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  • It's funny how it's the little things in life that mean the most...not where you live, or what you drive, or the price tag on your clothes... There's no dollar sign on a piece of mind, this I've come to know! *ZBB*

    Me: 36 DH 35 
    TTC  9/2016     BFP 12/9/16    EDD 8/21/17    NMC 1/8/16 at 7w6d
    TTC  2/2017  BFP 3/6/17   EDD 11/17/17   DS born 11/25/17 via ECS
    TTC 12/2018   BFP 6/2/19   EDD 2/12/20  NMC / BO at 7 weeks, low progesterone
    TTC 7/2019   BFP 8/21/19 EDD 4/22/20 CP at 5 weeks
    TTC 8/19    IUI #1 w/ Clomid + Ovidrel + progesterone  BFN, IUI 2 and 3 w/ Letrozole + Ovidrel + progesterone,
    IUI 4 Follistim + Ovidrel + progesterone BFP 1/9/20 EDD 9/18/20

    AMA, ITP in pregnancy, vWD type II - low Factor VIII, unexplained RPL and secondary infertility
  • mercury94 How bad is the provera? I used prometrium in January to induce a bleed and try femara and have an RX for provera right now, but I finally ovulated and didn't take it.
    TTC#2 
    DS born 9.17
    TFMR 10.19
  • @flinstone-2 I don’t hate Provera. It does sometimes lead to awful periods, but it’s been less bad this time around than it was last time with DS. 

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    Me 34 DH 34 
    PCOS

    DS1 born September 2017
    Baby number 2 due 4/11/20
  • bows22bows22 member
    @mercury94 that’s so cool that you have your grandmas table! I’m sorry this has been a sucky cycle for you. Since the majorly stressful thing is pretty much done will things start to slow down at work? 
  • @bows22 I hope so. I really need a break. 

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    Me 34 DH 34 
    PCOS

    DS1 born September 2017
    Baby number 2 due 4/11/20
  • @spacemountaineer I too always said, "I never want a minivan." I have one baby, and now I totally want one. I drive a Prius, and I love it, but once the stroller is in the back, there's not a lot of room for much else while traveling. We rented one for vacation last year and it convinced me. Just waiting on my car to be paid off and we'll trade in DH's car, so we can swing another car payment. 
    Me: 33 DH: 33
    Married: 10.15.16
    BFP: 12.24.16
    DS BD: 8.20.17
    TTC #2 1.1.19
    BFP #2 7.3.19
    EDD #2 3.13.20
  • @spacemountaineer did you look at the Pilot? We have one and LOVE it. With the third row of seats down there is tons of room for luggage and stroller (we have a Bob stroller so it’s huge even when folded). Idk what we’ll do if we are eventually able to have 3 kids like we want but for 1 we’ve had no issues and I can’t imagine a 2nd needing that much more stuff. Just an idea. Though nothing wrong with mini vans I’m just personally not ready 
    Me: 33 | DH: 34
    Married: October, 19, 2015
    EDD 2/22/17 <3 DS1 born on 3/2/17
    EDD 3/8/20 <3 DS2 born on 3/10/20
    EDD 11/24/23
    (Formerly Marriedhamstermom Feb ‘17)


  • bows22bows22 member
    @spacemountaineer we just leased a highlander last year but while we were waiting around for paperwork we looked at the sienna and could totally see that in our future. Minivans aren’t the same as they were when we were growing up so I would embrace it! That dollhouse sounds awesome and so special that your siblings helped make it. 
  • bows22 MrsVP614 @spacemountaineer I thought I'd never ever ever want to get a minivan. DH still doesn't, but I'm not about to pay that pricetag for a tahoe or suburban nowadays. I think I could stomach a minivan. Just like others have said they're wayyyy cooler now than when we were kids! haha
    TTC#2 
    DS born 9.17
    TFMR 10.19
  • NYTino24NYTino24 member
    edited May 2019
    My sister has a sunroof in the front and another in the back of her Odyssey. She’s also got leather and two sliding doors with windows that go down like other electric windows instead of those terrible pop out windows we had to deal with as kids. It’s nice and drives very smoothly. She has four kids, the youngest of whom has Down Syndrome and struggles to open doors at age 4. The fact that it’s lower to the ground and the doors can be opened from two different points without the handle is clutch for him.
    It's funny how it's the little things in life that mean the most...not where you live, or what you drive, or the price tag on your clothes... There's no dollar sign on a piece of mind, this I've come to know! *ZBB*

    Me: 36 DH 35 
    TTC  9/2016     BFP 12/9/16    EDD 8/21/17    NMC 1/8/16 at 7w6d
    TTC  2/2017  BFP 3/6/17   EDD 11/17/17   DS born 11/25/17 via ECS
    TTC 12/2018   BFP 6/2/19   EDD 2/12/20  NMC / BO at 7 weeks, low progesterone
    TTC 7/2019   BFP 8/21/19 EDD 4/22/20 CP at 5 weeks
    TTC 8/19    IUI #1 w/ Clomid + Ovidrel + progesterone  BFN, IUI 2 and 3 w/ Letrozole + Ovidrel + progesterone,
    IUI 4 Follistim + Ovidrel + progesterone BFP 1/9/20 EDD 9/18/20

    AMA, ITP in pregnancy, vWD type II - low Factor VIII, unexplained RPL and secondary infertility
  • mokay19mokay19 member
    I’m the opposite. I always thought that I would immediately want a minivan, but I don’t like all the extra stuff that makes them more expensive. When I upgrade later, I’ll probably look into something similar to the GMC Acadia or Toyota Highlander. Right now I have a Santa Fe and DH has a pick up with a full cab so we’re in no rush to get a bigger vehicle yet!
  • m6aguam6agua member
    @spacemountaineer I have been wanting to get the Honda Odyssey for a while now, even though I've always been an SUV fan. I have a Kia Sportage now and will probably have it for at least 5+ more years and DH is due for the next upgrade and I don't think he will go for a van. :(  As for my plans next week it's some fun and some not. I have a hair appointment (getting it dyed), an appointment with a new health care clinic, a dentist appointment, gymnastics and swimming for LO, then my rummage sale will be Thursday-Saturday and I have to get everything set up prior to that around all of the appointments. It's going to fly by.
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    TTC#1 July 2015 
    • BFP: 9/16/15 — MC: 11/8/15 Blighted Ovum
    • BFP: 3/10/16 — Baby Girl born 11/20/16
    TTC#2 April 2019 
    • BFP: 9/12/19 — EDD 5/15/20

  • @m6agua Ohhh, yay for a whole week off! I hope it's great!

    @bows22 I'm going to cross my fingers you don't need the booster! I've never heard of that, but I haven't been in that situation, either.

    @mercury94 Sorry about the sucky cycle. Glad work has slowed down at least a little for you though.

    @spacemountaineer I desperately want a minivan! Lol. I plan on having two kids (three max, but that would be decided after #2) and still want one. Not ashamed. Lolol. Right now we have a Honda Civic (old, no car payment) and a Kia Soul sooo our cars are both pretty tiny, lol. But we have to wait until the Kia is paid off which is in like a year and a half. Not to mention we also have two medium sized dogs. We don't often go places with the dogs but occasionally when we visit my mom or take them to boarding before heading to the airport or something.
    Me: 29 || DH: 29
    TTC #1 4/2016 || dx NIR PCOS 7/2016 || BFP 4/2017
    DD - 12/28/17 <3

    TTC #2 3/2019
    BFP 5/2019 || MC - D&C 5/2019
    BFP 2/2020 || EDD 10/10/2020
  • @varimama - We did look at the pilot. My brother drives one. We are big Honda fans in my family. The legroom on the 3rd row is pretty narrow to me. We're not sure if we want to have 2 or 3 kids at this point, so we went with a van in case we have a third (we're hoping to have this car for at least 10 years). I looked at the Subaru Ascent as it has options for captain's seats in the second row , so getting back to the third row would be easier if we had car seats in the front two seats (and more leg room in the middle seat in the back), but even that looked a bit squished for me. Also, the CVT transmission in the Ascent needs some serious work. I'm curious to see where it's going to be in 5-10 years. I have a friend who has three kids and drives a durango (she kept all her kids in the second row for a while). She doesn't have any problems with it. We may look at a Pilot for DH or for me after this car.

    @bows22 - Those new highlanders look nice! We drove the Sienna and it was really good. I liked to option of the AWD. 

    @flinstone-2 - The features they have now are quite impressive. I'm going to have to read a lot to be able to understand how to use them all!

    @mokay19- Those sound like great choices! We are getting the trim level that is second from the bottom and we're still getting a lot of stuff with this van. We looked at the next trim level up and the additional features weren't that important to us. 

    @NYTino24 - We decided on a Honda Odyssey on Monday. It should be here on Thursday. As I said, my family love Hondas. This will be our 16th Honda that ones of us has owned (and the 3rd Odyssey). The power sliding doors is something that pushed me towards a minivan. I felt it would reduce my anxiety as my kids would have less of a chance of getting hands slammed in the door and dinging someone's else car in a parking lot. 

    @m6agua - You sound way more productive than I would be with a week off. That's awesome! I hope your sale goes well!

    Just wanted you to know that you ladies are awesome!
  • Just wanted to throw the VW Atlas out there!  I love my car so much!!  It's got so much trunk space when the 3rd row is folded down!
    Our TTC Journey
    TTC #1: May 2011
    BFP: 10/27/2011 |  EDD: 6/30/12
    DS born 6/28/12 via C/S 3 

    TTC #2: September 2018
    Me: 36 | DH: 39
    Mirena removed 9/13/2018 after 6 years
    BFP 11/11/2018 | MC @ 5.5 weeks on Thanksgiving
    July 2019 - Diagnosed with Secondary Unexplained IF
    August 2019 - 2.5 mg of Letrozole = Never Ovulated so Trigger and IUI were cancelled
    9/30/2019 - IUI #1 (5 mg of Letrozole + Trigger) =  BFP but Betas showed CP @ 4 weeks
    10/28/2019 - IUI #2 (7.5mg of Letrozole + Trigger) = BFN
    11/25/2019 - IUI #3 (7.5mg of Letrozole, Trigger + Crinone after IUI) = BFN
    12/24/2019 - IUI #4 (7.5mg of Letrozole + Crinone after IUI) = BFN
    1/24/2020 - IUI #5 (50mg of Clomid + Trigger + Crinone after IUI) = BFN and an Ovarian Cyst
    3/2/2020 - Taking a break to reset/NTNP
    11/1/2020 - At peace with where things are in life and are no long actively TTC. Whatever happens will happen and it will all be okay. <3

  • What number are you trying for? 2
    Month/Cycle? 1/1
    WTO/TWW? TWW
    Ages of other child(ren)? 2
    Any thoughts about this cycle? Just a very typical, average cycle where O seemed obvious so FX.
    Any questions? 
    Rant/Rave/Brag: 
    GTKY: What’s a thing you own whose sentimental value is inversely proportionate to its material value? (What’s something worth a lot to you, but wouldn’t be worth much when you detach all the emotional stuff?) *TW* mention of previous birth/pregnancy. I had my placenta encapsulated and the woman who did it dehydrated the umbilical cord into a rose which I keep in a drawstring bag... I love looking at it and have been taking it out extra wishing for this next babe, but I feel 100% certain DH would throw it away if given the chance. I'm totally that Meet the Fockers mom.
  • NYTino24NYTino24 member
    edited May 2019
    @spacemountaineer Yay! Enjoy it. We have had lots of Hondas between me and two of my four sisters. They have always been great vehicles.
    It's funny how it's the little things in life that mean the most...not where you live, or what you drive, or the price tag on your clothes... There's no dollar sign on a piece of mind, this I've come to know! *ZBB*

    Me: 36 DH 35 
    TTC  9/2016     BFP 12/9/16    EDD 8/21/17    NMC 1/8/16 at 7w6d
    TTC  2/2017  BFP 3/6/17   EDD 11/17/17   DS born 11/25/17 via ECS
    TTC 12/2018   BFP 6/2/19   EDD 2/12/20  NMC / BO at 7 weeks, low progesterone
    TTC 7/2019   BFP 8/21/19 EDD 4/22/20 CP at 5 weeks
    TTC 8/19    IUI #1 w/ Clomid + Ovidrel + progesterone  BFN, IUI 2 and 3 w/ Letrozole + Ovidrel + progesterone,
    IUI 4 Follistim + Ovidrel + progesterone BFP 1/9/20 EDD 9/18/20

    AMA, ITP in pregnancy, vWD type II - low Factor VIII, unexplained RPL and secondary infertility
  • @spacemountaineer @NYTino24 I have a CR-V that I love. But, I’m considering a Pilot or an Odyssey for the possibility of 2 kids. 

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    Me 34 DH 34 
    PCOS

    DS1 born September 2017
    Baby number 2 due 4/11/20
  • bows22bows22 member
    edited May 2019
    ....this doesn’t sound like good news does it?

    RUBELLA AB IGG

    INDEX VALUE RESULTS INTERPRETATION ----------- ------- -------------- < 0.90 NEGATIVE SAMPLE IS CONSIDERED NEGATIVE FOR IGG ANTIBODIES TO RUBELLA VIRUS. A NEGATIVE RESULT PRESUMES THAT IMMUNITY HAS NOT BEEN ACQUIRED. 

    Edit: apparently my OB’s office is good with this and I don’t need the booster? I’m very confused but happy!

  • @mercury94 one of my sisters just got rid of her Pilot after 7 years. She cried when she said goodbye to it. Lol
    It's funny how it's the little things in life that mean the most...not where you live, or what you drive, or the price tag on your clothes... There's no dollar sign on a piece of mind, this I've come to know! *ZBB*

    Me: 36 DH 35 
    TTC  9/2016     BFP 12/9/16    EDD 8/21/17    NMC 1/8/16 at 7w6d
    TTC  2/2017  BFP 3/6/17   EDD 11/17/17   DS born 11/25/17 via ECS
    TTC 12/2018   BFP 6/2/19   EDD 2/12/20  NMC / BO at 7 weeks, low progesterone
    TTC 7/2019   BFP 8/21/19 EDD 4/22/20 CP at 5 weeks
    TTC 8/19    IUI #1 w/ Clomid + Ovidrel + progesterone  BFN, IUI 2 and 3 w/ Letrozole + Ovidrel + progesterone,
    IUI 4 Follistim + Ovidrel + progesterone BFP 1/9/20 EDD 9/18/20

    AMA, ITP in pregnancy, vWD type II - low Factor VIII, unexplained RPL and secondary infertility
  • @bows22 I would run these results past your primary care physician if you can. Just to have a 2nd opinion. It's saying you're not immune so I'm not sure why your OB would be ok with that given the outbreak going on currently...:/ 
    Me: 37 | H: 44
    **TW**
    TTC #1: May 2015
    IF DX January 2016- Me: Right sided hydrosalpinx 
    Right tube removed: February 2016
    Acupuncture + TCM: March 2016
    BFP: July 4, 2016 | DS: March 2017 (39w 2d)
    TTC #2: April 2019
    BFP #2: April 2019 | CP: April 30, 2019 (4w 2d)
    BFP #3: July 15, 2019
    EDD: March 23, 2020



  • Does your OB know you're TFAS? @bows22
    Me: 37 | H: 44
    **TW**
    TTC #1: May 2015
    IF DX January 2016- Me: Right sided hydrosalpinx 
    Right tube removed: February 2016
    Acupuncture + TCM: March 2016
    BFP: July 4, 2016 | DS: March 2017 (39w 2d)
    TTC #2: April 2019
    BFP #2: April 2019 | CP: April 30, 2019 (4w 2d)
    BFP #3: July 15, 2019
    EDD: March 23, 2020



  • bows22bows22 member
    @puppylove8910 yes she def does. It was all we talked about at my appt and she gave me an RE referral since we’ve been trying for 6 months and I’m >35. That’s a great idea about asking my PCP, going to send her a message now. 
  • Do you think you will visit the RE or give it a few more months? @bows22

    Me: 37 | H: 44
    **TW**
    TTC #1: May 2015
    IF DX January 2016- Me: Right sided hydrosalpinx 
    Right tube removed: February 2016
    Acupuncture + TCM: March 2016
    BFP: July 4, 2016 | DS: March 2017 (39w 2d)
    TTC #2: April 2019
    BFP #2: April 2019 | CP: April 30, 2019 (4w 2d)
    BFP #3: July 15, 2019
    EDD: March 23, 2020



  • bows22bows22 member
    @puppylove8910 I think we will wait. I called and they had appointments available for early June. If it was a long wait I was going to schedule it but I’m not too concerned yet. DH is on a work trip but we are going to talk about it this weekend so we’ll see. 
  • MrsW524MrsW524 member
    From a friendly lurker and microbiology nerd...

    @bows22 I completely agree that you should get your PCPs opinion on the rubella thing, but the reason your OB might be okay with it is because there hasn't been an active rubella outbreak in the United States in several years.  Rubella is a totally separate virus from measles (not even in the same family), so the current outbreak of the measles virus is only a concern in that it highlights the number of people that aren't getting the MMR shot, making a rubella outbreak more likely than it would be if everyone were getting vaccinated.  All of that said, I personally would get that second opinion because Congenital Rubella Syndrome is terrifying and I wouldn't want to take the risk if I didn't have to.  The CDC website has some great information if you want more information on that, but I warn you that it's pretty upsetting: https://www.cdc.gov/rubella/index.html

    Back to lurking while I gather up the guts to join this community for real :smile:
  • bows22bows22 member
    @MrsW524 thank you so much for the information! I posted an update in WTO yesterday but didn’t circle back to here. All is well, that was apparently just the information given “if” the scenario was negative, my actual result was positive. I was wondering about how closely related measles and rubella really are though and if immunity to rubella is indicative of immunity to measles as well. I guess they are mutually exclusive. Thanks for chiming in! You should join us, it took me a long time to get up the courage as well but I just started small and it became easier. 
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