This is a place for those of us who have already started TTC, but have started infertility testing and/or treatments. You can express your thoughts, feelings, and frustrations on infertility. TTC can be a long journey naturally, then add in the difficulties associated with infertility, and it becomes a whole new ball game. The road to infertility can be lonely, frustrating, and complicated, so let's make this a place where we can vent, ask questions, and support one another. Feel free to resurrect this thread at any point in the week if you have something to say. Treat this as an ongoing conversation.
Diagnosis (if you've been):
Status (WTO/TWW/TTA):
What are you doing this cycle? (Testing? Treatment?):
How are things going?:
Any questions?:
GTKY: Tell is about a tradition you have.
It's funny how it's the little things in life that mean the most...not where you live, or what you drive, or the price tag on your clothes... There's no dollar sign on a piece of mind, this I've come to know! *ZBB*
Me: 36 DH 35
TTC 9/2016 BFP 12/9/16 EDD 8/21/17 NMC 1/8/16 at 7w6d
TTC 2/2017 BFP 3/6/17 EDD 11/17/17 DS born 11/25/17 via ECS
TTC 12/2018 BFP 6/2/19 EDD 2/12/20 NMC / BO at 7 weeks, low progesterone
TTC 7/2019 BFP 8/21/19 EDD 4/22/20 CP at 5 weeks
TTC 8/19 IUI #1 w/ Clomid + Ovidrel + progesterone BFN, IUI 2 and 3 w/ Letrozole + Ovidrel + progesterone,
IUI 4 Follistim + Ovidrel + progesterone BFP 1/9/20 EDD 9/18/20
AMA, ITP in pregnancy, vWD type II - low Factor VIII, unexplained RPL and secondary infertility
Re: IF Testing and Treatment Week of 12/23-12/19/19
Status (WTO/TWW/TTA): TWW - 2nd week!
What are you doing this cycle? (Testing? Treatment?): Letrozole, Ovidrel, IUI, Progesterone, PNV, baby aspirin, folate, vitamin D, CoQ10
How are things going?: Okay. I forgot how emotional the mix of the HCG shot and progesterone make me.
Any questions?: The extra progesterone is causing so much acne on my face, anyone have a good solution?
GTKY: Tell is about a tradition you have.
Every year a friend and I have a cookie baking day where we bake hundreds of cookies. This year it was around 600-700! We gift them to our offices, friends, neighbors. So much fun!
Diagnosis (if you've been): unexplained, low morph
Status (WTO/TWW/TTA): WTO
What are you doing this cycle? (Testing? Treatment?): biopsy in 2 weeks!
How are things going?: great! I did my shots Saturday night at my parents without any suspicion. And I used my new wake up/sunrise alarm clock to get up today and it was amazing how easy it was to get out of bed! Hoping today goes by fast at work since I'm off the rest of the week.
Any questions?: Nope
GTKY: Tell is about a tradition you have.
We have our tradition of seeing the AHL game in our city the day before Thanksgiving. I can't think of anything more exciting. We do a yearly trip to northern WI with DH's family but I'm hoping we can rent our own place on a lake instead of 6 of us being so close together in a small house
TTC #1 since 7.2017
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22 | biopsy provided same effect as endometrial scratch; added supplemental progesterone and estrogen, prednisone, levothyroxine, and MTX Support to maintain pregnancy
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC put on pause indefinitely
Status (WTO/TWW/TTA): WTO
What are you doing this cycle? (Testing? Treatment?): Waiting to hear back from the RE's office about whether or not I can do a medicated cycle with monitoring.
How are things going?: Eh. IF is such a viscous cycle. This time is year is super-triggering. I guess you could say I am in the middle of a perfect storm. Trying to suck it up and be grateful for what I do have, while being bombarded with pictures and other reminders of what I can't have. I'm just fed up with the merry-go-round of anxiety and depression. Tired of being expected to just suck it up and deal because heaven forbid I make anyone else feel awkward or sad.
Any questions?: Nope. Maybe I will once the RE's office calls of they decide to switch my meds or up my dosage or something.
GTKY: Tell is about a tradition you have. My family doesn't really have any traditions anymore. When I was younger my aunt would have everyone over for Christmas Eve and a Yankee Swap. That was fun because we always did silly gifts.
@inthewoods23 glad your new alarm clock is making it easier to rise and shine. I hope your day goes by fast, too!
Status (WTO/TWW/TTA): WTO, CD 8 with a 13-14 mm follicle so at least two more days of shots and a Christmas ultrasound
What are you doing this cycle? (Testing? Treatment?): IUI #4 with Follistim / Ovridel / progesterone
How are things going?: out of all the meds, Follistim makes me feel the worst.
Any questions?: Why do I have to work and be late when we need 13 subs already?!
GTKY: Tell is about a tradition you have.
We don’t really have any holiday ones now. When I was a kid, Santa left a gift on the table for each of us to open immediately along with our stockings (so our parents could sleep in). DH and I went to the Rockefeller tree on our second date and repeated it for four more years. I’d like to start that up again.
TTC 9/2016 BFP 12/9/16 EDD 8/21/17 NMC 1/8/16 at 7w6d
TTC 2/2017 BFP 3/6/17 EDD 11/17/17 DS born 11/25/17 via ECS
TTC 12/2018 BFP 6/2/19 EDD 2/12/20 NMC / BO at 7 weeks, low progesterone
TTC 7/2019 BFP 8/21/19 EDD 4/22/20 CP at 5 weeks
TTC 8/19 IUI #1 w/ Clomid + Ovidrel + progesterone BFN, IUI 2 and 3 w/ Letrozole + Ovidrel + progesterone,
IUI 4 Follistim + Ovidrel + progesterone BFP 1/9/20 EDD 9/18/20
AMA, ITP in pregnancy, vWD type II - low Factor VIII, unexplained RPL and secondary infertility
@inthewoods23 Yayyy for ninja shots!!! Also, I need more details on this sunrise alarm because I think I need one too!
@emeraldduchess so very many hugs, friend. I think in the New Year it may be time to start asking some of these questions about your testing, since it seems that the squeaky wheel gets the grease.
@NYTino24 Good luck today at work!!! Thinking of you!
IVF Cycle #1 February 2020 4 embryos frozen, 1 fresh transfer = CP
FET #1 Natural Cycle March 2020 CXL'd due to Covid-19
FET #1 Natural Cycle June 2020 - CP #2
FET #2 Natural Cycle July 2020 - BFP!!!!!! Beta #1 = 273
June Signature Challenge - Favorite TV Quotes
Status (WTO/TWW/TTA): WTO
What are you doing this cycle? (Testing? Treatment?): Waiting for IVF
How are things going?: I talked to my aunt last night and let her know we'll be starting IVF in the new year, and she actually had some information about my mom's fertility troubles that I didn't know, which honestly is throwing me off a bit. Apparently my mom had endo, which is new information for me and is now another thing I'm going to be paranoid that they'll find when monitoring begins. Certain things also now make more sense *TW loss discussion in spoiler*
Any questions?: Not yet, just lots of things swirling around in my brain.
GTKY: Tell us about a tradition you have. We spend the holidays with my ILs because my parents are gone, so Christmas Eve is the big event - lots of family and friends at my ILs, then we all stay after everyone leaves to open our family gifts. We do a big yankee swap and have Italian food. Then MH and I go home and open our gifts to each other, and we've both said it's our favorite part.
IVF Cycle #1 February 2020 4 embryos frozen, 1 fresh transfer = CP
FET #1 Natural Cycle March 2020 CXL'd due to Covid-19
FET #1 Natural Cycle June 2020 - CP #2
FET #2 Natural Cycle July 2020 - BFP!!!!!! Beta #1 = 273
June Signature Challenge - Favorite TV Quotes
@inthewoods23 - Yay! Glad you finally got the sunrise alarm clock and are liking it!
@emeraldduchess - IF sucks. I'm sorry you're having such a hard time right now. Sending you positive thoughts and creepy internet stranger hugs!
@NYTino24 - Oh that is such a good idea about the one present to hold you over!
Diagnosis (if you've been): Endometriosis, borderline PCOS, unexplained IF
Status (WTO/TWW/TTA): WTO
What are you doing this cycle? (Testing? Treatment?): FET - Transfer is Friday!
How are things going?: Relieved that my lining finally started responding to the estrogen and thickened up enough to schedule the transfer. My DH administered the first PIO last night and it wasn't bad at all - although it's already quite sore. My dad and sisters know we're doing IVF, so my PIO on Christmas will be fine, however his family doesn't know and we have a huge Christmas eve party with them. Trying to figure out when we'll do the PIO shot that evening - I'm thinking we'll just do it super early before we leave for the party.
Any questions?: Nope
GTKY: Tell is about a tradition you have. We don't have any traditions that we still do. Hopefully we'll be able to start up our own soon.
@feather_heather so excited for your transfer on Friday! I will be keeping everything crossed for you!
@mvt2003 I am glad that you could open up to your aunt. I hope that your RE will take your mom's history into consideration when treating you. My mom had fertility challenges too, which my RE noted on my records.
AFM the nurse at the RE's has to get approval from my doc to allow another medicated cycle. I don't have an appointment with her until Jan 30, though. Hopefully she'll approve since the appointment is in the books. I'm assuming IUI counts as a medicated cycle. So we may need to just hope for the best this time around.
Diagnosis (if you've been): RPL, Blood-clotting Disorders, High Natural Killer Cell Count/Activity, AMA, DOR
Status (WTO/TWW/TTA): WTO
What are you doing this cycle? (Testing? Treatment?): Hysteroscopy coming up. The results will determine if we go forward with another IUI, or pause to do an endometrial biopsy after ovulation.
How are things going?: Just eh. Everyone is stressed about the holidays so it’s taking a lot of the fun out of it.
Any questions?: No, but THANK YOU to @inthewoods23, @bows22, @NYTino24, and @emeraldduchess for answering my hysteroscopy/anesthesia question over the weekend. Your responses were super helpful & eased my fear a bit of going under.
GTKY: Tell us about a tradition you have.
My parents set us up with many wonderful traditions. Now that they’re both gone we try to continue them: a big Christmas Eve party with all the huge family & close friends, lots of food, lit candles & caroling in the neighborhood. Then on Christmas Day we come back together to watch the many nieces & nephews open their gifts from all of the aunties & uncles. Christmas night is quieter: we are hosting Christmas Dinner at our house for the family.
@NYTino24 I love the one present + stocking combo idea. Brilliant! I also love that YH & you used to revisit the Rockefeller Center tree every year. MH & I had our best date just strolling the city, looking at all the window displays down 5th Ave, & ending up drinking hot chocolate at the Rockefeller Tree. I’d love to re-live that.
@feather_heather FX for you for Friday!!! As for the PIO pain: it helps to apply warm pressure (hot water bottle and/or massage) and you can also apply arnica cream or gel to help with bruising & pain afterwards.
@mvt2003 Sorry to hear that the additional info in your mom’s IF history is making you feel more worried. Knowledge is power—hopefully this is just one more thing to check off the list of questions? I can relate to a lot of your posts about your parents being gone. Doesn’t it seem like we are way too young to know what that feels like?
@inthewoods23 Glad you found a sunrise clock that seems to be working for you! Hope work is flying by for you today.
@ramzlau That cookie tradition sounds amazing—and like a ton of effort! And I can u fortunately relate to your question about the hormone-induced acne, but I haven’t found any good solutions. I’m going to try the things featherheather listed.
IVF Cycle #1 February 2020 4 embryos frozen, 1 fresh transfer = CP
FET #1 Natural Cycle March 2020 CXL'd due to Covid-19
FET #1 Natural Cycle June 2020 - CP #2
FET #2 Natural Cycle July 2020 - BFP!!!!!! Beta #1 = 273
June Signature Challenge - Favorite TV Quotes
IVF Cycle #1 February 2020 4 embryos frozen, 1 fresh transfer = CP
FET #1 Natural Cycle March 2020 CXL'd due to Covid-19
FET #1 Natural Cycle June 2020 - CP #2
FET #2 Natural Cycle July 2020 - BFP!!!!!! Beta #1 = 273
June Signature Challenge - Favorite TV Quotes
A couple was obviously excited to graduate and brought in unused meds to give back and I was fine with that although they were loud about it but then he started loudly talking about questions to ask the doctor. There are sometimes couples that come in together and we all know what that means when a nurse calls them back, but dude, read the room and keep it quiet. The place was packed with gloomy looking women, so you’d think he’d shut up.
TTC 9/2016 BFP 12/9/16 EDD 8/21/17 NMC 1/8/16 at 7w6d
TTC 2/2017 BFP 3/6/17 EDD 11/17/17 DS born 11/25/17 via ECS
TTC 12/2018 BFP 6/2/19 EDD 2/12/20 NMC / BO at 7 weeks, low progesterone
TTC 7/2019 BFP 8/21/19 EDD 4/22/20 CP at 5 weeks
TTC 8/19 IUI #1 w/ Clomid + Ovidrel + progesterone BFN, IUI 2 and 3 w/ Letrozole + Ovidrel + progesterone,
IUI 4 Follistim + Ovidrel + progesterone BFP 1/9/20 EDD 9/18/20
AMA, ITP in pregnancy, vWD type II - low Factor VIII, unexplained RPL and secondary infertility
I'm surprised they are allowed to return unused meds as my clinic doesn't allow that. Might be a state rule too idk. I have a completely unused 450 Gonal-F pen sitting in my cabinet. 😕 And a 5000 unit of novarel trigger shot.
TTC #1 since 7.2017
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22 | biopsy provided same effect as endometrial scratch; added supplemental progesterone and estrogen, prednisone, levothyroxine, and MTX Support to maintain pregnancy
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC put on pause indefinitely
TTC 9/2016 BFP 12/9/16 EDD 8/21/17 NMC 1/8/16 at 7w6d
TTC 2/2017 BFP 3/6/17 EDD 11/17/17 DS born 11/25/17 via ECS
TTC 12/2018 BFP 6/2/19 EDD 2/12/20 NMC / BO at 7 weeks, low progesterone
TTC 7/2019 BFP 8/21/19 EDD 4/22/20 CP at 5 weeks
TTC 8/19 IUI #1 w/ Clomid + Ovidrel + progesterone BFN, IUI 2 and 3 w/ Letrozole + Ovidrel + progesterone,
IUI 4 Follistim + Ovidrel + progesterone BFP 1/9/20 EDD 9/18/20
AMA, ITP in pregnancy, vWD type II - low Factor VIII, unexplained RPL and secondary infertility
@inthewoods23 so glad things are really starting to move for you, finally!! I hope today went fast and I am totally looking into one of those clocks!
@emeraldduchess I totally understand the feelings you have, I think we all do. It really is such a rollercoaster ride of anxiety and stress and emotions every since cycle. The ups and downs are really hard sometimes.
@NYTino24 I love the traditions you have! Sounds like our bodies are both operating a little early this time around! Hopefully that means great things for both of us!
@mvt2003 I’m so happy you talked to your Aunt and that she had some insights for you. I hope this new information about your moms history doesn’t lead you down the same path but I hope it gives the doctors some insight on what to look out for too.
BFP: 10/27/2011 | EDD: 6/30/12
DS born 6/28/12 via C/S
TTC #2: September 2018
Me: 36 | DH: 39
Mirena removed 9/13/2018 after 6 years
BFP 11/11/2018 | MC @ 5.5 weeks on Thanksgiving
July 2019 - Diagnosed with Secondary Unexplained IF
August 2019 - 2.5 mg of Letrozole = Never Ovulated so Trigger and IUI were cancelled
9/30/2019 - IUI #1 (5 mg of Letrozole + Trigger) = BFP but Betas showed CP @ 4 weeks
10/28/2019 - IUI #2 (7.5mg of Letrozole + Trigger) = BFN
11/25/2019 - IUI #3 (7.5mg of Letrozole, Trigger + Crinone after IUI) = BFN
12/24/2019 - IUI #4 (7.5mg of Letrozole + Crinone after IUI) = BFN
1/24/2020 - IUI #5 (50mg of Clomid + Trigger + Crinone after IUI) = BFN and an Ovarian Cyst
3/2/2020 - Taking a break to reset/NTNP
11/1/2020 - At peace with where things are in life and are no long actively TTC. Whatever happens will happen and it will all be okay.
Status (WTO/TWW/TTA): WTO
What are you doing this cycle? (Testing? Treatment?): 7.5 of letrozole, Mucinex, IUI and progesterone after the IUI
How are things going?: Well, yesterday I had my first monitoring appointment on CD10, instead of on CD12 like I normally would go in. My estrogen at my baseline appointment was raised so they wanted to see me early Incase I would O early. The RE yesterday said they saw one large follie at 27mm and that my lining was almost at 7 but that it looked like there was fluid in my lining. So they waited for my bloodwork to come back and then told me to take mucinex to try and dry up the fluid and to come back the next day for another ultrasound. My LH yesterday was at 10.
i went in today and this RE (different office) said there were two follies, not one, and they were both at 18mm! My lining was at 7mm (after three measurements), which is where it needs to at least be at, and there was no fluid in my lining, so that’s great! Got the bloodwork back and it showed I am surging! LH went from 10 to 24 in one day and my progesterone was starting to go up. I’ve always had to do the ovidrel for the IUI but not this time!
Any questions?: none
GTKY: Tell is about a tradition you have.
We spend Xmas eve wit MH family and Christmas Day is spend with my moms whole side, there are 55 of us!
BFP: 10/27/2011 | EDD: 6/30/12
DS born 6/28/12 via C/S
TTC #2: September 2018
Me: 36 | DH: 39
Mirena removed 9/13/2018 after 6 years
BFP 11/11/2018 | MC @ 5.5 weeks on Thanksgiving
July 2019 - Diagnosed with Secondary Unexplained IF
August 2019 - 2.5 mg of Letrozole = Never Ovulated so Trigger and IUI were cancelled
9/30/2019 - IUI #1 (5 mg of Letrozole + Trigger) = BFP but Betas showed CP @ 4 weeks
10/28/2019 - IUI #2 (7.5mg of Letrozole + Trigger) = BFN
11/25/2019 - IUI #3 (7.5mg of Letrozole, Trigger + Crinone after IUI) = BFN
12/24/2019 - IUI #4 (7.5mg of Letrozole + Crinone after IUI) = BFN
1/24/2020 - IUI #5 (50mg of Clomid + Trigger + Crinone after IUI) = BFN and an Ovarian Cyst
3/2/2020 - Taking a break to reset/NTNP
11/1/2020 - At peace with where things are in life and are no long actively TTC. Whatever happens will happen and it will all be okay.
Here's a link to the alarm clock - hopefully the link works. They have 3 different models or so. This one is the mid range, but their cheapest one is about $50 I think.
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0093162RM/ref=cm_sw_r_other_apa_i_JFtaEb16PN2H4
TTC #1 since 7.2017
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22 | biopsy provided same effect as endometrial scratch; added supplemental progesterone and estrogen, prednisone, levothyroxine, and MTX Support to maintain pregnancy
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC put on pause indefinitely
@keikilove lots of hugs to you, friend. 💜
My RE signed off on another medicated/monitored cycle. I go in tomorrow for my baseline. Back on the rollercoaster we go.
I told DH last night that before our next appointment with the RE, we really need to sit down and talk about how much longer we want to continue with IF treatment. I know that IVF will be brought up as an option and DH needs to understand what it involves and that there are no guarantees we will get our THB. There's no way I am walking into that appointment without DH and I being on the same page.
BFP: 10/27/2011 | EDD: 6/30/12
DS born 6/28/12 via C/S
TTC #2: September 2018
Me: 36 | DH: 39
Mirena removed 9/13/2018 after 6 years
BFP 11/11/2018 | MC @ 5.5 weeks on Thanksgiving
July 2019 - Diagnosed with Secondary Unexplained IF
August 2019 - 2.5 mg of Letrozole = Never Ovulated so Trigger and IUI were cancelled
9/30/2019 - IUI #1 (5 mg of Letrozole + Trigger) = BFP but Betas showed CP @ 4 weeks
10/28/2019 - IUI #2 (7.5mg of Letrozole + Trigger) = BFN
11/25/2019 - IUI #3 (7.5mg of Letrozole, Trigger + Crinone after IUI) = BFN
12/24/2019 - IUI #4 (7.5mg of Letrozole + Crinone after IUI) = BFN
1/24/2020 - IUI #5 (50mg of Clomid + Trigger + Crinone after IUI) = BFN and an Ovarian Cyst
3/2/2020 - Taking a break to reset/NTNP
11/1/2020 - At peace with where things are in life and are no long actively TTC. Whatever happens will happen and it will all be okay.
Crossing everything for your IUI today! Good luck! 💚💚💚
My monitoring appointment was good. Estrogen is good, and my lining is already at 10mm. I go in again on the 30th.
Merry Christmas Eve everyone!
TTC #1 since 7.2017
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22 | biopsy provided same effect as endometrial scratch; added supplemental progesterone and estrogen, prednisone, levothyroxine, and MTX Support to maintain pregnancy
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC put on pause indefinitely
@kpearse99 I hope at your appointment your RE has ideas of other things you can try before getting to IVF since it isn't covered. And that is incredible that it is this cycle that your body is cooperating! Merry Christmas Eve, sending every happy vibe I can to those follies! (And 55 people wow!)
@NYTino24 Wow that does sound like the ball is rolling! And yeah sounds like he missed the social cues there.
@keikilove I hope that the hysterscopy brings some answers for you! Sorry for all the holiday stress on top of the normal crazy IF stress. Your family traditions sound like an amazing family time, so I hope that helps bring some joy for the season!
@feather_heather Thanks for the tips! Will check them out! And yay for the lining responding to the meds. Sending you the best wishes for the FET on Friday!
@mvt2003 When I finally told my mom about our trouble getting pregnant, she told me she also had problems for years. It is crazy what doesn't come up until there is a conversation about it. I am glad you were able to talk to your aunt and get some support. I hope that the new knowledge helps empower instead of creating fear.
@inthewoods23 Hope you enjoy your time off this week! And yay for waking feeling refreshed!
@inthewoods23 That’s great news!
@kpearse99 Hope your IUI goes well!
I had my first bleed after doing my own injection last night. I barely felt it and waited for the burn, but it didn’t happen. I didn’t notice the blood until I went to put my shirt down and of course I had skipped the Bandaid since I hadn’t bled before. Trying to decide when to go in tomorrow since I have a 6-10 window I can show up in before going to the IL.
TTC 9/2016 BFP 12/9/16 EDD 8/21/17 NMC 1/8/16 at 7w6d
TTC 2/2017 BFP 3/6/17 EDD 11/17/17 DS born 11/25/17 via ECS
TTC 12/2018 BFP 6/2/19 EDD 2/12/20 NMC / BO at 7 weeks, low progesterone
TTC 7/2019 BFP 8/21/19 EDD 4/22/20 CP at 5 weeks
TTC 8/19 IUI #1 w/ Clomid + Ovidrel + progesterone BFN, IUI 2 and 3 w/ Letrozole + Ovidrel + progesterone,
IUI 4 Follistim + Ovidrel + progesterone BFP 1/9/20 EDD 9/18/20
AMA, ITP in pregnancy, vWD type II - low Factor VIII, unexplained RPL and secondary infertility
I go back on Monday for a progesterone check to confirm that I did O on my own and we are gonna DTD a few more times over the next few days to be safe!
BFP: 10/27/2011 | EDD: 6/30/12
DS born 6/28/12 via C/S
TTC #2: September 2018
Me: 36 | DH: 39
Mirena removed 9/13/2018 after 6 years
BFP 11/11/2018 | MC @ 5.5 weeks on Thanksgiving
July 2019 - Diagnosed with Secondary Unexplained IF
August 2019 - 2.5 mg of Letrozole = Never Ovulated so Trigger and IUI were cancelled
9/30/2019 - IUI #1 (5 mg of Letrozole + Trigger) = BFP but Betas showed CP @ 4 weeks
10/28/2019 - IUI #2 (7.5mg of Letrozole + Trigger) = BFN
11/25/2019 - IUI #3 (7.5mg of Letrozole, Trigger + Crinone after IUI) = BFN
12/24/2019 - IUI #4 (7.5mg of Letrozole + Crinone after IUI) = BFN
1/24/2020 - IUI #5 (50mg of Clomid + Trigger + Crinone after IUI) = BFN and an Ovarian Cyst
3/2/2020 - Taking a break to reset/NTNP
11/1/2020 - At peace with where things are in life and are no long actively TTC. Whatever happens will happen and it will all be okay.
ETA: I went in for my baseline u/s today and I start letrozole tonight. Next week I go in for bloodwork and another date with the u/s wand.
@ramzlau wow that's an awesome tradition! Nom nom nom
@inthewoods23 glad to hear the shot went well. Hope you are enjoying your week off!
@emeraldduchess I totally feel the same. IF is such a vicious cycle Why can't things just get better on their own
@NYTino24 sorry you are not feeling great on Follistim. I hope this IUI works and you don't need IVF
@mvt2003 I hope this new information gives the RE some insights
@keikilove Hugs to you I hope the hysteroscopy goes well.
@feather_heather yay for transfer scheduled! Hope that you can graduate from this IF thread two weeks later
@kpearse99 glad to hear the IUI went well! Hope the "Sperm Queen"'s magic touch does the job!
Diagnosis (if you've been): elevated prolactin
Status (WTO/TWW/TTA): WTO
What are you doing this cycle? (Testing? Treatment?): Clomid, Cabergoline for prolactin
How are things going?: Not sure if it is because of the side effect of Cabergoline or Clomid (or the fact that we only have one day off this week); I am kind of depressed, and my appetite decreased so much. It's so strange as last cycle I had crazy good appetite when I was put on Clomid + Ovidrel.
Any questions?:
GTKY: Tell is about a tradition you have. Me and MH don't really celebrate any western holidays, so we just use them as an excuse to have delicious homemade hot pots
*TW*
Married: 09/16
TTC #1 08/18
~2019~
IUI #1 #2 #3 with letrozole cancelled
Natural cycle IUI #4 10/19 BFN
First RE visit 11/19
Clomid 50mg + IUI#5 11/19 BFN
Elevated prolactin dx confirmed 11/19
Clomid 50mg + IUI#6 cancelled
~2020~
IVF #1 ICSI+PGT-A 02/20
32R 19M 14F 7B 7 PGT-A normal
Hysteroscopy to remove polyps 3/20
FET 05/20 BFP! beta #1 9dp6dt 443.8; beta #2 11dp6dt 1212
Baby has a heartbeat! 6w5d HB 128
TTC 9/2016 BFP 12/9/16 EDD 8/21/17 NMC 1/8/16 at 7w6d
TTC 2/2017 BFP 3/6/17 EDD 11/17/17 DS born 11/25/17 via ECS
TTC 12/2018 BFP 6/2/19 EDD 2/12/20 NMC / BO at 7 weeks, low progesterone
TTC 7/2019 BFP 8/21/19 EDD 4/22/20 CP at 5 weeks
TTC 8/19 IUI #1 w/ Clomid + Ovidrel + progesterone BFN, IUI 2 and 3 w/ Letrozole + Ovidrel + progesterone,
IUI 4 Follistim + Ovidrel + progesterone BFP 1/9/20 EDD 9/18/20
AMA, ITP in pregnancy, vWD type II - low Factor VIII, unexplained RPL and secondary infertility
My question is for everyone doing (or has done PIO): The injections are not bad at all! Doesn't hurt during and I don't have any soreness afterwards. Are we doing them wrong? lol Why are they so dreaded? My DH is worried that we're not hitting muscle if it's not sore! (The first one we did too low and it was sore, but now they don't hurt at all)
TTC #1 since 7.2017
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22 | biopsy provided same effect as endometrial scratch; added supplemental progesterone and estrogen, prednisone, levothyroxine, and MTX Support to maintain pregnancy
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC put on pause indefinitely
TTC 9/2016 BFP 12/9/16 EDD 8/21/17 NMC 1/8/16 at 7w6d
TTC 2/2017 BFP 3/6/17 EDD 11/17/17 DS born 11/25/17 via ECS
TTC 12/2018 BFP 6/2/19 EDD 2/12/20 NMC / BO at 7 weeks, low progesterone
TTC 7/2019 BFP 8/21/19 EDD 4/22/20 CP at 5 weeks
TTC 8/19 IUI #1 w/ Clomid + Ovidrel + progesterone BFN, IUI 2 and 3 w/ Letrozole + Ovidrel + progesterone,
IUI 4 Follistim + Ovidrel + progesterone BFP 1/9/20 EDD 9/18/20
AMA, ITP in pregnancy, vWD type II - low Factor VIII, unexplained RPL and secondary infertility
@feather_heather It sounds like you’re very lucky & not to worry about doing the PIO wrong.😊 Once I switched to the thinner needle I don’t have any pain or bruising until the very end of the cycle of shots. And then it’s only if I press on the area or do high-impact exercise.
@ramzlau Exeactly what featherheather said. Good luck with the travel!