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Weekly Randoms w/o 3/9/20

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Re: Weekly Randoms w/o 3/9/20

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  • So we are supposed to be flying from DC to Louisiana on Tuesday next week and coming back on Saturday.  My mom is all of a sudden worried about us doing this because of Coronavirus.  I feel like in general everyone is overreacting but obviously don't want to harm my unborn baby.  There are like 3 cases in VA and 0 in LA.  Would you still go?  I haven't seen my 84 year old Grandma in like a year a half and she won't travel here anymore so I'm going to be inconsolable if I have to cancel this trip. 
  • @modoodles I love that desk! H is in the middle of building himself a desk (in the middle I mean started three weeks ago and stopped early and it’s sitting in my garage making us park in the driveway) I may have to show him this pic because it’s cute and more simple lol
  • @JessDG what @footdrbritt said. I'm traveling for work this week and just got back from Vegas. I feel okay about travelling still. 

    @footdrbritt boo for hearing loss, but yay for fun rose gold ones!
  • @JessDG I am flying from the west coast to Kentucky on Sunday then back home Thursday. I’m not too concerned. Will be using lots of hand sanitizer and washing hands when I can. And bring some disinfecting wipes for my seat, buckle, tray. 
    They aren’t really finding severe cases in pregnant women. (There’s more to why this may be but this is the gist, and most important part) 

  • @JessDG I would still go. Take along clorox wipes for the airplane, and wash your hands a lot, but i think it would be fine. 

    @nursejenn5 I was wanting something small and simple since I am giving up our office for a nursery and my desk in the office was huge and just collected a bunch of junk. My DH is a huuuge procrastinator, but I was snippy a few weeks back and said something about it and I am amazed at everything he has done since then 🙈

    @footdrbritt yay for rose gold and someone to write you a note to use them in uniform! 

  • @modoodles just seeing the pic of the desk. I loooove it! I'm wanting to put one in the big closet of our guest room (to use to hold my Cricut and other craft stuff) but haven't found just the right desk. I love this idea! I might have to have DH build me something similar.
    Did your H have plans or draw them up himself?
  • @blaf322 I honestly just sent him this screenshot from pinterest and he whipped it up! I don't think he ever actually made up plans for it! He can build pretty easily, so that comes in handy! 
  • @modoodles I think DH could build that without plans... but now he's asking if I'd rather have something with storage.... which is a really good idea (and totally something I should have thought about... so, back to the drawing board, I guess!
  • @modoodles that desk looks so great! I’m jealous! My DH, despite having a father in the carpenters union, can’t build a damn thing. 

    @JessDG I agree with everyone else. I would still go, just be extra on your hygiene! 
  • @blaf322 Container store has some good options with storage for crafting.
  • Thanks ladies!  I generally feel unconcerned but everyone around me freaking out is definitely not helping my anxiety!  

    @footdrbritt
    They certainly make hearing aids much nicer these days!  
  • @modoodles love the desk 😍 and yay for someone coming to clean!! 

    What a week/weekend! We put an offer in on a house then had ours appraised and started the decluttering process. It’s been crazy the amount of stuff we’ve just had sitting downstairs 🙈 this week we have carpet estimates and cleaning, putting away things in our storage room and pictures on Thursday. Unfortunately, we were outbid on the house we wanted but we also just didn’t want to pay more so I’m ok with it going to someone else if they offered more but also sad. Hoping to find something else soon. We are planning to have the pictures on our house done and ready whenever we do find something. The market is crazy here though and there are lots of bidding wars and sometimes a house goes up and is already sold within hours...so I’m just hoping we find something and I don’t end up just having to unpack back into our own home! 
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  • @modoodles love that desk!

    @footdrbritt rose gold hearing aids sound sort of amazing! You'll have to share a pic when you get them!

    @hbird0723 that sounds like how the market was here when we bought our house. It makes it extra stressful, but it will be good for you selling your house! Good luck!
  • @stlbuckeye132 they look just like ear buds so I’m excited they won’t be super obvious AND they’re Bluetooth enabled 
  • We finished Love Is Blind last night so, of course, I want to comment on some things (see spoiler)

    - Our jaws were on the ground when Damian said "I don't." I get it, but I didn't see it coming, at. all.

    - Mark is the only one who didn't see it coming with him and Jessica (aka Messica :D )

    - Poor Carlton at the reunion! My heart just broke for him, in general. Bless his heart... he's just so scared of people judging and rejecting him. Best of luck to him with the whole Diamond friend proposal... I doubt she'll actually put forth effort towards a friendship and there's a zero percent chance she's willing to date him again.

    - I almost died of embarrassment for Diamond when the ring almost wouldn't go on! She's put on some lbs (totally understandable since it sounds like she's been going through a lot with the keyboard warriors... plus, who doesn't have times like that). Anyway, if that ring hadn't fit, I'd have died right there.

    - I can't believe Barnett said "I do." Enjoy floating your lazy wife for the rest of your life. Seriously... she's lazy. And her statement to Barnett about 1- going over budget and then 2- I don't want to ask my mom for help with the wedding, I want us (read: you) to take care of it.... the audacity when she's bringing NOTHING to the table, financially. She is too much lol.

    -Jessica ate so much crow during the reunion. She needed to lol... I'm not sure I'd be able to show up if I were her. How. freakin. embarrassing was her behavior?! I can't imagine watching myself like that. 

    -last but not least, pre-reunion.... Messica's face when Barnett told her he thought she still had a thing for him after the bday party :D Okay girl... you're not fooling anyone lol


  • @blaf322 I've been DYING to talk about this here. To the spoiler I go.

    -love that you call her Messica. She is a mess!!! She must be SO embarrassed after the show aired. She seems like she has serious self esteem issues, potentially a drinking problem....and doesn't treat people (Mark, or her dog for that matter - the wine!!) Well, which doesn't fly with me at all. You DID have a thing for Barnett after the pods, admit it and move on. 

    -i loved Amber confronting Jessica at the reunion. I think it was deserved. Jessica did as well as she could have with it

    -Amber and the money!! And she came in with blonde hair which is EXPENSIVE to do. As is moving, which they did. I wonder if they have a prenup....

    -Lauren & Cam forever ❤️

    -honestly I was kind of proud of Damian for saying I don't. G didn't treat him well. Cool to see they're back together though. Seems like things are better

    -Kelly and Kenny with the last-minute self destruct!!! Religious reasons aside, I'd say most people these days are intimate before marriage and physical connection is a big deal in  relationship. They seemed so solid but that last ep or two it was like "wait....no"


  • blaf322blaf322 member
    edited March 2020
    @mehugg ETA- yay! I kept checking back like, is anyone going to talk about this with me?! :D Totally impatient haha
    - omg! I can't believe I forgot about the dog and wine! We definitely rewound for that. I almost died when she whispers "he likes wine." :D Whaaaat is wrong with you?!

    - agreed re: the Amber/Jessica confrontation. Jessica handled it as well as anyone could have. I don't blame Amber for not being ready to forgive her. That said, Amber is trashy AF so I'm also not surprised she wasn't able to grow up and just let it go b/c it's just not that big of a deal (since it's not like Jessica is anywhere near them/able to impact her life now).

    - Lauren and Cam are obviously my fave. They're going to make the cutest little babies if they get that far.

    -Same re: Damian. Everything he said was super valid. I feel like G reminds me of a college party girl. Where you walk into her apartment and it's a complete disaster and she's just all over the place because she's still young... but she'll probably grow up to be just fine down the road. It feels like she's open to feedback and willing to work on herself, so I hope they work out! Also, FWIW, I think Damian would have rather told her in private but was forced to do things the way he did b/c of the show.... and I think it crushed him to hurt her like that.

    - I think it's interesting that Kelly used her difficulty/inability to O as a reason they shouldn't have sex in one of the final episodes. Now that she said "I don't" it's obvious that was just a reason to push him off. I was hoping they'd work. Oh well! He sounds happy!
  • @blaf322 @mehugg ahhh i havent finished it yet, so im not gonna look at your spoilers, but when i do finish it, i will def talk about it with yall! haha
    married to DH on March 15, 2018 <3 TTC since May 2018
    dx: PCOS, hypothroidism <3 tx: timed intercourse with meds (dexa, clomid, letrozole, metformin, trigger shots)
    First TTGP: 5/9/19 BFN, 6/21/19 BFN, 7/29/19 BFN, 8/1/19 started a break from tx, 11/16/19 surprised with a BFP! LO born 7/7/20
    Second TTGP: started meds for first cycle of tx on 10/13/21


  • Love is Blind! Best trash ever! @blaf322 @mehugg

    I get G was a mess but also Damian did her wrong and I think is reasoning was weak.


    I really wanted a messy love triangle between Mark/Jessica/Barnett and am still a little sad it never happened.


    Also team #Lauren&Cam4Ever


    I actually didn't feel so bad for Carlton and felt in some ways worse for Diamond/glad she's in a good place. Carlton seems very presentational and also I get her mistrust given that he wasn't upfront with her about his sexuality. I wonder if they would have worked it out had he been honest, not an easy ask of course but still.


    I feel bad for Jessica. Girl clearly has issues and was also edited to be the villain I think even though she generally did a lot of questionable things.

  • blaf322blaf322 member
    edited March 2020
    @pocketrose
    - oh, I disagree re: Damian. She was all over the place. It sucks that he did it at the altar, but I bet they risk lawsuit or loss of payment (if they get paid?) if they disclose that they'll say no to the other person before they're at the altar.

    - I held on to the hope of a messy love triangle right up until Barnett said I do :D You know the producers wanted it to happen to and they TOTALLY tried to set Jessica up to make it happen. I wonder if they helped her in the drink department too.... b/c she was alllways wasted.

    - Re: Carlton... he definitely did this to himself. He is absolutely responsible for the outcome. That said, it doesn't mean he's not struggling, internally, with everything and that's why my heart goes out to him. I can't imagine feeling so scared of judgement from others that you act like that. I hope he learns from the experience and finds acceptance within his circle and a lot more confidence in himself.

    -ETA: I don't think editing to show the ugly side of Jessica was difficult. When it's all said and done, she behaved how she behaved and I don't think a ton of it was taken out of context. Like, Barnett wasn't telling her he still isn't sure about Amber and then they edited that out so that all you saw was her all over him. Quite the opposite.
  • It’s 4:20 and wide awake. I woke up at 3 and was totally going to sneak into the living room to watch love is blind but DD1 was in my bed and woke up with me. We’ve both been awake since despite trying to fall back asleep, so I gave up and she’s playing while I watch love is blind 
  • busymom247busymom247 member
    edited March 2020
    Really annoyed I have to wake my almost 3 year old up!

    Sleeping in is nice but today he has second day of eval and regardless he has morning school Mon-Thursday.

    He will be back to his regular waking in no time....
  • @NinnyJean I remember the early morning wake ups last pregnancy plus this daylight savings is never fun! Hope you guys get to sleep early tonight!

    @busymom247 daylight savings is so hard for the kids! Mine have been sleeping in as well but really they’re just sleeping to their normal time before daylight savings and I feel like it takes forever to get back on track! We have been forgetting and having late dinners and bedtimes. I also feel like they always seem to sleep in on days you have to be some where. Never fails lol 

    Another busy day here of packing and cleaning. DH finally went through some of his clothes last night and our closet looks so much nicer! I’ve been asking him for years to go through the piles of clothes in laundry baskets and the closet. Should have moved a long time ago lol I told him if he hasn’t seen it in over a year he needs to just donate it! I’m also seeing how awesome minimalist lifestyle is because keeping the rooms I’ve gone through picked up has been so much easier since going through everything and packing some things away. I’m thinking I’ll be donating even more things when we move. If we didn’t need it for a month then maybe we don’t need it. 
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  • +1 for a bad sleep night! I was in bed at 9:45pm and didn't fall asleep until close to 1:00am. I've been trying to limit my caffeine (I completely cut it out while pregnant with DD), but I'm going to have a big ol' mug of coffee this morning.

    @modoodles that decluttering challenge sounds awesome! Maybe I should do it too.

    @meanjellybean you have a 2 yr old and you're pregnant. If anyone's judging you on the state of your house right now, they can just back right up. Also I'm sure those movers have seen worse!
  • @meanjellybean I'm sure they've seen worse. For a year after high school my husband delivered furniture and appliances in Milwaukee and he said some of those places were so gross he'd walk back out and puke. I'd say as long as that didnt happen then you're good! 
  • @hbird0723 moving is great for getting rid of stuff! The last time I moved I had a box in my closet labeled "modoodles school office". I had not worked at that district for 3 years at that point. I never even opened the box before tossing it because CLEARLY I didn't need it. 
  • @modoodles That decluttering challenge sounds great, I should try and get H on board.

    I'm still rocking a non corona head cold (sidebar, every time I hear the word corona I vaguely want a cold beer and warm weather) and am working from home today which means I'll likely be bored out of my skull but beats dirty looks on the train and in the coworking space.

    I think I'm going to try to cut my tylenol pm dose this evening and take half a tablet, I've taken 1 before bed for the past 3 nights and even though I know it's fine to take but I want to try and wean off given the outside chance of asthma, ADHD and autism in children. Well aware this is a ridiculous abundance of caution but also it's not like it's making my cold much better, it's just making it so I can sleep through it. Am I crazy? Should I just keep taking a normal dose? Also debating calling my OBGYN but I don't have a fever so it doesn't seem worth it.
     
  • +1 on the bad sleep train! I'm seriously draaagging today. Is this what I'm going to feel like when I come back from mat leave?? Yikes. 
  • @b_1029 ew... eff her. She can take her judgement and shove it. 

    @footdrbritt yessss to the dislike for smoking. I just don't get it and never have (I've never smoked a cigarette). DH used to smoke cigarettes and now uses a vape thing (not one of the big ones that blows a big plume of vapor... one that's a bit more discreet) and I still really hate it b/c who TF knows what's going to happen to these people vaping, years down the road. But, in Vegas, one of our friends bought a pack of cigarettes and I was soooo annoyed that DH was smoking those periodically too. Like, why are you being so stupid?! He won't change his habits until something happens to him. ::eye roll::

    @mehugg probably lol... just kidding. DD was down to one wake a night by the time I went back to work... which, when you go from several in the beginning to 1, it's like nothing and super easy lol.
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