I'm also showing a lot more a lot sooner this time around, so maybe the weight comes on earlier in the process too? And now it'll slow down? That's probably it, right - not all the break and bake cookies?
@kgrgreen The redone kitchen will be amazing! I've been veto-ing all of DH's home improvement project ideas right now. Our house is just small and with us all home, all the time I can't imagine trying to work around a mini construction zone BUT you're making me jealous. Do you think you'll lose functional use of the kitchen for any period of time or not really?
Team Finding Out/Pink/Blue/Green: Green (I didn't cave at the AS! It's official and I'm excited!)
Upcoming appointments: June 1, in office for glucose test, blood work, etc.
How are you feeling? Really good. Sleeping better after a stretch with lots of extended MOTN wake-ups and feeling good about my exercise routine. It is getting harder to keep up with DS and get up and down off the floor as much as a toddler requires.
Raves/Rants: DH felt the baby for the first time on Sunday (anterior placentas are such a bummer), when baby was hiccuping. As I've ranted about before, he seems kind of checked out of this pregnancy -- partly second child, partly COVID distraction, I'm sure -- and it was nice to see him get choked up a bit.
GTKY: What did you make / eat over the weekend? DH is a total cliche and has been growing a sourdough starter, and this weekend made his first loaves! Looked awful but tasted divine. We also picked up some Vietnamese from our neighborhood spot and it really hit the spot. I hope they make it through this thing.
Upcoming appointments: Tomorrow, 3rd AS screen and glucose test
How are you feeling? Physically I am feeling okay - with some exceptions: restless legs syndrome, insomnia, body soreness. Emotionally is a whole other thing and just an accumulation of things. But it will all work out.
Raves/Rants: I had my first fresh watermelon this year and it was amaaazziinnnng! Yum! I am still bummed out over the shrinking chances that I'll be able to have a little babymoon weekend before things will get serious. And I just miss seeing my friends and family.
GTKY: What did you make / eat over the weekend: I actually don't want to cook over the weekend so I had some delicious pasta from my favorite Italian place. And a lot of different fruits.
Upcoming appointments: GD screen at 27 weeks is the next thing, level 2 US at 28, so nothing until end of May.
How are you feeling? Moody today and constantly feeling full to bursting like I ate a 6 course meal! Starting to have some minor back pain but that could also be from gardening this weekend.
Raves/Rants: My parents are being noncommital and dismissive about getting their vaccines up to date for visits which is frustrating. And our HOA is now telling us we owe last year's dues in addition to this year even though we didn't move until August. Apparently the previous homeowner didn't pay them last year. On a positive note, we got a gorgeous mobile on Etsy and it arrived yesterday!
GTKY: What did you make / eat over the weekend? Our friends went to stay with their parents for a while so we got their Blue Apron box this week - yummy soy glaze chicken and snow peas, and a delicious mediterranean grain bowl. I also made some zucchini bread that is disappearing quickly.
Upcoming appointments: 5/18 for an in person visit and the glucose test. After that I'll be having visits every 2 weeks! Can't believe it has gone so quickly.
How are you feeling? Pretty okay.
Raves/Rants: the nursery paint is almost done! Rant: I'm getting frustrated that the quarantine is impacting my baby plans. I know, FWP, but I just want my glider to get here on time and I want my FIL to be able to help DH get furniture up the stairs and help with a few home projects that we don't know how to do ourselves. Oh and I just really really want to go to Target and buy things in person.
Questions: When should I look for a pediatrician? Other FTMs, how are you handling not getting to meet practices in person?
GTKY: What did you make / eat over the weekend? I made Italian sausage burgers with grilled peppers and onions for dinner. I was pleased when DH said he liked them, because I think we'll be having them a lot now that there's a chicken shortage.
@barbsaj I love zucchini bread - our last grocery pickup they said they were out of zucchini, I couldn’t believe it!! Sending my husband out this week for plants so we can get our own going.
@wednesdaygirl1019 My FIL was supposed to be visiting next month to help do those things as well, but no more. It sucks.
Aug 25, 24+0
Team Blue
Baby is the size of a cantaloupe
24 week appt tomorrow plus glucose test
Feel pretty good/normal.. feel guilty for saying so when I know a lot of you are having a sucky time. Just dealing with insomnia, but not because of any pains or discomfort.
Rave: I’m still so tickled by him squirming around in there even though it’s been a month since I started feeling him. ❤️ I can’t wait for my husband to feel him.
We were dealing with a sick dog all weekend so had leftovers/frozen, but last night we had grilled chicken and veggie kabobs with yellow Mediterranean rice, it was delicious.
Upcoming appointments: Thursday with my OB for monthly and my 2hr GD test (undetermined date)
How are you feeling? Pretty good!
Raves/Rants:Rave: Sunday was such a gorgeous day! I was out sprinkling grass seed. (Our dog is a terror to the lawn. She is short stocky and close to 100lb, she’ll go like a barrel horse in a arena and takes the grass with her lol) Rant: I got sunburnt on my shoulders, chest and ... kneecaps. Yup. I had ripped jeans on and now my knees are burnt. 🤦🏼♀️ just from being outside an hour! 2nd Rant: Failed my 1hr glucose test 😢
Questions: Nothing I can think of!
GTKY: What did you make / eat over the weekend? Saturday I made London broil for dinner. Sunday mh and I roasted a whole chicken on his smoker bbq and had chicken sandwiches And pasta salad (it was hot Sunday) last night I made up some chicken tacos with veggies/salad I had on hand in the fridge along with a lime crema sauce and Mexican rice. So yummy.
@BusinessWife My son is 15 months so he a bit younger than your daughter. That makes me feel better haha. He is a crib. We had him in the pack n play in our room for about a month then moved him to the crib and he's been there ever since. I figure new baby will probably stay in our room longer just to help prevent the middle of the night wake ups from waking our son, so I have some time.
@wednesdaygirl1019 I totally wait until the last minute until I finally called the pediatrician that I wanted. They were so relaxed and said that I could come in for a tour if I wanted but all I had to do was list them as my pediatrician at the hospital when the baby was born and they would have whatever doctor was on call doing rounds come do the baby's initial exam. It was so easy! I picked a pediatrician that several of the OBs at my practice recommended and it is very close to my house. I would start by asking around both friends and medical professionals. Then read the website and call and ask any questions that you have to help make your decision.
EDD/weeks+days: 23+5
Team Finding Out/Pink/Blue/Green: green
Baby is the size of a(n): grapefruit
Upcoming appointments: had my 24 week appt today. Glucose test in 4 weeks!
How are you feeling? So much heartburn and super emotional.
Raves/Rants: Rave- a lovely weekend outside in the sun!
Questions:
GTKY: What did you make / eat over the weekend? Nothing exciting over the weekend but we tried something new in the grill last night. They were foil packets filled with smoked sausage, potatoes, green beans, and spices with olive oil. It turned out perfectly cooked and it was so simple! I want to grill everything in a foil packet now!
@wednesdaygirl1019 I actually got to tour the practice I was interested in bc I went to their open house with a friend who was due a few months before me (she just had her baby, yay!). I felt kind of silly bc I was barely showing at the time but now I'm glad I decided to join her. They made it sound like you could also call and talk to someone on staff about your questions, so maybe like @riatortillaxo suggested, ask people for recommendations and if you feel like talking to them is important maybe they would do a phone call with you to give you an overview of their practice. Good luck!!
@wednesdaygirl1019 We picked a pediatrician office we liked but didnt get a chance to tour before DS1 came. It was always on my list to go check it out but just didnt get a chance to. The key features that we loved were that they had extended hours (open 364 days a year), multiple doctors in the practice, and lactation consultants on staff. The hospital I delivered at (we live in a densely populated area with several hospitals) pediatrician offices were too far away for us so we knew we were going to go with a practice that didnt have privileges at the hospital. The hospital will not let you leave until they know you have a pediatrician visit scheduled and they know where to send the hospital records to. I called the pediatricians office while in the hospital and had an appointment the day after we were home. I will note that you should really be comfortable with and have confidence in the pediatrician you choose because you will see them multiple times during baby's first year.
Oh that's good! @riatortillaxo the longer length of the standard crib is really what forced the issue, and then she literally tumbled out of her pnp (daddy may or may not have been encouraging her when he saw her throwing her leg up🤦). The packaging said on mine not to put them in the toddler bed before 15mos anyway, and even then last night as we were setting it up I was a little nervous. But she climbed in and out of it about a million times (the correct way) and slept fine in there overnight, once we finally got down, so hopefully it will work out!
I'm still getting used to just having this giant new piece of furniture in there, cos really so far it has been the big changing dresser, rocker, and that's about it. Everything else in the room were low cubbies, ottoman, mattress, boppy, and blankets on the floor etc. My big girl is really growing up! 😭😭😭
@BusinessWife Realistically, I could take down the decorations in the nursery we had for DD and be fine. The walls are gray, furniture is white and light teal so it would be functional. It would just totally be a 1st child (over-prepared and beautiful) vs 2nd child (sloppy seconds) situation
@emiliadkay I hope the kitchen transition is smooth and unobtrusive! I doubt it'll disturb us too much, just some missing cabinets for a few days. My FIL is a painting contractor so he can paint them quickly and hopefully have them back up as soon as they're dry. Our kitchen table and chairs came yesterday and I'm getting excited. H and I realized it's the first new table we've ever bought since we've been together (14 years). That was a weird revelation.
@wednesdaygirl1019 We picked a pediatrician based on their reputation and suggestions from other mommy-friends. It was important to me to have a larger practice so I had flexibility and availability if I had an emergency and needed DD looked at immediately.
@charhar0820 I'm so sorry you failed your glucose test. Do you know if the 2 hour test is similar to the 3 hour test? I've never heard of that as an option before. Also, I'm sorry but the sunburn on your kneecaps made me lol I have really fair-skin so I sympathize with you!
Lol @kgrgreen sounds okay to me! DD is still keeping her room and we are not doing a separate nursery. So if anything I am adding more wall decals (ETA that we already have) and setting it up nicer for a bigger girl to use and play in. Baby may get a new portable bassinet in there (to replace the RnP), plus incorporating more of the hot air balloon element into the woodland design that never happened the first time i.e. new mobile. Possibly new decals. 🤷 That's about it! Lol
The room already has neutral rug, gray chair, light teal ottoman, and cool mintish bluish greenish paint, so to me it doesn't make sense to make a whole major change until and unless both kids are bigger sharing the space <i>together</i>, at which point we may not even be in this house anymore. Not worth a major expense or driving yourself crazy imho ;)
@kgrgreen I’m assuming so. For my first test, I wasn’t given any instructions to fast or anything. I just took it upon myself to have a *light* breakfast which was a coffee, banana, and a piece of whole wheat toast. When the nurse called she said the dr felt like the results were a false positive because the levels weren’t bad just slightly over. So to be sure she’s sending me back for a 2hr test with instructions to fast for 12hrs this time. I’ll be seeing my dr tomorrow so I’ll ask more questions, before I go for my 2nd test. I have read there are so many different tests happening for women taking their GT, I think it just depends on your Dr? some don’t even have to take the drink, they’re just doing bloodwork.
My sunburn is at the itchy stage, my knees drive me crazy at night 😂😂
Upcoming appointment on May 28 for GC. They told me to have a protine heavy meal for breakfast and avoid carbs as that may skew my results.
I'm feeling overall okay, a little achy and tired but mostly good.
Rant: I really just wish the world was a safer place. Rave, my best friend is evidently working on matching blankets for our girls and I'm excited for the surprise. She asked to know the chosen name for baby under threat of death if she spilled any beans to the public.
Over the weekend we had homemade pho and rice balls, I could really go for a good cheeseburger right about now though.
Upcoming appointments: 5/8 for a regular follow-up and 5/12 for a fetal echo.
How are you feeling? It's been a rough week. I've felt super anxious and overwhelmed, I've cried almost every day. I had some labs drawn because I haven't been feeling well and I'm anemic, my iron stores are low, so we'll see what my Dr reccomends.
Raves/Rants: Things are slowly getting purchased on my registry. I got this really comfy pair of maternity leggings by motherhood maternity. I've been test driving SUVs because I have a small 2 door hatch with no trunk space, I'm sure the looming large purchase of a vehicle isn't helping my stress levels. I'm pretty happy it's going to be nice summer weather for the first time this year, coming up in a few days.
Questions: it's normal to feel overwhelmed and anxious sometimes right? My husband thinks I'm going crazy. He's doing his best to be supportive. I just hope that it's not something that's around to stay.
GTKY: What did you make / eat over the weekend? I made a strawberry and Nutella sandwich which wasn't too healthy but very tasty. This weekend I'm hoping to make some strawberry rhubarb pie with rhubarb from my garden.
BusinessWife I talk about baby to my daughter all of the time and have her help me get little things ready for him. All she does now is talk about how she is going to share something with baby brother. I'm really excited to see her as a big sister. @strawberryfields82 I am dying for some nice juicy, sweet watermelon to be available where I live. I've been wanting watermelon for several weeks now!
I've learned that I'm not going to worry about my weight gain unless my doctor tells me I'm putting myself and child in harms way. Anything that I gain can be lost with a lot of hard work. Weight gain is not another stressor I care to put on my plate on top of everything else that is going on.
EDD/weeks+days: August 2/ 27+ 3
Team Finding Out/Pink/Blue/Green: Blue
Baby is the size of a(n):
Upcoming appointments: June 9
How are you feeling? pretty ok.
Raves/Rants: Rant: I was emotionally exhausted from my appointment yesterday. It was my first time seeing a doctor in 11 weeks and my anxiety did not handle going into a doctors building well at all. I really wish I could have taken today off, but a day off doesn't exists with a child at home, so I decided to just work and save my leave. I failed the GD test so I will go and do the three hour test on Monday. I can go to home location to do that since they only have the lab and pharmacy open. I was also told I can wait in my car in between the draws as well. Oh and insomnia is a bitch. I was up till 4am the other morning. My alarm clock goes off at 5:55. Rave: The screws for the crib came in yesterday, so I'll set up the crib this Saturday.
Questions: TMI, how many times can a person poop before it comes concerning. I'm on number three and it's only 2pm.
GTKY: What did you make / eat over the weekend?I got a small thing of crabs from a friend that was able to get some. I'm really hoping our man guy will be working this weekend because he's is by far the best.
Bumps!!! (If you would like to share. ❤️). I'll update this later.
Married: August 2012
TTC #1: July 2015
BFP 1: October 30, 2015; EDD: July 6, 2016- Team Pink
I am feeling great I’ve had some aches below my belly from the growth and weight
Raves/Rants: people saying “wow your like really pregnant now” yeah before i was just kidding about being pregnant! Like whaaaat
Questions: any one planning or have used a doula before? Planning on trying to go natural and my hospital offers doula services cheaply. Wondering if it’s worth it
25 weeks it’s a girl EDD 8/16
Baby is the size of Napa cabbage
Rants and raves: compression socks are helping with aches and soreness and swelling. Sleep
Hasn’t been great
We made some amazing steak tacos and ate by the fire pit over the weekend. It was a nice way to break up the monotony.
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@bigbuttbecky We're planning on hiring a doula since I'd also like to minimize interventions and go as natural as possible. I think it'll be worth it even if she's only with us via phone or video. FTM, but I've heard nothing but positive things from parents who had one.
@bigbuttbecky we used one, and she didn't exactly come cheap! But her help was absolutely invaluable, as we labored together for a long time before finally going into the hospital. if you are hospital is offering it affordably, I would definitely look into it! Find out exactly what their services entail, because some of them will include postpartum visits etc. as well.
Upcoming appointments: Early june for GTT, growth scan
How are you feeling? Feeling large but pretty good. Had an appt this week and was measuring 30w already (which is normal for twins) so it makes sense I am really starting to physically struggle. Still have a long ways to go!
Rants/raves: my hospital announced this week a bunch of furlough/lay offs. My department doesn't know exactly how we will be affected until Friday. I am a little nervous. Now would be a pretty bad time to be unemployed. Fingers crossed (hard) that doesn't happen.
GTKY: What did you make / eat over the weekend? Chicken pasta salad (a preggo fav of mine)
@bigbuttbecky I have that dress and have been dying to wear it! Maybe I will have to steal your idea of an at home date night haha. We didn't use a doula for my first....but I considered it this time around until COVID ruined everything. My hospital isn't allowing them for the time being. Ugh.
@bigbuttbecky@maelove I’ve been thinking about having an at home “romantic” dinner with the hubs! You know, I just might have to make that a priority for a monthly thing we do.
@strawberryfields82@blackgirlmagic I just ate about a 1/4 of a full watermelon. Definitely not 100% sweet as I would have preferred but, curbed the craving. For now lol
Appointments: Officially hit the point of every other week visits!
Feeling: fine.
Rave: weather warming up. And I passed the GD test. It wasn't a surprise (I have no risk factors and haven't had it with prior pregnancies), but still, always nice to know. Rant: I'm tired of the library being closed. A few outlying area libraries are open for choosing books remotely and picking them up, but not any of the ones in the largest populated areas, of course. *eyeroll*
GTKY: hmm, trying to remember. We had pizza from an amazing local place. Also, I think I made a Spanish rice dish.
EDD/weeks+days: 26w Team Green Babie is the size of a kale Upcoming appointments: GTT on Monday How are you feeling? Physically fine, mentally not great this week but I've felt
better today. GTKY: DH made oatmeal and rasin cookies
Re: Weekly Check-in & Bumps w/o 5/4
Team Finding Out/Pink/Blue/Green: BLUE
Baby is the size of a(n): Bunny!
Upcoming appointments: 5/19 for reg appointment,GD test and Monthly blood work
How are you feeling? Like I'm either 80 years old or days away from giving birth XD
Raves/Rants:Rave: I love dressing the baby bump right now! So many options its my favorite accessory XD
Rant: I hate feeling so sore all the time and literally everything is so swollen. I popped my hip Saturday and couldn't get up or move around for an hour after.
Questions: Anyone else just done with nurses blowing their veins? I have monthly blood work that'll go up to bi-weekly next month and every time they blow my vein.
GTKY: What did you make / eat over the weekend? I had pizza, french fries and Saturday grilled out with steak and corn also watermelon and for dessert Banana Pudding!
Bumps!!! (If you would like to share. ❤️)
This is from 23 weeks
EDD/weeks+days: 24w3d Aug 21
Team Finding Out/Pink/Blue/Green: Green
Baby is the size of a(n): Papaya!
Upcoming appointments: not till next week, a teleconsult for my VBAC
How are you feeling? Not bad! We had a nice warm weekend, and even went for a little family drive. It felt so nice to have a semi-normal Sunday fun day together!
Raves/Rants: Rave: DD's new crib / toddler bed came in last week, but still just waiting for the toddler bed rail from the manufacturer to arrive before we set it up! Hopefully that comes in this week... Rant: I feel like such a dummy / bad mom, but she tumbled pretty badly down the stairs in her favorite rain boots this morning. :s She is alert and we've been reading / playing in her room for the past hour, I gave her a little ibuprofen to help any swelling, but she's not crazy about the frozen peas on her face. I hope she doesn't end up with a big bruise on her cheek for Mother's Day! 😣😣😭😭
Questions: <b>Any tips on continuing to help DD get ready for her baby brother or sister's arrival? </b>We had been reading the big sister book (which I have no idea where that ended up actually, I've been meaning to get another similar one), have her switched into sleeping in her own room now and talking up the big girl bed, and I plan to work with her a bit on her baby book so we can look at pictures together.
GTKY: What did you make / eat over the weekend? Sunday dinner turned out awesome and so easy! I made mozzarella chicken sausages from Costco with frozen broccoli, rotini, onion, garlic, and oil. OMG super-yummy!
EDD/weeks+days: 25 + 5
Team Finding Out/Pink/Blue/Green: blue
Baby is the size of a(n): baseball glove
Upcoming appointments: not until next week
How are you feeling? sore, DS1 wanted to go running this morning and now I am feeling it. I am also super tired.
Raves/Rants: I stepped on the scale for the first time in a few weeks and about flipped out. I have been eating things I should not be eating (carbs, snacks, cookies, etc) and it totally showed. So far I am up 30lbs this pregnancy where with DS1 I didnt gain anything until the end and it was under 15lbs total. I was significantly heavier my last pregnancy so I didnt need to gain as much weight but I know my doctor still didnt want me to go over 20lbs this time. I would like to try to stay on track the rest of this pregnancy. I did pretty well yesterday and so far today but we will see how the rest of the week goes. I had GD with DS1 and do not want to have it again this time so I am trying to do better with my eating habits.
Questions: none
GTKY: What did you make / eat over the weekend? Saturday we went to IL's house for an immediate family memorial get together to celebrate my MIL who passed away a week ago so we just had fried chicken wings and sides (potato salad, coleslaw, macaroni salad). For lunch Sunday, I made cheeseburgers (I had a major craving for it). Then Sunday night, DH made chicken drumsticks, mac n cheese and greens for dinner.
Bumps!!! (If you would like to share. ❤️)
I have yet to take a bump pic, DS1 I never felt like I looked pregnant so I never did it, this time around I'm like, well I didnt do it last time, why do it this time? We will see if I ever do one this pregnancy.
I was surprised to hear from a friend Lucy's list recommends waiting till closer to 3! I had never heard that, but she has really never slept in a four walled crib (except for when she was under a year at daycare) and was easily cot trained in school at a year. They say the floorbed helps them learn physical boundaries sooner, so maybe that has something to do with it? Idk
Where / how is your son currently sleeping?
Team Finding Out/Pink/Blue/Green: Blue
Baby is the size of a(n): palm is the size of a Starburst
Upcoming appointments: May 12th for a tummy check
How are you feeling? Surprisingly, not bad. I feel large, my pubic bones & back hurts. I have a manageable amount of energy rn.
Raves/Rants: RAVE/RANT - We decided to make the kitchen our next remodeling project. We've ordered a lot of the big items and they should be here within the next 2 weeks. My husband is going to get paint this week to paint our cabinets and convert our bay window into a bench seat. We are going to tear down half of our pantry space and convert into open cabinets. The whole room will really look different and I'm excited. Meanwhile, we have made 0 progress on LOs room
Questions:
GTKY: What did you make / eat over the weekend? We had two socially distanced picnics this weekend. Saturday we went to my ILs farm for their birthday so we packed picnic-y food: grapes, pretzels, cheese sticks, and peanut butter + jelly sandwiches. Sunday we did the same but for my mom's birthday. We had mac and cheese with cut up hot dogs for easy transport haha It was actually pretty tasty!
Realistically, how much needs to be done for LOs room?
Team Finding Out/Pink/Blue/Green: Blue
Baby is the size of a(n): Cauliflower
Upcoming appointments: May 19th
How are you feeling? Meh. My back is killing me and I'm nor sleeping well.
Raves/Rants:
Questions:
GTKY: What did you make / eat over the weekend? I made homemade cheese dip and it was awesome. I may make some more today cause I'm craving it again.
@BusinessWife Falls are so scary! DS fell off the bathroom counter on my watch a month or so ago, and I felt awful. Glad she's doing well. As far as getting little ones ready, does she have and/or show interest in baby dolls? I hope to buy DS one closer to due date so he can take care of his baby along with me. The other thing on my to-do list is weaning the pacifier. He's almost two so we need to do it anyway, and I need him to forget about it before he sees the baby with one and gets insanely jealous. We tackled the potty training thing (a little older than your daughter) but haven't been brave enough to touch the crib situation; throwing money at the problem and buying another one. Props to you!
@pengy16 Solidarity. I had to get on the scale yesterday for my OB televisit and I'm up 20 lbs (and not yet 24 weeks). Whoops. I'm also showing a lot more a lot sooner this time around, so maybe the weight comes on earlier in the process too? And now it'll slow down? That's probably it, right - not all the break and bake cookies?
@kgrgreen The redone kitchen will be amazing! I've been veto-ing all of DH's home improvement project ideas right now. Our house is just small and with us all home, all the time I can't imagine trying to work around a mini construction zone BUT you're making me jealous. Do you think you'll lose functional use of the kitchen for any period of time or not really?
Team Finding Out/Pink/Blue/Green: Green (I didn't cave at the AS! It's official and I'm excited!)
Upcoming appointments: June 1, in office for glucose test, blood work, etc.
How are you feeling? Really good. Sleeping better after a stretch with lots of extended MOTN wake-ups and feeling good about my exercise routine. It is getting harder to keep up with DS and get up and down off the floor as much as a toddler requires.
Raves/Rants: DH felt the baby for the first time on Sunday (anterior placentas are such a bummer), when baby was hiccuping. As I've ranted about before, he seems kind of checked out of this pregnancy -- partly second child, partly COVID distraction, I'm sure -- and it was nice to see him get choked up a bit.
GTKY: What did you make / eat over the weekend? DH is a total cliche and has been growing a sourdough starter, and this weekend made his first loaves! Looked awful but tasted divine. We also picked up some Vietnamese from our neighborhood spot and it really hit the spot. I hope they make it through this thing.
Team Finding Out/Pink/Blue/Green: Pink
Baby is the size of a(n): ear of corn
Upcoming appointments: GD screen at 27 weeks is the next thing, level 2 US at 28, so nothing until end of May.
How are you feeling? Moody today and constantly feeling full to bursting like I ate a 6 course meal! Starting to have some minor back pain but that could also be from gardening this weekend.
Raves/Rants: My parents are being noncommital and dismissive about getting their vaccines up to date for visits which is frustrating. And our HOA is now telling us we owe last year's dues in addition to this year even though we didn't move until August. Apparently the previous homeowner didn't pay them last year.
On a positive note, we got a gorgeous mobile on Etsy and it arrived yesterday!
GTKY: What did you make / eat over the weekend? Our friends went to stay with their parents for a while so we got their Blue Apron box this week - yummy soy glaze chicken and snow peas, and a delicious mediterranean grain bowl. I also made some zucchini bread that is disappearing quickly.
Team Finding Out/Pink/Blue/Green: blue 💙
Baby is the size of a(n): kale
Upcoming appointments: 5/18 for an in person visit and the glucose test. After that I'll be having visits every 2 weeks! Can't believe it has gone so quickly.
How are you feeling? Pretty okay.
Raves/Rants: the nursery paint is almost done! Rant: I'm getting frustrated that the quarantine is impacting my baby plans. I know, FWP, but I just want my glider to get here on time and I want my FIL to be able to help DH get furniture up the stairs and help with a few home projects that we don't know how to do ourselves. Oh and I just really really want to go to Target and buy things in person.
Questions: When should I look for a pediatrician? Other FTMs, how are you handling not getting to meet practices in person?
GTKY: What did you make / eat over the weekend? I made Italian sausage burgers with grilled peppers and onions for dinner. I was pleased when DH said he liked them, because I think we'll be having them a lot now that there's a chicken shortage.
@wednesdaygirl1019 My FIL was supposed to be visiting next month to help do those things as well, but no more. It sucks.
Aug 25, 24+0
Team Blue
Baby is the size of a cantaloupe
24 week appt tomorrow plus glucose test
Feel pretty good/normal.. feel guilty for saying so when I know a lot of you are having a sucky time. Just dealing with insomnia, but not because of any pains or discomfort.
Rave: I’m still so tickled by him squirming around in there even though it’s been a month since I started feeling him. ❤️ I can’t wait for my husband to feel him.
We were dealing with a sick dog all weekend so had leftovers/frozen, but last night we had grilled chicken and veggie kabobs with yellow Mediterranean rice, it was delicious.
baby is the size of a cauliflower
Upcoming appointment 5/21
Im feeling great and excited 😊
no raves and rants 🙌🏽
I ate lots of watermelon 🍉 over the weekend I love watermelon 🍉 lol
EDD/weeks+days: 8.3 - 27w1d
Team Finding Out/Pink/Blue/Green: Green
Baby is the size of a(n): as big as lettuce 🥬
Upcoming appointments: Thursday with my OB for monthly and my 2hr GD test (undetermined date)
How are you feeling? Pretty good!
Raves/Rants: Rave: Sunday was such a gorgeous day! I was out sprinkling grass seed. (Our dog is a terror to the lawn. She is short stocky and close to 100lb, she’ll go like a barrel horse in a arena and takes the grass with her lol) Rant: I got sunburnt on my shoulders, chest and ... kneecaps. Yup. I had ripped jeans on and now my knees are burnt. 🤦🏼♀️ just from being outside an hour! 2nd Rant: Failed my 1hr glucose test 😢
Questions: Nothing I can think of!
GTKY: What did you make / eat over the weekend? Saturday I made London broil for dinner. Sunday mh and I roasted a whole chicken on his smoker bbq and had chicken sandwiches And pasta salad (it was hot Sunday) last night I made up some chicken tacos with veggies/salad I had on hand in the fridge along with a lime crema sauce and Mexican rice. So yummy.
@wednesdaygirl1019 I totally wait until the last minute until I finally called the pediatrician that I wanted. They were so relaxed and said that I could come in for a tour if I wanted but all I had to do was list them as my pediatrician at the hospital when the baby was born and they would have whatever doctor was on call doing rounds come do the baby's initial exam. It was so easy! I picked a pediatrician that several of the OBs at my practice recommended and it is very close to my house. I would start by asking around both friends and medical professionals. Then read the website and call and ask any questions that you have to help make your decision.
EDD/weeks+days: 23+5
Team Finding Out/Pink/Blue/Green: green
Baby is the size of a(n): grapefruit
Upcoming appointments: had my 24 week appt today. Glucose test in 4 weeks!
How are you feeling? So much heartburn and super emotional.
Raves/Rants: Rave- a lovely weekend outside in the sun!
Questions:
GTKY: What did you make / eat over the weekend?
Nothing exciting over the weekend but we tried something new in the grill last night. They were foil packets filled with smoked sausage, potatoes, green beans, and spices with olive oil. It turned out perfectly cooked and it was so simple! I want to grill everything in a foil packet now!
I'm still getting used to just having this giant new piece of furniture in there, cos really so far it has been the big changing dresser, rocker, and that's about it. Everything else in the room were low cubbies, ottoman, mattress, boppy, and blankets on the floor etc. My big girl is really growing up! 😭😭😭
@emiliadkay I hope the kitchen transition is smooth and unobtrusive! I doubt it'll disturb us too much, just some missing cabinets for a few days. My FIL is a painting contractor so he can paint them quickly and hopefully have them back up as soon as they're dry. Our kitchen table and chairs came yesterday and I'm getting excited. H and I realized it's the first new table we've ever bought since we've been together (14 years). That was a weird revelation.
@wednesdaygirl1019 We picked a pediatrician based on their reputation and suggestions from other mommy-friends. It was important to me to have a larger practice so I had flexibility and availability if I had an emergency and needed DD looked at immediately.
@charhar0820 I'm so sorry you failed your glucose test. Do you know if the 2 hour test is similar to the 3 hour test? I've never heard of that as an option before. Also, I'm sorry but the sunburn on your kneecaps made me lol I have really fair-skin so I sympathize with you!
The room already has neutral rug, gray chair, light teal ottoman, and cool mintish bluish greenish paint, so to me it doesn't make sense to make a whole major change until and unless both kids are bigger sharing the space <i>together</i>, at which point we may not even be in this house anymore. Not worth a major expense or driving yourself crazy imho ;)
We're team girl power!
Baby is the size of a head of cauliflower.
Upcoming appointment on May 28 for GC. They told me to have a protine heavy meal for breakfast and avoid carbs as that may skew my results.
I'm feeling overall okay, a little achy and tired but mostly good.
Rant: I really just wish the world was a safer place. Rave, my best friend is evidently working on matching blankets for our girls and I'm excited for the surprise. She asked to know the chosen name for baby under threat of death if she spilled any beans to the public.
Over the weekend we had homemade pho and rice balls, I could really go for a good cheeseburger right about now though.
BUMP:
Team Finding Out/Pink/Blue/Green: Blue
Baby is the size of a(n): Grapefruit
Upcoming appointments: 5/8 for a regular follow-up and 5/12 for a fetal echo.
How are you feeling? It's been a rough week. I've felt super anxious and overwhelmed, I've cried almost every day. I had some labs drawn because I haven't been feeling well and I'm anemic, my iron stores are low, so we'll see what my Dr reccomends.
Raves/Rants: Things are slowly getting purchased on my registry. I got this really comfy pair of maternity leggings by motherhood maternity. I've been test driving SUVs because I have a small 2 door hatch with no trunk space, I'm sure the looming large purchase of a vehicle isn't helping my stress levels. I'm pretty happy it's going to be nice summer weather for the first time this year, coming up in a few days.
Questions: it's normal to feel overwhelmed and anxious sometimes right? My husband thinks I'm going crazy. He's doing his best to be supportive. I just hope that it's not something that's around to stay.
GTKY: What did you make / eat over the weekend? I made a strawberry and Nutella sandwich which wasn't too healthy but very tasty. This weekend I'm hoping to make some strawberry rhubarb pie with rhubarb from my garden.
@strawberryfields82 I am dying for some nice juicy, sweet watermelon to be available where I live. I've been wanting watermelon for several weeks now!
I've learned that I'm not going to worry about my weight gain unless my doctor tells me I'm putting myself and child in harms way. Anything that I gain can be lost with a lot of hard work. Weight gain is not another stressor I care to put on my plate on top of everything else that is going on.
EDD/weeks+days: August 2/ 27+ 3
Team Finding Out/Pink/Blue/Green: Blue
Baby is the size of a(n):
Upcoming appointments: June 9
How are you feeling? pretty ok.
Raves/Rants: Rant: I was emotionally exhausted from my appointment yesterday. It was my first time seeing a doctor in 11 weeks and my anxiety did not handle going into a doctors building well at all. I really wish I could have taken today off, but a day off doesn't exists with a child at home, so I decided to just work and save my leave. I failed the GD test so I will go and do the three hour test on Monday. I can go to home location to do that since they only have the lab and pharmacy open. I was also told I can wait in my car in between the draws as well. Oh and insomnia is a bitch. I was up till 4am the other morning. My alarm clock goes off at 5:55.
Rave: The screws for the crib came in yesterday, so I'll set up the crib this Saturday.
Questions: TMI, how many times can a person poop before it comes concerning. I'm on number three and it's only 2pm.
GTKY: What did you make / eat over the weekend?I got a small thing of crabs from a friend that was able to get some. I'm really hoping our man guy will be working this weekend because he's is by far the best.
Bumps!!! (If you would like to share. ❤️).
I'll update this later.
:team green
Baby is the size of kale
Upcoming appointments - glucose testing this week
I am feeling great I’ve had some aches below my belly from the growth and weight
Raves/Rants: people saying “wow your like really pregnant now” yeah before i was just kidding about being pregnant! Like whaaaat
Questions: any one planning or have used a doula before? Planning on trying to go natural and my hospital offers doula services cheaply. Wondering if it’s worth it
GTKY: Always make home pizza!!
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Team Finding Pink and Blue
Babies are the size of cantaloupes
Upcoming appointments: Early june for GTT, growth scan
How are you feeling? Feeling large but pretty good. Had an appt this week and was measuring 30w already (which is normal for twins) so it makes sense I am really starting to physically struggle. Still have a long ways to go!
Rants/raves: my hospital announced this week a bunch of furlough/lay offs. My department doesn't know exactly how we will be affected until Friday. I am a little nervous. Now would be a pretty bad time to be unemployed. Fingers crossed (hard) that doesn't happen.
GTKY: What did you make / eat over the weekend? Chicken pasta salad (a preggo fav of mine)
@bigbuttbecky I have that dress and have been dying to wear it! Maybe I will have to steal your idea of an at home date night haha. We didn't use a doula for my first....but I considered it this time around until COVID ruined everything. My hospital isn't allowing them for the time being. Ugh.
Appointments: Officially hit the point of every other week visits!
Feeling: fine.
Rave: weather warming up. And I passed the GD test. It wasn't a surprise (I have no risk factors and haven't had it with prior pregnancies), but still, always nice to know. Rant: I'm tired of the library being closed. A few outlying area libraries are open for choosing books remotely and picking them up, but not any of the ones in the largest populated areas, of course. *eyeroll*
GTKY: hmm, trying to remember. We had pizza from an amazing local place. Also, I think I made a Spanish rice dish.
Team Green
Babie is the size of a kale
Upcoming appointments: GTT on Monday
How are you feeling? Physically fine, mentally not great this week but I've felt better today.
GTKY: DH made oatmeal and rasin cookies