@highsteaks That sucks. How do ppl go to someone's house and not offer to help? Any time I stay with friends, I always offer to help and with family I just do it. That is how it works. I couldn't imagine staying with someone a whole week and not help out in some way. I'm sorry, friend, all the wine and hugs.
@wildrainbow thank you for sharing. i’m sad that you had to go through all that.i think it’s suppose to be laparoscopic. do you mind me asking a few more questions about recovery? three days— 1) were you able to get up out of bed or off the couch? 2) and/or go up and down stairs? 3) were you able to lift/hold anything? 4) and how much time should my dh need to take off to take full care of the kids? 5) would i be able to breastfeed or hold the twins during recovery? 6) after those first three days, would you say normal tasks were easy to do again?sorry that’s a lot to look at. i changed it to a list because i thought it might be easier to answer.