@ktmaesim I feel like this was spurred from the mean girl comment, I nominate you to be Karen. let me go dig out some hilarious photos and I'll respond.
Lol! Girl I'm an old mom I barely remember high school. Graduated 1999. I was a musician (went on to study professionally) and graduated in 3 years so I could start at music conservatory. So I basically did every class and every after school music program. I hated athletics and my friends were almost entirely guys and we spent our time playing Nintendo and listening to grunge/post grunge rock.
Now I'm a cpa who hasn't touched a musical instrument in years, exercise is a top hobby, and I haven't played a video game system since N64. Well, 1994 was still a peak year in rock though.
I went to a school for gifted and talented students from kindergarten until 8th grade so when HS came along I told my parents I wanted a real HS experience so I went to the regular public school.
I was a mix of everything in highschool- I feel like I got along with everyone- I wasn't super popular but wasn't unpopular either. I did sports but also did "nerdy" extra curriculars like yearbook and National Honor society. I was also a pretty big partier but still got good grades and graduated top 20 in my class. I was super smart and was in band in middle school but didn't want people to know how smart I was or be in band in HS because I wanted to seem cool which is stupid thinking back now!
I wanted to be a nurse because my mom was one but after 1 year in nursing school I decided it wasn't for me and I decided to be a dietitian.
My first job was technically babysitting but my first real real job was working retail at the mall once I was able to drive- I also was a lifeguard in the summer.
I was a band geek in high school, and very studious. My goal for school was to go to class. I didn’t socialize which made me out to be a “bitch” according to one of my friends.
i originally wanted to be a nurse but decided not to deal with blood so I loved math and went with accounting.
I love this! I’ll have to dig up some pictures tmrw but I’ll answer now.
I was also in band but quit freshman year bc it was “uncool”. I wouldn’t say I ran with the most popular kids but I didn’t land on the other end of the spectrum either.
I made average grades, As and Bs and applied to colleges but only bc my parents wanted me to. When I had to come up with an answer to the “What do you want to be” question I always said nurse. My mom is a nurse and has always genuinely loved her job so I stuck with that. It didn’t take me 3 weeks into my first semester at college to realize that wasn’t going to pan out. Truthfully the only thing I wanted and pictured for my life was being married with a family and I feel really blessed I’m able to stay home and live out that dream.
My first job job was at Brusters Ice Cream and it was heaven! Unlimited ice cream and waffle cones!
I graduated back in 2000 so I'm right there with you, @bookwork492! I was on the cross country team. I had a group of friends but didn't party at all; I was a good girl and didn't want to disappoint my parents...but I made up for that when I went away to college! 😳 I had a serious boyfriend 3 of the 4 years and spent most of my time and energy on him, which was a mistake in retrospect because I thought he was my one true love but we broke up 2 weeks after I left for college! I knew back then that I wanted to be a special education teacher; I did get sidetracked for a while there but made my way back to it by my mid-20s. I babysat a lot and one year I got a job at an ice cream place, but I quit after about 2 weeks because a customer was rude to me and made me cry😆
Who were you in HS? I was the transfer student at a private HS with kids who has literally been in school together since they were in K. Not fun. But I found my crew of people and made it through HS just fine.
What did you want to be? I would have loved to THE popular girl, but that’s just not who I am. I was a cheerleader, and should have been captain my last year, but oh well.
What was your first job? Camp Counselor!
Sorry Folks, no pics on my phone and everything else is packed away in the renovation.
Who were you in HS? I was an athlete but in an obscure sport, golf. Also newspaper editor and on student council. We were considered the “good kids” but secretly partied quite a bit. I had a small group of really close friends (we made breakfast together every Saturday and had a ton of fun all the time).
What did you want to be? This changed a lot. An athletic trainer, a biologist, a nurse. I ended up being a sign language interpreter and more recently switched to clinical social work.
What was your first job? Aside from babysitting, a Sonic Carhop. It didn’t last long. Then I was a waitress at a local place. Stayed there forever, even some in college.
Who were you in HS? Oh my. Well I confessed I was a bit of a Mean Girl, I did graduate in 2005. I was an interesting combo of stereotypical early 2000s trends: polos, Jean skirts, too much midriff, too thin eyebrows and chunky highlights (thank god I've gotten better with age!!!) I was National Honor Society student who got really good grades and never got in trouble with teachers. But also a cheerleader and part of the “popular kid” crowd. Our school was pretty large, so we kind of had two popular groups - the good kids, and well me and my friends had a very cliquey group of 7 girls. We partied, we hung out with upper classmen from the start (a lot of us had older siblings), but never got in trouble, and in hindsight thought we were wayyyyy cooler than we actually were. I had a fake ID to be 18 back when bars had “college nights”. I actually met my husband my junior year - true story I liked his lifted Jeep and decided I wanted to hook up with him... and made that happen. We weren’t officially dating until the summer of 2005, but I’ve known him since 2003.
What did you want to be? As a career: a fighter pilot. Amelia Earhart has been my role model since I was a child. I have bad vision and was crushed when I learned the military wouldn’t take me (which they have since changed). And then Legally Blonde came out and I decided I should channel my sass into being a lawyer like Elle Woods.
What was your first job? Retail, always been a clothes gal. Did a stint at PacSun and Abercrombie & Fitch.
@ktmaesim i'm just here for the laughs! i actually love this throw back stuff and mocking my teenage too cool self. thankfully i learned in college that i really should stick to my natural dark hair, everyone dies laughing seeing me as a blonde.
Loving everyone's stories and pics! What a fun GTKY!
Who were you in HS? I went to a pretty big high school, and I really didn't feel like there were many cliques that caused rifts. I guess I mostly hung out with the academic crowd, but because I was in marching band (we had the biggest band in our state when I was in HS, so the dorky band kids made up 1/4 of the school, lol) I had friends from all different social circles and grades. I took all AP and honors classes, but I honestly felt like they were way over my head at the time--feel like I bloomed academically in college. High school was a fine time, but I have much fonder memories and more nostalgia for college. Both my mom and stepmom were having babies for my whole middle and high school education, so I spent a LOT of time taking care of babies (I have 6 siblings! Four of them were born when I was in HS), which was probably the best birth control ever!
What did you want to be? In HS I wanted to be a sociologist or a writer. In college I switched to wanting to be a poetry professor, which I honestly still kind of want to do. I didn't figure out that I wanted to be a teacher until I was 25 and subbed for the first time.
What was your first job? Lots of babysitting and working for my dad's furniture business as a teen, but when I turned 18 I got a job at Starbucks. That was in 2007, and we only had one Starbucks in town, so it was definitely a cool job lol.
Below: Top is a classic selfie with an actual camera. Senior trip with my grandparents to Hawaii. Second pic is my senior year during the morning of one of our competitions for marching band. We'd all dress up ridiculously and have a lot of fun with it.
@ninrms my high school was also relatively large (over 650 kids per graduating class) and so it was also hard to say who was "cool" and who wasn't. There were too many kids to know.
Who were you in HS? I grew up in a really small, isolated town, so my HS only had about 400 kids for all of gr 9 - 13 (yes 13, not a typo, it was a university prep year in Ontario that no longer exists). And it was kids who lived anywhere within an hour's radius of the school.
I was not popular, but not unpopular. I could get along with pretty much everyone but never went to the parties or anything like that. I intentionally made myself a bit of an oddball, but then so did my 2 younger sisters (we're all within 3 years of each other so there was a point we were all there at the same time). We were pretty much the only ones in the whole school who did weird hair colours, like pink and purple (it's purple in the class of '99 pic but hard to tell). I wore men's army pants and baby tee's while most of my peers were wearing name-brand things like Gap. And I wore an actual dog collar with rhinestones on it as a sort of signature (it's visible in 2 of my photos). I worked on our school's live-to-air cable station once a week, helping run the behind-the-scenes stuff, but was also still in Pathfinders (part of Girl Guides, but an older age range) and helped my mom run our community choir. When I started university, my floormates in my dorm referred to me as the "cute little goth girl" which I suppose was pretty accurate
What did you want to be? Honestly HS was the point in my life where I actually started to accept who I was. I had been picked on a lot during elementary school and suddenly there were new people to be friends with instead of the same 30 kids I'd known since kindergarten. I still wanted to be a little more popular, but I wasn't willing to be promiscuous and drink every weekend to be more like the girls who were "popular".
What was your first job? I was a cashier at the grocery store for about 3 years before moving away for school. And of course I babysat.
I don’t think I had a title in HS, I really was friends with everyone. I had emo phases, preppy phases, I was a bit hippie also, I always had a coach or Kate spade bag and Tiffany jewelry but also went to concerts and would partake in my fair share of mosh pits. I was 100% a party girl though, my parents told DH they were always a bit worried about me bc I was constantly skating that thin line between having fun and being an idiot who’s going to get in trouble.
I had no idea who I wanted to be, I liked the idea of being a wild child, I really would’ve enjoyed being a teen in the 60’s/70’s. I went to college to be a teacher, decided not for me and went into business which was a better option.
My first job was Wegmans, worked there through college too.
I had a feeling this topic was going to surface soon...I graduated from a small high school and a graduating class of 130 (we were a big class) and I was the kid with the major identity crisis in high school. I was always "the little sister" and I worked overly hard to separate myself from that and tried to figure out who I was... spoiler, didn't happen in high school I also had the boyfriend for most of high school that I spent way too much energy on. We ended up going to the same college and then I broke up with him sophomore year of college once I finally realized how big of a d-bag and horrible person he was. (flash forward 2 weeks and I started seeing my now husband) I played tennis, but never really cared how good I was, I was the one out there for fun and it drove my coach crazy because my sister was really good. I partied but was never seen as the party girl. My senior year I technically lived with a guardian, my dad was in Iraq and I refused to move to Texas where my mom lives for my senior year of high school. I tried to emancipate, but my dad refused to sign the papers so I was stuck living with a horrible bitch my senior year and because I was young in school, I didn't turn 18 until right before leaving for college.
I wanted to be a teacher or an engineer. My freshman year of college I worried I wouldn't be able to make it through all the required math to become an engineer and the school I was at didn't have a teaching program so I changed my major to marketing, which I've never used. I went back to grad school for HR.
My first job I worked at one of the two local gas stations.
I don't have any high school pics on my phone or facebook. Not sure I'm disappointed by this though!
@ale9687 YAY for wegmans! Do you still live somewhere where there are wegmans? I grew up in upstate NY. But I moved to Chicago in 2002 and have been here since and there are no Wegmans in the midwest which is a major loss. Well at least I can shop at aldi and save money.
@bookworm492 still close to wegmans! I have to say though now that I’m older with a second on the way I do majority of shopping at Walmart, my wallet appreciates that but I do specialty shopping and catering from Wegmans.
OMG. I read the question as “What did you want to be?” As what type of High School person did you want to be. Not what you wanted to be when you grew up!
I’m reading all these responses like “Oh yeah. Definitely misunderstood that one!”
Let me start off saying I just happened to clean out an old box of HS photos and junk last year, taking pics of them so I could throw them away. This was easy for me! Enjoy the photo of me playing a pregnant lady in HS, too 🤣
Who were you in HS? For a long time (before HS and into my first couple of years), I played the Gretchen role to my bitchier, more controlling friends. Then, mid HS, I broke off and started hanging with people who did more of the same things as me- singing, acting, etc. My last two years of HS were pretty fun- got into plays and musicals, choirs, way more fun group of friends- our group was really pretty 50/50 guys and girls.
What did you want to be? I wanted to keep going with music- particularly singing, which I did go to college for...at first. After a few years, switched to public relations as my major, which was also great since I love writing. Ironically, at almost 40, I’m now going back to professional performing arts with my family 😅
What was your first job? First few jobs- assisting with secretary work at a dentist office, working at my first boyfriend’s mom’s special needs daycare, working at a Boston Market restaurant (awful job), and helping at my parents bicycle shop from time to time. I’ve had a ton of weird little jobs over the years...
Who were you in HS? I started out in Private HS, I had a huge group of girlfriends and we would spend the weekends at Disneyland, or school sporting events (went to a big sports school). I eventually transferred to my beach community's local high school and hung out with the "cool" kids. Found out that wasn't my cup of tea my senior year and pretty much just focused on graduating and staying with a few smaller groups of friends.
I also ran Track and Cross Country and was very heavy into Art (I had an Art scholarship in College).
What did you want to be? I wanted to be a Fashion designer or something to do in the industry, owning my own brand or shop.
What was your first job? I was a hostess at a restaurant that my family friends owned.
Married to DH for 6 years (together for 16) DS born 12.13.14 DD born 10.15.16 BFP 1.24.18, MC 3.13.18 BFP 4.25.19, EDD 12.31.19
Geez, I'm behind--I'll have to get pics later, but to answer the questions:
I was in theater, choir, our high school chapter of Amnesty International, French club, and I was one of the editors of the school paper. Pretty sure whatever qualities it takes to be in these things as a kid are present and accounted for and can describe me pretty well as an adult, haha.
I wanted to be a war correspondent for CNN. Because I wanted to change the world. And then I grew up and realized I didn't want to be shot at...so there's that. I did study broadcast journalism in college though, and worked for the local ABC affiliate here in Norfolk/Virginia Beach for my first job out of college. And then I realized the pay/hours/benefits for broadcast journalism SUCK, and now I'm in marketing and much happier. :-)
For my first job, I worked at a little gift shop attached to the art gallery at our local visual and performing arts center. It was nice. Slow most days, so I was able to do homework, and there was a cute guy who was a valet there who I got to flirt with on a regular basis. Overall, a decent first job for a 16-year-old. :-)
Oh gosh High School. Graduated in 2009 in Michigan when the recession hit bad. I went to school with the same 120-150 kids since pre school (including my husband). We didn't really have clicks and most of us got along well.
I was kinda nerdy. All my friends were in NHS and we all took the same AP and honors classes. My favorite thing to do was volunteer and my favorite groups were honors choir and SAVE (students against a vanishing earth).
Mostly I wanted to be ignored and for people not to talk to me unless we were close friends or they were on my soccer team. A combination of being shy and insecure and dealing with the hardest period of my life (completely unrelated to high school). My grandmother got cancer when I was 15 and I moved in with my grandparents to help take care of her when I was 16. She passed away my senior year and I lived with my grandpa a few more years to make sure he was okay.
My first high school job I guess was working on the farm (my grandpa was a butcher) and taking care of my grandma. I didn't get a "real" job until college when I worked at Clark's shoe store.
I remember high school being emotionally draining do to things happening outside of it. A classmate's dad committed suicide when he lost his engineering job and couldn't afford her college. We also had maybe 20-30 students move senior year out of state so their parents could find work. It's not a time in my life I really like to remember or dwell on.
@mrszoobear thank you for sharing what a younger person than I went through during that recession. I admit I often wonder because I graduated with my master's in advance of the recession and found employment right away so didn't take much of a career hit. But had I done my master's just one year later it would have been totally different.
@k_mama91 hahaha I totally avoided my reunion too, I liked most people, but had just such a strange feeling if I would've went and also some falling-outs with people I dont really care to chat and hang with. I think it was kind of just weirdos that actually went to mine and they ALL still live in the same damn town. I was like "oh sorry guys....still over here in Australia traveling! Can't make it!" haha
@k_mama91 - Wooo! 😂😂😂 Yeah I wouldn't go to mine if we had one either lol. It would probably end up at the town Pub. But I haven't heard anything about anyone throwing one either. The person who was supposed to organize it ending up dying young 😢
@mrszoobear That’s sad, we’ve also lost some class members. Ours is actually at the town pub, too funny 😂 I don’t get the point of a 10 year any way. Isn’t that why people use social media?
@ktmaesim Yes! I want to avoid the ones I may have fallen out with and the ones I cared to stay in touch with see me regularly- they’re not going either. If I wanted to catch up with anyone I could go to any chain restaurant in town bc that’s where half of them have ended up working or drinking on the weekends!
@ashorkey when I started reading yours I was like.."Oh someone from a small school!" then I realize you still triple my class size haha.
Who were you in HS?
I was everybody lol, but so was everyone else. I graduated in a class of 52. I was the principals pet, always helping with projects and pretty much was allowed to do whatever I wanted. I played every sport... BECAUSE to have teams if you were athletic you payed most sports. Softball, Basketball, Volleyball, Cheerleading, and Track. I was also part of the math scholars bowl team and a National Honor Society member. I stayed out of trouble, didn't drink until I was 21 and pretty much was in my own little world... THEN I WENT TO COLLEGE. Joined a sorority, found out there was much more to life than backroads and walmart parking lot. haha!
What did you want to be? I wanted to be an accountant, then I interned with a company (had a horrible experience and was treated horrible) and changed my major. Sometimes I wish I would have given another job a shot before making a huge change that I had wanted. It is what it is though.
What was your first job? My first job was when I was 15 at the city Rec and I worked there until I got a job in college.
@klmcguire oh man, i had that blue NHS stole draped over my diploma in my room. haha
as for the reunion talk (@k_mama91@ktmaesim@mrszoobear)- oh man, we did my 5yr and MH's 10 yr (he is 1 year ahead of me) and HAPPILY skipped his 15 yr this year (wahhh i feel old). the 10 yr was SO awkward, resulting in no desire to revisit @ 15 yrs.
I can probably get on board with a 20 year. Social media completely defeats the purpose of a 10 year and honestly most people still haven’t got things sorted out and started adulting by this point. At least not my classmates. Somehow I turned into an introvert and don’t have anything overly exciting to share with those people 😂
Re: GTKY - Highschool Edition
Now I'm a cpa who hasn't touched a musical instrument in years, exercise is a top hobby, and I haven't played a video game system since N64. Well, 1994 was still a peak year in rock though.
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I was a mix of everything in highschool- I feel like I got along with everyone- I wasn't super popular but wasn't unpopular either. I did sports but also did "nerdy" extra curriculars like yearbook and National Honor society. I was also a pretty big partier but still got good grades and graduated top 20 in my class. I was super smart and was in band in middle school but didn't want people to know how smart I was or be in band in HS because I wanted to seem cool which is stupid thinking back now!
I wanted to be a nurse because my mom was one but after 1 year in nursing school I decided it wasn't for me and I decided to be a dietitian.
My first job was technically babysitting but my first real real job was working retail at the mall once I was able to drive- I also was a lifeguard in the summer.
i originally wanted to be a nurse but decided not to deal with blood so I loved math and went with accounting.
First job: wal mart cashier.
No pics on my phone
DH: 37
DD: 03/17/17
DS: 12/06/19
I was also in band but quit freshman year bc it was “uncool”. I wouldn’t say I ran with the most popular kids but I didn’t land on the other end of the spectrum either.
I made average grades, As and Bs and applied to colleges but only bc my parents wanted me to. When I had to come up with an answer to the “What do you want to be” question I always said nurse. My mom is a nurse and has always genuinely loved her job so I stuck with that. It didn’t take me 3 weeks into my first semester at college to realize that wasn’t going to pan out. Truthfully the only thing I wanted and pictured for my life was being married with a family and I feel really blessed I’m able to stay home and live out that dream.
My first job job was at Brusters Ice Cream and it was heaven! Unlimited ice cream and waffle cones!
Ill be back with a picture tmrw.
I was on the cross country team. I had a group of friends but didn't party at all; I was a good girl and didn't want to disappoint my parents...but I made up for that when I went away to college! 😳 I had a serious boyfriend 3 of the 4 years and spent most of my time and energy on him, which was a mistake in retrospect because I thought he was my one true love but we broke up 2 weeks after I left for college!
I knew back then that I wanted to be a special education teacher; I did get sidetracked for a while there but made my way back to it by my mid-20s.
I babysat a lot and one year I got a job at an ice cream place, but I quit after about 2 weeks because a customer was rude to me and made me cry😆
Who were you in HS? I was the transfer
student at a private HS with kids who has literally been in school together since they were in K. Not fun. But I found my crew of people and made it through HS just fine.
What did you want to be? I would have loved to THE popular girl, but that’s just not who I am. I was a cheerleader, and should have been captain my last year, but oh well.
What was your first job? Camp Counselor!
Sorry Folks, no pics on my phone and everything else is packed away in the renovation.
DS - 7.5
DD #1 - 6
~ mmc 7.11.2018 @ 9w ~
DD#2 - born 12.24.19
DH: 37
DD: 03/17/17
DS: 12/06/19
Who were you in HS? I was an athlete but in an obscure sport, golf. Also newspaper editor and on student council. We were considered the “good kids” but secretly partied quite a bit. I had a small group of really close friends (we made breakfast together every Saturday and had a ton of fun all the time).
What did you want to be? This changed a lot. An athletic trainer, a biologist, a nurse. I ended up being a sign language interpreter and more recently switched to clinical social work.
What was your first job? Aside from babysitting, a Sonic Carhop. It didn’t last long. Then I was a waitress at a local place. Stayed there forever, even some in college.
Married 1/28/17
TW:
BFP #2 10/10/17, MC 11/4/17
BFP #3 12/17/17 Birth 8/13/18
BFP #4 4/21/19 Birth 12/5/2019
be 18 back when bars had “college nights”. I actually met my husband my junior year - true story I liked his lifted Jeep and decided I wanted to hook up with him... and made that happen. We weren’t officially dating until the summer of 2005, but I’ve known him since 2003.
What did you want to be? As a career: a fighter pilot. Amelia Earhart has been my role model since I was a child. I have bad vision and was crushed when I learned the military wouldn’t take me (which they have since changed). And then Legally Blonde came out and I decided I should channel my sass into
being a lawyer like Elle Woods.
What was your first job? Retail, always been a clothes gal. Did a stint at PacSun and Abercrombie & Fitch.
Photos in spoiler 🙈
Who were you in HS? I went to a pretty big high school, and I really didn't feel like there were many cliques that caused rifts. I guess I mostly hung out with the academic crowd, but because I was in marching band (we had the biggest band in our state when I was in HS, so the dorky band kids made up 1/4 of the school, lol) I had friends from all different social circles and grades. I took all AP and honors classes, but I honestly felt like they were way over my head at the time--feel like I bloomed academically in college. High school was a fine time, but I have much fonder memories and more nostalgia for college.
What did you want to be? In HS I wanted to be a sociologist or a writer. In college I switched to wanting to be a poetry professor, which I honestly still kind of want to do. I didn't figure out that I wanted to be a teacher until I was 25 and subbed for the first time.
What was your first job? Lots of babysitting and working for my dad's furniture business as a teen, but when I turned 18 I got a job at Starbucks. That was in 2007, and we only had one Starbucks in town, so it was definitely a cool job lol.
Below: Top is a classic selfie with an actual camera. Senior trip with my grandparents to Hawaii. Second pic is my senior year during the morning of one of our competitions for marching band. We'd all dress up ridiculously and have a lot of fun with it.
I was not popular, but not unpopular. I could get along with pretty much everyone but never went to the parties or anything like that. I intentionally made myself a bit of an oddball, but then so did my 2 younger sisters (we're all within 3 years of each other so there was a point we were all there at the same time). We were pretty much the only ones in the whole school who did weird hair colours, like pink and purple (it's purple in the class of '99 pic but hard to tell). I wore men's army pants and baby tee's while most of my peers were wearing name-brand things like Gap. And I wore an actual dog collar with rhinestones on it as a sort of signature (it's visible in 2 of my photos). I worked on our school's live-to-air cable station once a week, helping run the behind-the-scenes stuff, but was also still in Pathfinders (part of Girl Guides, but an older age range) and helped my mom run our community choir. When I started university, my floormates in my dorm referred to me as the "cute little goth girl" which I suppose was pretty accurate
What did you want to be? Honestly HS was the point in my life where I actually started to accept who I was. I had been picked on a lot during elementary school and suddenly there were new people to be friends with instead of the same 30 kids I'd known since kindergarten. I still wanted to be a little more popular, but I wasn't willing to be promiscuous and drink every weekend to be more like the girls who were "popular".
What was your first job? I was a cashier at the grocery store for about 3 years before moving away for school. And of course I babysat.
I had no idea who I wanted to be, I liked the idea of being a wild child, I really would’ve enjoyed being a teen in the 60’s/70’s. I went to college to be a teacher, decided not for me and went into business which was a better option.
My first job was Wegmans, worked there through college too.
I wanted to be a teacher or an engineer. My freshman year of college I worried I wouldn't be able to make it through all the required math to become an engineer and the school I was at didn't have a teaching program so I changed my major to marketing, which I've never used. I went back to grad school for HR.
My first job I worked at one of the two local gas stations.
I don't have any high school pics on my phone or facebook. Not sure I'm disappointed by this though!
I’m reading all these responses like “Oh yeah. Definitely misunderstood that one!”
DS - 7.5
DD #1 - 6
~ mmc 7.11.2018 @ 9w ~
DD#2 - born 12.24.19
Who were you in HS? For a long time (before HS and into my first couple of years), I played the Gretchen role to my bitchier, more controlling friends. Then, mid HS, I broke off and started hanging with people who did more of the same things as me- singing, acting, etc. My last two years of HS were pretty fun- got into plays and musicals, choirs, way more fun group of friends- our group was really pretty 50/50 guys and girls.
What did you want to be? I wanted to keep going with music- particularly singing, which I did go to college for...at first. After a few years, switched to public relations as my major, which was also great since I love writing. Ironically, at almost 40, I’m now going back to professional performing arts with my family 😅
What was your first job? First few jobs- assisting with secretary work at a dentist office, working at my first boyfriend’s mom’s special needs daycare, working at a Boston Market restaurant (awful job), and helping at my parents bicycle shop from time to time. I’ve had a ton of weird little jobs over the years...
I also ran Track and Cross Country and was very heavy into Art (I had an Art scholarship in College).
What did you want to be? I wanted to be a Fashion designer or something to do in the industry, owning my own brand or shop.
What was your first job? I was a hostess at a restaurant that my family friends owned.
Married to DH for 6 years (together for 16)
DS born 12.13.14
DD born 10.15.16
BFP 1.24.18, MC 3.13.18
ETA: Gif broke sorry y'all!
Married to DH for 6 years (together for 16)
DS born 12.13.14
DD born 10.15.16
BFP 1.24.18, MC 3.13.18
I was in theater, choir, our high school chapter of Amnesty International, French club, and I was one of the editors of the school paper. Pretty sure whatever qualities it takes to be in these things as a kid are present and accounted for and can describe me pretty well as an adult, haha.
I wanted to be a war correspondent for CNN. Because I wanted to change the world. And then I grew up and realized I didn't want to be shot at...so there's that. I did study broadcast journalism in college though, and worked for the local ABC affiliate here in Norfolk/Virginia Beach for my first job out of college. And then I realized the pay/hours/benefits for broadcast journalism SUCK, and now I'm in marketing and much happier. :-)
For my first job, I worked at a little gift shop attached to the art gallery at our local visual and performing arts center. It was nice. Slow most days, so I was able to do homework, and there was a cute guy who was a valet there who I got to flirt with on a regular basis. Overall, a decent first job for a 16-year-old. :-)
I was kinda nerdy. All my friends were in NHS and we all took the same AP and honors classes. My favorite thing to do was volunteer and my favorite groups were honors choir and SAVE (students against a vanishing earth).
Mostly I wanted to be ignored and for people not to talk to me unless we were close friends or they were on my soccer team. A combination of being shy and insecure and dealing with the hardest period of my life (completely unrelated to high school). My grandmother got cancer when I was 15 and I moved in with my grandparents to help take care of her when I was 16. She passed away my senior year and I lived with my grandpa a few more years to make sure he was okay.
My first high school job I guess was working on the farm (my grandpa was a butcher) and taking care of my grandma. I didn't get a "real" job until college when I worked at Clark's shoe store.
I remember high school being emotionally draining do to things happening outside of it. A classmate's dad committed suicide when he lost his engineering job and couldn't afford her college. We also had maybe 20-30 students move senior year out of state so their parents could find work. It's not a time in my life I really like to remember or dwell on.
@ktmaesim Yes! I want to avoid the ones I may have fallen out with and the ones I cared to stay in touch with see me regularly- they’re not going either. If I wanted to catch up with anyone I could go to any chain restaurant in town bc that’s where half of them have ended up working or drinking on the weekends!
Who were you in HS?
I was everybody lol, but so was everyone else. I graduated in a class of 52. I was the principals pet, always helping with projects and pretty much was allowed to do whatever I wanted. I played every sport... BECAUSE to have teams if you were athletic you payed most sports. Softball, Basketball, Volleyball, Cheerleading, and Track. I was also part of the math scholars bowl team and a National Honor Society member. I stayed out of trouble, didn't drink until I was 21 and pretty much was in my own little world... THEN I WENT TO COLLEGE. Joined a sorority, found out there was much more to life than backroads and walmart parking lot. haha!
What did you want to be? I wanted to be an accountant, then I interned with a company (had a horrible experience and was treated horrible) and changed my major. Sometimes I wish I would have given another job a shot before making a huge change that I had wanted. It is what it is though.
What was your first job? My first job was when I was 15 at the city Rec and I worked there until I got a job in college.
Awkward HS pics below!
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as for the reunion talk (@k_mama91 @ktmaesim @mrszoobear)- oh man, we did my 5yr and MH's 10 yr (he is 1 year ahead of me) and HAPPILY skipped his 15 yr this year (wahhh i feel old). the 10 yr was SO awkward, resulting in no desire to revisit @ 15 yrs.