Let’s talk about what happens after the baby comes out. Whether it’s moments after the baby is born or days or months our bodies go through a lot of changes! So much of the focus is on the new baby but let’s not forget that we need to give ourselves some attention too! So let’s talk about it, all of it, the good, the bad, and the UGLY!
FTMs do you have any questions?
STMs+ what was your experience? Did anything surprise you?
Me: 33 | DH: 34
Married: October, 19, 2015
EDD 2/22/17
DS1 born on 3/2/17
EDD 3/8/20
DS2 born on 3/10/20
EDD 11/24/23
(Formerly Marriedhamstermom Feb ‘17)
Re: The Great Postpartum Thread
DS2 10/2017
DS3 due 03/2020
Can anyone tell me, what are those things you wear after delivery to keep your belly and all that stuff tight and intact in there versus letting it all hang? I need to get those and I think there’s a different kind for vaginal delivery and c-section delivery.
1. Your contractions don’t stop after you’ve delivered your baby. They continue for the placenta then will keep happening occasionally (especially while breastfeeding) bc it’s your uterus shrinking back into its normal size. The nurses will come push on your belly every few hours to help with this and it’s not exactly pleasant. I’ve heard the pain is worse for each future child
2. you will look like 7 months pregnant leaving the hospital, I didn’t expect to look pre pregnant but I was shocked at how big I still was
4. I got really bad back pain bc my core was so weakened. PT was amazing for this!
6. when your milk starts to come in it might look yellowish if you are pumping. You are not producing spoiled milk it just still has colostrum in it.
7. look up padsicles on Pinterest and make some ahead of time! They feel amazing!
8. Personally I felt extra protective of DS and didn’t like other people (Besides DH) holding him. (I think I had some PPA that attributed to this) It’s ok to say no, no one has the right to hold your baby if you don’t want them to. If you aren’t comfortable with other people holding them wear them! It also helps keep them from trying to kiss and pinch your baby bc their head is right at your boobs so if they try it becomes super awkward for them!
Married: October, 19, 2015
EDD 2/22/17 DS1 born on 3/2/17
EDD 3/8/20 DS2 born on 3/10/20
EDD 11/24/23
(Formerly Marriedhamstermom Feb ‘17)
i made padcicles and they were great for those first few days! Definitely making those again. I’m also going to try depends this time.
If they offer you extra strength ibuprofen, take it!
i don’t know for sure if it made a difference, but I made lactation cookies and ate a bunch in the first few weeks. I never had supply issues so maybe it did work in regulating my supply.
2. Formula is 💯. Remember fed is best. My DS didn't latch the first month so it became a cycle of formula and exclusive pumping. I beat myself up over this because I assumed breastfeeding came naturally. It doesn't. I had so much guilt and anxiety because of this.
3. Clogged milk ducts hurt like no other.
4. Post partum hair loss happens to everyone. It generally occurs around 4-6 months PP. It's the great equalizer of motherhood.😂
5. It's ok if you don't feel connected to your baby immediately. Even though you have been growing him or her for the past 9 months, it's still a new human that you will meet for the first time. Some women fall madly in love upon first sight and for others it can take weeks or even months. The bond will happen. ❤️
6. PPD and PPA are very real. Don't be afraid to ask for help if you're experiencing symptoms. It's not shameful!
7. Most importantly, you WILL heal. And everyone heals at their own pace. Just be patient and show yourself some grace.
**TW**
IF DX January 2016- Me: Right sided hydrosalpinx
Right tube removed: February 2016
Acupuncture + TCM: March 2016
BFP: July 4, 2016 | DS: March 2017 (39w 2d)
TTC #2: April 2019
BFP #2: April 2019 | CP: April 30, 2019 (4w 2d)
BFP #3: July 15, 2019
EDD: March 23, 2020
5. Don’t feel badly for taking all the meds the hospital will give you. I didn’t the first time and absolutely regretted it because the pain got way worse the following days.
Married: October, 19, 2015
EDD 2/22/17 DS1 born on 3/2/17
EDD 3/8/20 DS2 born on 3/10/20
EDD 11/24/23
(Formerly Marriedhamstermom Feb ‘17)
married 11.1.14
ttc #1 since 5.18
bfp 12.22.18 letrozole + progesterone
d&e due to trisomy 13/hydrops at 15wks
bfp 7.21.19 letrozole + IUI
little girl A born 3.26.20
1. I wasn't prepared for painful breastfeeding with my first.. she likely wasn't latching properly, not to mention, she had thrush which caused her and I additional pain. I used a lot of Lansinoh lanolin to help with nipple cracking/bleeding. I've heard the stuff they put on new tattoos, Bag Balm, can also work, but I've never tried it.
2. I leaked a lot of milk with my first in the first few months after birth.... breast pads were definitely a must-have. I leaked some with my second, but not as much. One thing that I found weird was that when DD would be nursing at one breast, the other would leak like a waterfall. Another shocker for me was a weird tingling/painful sensation I got in my boobs when my milk was about to 'let down'. And being away from my baby, if I heard another baby cry/thought of my baby, or sometimes 'just because' my milk would let down out of nowhere. So I was always wearing nursing pads at work, otherwise.. wet shirts. This random 'let down' reflex was not as strong with my second.
4. Nursing bras - definitely good to have, and make nursing access easier.
3. Postpartum bleeding.. I wasn't prepared for the amount I would have, or the duration of it. I used pads - definitely make sure to have plenty on hand, and take advantage of the extras you can pick up at the hospital.
4. Anything extra the hospital has for you in your room - mesh underwear, pads, diapers for baby, dermaplast spray, witch hazel pads - grab it up and take it with you when you leave. You can use it at home, and you're paying for it on your hospital bill anyway.
5. Like @miss.sally and @varimama said, after birth contractions can get painful. I was completely unprepared for this with my first.. they can get bad if you try to exert yourself too much after labor. I tried an afternoon of walking around/shopping a couple weeks after my first was born, and by the end I was doubled over with contractions.. so try to take it easy those first couple weeks.
6. Also the still looking pregnant after birth thing - you can wear your maternity clothes home from the hospital and they will still fit just fine. lol. I was still wearing maternity pants for several weeks postpartum for comfort. Though I know some people may bounce back sooner than others.
7. Painful first poop - yep. It feels almost like labor all over again, so be prepared and eat lots of fiber and/or take stool softeners.
8. Sex life changes - it took quite a while for me after both births to get back into anything resembling a sex life (not only due to the demands of a new baby, but also tenderness/pain) and there was dryness while still breastfeeding. definitely take it slow.
9. Lack of sleep - the staggering lack of sleep really snuck up on me after the birth of my first - I pushed myself too hard to keep the house clean, make all the meals, and be up all hours of the day/night with DD, and I didn't take naps like I should have. The fatigue got overwhelming. Definitely accept help from others/your partner with household chores, be prepared to let some things 'slide' or be less than perfect, and try to get in some shut eye whenever you can.
10. Maternity leave - if you work and you're on maternity leave, it goes by incredibly fast. With my first, I had this idea that it was going to be like a six week 'vacation' from work, that I'd spend just cuddling my baby and resting, and getting all sorts of 'projects' done.. and that six weeks would be more than enough. nope. I was still too stressed/tired to go back after 6 weeks, so I extended it to 8... which seems to be the 'minimum' time I need.
11. Baby blues - This usually hits me a few weeks postpartum and makes me weepy/extra emotional and makes me more prone to snap at people. It never turned into PPD for me, but nevertheless, I was sad and hormonal and overwhelmed for a while. Don't be afraid to reach out for help if you're feeling down.
12. Body changes - for me, my entire body shape changed after pregnancy/birth and never really 'went back' to what it was before, unfortunately - my stomach was never completely 'flat' again (I have kind of a little permanent 'belly pooch' now, even if I am at a healthy weight), it became more difficult for me to keep weight off, and the stretch marks faded, but are still there. On the plus side.. my boobs went up a size. lol. Be patient with yourself after birth, and though it can be hard, try to accept/love your new shape, and realize it will take time to get back to where you 'were' - and if you can't get there, it's ok.
I like to think that my pain tolerance is pretty high, but I guess the true test will be when it's time to give birth/recovery. I think I'm most nervous about tearing, the first poop, and the pain that comes with those first few weeks of breastfeeding (both the dry, cracked nipples and the contractions that come with it). But based on what you all have shared, I feel like I'm going to be better prepared for all of it! Keep the great tips coming!
1) My letdowns SPRAY. Like a HOSE. Not like a little stream; I'm talking about some powerful jets. I would let down from both sides every time I nursed, every time I accidentally brushed up against anything, every time I thought of my babies...you name it, I was spraying. As much as I wanted to use reusable nursing pads, I had to use the heavy duty ones and swap them out after every leak. Also, my letdowns felt almost the same as when your foot/hand falls asleep. Tingly, a little painful, and weird. Let's not even talk about the bloody nips, the mastitis, the plugged ducts, or the inability to consume ANY dairy/whey/lactase products. I nursed my son for 15 months and my daughter until she was 2.5, so clearly the sacrifice was worth it. However you decide to feed your baby, YOU ROCK.
2) Delivering a placenta feels weird. It didn't really hurt, but the crampiness was yucky. It was warm, squishy, and felt like a relief.
3) PPD and PPA are REAL, you guys. It is really hard to notice, because you are so tired and everything is so crazy, but just make sure you take time to check in with yourself and find support everywhere you can. It is not a battle you need to fight alone.
4) I WAS SO HUNGRY. ALL. THE. TIME. From the moment I delivered my kiddos for probably a year afterwards, I was constantly ravenous (because of nursing/running around). Feed your body as well as you can, hydrate constantly, and be gentle with yourself. Your body has just gone through some t.r.a.u.m.a. (regardless of if you had a c-section or vaginal delivery; pregnancy and childbirth put your body into chaos mode.)
5) TAKE EVERYTHING FROM YOUR HOSPITAL ROOM. I brought home toilet paper, tissues, all of the baby supplies (like diapers, wipes, etc.), two peri-bottles, a few pairs of mesh undies (I wore them over my depends at night so that things wouldn't slide around), a belly-binder...you name it, it went in my bag.
6) Accept help. If you don't want people helping directly with baby, accept help cleaning. Or cooking. Or staring at your baby in the bouncer/swing/crib/whatever so that you can take a REAL shower. TAKE HELP. Someday, you will return the favor for someone, and you will KNOW how much of a difference minutes of your time can make.
7) Do YOUR thing. Make YOUR decisions with your partner/yourself surrounding how you care for your baby. This is not your grandma's baby, your mom's baby, your sister's baby...this is YOUR baby. You WILL make mistakes, you will feel horrible for things sometimes, but you are a good mom. I promise.
8) Your body/sex life might change. Sometimes for the better, sometimes for the worse, sometimes it will fluctuate between the two. It's ok. Give yourself grace in every aspect of your life - this one included.
i just want to add that nothing is *that* bad. Especially if you’re getting some help! The pain is manageable, and your body will feel normal again eventually, it just takes time. But it’s a good reminder that in addition to taking care of baby, we need to make sure we take care of our own fragile bodies after birth!
Also to add on to the whole “your body changes after birth” thing. Cannot be more true. After my first I actually ended up getting in better shape overall, weighed less, and STILL didn’t fit into pre-pregnancy jeans because my hips were so much wider! It was wild. I didn’t mind because I was in the best shape of my life so I just got new stuff. But it definitely made me realize how much my body actually did to house a human. So cool!
oh and spraying milk during letdowns is totally a thing. They make these little milk saver cups to catch your letdown from the other side while nursing. I never did it but I have friends who did and they’d get a ton of milk that way! DS wouldn’t take a bottle so I never bothered though. I also had to use disposable pads though because my letdowns were no joke. It’s all so crazy. Waking up in a puddle of breast milk if you lie on your stomach.
1. Pooping. Lots of talk about bowel movements postpartum already but an alternative to stool softener is chia seeds. Adding a tablespoon to juice/water or yogurt greatly helps to make pooping easier. Again, Natural Calm also does the trick. Squatty Potty’s are AMAZING and helpful for consultation jn pregnancy and ease of going postpartum. It can also help to fold some TP and gently put counter pressure on the perineum when you are trying to go.
3. Sitz herbs. Not only can you make padsicles or soak in a sitz bath, you can make a pitcher of the brew and keep it in the bathroom and fill your peri bottle and rinse after using the bathroom. If you don’t see yourself sitting in a sitz bath, this is a great alternative to get the heating ben first of the herbs.
4. Birth story. You might find that you want to talk (a lot!) about how things went and process the experience. Or you might want some space from it and to focus on recovery before you address how things went. You don’t owe it to anyone to share details about your birth, so don’t feel pressure to share your story if you’re not ready.
9. Meds. It’s super helpful to stay on your scheduled intervals with pain meds, especially after a cesarean or with a severe tear. Even in the absence of either of those things, there is a fair amount of swelling and inflammation and general feeling like you ran a marathon. Set a timer or have your partner set one. It can be hard to “catch up” to your pain if you go longer than the recommended time. Also staying comfortable
makes it easier to enjoy bonding with your baby and helps you to sleep better so recovery goes faster.
10. Postpartum body love. The PP body gets way less attention and credit than the pregnant body. But it’s amazing! Not only did it just grow and birth a human, but it’s continuing to support that very vulnerable human while also gradually reverting and adjusting back to a non pregnant state. There are so many physical and emotional adjustments that deserve the same amount of care, patience and attention as was given the pregnant body. Try to celebrate the still fluffy tummy that is the sweetest, softest pillow for your precious babe, be gentle and honor your need for quiet time and rest, let others support you and your fluctuating emotions, and remember that taking care of you did not become less important just because the baby is on the outside now. For all the leaking and spraying of milk and mood swings, try to have a sense of humor and remember that this awesome crazy ride is temporary and super worth it.
Postpartum Self Care Tips
1. Love yourself
yaaasss above on the postpartum body love @uno_mas! Mamas, we will all heal in our own time. If you are exclusively BF just know it isn’t always the magic weight loss pill it’s sometimes made out to be. (But for some lucky moms, congratulations!) I found my body was “soft” until I was completely done lactating.And be kind to yourself! Speaking as a mom who EBF/Pumped for the first 6-7 months: Don’t stress about getting in shape and counting calories if you haven’t been all pregnancy. The amount of calories you consume now is going to be MORE than when you were growing that inside baby. He is now bigger and growing on the outside with you as his possibly sole source of nutrition. If you restrict too much or hit the gym too hard, it will impact your supply.
We will all be in a postpartum purgatory of body-awkwardness. You’re not pregnant but you’re certainly not your old self for a while. You may want to buy a few items of clothing to feel good in, if you can afford it. Your old sexy jeans? they are not gonna work for a while.
2. Everyone is different
Just to alleviate some of the scary stuff above: I did not have Any post-labor contractions or rough placenta delivery. Nor did I experience any serious PPD also no major physical things requiring medical intervention or surgery.3. Stocking up
I had some mean hemorrhoids. I recall my bottom hurting worse than anything. The sitz bath helped me heal... it worked miracles. I don’t suggest you need to buy anything for this, just fill up your bathtub with very warm water and soak your goodies. The warm water promotes circulation.Buy some TUCKS (witch hazel pads) and yes, take EVERYTHING you can get from your hospital room including the sexy AF fishnet underwear.
4. Postpartum Bleeding: AKA the ‘long goodbye’ to pregnancy
😐 any underwear you wear for the first few days will be destroyed if it is not black. The weird net underwear saves (underwear) lives. I can’t remember how long that bleeding went on but it seemed like a month.5. Postpartum Pain & Management
They gave me good meds in hospital and to take home, which helped tremendously but I was too scared to take the meds because of poo probs.
Thank God I had saved my expired medication from baby #1 because it saved me. I was in a tremendous amount of pain downstairs related to my 2nd degree tear (i.e not even the worst kind of tear) and (unseen, uncounted) hemorrhoids.
6. Milk Production
7. The Zombie Apocalypse (or Early Days);
Maybe you will get lucky and have an amazing sleeper. Don’t bet on it.
If you can, plan to take shifts with your partner depending on what time of day you are ‘programmed for.’ My husband had to go back to work and he’s grumpy after 9PM (morning person!), while I’m a night owl. I want to slap his face in the mornings when he sings or whistles. 🙅🏼♀️
It worked well for us if I stayed up with baby during the evenings, sleeping when baby did. I would hold out as long as I could and wake him up at 3:30/4AM. Then I’d get some good Zz’s until he left for work. By the Grace of God baby would usually sleep with me for a few more hours after he left. Make sure he/she helps get you your Zz’s!!
mess. I wanted to kill my partner when he called his mom to come help me. She took off work and drove up to stay with us for two days when our first son was about 6 weeks old, which was generous and kind of her but I was a wreck. I was so mad and sad that he called her instead of just helping me himself. BUT, this time I totally plan on inviting her to come by and see the big kids after school or to hold the baby so I can shower or nap and I’m not going to try to get the house in order first. Some people just know how to step in and do things without asking a shitload of questions or making a fuss about it. She is not one of those lol but she is sweet and would be happy to hold the baby or spend time with the big kids. I’ve learned that not everyone is going to be the person who will switch the laundry or ask if you need something from the store or just grab the broom, or take the dog out for potty. But I’m going to try to be grateful and humble for the help I can get.
OMG I am remembering so much by reading everyone’s tips here! I hope it is okay to put these things here. This is my third baby, so that should tell you something about the relative pain etc. Overall, I had AMAZING births and postpartum. I will include a few things below, but I hope no FTM are scared from all the details we are giving! Know that everyone is different! I lost all of my weight immediately and aside from my boobs, my body went back to its resting state both times, which is fine! It’s fine if it didn’t too! I look back at those early weeks with DH and I both on leave SO fondly. It’s like this space where time doesn’t exist. And there is NOTHING that will ever compare to staring at your baby during those first few days. OMG it’s insane how intense and wonderful it is. Also I had a nightmare tear with DD, and it still was FINE!
-I had a third degree tear after DD’s birth and here I am doing it a third time!
-Depending on the severity of the tear, they might offer you SERIOUS pain killers (Percocet etc) in the hospital and when going home. No shame if you need it but it made me kind of foggy with DD, so I refused them with DS and was fine. Basically, just know yourself and pay attention to how it effects you. They can always offer other solutions.
-I second what @kantobean said about the first poop. You’ll be fine, but stool softeners are a must (they will give them to you if you are at a hospital)
-If you have an epidural that is particularly strong, it is IMPOSSIBLE to feel to push, so you really have no clue what you are doing. Just know that they can make it STRONGER or WEAKER and you have the right to ask.
-When I first had my epidural I got so light headed I passed out. It was WAY too strong.
-I also couldn’t pee after birth, so as @uno_mas said, you can get help! They gave me a catheter for my first pee and I was SO relieved.
-Everyone will tell you this, but EAT before you go if you are having a hospital birth. Your labor could be VERY long and you’ll be hungry. I didn't with DD and was in labor for over 30 hours. OMG I was hungry.
-When my milk came in my boobs looked AMAZING. I have tiny boobs and these were so great. No shame in taking pictures haha.
-My feet and ankles swelled after DD but not after DS. Every birth is different.
-I definitely did NOT have PPD or anything close to it, but the baby blues are real (as @treetop19 says)… it’s a sudden sadness that you don’t have control over as your hormones shift. It passes QUICKLY for many people, so just try to ride the waves. It’s very strange to be so sad and also the happiest you’ve ever been.
-@mrsc918 I healed wonderfully from both vaginal births and I had a SERIOUS tear with my first. Aspects are unpleasant, but overall, your body is meant to heal! It will!
-Like others have mentioned, I have ZERO sex drive while breastfeeding, so that first year is a challenge. I am constantly being touched by my kids, so the last thing I want to do is voluntarily have someone touch me. I think being honest with your partner and compromising when needed is smart. Luckily you are saved the first 6 weeks because your partner will HEAR the doctor say NO SEX for six weeks haha.
-Shower before you go to the hospital if you can. The last thing I wanted to do right after birth was shower (ouch).
-If you are breastfeeding and going back to work, start building your supply EARLY. The more you can get before you go back, the better. I bought MILKIES Milk-Saver last time and in the beginning was able to get so much from my unused side… because, ladies, you leak from your other boob when your baby is nursing from one (especially early on). I would get 1-2 ounces of LEAKAGE from my unused boob lol. Why waste that liquid gold?
-I second what @mommyxthree2020 says about hunger. In the beginning with breastfeeding, I would be suddenly RAVENOUS. Have snacks on hand next to your bed etc. I found nuts and protein bars were great.
DD1 EDD 9/29/2015, Born 9/24/2015
DS1 EDD 1/3/2018, Born 12/26/2017
BFP #3 3/21/2019, EDD 11/29/2019, MMC/D&C 5/7/2019
BFP #4 6/28/2019, EDD 3/12/2020
DS2 10/2017
DS3 due 03/2020
-I had terrible shakes when I first got into my recovery room. Apparently it's common from the epidural.
-All modesty goes out the window. I've always been pretty modest/awkward when it comes to my body and who sees what, but I had to keep telling myself, these people do this every day, and see lots of boobs and vaginas. The sweet nurse who helped me to the bathroom for the first time and showed me how to use the peri bottle and pads and everything... poor woman sees a lot of gross stuff.
-Try to have a plan to treat yourself after birth, if you can. I had a 46 hour induction, so I was HANGRY when I got to recovery. My parents went across the street and got us Red Lobster, which threw in a free chocolate cake when they heard I just gave birth. It was one of the best things I've ever eaten... and also helped my first poop come along without any problems, LOL. I brought chocolate covered strawberries to a friend after she gave birth, and she and her husband were so grateful to have something that felt special afterwards.
-Yes, you will still look pregnant. When I went to pick up my ibuprofen prescription, the tech at Walgreens asked if I was pregnant, and I had to say, "nope, I actually just had my baby."
-It's never been a problem in my life, but I really had to stop and think and plan to make sure I was eating and drinking. It may have contributed to my lack of milk production, but I just felt so overwhelmed and busy that I didn't really focus on food/water. Hoping to plan better for that this time around.
-I questioned everything in those first few weeks. I relied on Dr Google and my bump group a lot to find out what was normal and make sure there wasn't something wrong with my baby. Pediatrician visits were super helpful as well. Just don't feel weird if everything doesn't feel "natural."
-There will be phases that are more difficult than others. You may get in a groove on week 2 and feel great, and then the witching hour begins on week 4 and you feel like you were crazy for having a baby and that this is life now... and then once you get through that, you may feel like a rockstar mom who has a handle on everything. Going day by day is all I could do, and even the days run together. Ultimately, it's a very short time of our lives and it all gets easier.
-I couldn't help but resent my husband for a bit. He went back to work at week 2-3, so I felt like I needed to not put much on him at home and with the baby, since he had to focus on work and I didn't. But then I felt like his life had gone back to normal, and mine was completely different.
-Talk and check in! My bump group and middle of the night check-ins reminded me that I was not alone, and others were going through the same emotions, problems, and victories.
-Do not make big plans for your maternity leave. I thought I'd be going to lunches with friends and working on things around the house... I WAS WRONG. It was a victory to shower and feed myself sometimes.
-Finally, things did not go as planned at all for me, regardless of my type A planning and wishes. DS1 was in the NICU for the first week of his life. Only 4 people could be on the list of visitors, so that was my parents. That meant my brother, SILs, any other family/friends couldn't see the baby if they came to the hospital, so we really didn't have any visitors. No cute outfits or hospital pics. It was heartbreaking for me to go back to my room without a baby, when I could hear other babies in the rooms nearby. I felt like I had to be there for every feeding every 3 hours, but the nurses and DH had to reason with me that I needed rest too. It was really tough, but ultimately a quickly learned lesson that children can be unpredictable, and that it's important to take care of yourself for this person who relies on you to keep them alive.
Married: 10.15.16
DS BD: 8.20.17
TTC #2 1.1.19
BFP #2 7.3.19
EDD #2 3.13.20
**TW**
IF DX January 2016- Me: Right sided hydrosalpinx
Right tube removed: February 2016
Acupuncture + TCM: March 2016
BFP: July 4, 2016 | DS: March 2017 (39w 2d)
TTC #2: April 2019
BFP #2: April 2019 | CP: April 30, 2019 (4w 2d)
BFP #3: July 15, 2019
EDD: March 23, 2020
Whej you’re first working on latching/getting into a BF groove w/ baby (if that’s your plan), be sure you DON’T use too much lanolin/nipple balm. My nips were so sore after that first night that when the nurse brought me some lanolin (with no instructions), I was like great!, thanks, and slathered it on. The lactation consult told me the next day that you really only need/want it on the nipple itself (not the areola), cos otherwise your babe is trying to latch on a slip and slide.
**TW**
IF DX January 2016- Me: Right sided hydrosalpinx
Right tube removed: February 2016
Acupuncture + TCM: March 2016
BFP: July 4, 2016 | DS: March 2017 (39w 2d)
TTC #2: April 2019
BFP #2: April 2019 | CP: April 30, 2019 (4w 2d)
BFP #3: July 15, 2019
EDD: March 23, 2020
DD1 EDD 9/29/2015, Born 9/24/2015
DS1 EDD 1/3/2018, Born 12/26/2017
BFP #3 3/21/2019, EDD 11/29/2019, MMC/D&C 5/7/2019
BFP #4 6/28/2019, EDD 3/12/2020
DS2 10/2017
DS3 due 03/2020