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Newbie Intro w/o 3/4

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Re: Newbie Intro w/o 3/4

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  • @binkiesandbiceps welcome! Please don’t be nervous. There are a great group of ladies here and look forward to getting to know you. 
  • @b_1029 and @kbrown2385 - Thanks, ladies! I should have mentioned that I have severe social anxiety! I just don't want to make mistakes and make people think I am being rude on purpose! 
  • @binkiesandbiceps I understand where you're coming from I'm similar in that I stress over whether or not I'm following the rules for anything. You're doing fine!
    *TW* History
    TTC #1 since 7.2017
    Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies

    IUI #1-3 all BFN
    IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
    FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
    RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
    FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
    2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
    Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
    TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20

    Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
    Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
    Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
    Bloodwork | 10.21.21 high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
    BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22 B) | biopsy provided same effect as endometrial scratch; added supplemental progesterone and estrogen, prednisone, levothyroxine, and MTX Support to maintain pregnancy
    DS born 7.19.22 after induction


    TTC #2 begins 6.2023
    Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
    Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
    Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
    Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
    Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
    Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
    Repeat labs in 8 weeks
    Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
    TTC ended due to filing divorce

    **New relationship starting May 2024**

    Surprise BFP!! | 9.7.25 | EDD 5.11.26
    Its Gonna Be May GIFs  Tenor
  • Welcome @binkiesandbiceps and @_khaleesi

    @_khaleesi love the SN and I also love weight lifting and hate cardio 
  • b_1029b_1029 member
    edited March 2019
    @binkiesandbiceps I totally understand that- I’m the same way! I think I compulsively studied the rules when I first joined lol.

    Also @kimmer1412 / @_khaleesi +1 for only liking weights but no cardio. I hate the actual CrossFit part of CrossFit but know I wouldn’t do any cardio otherwise 🤷🏼‍♀️
  • @binkiesandbiceps I also felt like that at first for sure! That just means you'll probably make a stellar member of this community. Also, big props for being a HS English teacher!!! I'm getting my PhD right now in English & Creative Writing & I hope to stay in academic/teaching college. Teaching high school seems like it would be super rewarding but really hard. What are some of your fave lessons you get to teach? Let me know when you have the chance!
  • @binkiesandbiceps I also felt like that at first for sure! That just means you'll probably make a stellar member of this community. Also, big props for being a HS English teacher!!! I'm getting my PhD right now in English & Creative Writing & I hope to stay in academic/teaching college. Teaching high school seems like it would be super rewarding but really hard. What are some of your fave lessons you get to teach? Let me know when you have the chance!
    @kagesstarshroom - Oh! I've been thinking about getting my PhD, but I keep finding excuses. I'm currently getting a second masters in Instructional Technology Leadership and I'm really excited! I only have a few more classes left. 

    I love my job! We are currently working on my favorite unit: Romeo and Juliet. (I personally prefer Hamlet, Julius Caesar, or Much Ado, but R+J is required!) They have really been getting into it. We're about to write an essay about how they felt about the ending (most of them have really hated it) and argue what they think Shakespeare's main message is (theme). We also watch clips from various versions and write a media analysis. 

    I am also a grammar nerd, so I really enjoy my grammar lessons! 
  • @binkiesandbiceps aw. I remember reading R+J in hs. Also not my fave Shakespeare (As You Like It & the Tempest, but so many memorable lines--plus I heart that 90s film w/ Leo & Claire Danes so so much. / Also a grammar nerd here! I taught a college level grammar class when I used to adjunct. I LOVED it. The students.... not so much haha. Would love to teach it again someday; it was centered on sentence diagramming. 
  • @kagesstarshroom - You just became my new best friend. I love sentence diagramming! 
  • @_khaleesi I'm dying for the new season and I totally have a girl crush on Khaleesi. I'm so sad it's the last season though. I'm trying to convince MH to rewatch the series but he's not into it as much as me. 
  • @binkiesandbiceps:  I had to giggle about your "nervous" entry - no worries, if you're generally trying to be decent folks are pretty forgiving!!!  It's the one-off posts that rub everyone the wrong way!!

    @_khaleesi:  welcome!!!  I love GOT and cannot wait for the final season!!!!

    @littlesheep123:  welcome! 
  • @chichiphin I am so sorry you're back here, friend <3 . You've been on my mind and in my prayers lately! Also, I hate Oreos as well.
    TW
    BFP 6/3/19 EDD 2/14/20 BFP 4/15/21 EDD 12/20/21
    Diagnosed with PCOS & Hashimoto's
  • @chichiphin So sorry for your loss  <3
    Me: 35 DH: 35
    TTC since 9/2018
    Dx: MFI
    10/19- First RE visit
    2/20- DH had surgery for bilateral varicoceles 
    7/20- IUI with 5 mg letrozole- BFN
    9/20- IVF. 9 eggs retrieved, 9 mature, 8 fertilized with ICSI, 7 blasts, 4 PGT-A normal
    11/20- Mock transfer/ERA
    12/20- FET #1- transferred one 4AB- BFN
    3/21- FET #2- transferred one 3AB- BFP! Due Dec 2021
    12/21- Baby girl born!

  • @chichiphin my heart is breaking to see you back here.  I am so sorry.  Take time for yourself and YH. 
    Me:37 MH:37
    TTGP since 07/2017
    **TW** in spoiler
    DX: PCOS, anovulatory, AMA
    Femara X3: no response
    Clomid X3: BFN (cyst and thin lining)
    IUI (Dec '18) MMC
    IVF (April '19) 9 retrieved, 7 fertilized, 2 normal PGT-A
    FET 06/12/19 - BFP! EDD 02/27/20




  • @chichiphin I am so sorry to see you back here! :'( My heart dropped when I saw your name on this thread. Of course, we welcome you back with open arms. <3 I’m just so sorry. 
  • @chichiphin my lovetit is a hug. So sorry you’re back here and you and YH are going through this. 
  • @chichiphin I am sorry to see you back here  :'( I am sending you lots of love  <3
    TTC#1
    10/2018: MFI (2 SA under 9 million/ml)
    11/2018: HSG shows right Fallopian tube slightly damaged 
    1/2019: Husband diagnosed with grade 3 varicocele
    4/05/2019: varicocele repair surgery
    6/13/2019: BFP!!! EDD: 2/22/2020 <3  Baby girl born 2/27/2020
    7/18/2019: Total Motile Count at 3 months post surgery = 51 millions!! (number must be >20 millions to conceive naturally).

    TTC #2
    9/07/2021: BFP - CP: 9/10/2021
    10/07/2021: BFP - CP: 10/23/2021
    12/23/2021: BFP! EDD: 08/31/2022

  • @chichiphin I am so very sorry you are back here, but you will always be welcome with open arms. Whenever you're ready. Sending you lots of love and hugs in the meantime. And I really don't like oreos as much as it may seem, I just have FOMO and like to know what's new and hot lol. I have a couple new packs of cookies as a direct result of that convo but it'll probably take me 3 months to eat them.

    TTC History:

    Me: 36  MH: 39, TTC since Dec 2017

    Aug '18: PCOS dx

    Nov '18: MH SA - 19mil

    Dec '18-Mar '19: Letrozole + TI - all BFN

    Apr '19: Letrozole + TI, - BFN.  Repeat SA (27mil) & DNA fragmentation test (17%)

    Aug '19: Letrozole + HCG trigger + IUI + prog supp - BFN (MH: 16mil)

    Sep '19: 2nd IUI, same protocol - BFN (MH: 16mil) 

    Dec '19: IVF #1 w/ICSI, PGT. 5 retrieved, 4 fertilized, 3 blasts, 3 PGT-A normal.

    Mar '20: FET #1, perfect 5AA blast transferred. BFN.

    Sept '20: FET #2, 5BB tsf. 9/18/20 BFP!! EDD: 5/27/21. MMC 11w                                                  

    Feb ‘21: FET #3, last 6BB blast transferred. BFP, EDD 11/2/21. MC 5w3d. 

    May '21: IVF #2 w/ICSI, PGT. 8R, 7M, 6F, 6 blasts - 3AB, 3AB, 3BB, 4BB, 5BB, 6BA. Fresh tsf 5/13/21 - BFN. 

    June '21: PGT-A results = 3 abnormal, 1 low level mosaic. Referred to new REI, had consult with 2nd RE in between. 


    Sept '21: RPL, immune testing normal

    Oct '21: IVF #3 w/IMSI, PGT. 33R, 26M, 23F, 9 blasts (7 day 6, 2 day 7). PGT-A = 5 normal, 1 mosaic

    Dec '21: Positive for endometritis, RX Flagyl & Keflex

    Jan '22: FET #5 - Kitchen sink immune/RIF protocol incl. PRP, intralipids, prednisone, medrol, nivestym, fragmin - CP

    Feb '22: FET #6 - Kitchen sink immune/RIF protocol w/higher doses of pred & fragmin - BFN

    Mar '22: Mock cycle for ERA - cancelled, repeat endometrial biopsy instead. Still positive for endometritis. RX ciprofloxacin & amoxicillin. 

    Apr '22: IVF #4 w/IMSI, PGT. 28R, 23M, 16F, 11 blasts. PGT-A = 6 normal. 

    June '22: FET #7 - Microdose lupron downreg w/kitchen sink immune/RIF protocol - double embryo transfer. BFN.

    July '22: FET #8 - Mini stim w/Puregon + trigger, kitchen sink immune/RIF protocol. BFN. 

    Sep '22: Taking a break

    Dec '22: Attempted abdominal myomectomy, fibroid too close to cervix and major blood vessels. Wasn't removed. 

    Feb '23: FET #9 - Modified natural w/baby asp, HCG trigger, PIO, PRP, Medrol, HCG wash, embryo glue - BFP!! EDD 11/11/23


  • @chichiphin I am so sorry for your loss. And for your opinions on Oreos. But truly, so much love to you.
  • @chichiphin - I understand that feeling of needing to be back in familiar territory. We love you and are mourning your loss with heavy hearts. Feel free to rant or ask for support in the TTCAL group, or just hang if that's what you need. 
    Okay...so no Oreos, but what about Peeps??
  • @chichiphin:  many hugs to you.
  • @chichiphin so sorry to see you back here 😢 
    *TW* History
    TTC #1 since 7.2017
    Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies

    IUI #1-3 all BFN
    IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
    FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
    RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
    FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
    2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
    Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
    TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20

    Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
    Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
    Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
    Bloodwork | 10.21.21 high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
    BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22 B) | biopsy provided same effect as endometrial scratch; added supplemental progesterone and estrogen, prednisone, levothyroxine, and MTX Support to maintain pregnancy
    DS born 7.19.22 after induction


    TTC #2 begins 6.2023
    Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
    Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
    Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
    Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
    Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
    Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
    Repeat labs in 8 weeks
    Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
    TTC ended due to filing divorce

    **New relationship starting May 2024**

    Surprise BFP!! | 9.7.25 | EDD 5.11.26
    Its Gonna Be May GIFs  Tenor
  • @chichiphin I am so very sorry for your loss. Of course you are welcome, you have many people here who love you.  Jump in whenever you are ready, we are all here for you.  So many hugs. 💜
  • @chichiphin ^^^WSS. Wish you weren't back here. 
  • I don't know you, but @chichiphin, I am so sorry for your loss.  <3 
  • @chichiphin
    I’m so sorry you’re back :( 
  • So sorry for your loss @chichiphin

    @popoverthemoon welcome to the board fellow newbie!
  • Oh @chichiphin I am sorry for your loss.  Please take however much time you need and participate however you see fit.  TTCAL has been an amazing support system for me after my 2 recent losses, and we'd love to have you over there regardless of whether or not you're actively trying.  <3 
    **TW**
    Me: 35 | H: 40
    Married Sept. 2013
    DS1: Nov 11, 2016 <3
    MMC: 11/16/18 (9w6d)
    CP: 2/3/19 (5w3d)
    BFP!  8/24/19
    DS2: May 10, 2020 <3


  • I'm so sorry for your loss @chichiphin
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