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Dec 2018 FET

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Re: Dec 2018 FET

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  • @ruger0228 Maybe your embryo implanted on day 3 and it's starting to burrow further into your uterus and that's why you're just now feeling it.  What kind of test are you using at home?  Drink some pomegranate juice... it helps increase blood flow to the uterus.

    @italianmommy8 I'll be thinking about you tomorrow.  Did you do a fresh transfer or a frozen?

    Me: 34  DH: 36

    Married: 6 years

    TTC: 6 years

    Diagnosis: Male Factor

    4 Failed I.U.I's with Clomid in 2017 

    Retreival #1: 12/17= 9 eggs, 6 fertilized, 2 frozen 5dp

    Fresh Transfer #1: 12/17- BFN

    FET #1: 3/18- CP   Beta #1= 30 & Beta #2= 26

    Retreival #2: 6/18= 16 eggs, 10 fertilized, 5 frozen 6dp

    FET #2: 7/18 - M/C at 9 weeks    Beta #1= 229 & Beta #2= 444

    FET #3: scheduled for 12/7/18  M/C at 7 weeks  :'(  Beta #1 = 50, Beta # 2 = 115, Beta #3 = 301

    FET #4:  scheduled for 8/16/19

  • @elvedon
    YAAAAAAAAAAY!!!  Congrats!  What an awesome Christmas gift!!!  So excited for you, girl!

    Me: 34  DH: 36

    Married: 6 years

    TTC: 6 years

    Diagnosis: Male Factor

    4 Failed I.U.I's with Clomid in 2017 

    Retreival #1: 12/17= 9 eggs, 6 fertilized, 2 frozen 5dp

    Fresh Transfer #1: 12/17- BFN

    FET #1: 3/18- CP   Beta #1= 30 & Beta #2= 26

    Retreival #2: 6/18= 16 eggs, 10 fertilized, 5 frozen 6dp

    FET #2: 7/18 - M/C at 9 weeks    Beta #1= 229 & Beta #2= 444

    FET #3: scheduled for 12/7/18  M/C at 7 weeks  :'(  Beta #1 = 50, Beta # 2 = 115, Beta #3 = 301

    FET #4:  scheduled for 8/16/19

  • @elvedon congrats on your beta! 

    I hope that it’s just late implanting. I did a frozen five day transfer on 12/13. 
  • @Kriztyn I’m so sorry that happened to you I can’t imagine. I’d be crazed over this.

  • @ruger0228 let’s hope we both just implanted late!!! If we implanted on day 5...when should we expect a positive??
  • @lindsjacobs
    Congrats girl!! Do you still feel occassional pulling or cramping?

    I have been super fatigued the last 2 mornings and I keep feeling slight cramps at night time. 

    Me: 34  DH: 36

    Married: 6 years

    TTC: 6 years

    Diagnosis: Male Factor

    4 Failed I.U.I's with Clomid in 2017 

    Retreival #1: 12/17= 9 eggs, 6 fertilized, 2 frozen 5dp

    Fresh Transfer #1: 12/17- BFN

    FET #1: 3/18- CP   Beta #1= 30 & Beta #2= 26

    Retreival #2: 6/18= 16 eggs, 10 fertilized, 5 frozen 6dp

    FET #2: 7/18 - M/C at 9 weeks    Beta #1= 229 & Beta #2= 444

    FET #3: scheduled for 12/7/18  M/C at 7 weeks  :'(  Beta #1 = 50, Beta # 2 = 115, Beta #3 = 301

    FET #4:  scheduled for 8/16/19

  • @kimberlyshae
    Not feeling cramping at all. Maybe a little pulling here and there. The nausea is light, but noticeable today, along with fatigue.

    Me: 38 DH: 38
    Married: 10 years
    TTC: 10 years
    Diagnosis: Male Factor
    Open Embryo Adoption #1: B/G Twins 2014 (Transferred 3 untested embryos and had twins. 35.5 weeks. Natural birth.)
    Open Embryo Adoption #2: Singleton 2017 (Transferred 1 PGS hatching blast female and had singleton at 40 weeks. Home/water birth.)
    Semi-Open/Closed Embryo Adoption #3: FET 12/6/18 (1 PGS hatching blast male)
    HPT: Positive 2DP 6DT (Took test in the evening but line didn't appear until 10-15 minutes after taking test)
    HPT: Positive 3DP 6DT. (Took test in the evening and line appeared immediately though still the same strength as previous day).

    ing)


    "For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." Jeremiah 29:11


  • @kimberlyshae
    I am and have been holding you in my thoughts and wishing that your beta tomorrow morning brings you the best possible results.
  • Ok I finally had my follow up appointment today.  They said my lining looks good at a 7-something and my transfer will probably take place around New Years.  My natural cycles ladies, is there anything I can do to help ovulation along?  I’m off next week and would love to have my transfer then if possible.  I know I read here that drinking pomegranate juice might help anything else?

    thanks!  
  • @kimberlyshae, I’m thinking of you today🥳
    Me: 38 DH: 38
    Married: 10 years
    TTC: 10 years
    Diagnosis: Male Factor
    Open Embryo Adoption #1: B/G Twins 2014 (Transferred 3 untested embryos and had twins. 35.5 weeks. Natural birth.)
    Open Embryo Adoption #2: Singleton 2017 (Transferred 1 PGS hatching blast female and had singleton at 40 weeks. Home/water birth.)
    Semi-Open/Closed Embryo Adoption #3: FET 12/6/18 (1 PGS hatching blast male)
    HPT: Positive 2DP 6DT (Took test in the evening but line didn't appear until 10-15 minutes after taking test)
    HPT: Positive 3DP 6DT. (Took test in the evening and line appeared immediately though still the same strength as previous day).

    ing)


    "For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." Jeremiah 29:11


  • Thinking of you @kimberlyshae
    Pregnancy TickerAbout me: *TW*

    Me: 34, DH: 38                                                                                                                                                                                
    TTC #1 June of 2014  9/14 BFP, baby boy EDD 5/18/15. Elias (Eli) born 5/13/15 7lb0oz, 19 inches.                                      
    Surprise BFP 10/15, live ectopic, lost ruptured tube on 11/5/15 at 8 weeks                                                                              
    Started TTC #2 2/16                                                                                                                                                                   
    HSG 1/18 after no BFPs- diagnosed w/ tubal infertility and referred to RE                                                                     
    3/28/18 remaining tube removed                                                                                                                                              
    IVF 5/18: 15 retrieved, 11 fertilized, 8 blasts -- (3) 4aa, (2) 5aa (2) 4ba frozen -- fresh transfer of 1 day-5 4aa blast, BFP, EDD 2/4/19

  • @kimberlyshae happy dance!!  So excited for you!
    December FET Spreadsheet
    TTC History in spoiler  Instagram
    Me 35 - DH 42
    Married Oct 2007
    TTC Since Oct 2010 - MFI Diagnosis 2012 (Morphology 1% + High DNA Frag)
    IUI x2 in 2012 - BFN
    IVF #1 Feb 2018 - 9 Retrieved - 8 Mature - 5 Fertilized - 2 Snowbabies - no testing
    FET#1 March 2018 - BFP - MMC May @ 10w4d
    FET#2 July 2018 - BFN
    IVF #2 Nov 2018 - 10 Retrieved - 10 Mature - 8 Fertilized - 2 Snowbabies - no testing
    “Never give up on something that you can't go a day without thinking about.”― Winston Churchill
  • @italianmommy8 my transfer is pushed to December 31. Impatiently waiting for my next check in on dec 26 haha
  • @kimberlyshae
    BEST CHRISTMAS PRESENT EVER!  So happy for you!
  • @kimberlyshae
    Yeah!!!!!

    Me: 38 DH: 38
    Married: 10 years
    TTC: 10 years
    Diagnosis: Male Factor
    Open Embryo Adoption #1: B/G Twins 2014 (Transferred 3 untested embryos and had twins. 35.5 weeks. Natural birth.)
    Open Embryo Adoption #2: Singleton 2017 (Transferred 1 PGS hatching blast female and had singleton at 40 weeks. Home/water birth.)
    Semi-Open/Closed Embryo Adoption #3: FET 12/6/18 (1 PGS hatching blast male)
    HPT: Positive 2DP 6DT (Took test in the evening but line didn't appear until 10-15 minutes after taking test)
    HPT: Positive 3DP 6DT. (Took test in the evening and line appeared immediately though still the same strength as previous day).

    ing)


    "For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." Jeremiah 29:11


  • Yeah I might go to the Dollar Store tomorrow and get some tests there so I don't spend a fortune to see what I already think I know :(
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  • I remember all that from our Fresh transfer in July! :)   This time, I could barely see the ultrasound screen from how they had it tilted (which I thought was weird, but didn't think anything of it), and I FELT the catheter... I am just confused as to why she never hit the plunger and gave it back to the embryologist if she didn't push it? The whole situation is so unclear and upsetting. I'm trying to stay positive but it's hard. I feel the normal crampy symptoms but I get that from Estrace and PIO... so it's nothing new. Going to get a test or 2 tomorrow and go from there..
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  • @Kriztyn Did they tell you they didn't push the plunger or could you see that they didn't push it? I hope everything turns out ok!! I hope those cramps are from that embryo getting all nice and snuggly in there!! 

    Me: 34  DH: 36

    Married: 6 years

    TTC: 6 years

    Diagnosis: Male Factor

    4 Failed I.U.I's with Clomid in 2017 

    Retreival #1: 12/17= 9 eggs, 6 fertilized, 2 frozen 5dp

    Fresh Transfer #1: 12/17- BFN

    FET #1: 3/18- CP   Beta #1= 30 & Beta #2= 26

    Retreival #2: 6/18= 16 eggs, 10 fertilized, 5 frozen 6dp

    FET #2: 7/18 - M/C at 9 weeks    Beta #1= 229 & Beta #2= 444

    FET #3: scheduled for 12/7/18  M/C at 7 weeks  :'(  Beta #1 = 50, Beta # 2 = 115, Beta #3 = 301

    FET #4:  scheduled for 8/16/19

  • Sanity check:  is it ridiculous to pay $40 OOP for additional HCG tests at a private lab?  My betas were strong but I’m so terrified of yet another chemical. My ultrasound is in 12 days. 
  • Vent in spoiler
    I woke up this morning and just started crying uncontrollably. I haven’t had a single symptom, no cramping, pulling, twinges, not even sore breasts or bloating........nothing. It took me so long to get here and I thought I would feel better knowing I had a couple more frozen, but I don’t. I just want this to work SO bad. A week ago I felt like I could go through 10 more retrievals if needed, but today I feel tired, I’m just so tired of trying and getting no where. Well vent over, gotta put on a happy face, it’s Christmas time, a time when everyone is suppose to be happy. Thanks for letting me vent 

    **History in spoiler**

    Me: 39 DH: 40

    Diagnosis: Severe Tubal Blockage, DOR, One Ovary 

    TTC Since: 2007

    Retrieval #1: 7/2012 = 4 eggs, 4 fertilized, 3 frozen 5dp

    FET #1 (one embryo) 11/2012 - BFP - Daughter born 7/2013 💝 

    FET #2 (two embryos) 11/2015 - BFN

    Retrieval #2: 7/2017 = 2 eggs, 2 fertilized

    Fresh Transfer #1 (two day 3 embryos): 7/2017 - BFN

    Retrieval #3: 9/2017 = Cancelled/Ovulated Early

    Retrieval #4: 1/2018 = All Follicles Empty

    Retrieval #5: 2/2018 = 3 eggs, 3 fertilized, all 3 stopped growing on day2

    Retrieval #6: 8/2018 = Cancelled/Ovulated Early

    Retrieval #7: 9/2018 = 4 eggs, 4 fertilized, 4 frozen 3dp

    ERA Biopsy: 10/2018 Results: Pre-receptive. Need 24hrs more progesterone 

    ReceptivaDX Biopsy: 10/2018 Results: BCL6 level 2.0 (slightly elevated)

    FET #3: (one embryo) 12/17/2018 🙏



  • @onebrightlight it's still early for you. You may not feel much of anything yet. My boobs didn't start getting sore until 10dp. Some people dont feel any symptoms at all. Try not to stress too much. Are you going to test or hold out til beta?  

    @elvedon if it gives you peace of mind then I say go for it. $40 isn't extreme. 

    Me: 34  DH: 36

    Married: 6 years

    TTC: 6 years

    Diagnosis: Male Factor

    4 Failed I.U.I's with Clomid in 2017 

    Retreival #1: 12/17= 9 eggs, 6 fertilized, 2 frozen 5dp

    Fresh Transfer #1: 12/17- BFN

    FET #1: 3/18- CP   Beta #1= 30 & Beta #2= 26

    Retreival #2: 6/18= 16 eggs, 10 fertilized, 5 frozen 6dp

    FET #2: 7/18 - M/C at 9 weeks    Beta #1= 229 & Beta #2= 444

    FET #3: scheduled for 12/7/18  M/C at 7 weeks  :'(  Beta #1 = 50, Beta # 2 = 115, Beta #3 = 301

    FET #4:  scheduled for 8/16/19

  • @zamora_spin
    Congrats!!!! Doubling in 24 hours is amazing.  <3. I know what you mean though... I'm excited that I'm moving in the right direction but I'm still holding my breath until I see the hb on my ultrasound. For now, I'm cautiously optimistic. 

    Me: 34  DH: 36

    Married: 6 years

    TTC: 6 years

    Diagnosis: Male Factor

    4 Failed I.U.I's with Clomid in 2017 

    Retreival #1: 12/17= 9 eggs, 6 fertilized, 2 frozen 5dp

    Fresh Transfer #1: 12/17- BFN

    FET #1: 3/18- CP   Beta #1= 30 & Beta #2= 26

    Retreival #2: 6/18= 16 eggs, 10 fertilized, 5 frozen 6dp

    FET #2: 7/18 - M/C at 9 weeks    Beta #1= 229 & Beta #2= 444

    FET #3: scheduled for 12/7/18  M/C at 7 weeks  :'(  Beta #1 = 50, Beta # 2 = 115, Beta #3 = 301

    FET #4:  scheduled for 8/16/19

  • @elvedon I agree with the other ladies if that $40 will give you peace of mind then do it. As Zamora said when it comes to IVF what’s $40. What will create more anxiety for you spending the money or worrying about the numbers. What will bring you peace?

    TTC#1 10/2016
    TTC/IF:included medicated cycles, IUIs and 2 rounds of IVF with 1 embryo each. 
    BFP finally in 12/2018

    TTC#2 06/2021
    planning FET


    "Some days are diamonds, some days are rocks,
    some doors are open, some roads are blocked" 

  • @kimberlyshae Thank you, we are leaving for Christmas vacation today so I’m hoping my mind will be distracted. I plan to test on Tuesday which will be 8dp3dt and 2 days before beta. 
    **History in spoiler**

    Me: 39 DH: 40

    Diagnosis: Severe Tubal Blockage, DOR, One Ovary 

    TTC Since: 2007

    Retrieval #1: 7/2012 = 4 eggs, 4 fertilized, 3 frozen 5dp

    FET #1 (one embryo) 11/2012 - BFP - Daughter born 7/2013 💝 

    FET #2 (two embryos) 11/2015 - BFN

    Retrieval #2: 7/2017 = 2 eggs, 2 fertilized

    Fresh Transfer #1 (two day 3 embryos): 7/2017 - BFN

    Retrieval #3: 9/2017 = Cancelled/Ovulated Early

    Retrieval #4: 1/2018 = All Follicles Empty

    Retrieval #5: 2/2018 = 3 eggs, 3 fertilized, all 3 stopped growing on day2

    Retrieval #6: 8/2018 = Cancelled/Ovulated Early

    Retrieval #7: 9/2018 = 4 eggs, 4 fertilized, 4 frozen 3dp

    ERA Biopsy: 10/2018 Results: Pre-receptive. Need 24hrs more progesterone 

    ReceptivaDX Biopsy: 10/2018 Results: BCL6 level 2.0 (slightly elevated)

    FET #3: (one embryo) 12/17/2018 🙏



  • Off to the Jan 2019 FET...went for blood work Friday morning to see if it worked and it was negative 0 beta...our first FET transfer was on 12/13 with 5AB frozen embryo. Cried a lot yesterday, so hard! Was told to take off estrogen patches and no more progesterone with sesame oil injections since yesterday afternoon. She said I’ll gey my period in a few days, and then on cycle day #3 I’ll start monitoring and start estrogen patches again. I had issues with fluid leaking into my uterus on and off looks like my last csection in 2011 might be the cause csection scar and my lining was barely 6.4 mm at transfer. Just so bummed. 
    I wish you all best of luck!!! 
  • @italianmommy8
    I'm soooo sorry!! :'(  You're right, it's so hard!! But I'm glad to hear that you're jumping right back in in January. Drink some wine over the holidays and I'll be stalking the January board to check on you! 

    Me: 34  DH: 36

    Married: 6 years

    TTC: 6 years

    Diagnosis: Male Factor

    4 Failed I.U.I's with Clomid in 2017 

    Retreival #1: 12/17= 9 eggs, 6 fertilized, 2 frozen 5dp

    Fresh Transfer #1: 12/17- BFN

    FET #1: 3/18- CP   Beta #1= 30 & Beta #2= 26

    Retreival #2: 6/18= 16 eggs, 10 fertilized, 5 frozen 6dp

    FET #2: 7/18 - M/C at 9 weeks    Beta #1= 229 & Beta #2= 444

    FET #3: scheduled for 12/7/18  M/C at 7 weeks  :'(  Beta #1 = 50, Beta # 2 = 115, Beta #3 = 301

    FET #4:  scheduled for 8/16/19

  • Thanks, all. 

    I decided to ask my nurse if I can have another beta. If she says yes, that’s the problem solved, and if she doesn’t, she will explain why it’s not necessary this time. I figured out that what was bothering me was going behind my doctor’s back, in essence, instead of asking his opinion and trusting it. If I can’t feel like we’re on the same team, that’s a problem. 
  • My third and hopefully final beta is scheduled for this Thursday. I’ve been going crazy testing and waiting for the control line to start fading. I finally got what I was looking for tonight🙌🏼 Ultrasound is scheduled for Jan 3, which will put me at 7 weeks. Does anyone else feel like this is taking forever???? It seems like this doctor does everything a week later than most other doctors I’ve worked with. 🥴



    Me: 38 DH: 38
    Married: 10 years
    TTC: 10 years
    Diagnosis: Male Factor
    Open Embryo Adoption #1: B/G Twins 2014 (Transferred 3 untested embryos and had twins. 35.5 weeks. Natural birth.)
    Open Embryo Adoption #2: Singleton 2017 (Transferred 1 PGS hatching blast female and had singleton at 40 weeks. Home/water birth.)
    Semi-Open/Closed Embryo Adoption #3: FET 12/6/18 (1 PGS hatching blast male)
    HPT: Positive 2DP 6DT (Took test in the evening but line didn't appear until 10-15 minutes after taking test)
    HPT: Positive 3DP 6DT. (Took test in the evening and line appeared immediately though still the same strength as previous day).

    ing)


    "For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." Jeremiah 29:11


  • *lurking* @ChristenMA83 So excited for you! FX Friday is a great day!!! <3 
    TTC #1 since April 2015
    June 2016 - CP
    2017 - Medicated Cycles & IUI's
    IVF w/ PGS  - January 2018
    FET #1 - April 2018 - BFN
    ERA Cycle May / June 2018
    ERA Biopsy June 2018 ~ Results: receptive (no change)
    FET #2 - July 2018 - BFP <3 Beta #1 - 137 Beta #2 - 410
    U/S #1 7wk1d - HB 144 U/S #2 9w1d HB 166
    Anatomy Scan 1st 11/2/18 2nd AS 11/19
    EDD March 28, 2019
    Baby Girl born 3/26/19  <3



  • @lindsjacobs why are they doing are 3rd beta on you? Your numbers are strong. I had no idea that the test line would steal die from the control line. I had to google that one  :D GL to you tomorrow!
    I haven't tested since day 11. I feel like I would drive myself crazy! 

    Me: 34  DH: 36

    Married: 6 years

    TTC: 6 years

    Diagnosis: Male Factor

    4 Failed I.U.I's with Clomid in 2017 

    Retreival #1: 12/17= 9 eggs, 6 fertilized, 2 frozen 5dp

    Fresh Transfer #1: 12/17- BFN

    FET #1: 3/18- CP   Beta #1= 30 & Beta #2= 26

    Retreival #2: 6/18= 16 eggs, 10 fertilized, 5 frozen 6dp

    FET #2: 7/18 - M/C at 9 weeks    Beta #1= 229 & Beta #2= 444

    FET #3: scheduled for 12/7/18  M/C at 7 weeks  :'(  Beta #1 = 50, Beta # 2 = 115, Beta #3 = 301

    FET #4:  scheduled for 8/16/19

  • @kimberlyshae
    Great question! I wish I knew💁🏼‍♀️ I’m guessing they prefer to see the beta in the thousands before doing an ultrasound. It has been a very stressful week for me. I’m the past, I would be having my 6 week ultrasound tomorrow, not another beta. Today is the last day I will test at home, since the control line is almost gone. I’ve never tested past the 2nd beta, but to be honest, this doctor made me a bit nervous requesting a 3rd to begin with. Are you going on for an ultrasound on the 3rd or 4th? Mine is the 3rd. I’m so excited for you🥳 How are you feeling?&nbsp;<br><br><img src="https://us.v-cdn.net/5020794/uploads/editor/do/jzxff8bmyjjq.jpeg" alt=""><br>

    Me: 38 DH: 38
    Married: 10 years
    TTC: 10 years
    Diagnosis: Male Factor
    Open Embryo Adoption #1: B/G Twins 2014 (Transferred 3 untested embryos and had twins. 35.5 weeks. Natural birth.)
    Open Embryo Adoption #2: Singleton 2017 (Transferred 1 PGS hatching blast female and had singleton at 40 weeks. Home/water birth.)
    Semi-Open/Closed Embryo Adoption #3: FET 12/6/18 (1 PGS hatching blast male)
    HPT: Positive 2DP 6DT (Took test in the evening but line didn't appear until 10-15 minutes after taking test)
    HPT: Positive 3DP 6DT. (Took test in the evening and line appeared immediately though still the same strength as previous day).

    ing)


    "For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." Jeremiah 29:11


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