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Month/Cycle:
CD/DPO:
Timing:
Typical LP length:
Testing:
R/R:
CS/Q:
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Re: TWW Wednesday 10/3
CD/DPO: 28/12
Timing: -4, -2, -1
Typical LP length: 13
Testing: tomorrow and super nervous
R/R: Omg, my wart looks aweful today. Huge white blister forming on my friggin index finger with a large crater in the center. Looks super professional.... I really want to cover it with a bandaid but don't know if that's okay or not 😖🤢
CS/Q: temps are not where I would expect/hope for potential BFP but I need to test either way due to the testing I'm scheduled to have. But aside from temps, things are lining up to look ALOT like last cycle.....
CD/DPO: 27/10 (going with FF advanced)
Timing: good
Typical LP length: 9
Testing: BFN this AM. WFAF, but testing on Sat morning if I make it
R/R: Got up and made it to the gym before WFH today. However I have some awful groin ligament tenderness. Must be from walking all over campus the past two days for meetings. I think I logged 6.5 miles on Monday.
CS/Q: So. temped an hour early (by mistake) but even if I were to adjust the temp by what I see on google, it would still be a big drop. Temp was discarded. I'm trying to convince myself that FF was right, this is 10DPO and either AF is coming today OR I had a 9/10 DPO implantation dip. HI I AM CRAZY TODAY.
married 11.1.14
ttc #1 since 5.18
bfp 12.22.18 letrozole + progesterone
d&e due to trisomy 13/hydrops at 15wks
bfp 7.21.19 letrozole + IUI
little girl A born 3.26.20
@prpl11butterfly good luck testing tomorrow! 🤞🏼
married 11.1.14
ttc #1 since 5.18
bfp 12.22.18 letrozole + progesterone
d&e due to trisomy 13/hydrops at 15wks
bfp 7.21.19 letrozole + IUI
little girl A born 3.26.20
CD/DPO: 28/8
Timing: -3, -2, 0
Typical LP length: 7
Testing: WFAF
R/R: I can't believe I've made it to 8 dpo. It's a Halloween miracle! I'm going to credit the B12 shot and B6 vitamins. Thanks, everyone for all of the advice. I never would have researched what a short LP was without you.
CS/Q: Nothing.
@chichiphin - I'm sorry about the BFN and the temp drop
@elle-0409 - Yay for a longer LP!!! And maybe a positive in your near future?? So if you're WFAF and it's 1 day past due, when do you think you'll test?
Month/Cycle: 5/5
CD/DPO: 25/7
Timing: -5, -3, -1, +1
Typical LP length: 8-11
Testing: Trying to hold off til Monday. But my weekdays are busy, so I may do it Sunday...or Saturday, I'll be 10dpo! Guys, talk me down.
R/R: I put on a few pounds in the last month since I weighed myself. There's just been too many fall goodies, and then we have Halloween candy, Thanksgiving, and Christmas cookies. HELP! Lol. I just need to say no.
CS/Q: Temp keeps rising! I'm way too hopeful about this cycle, it's scaring me.
@chichiphin So sorry for the BFN. Hoping AF stays away
@elle-0409 Yay for longer LPs!
@marebear15 I think we’re in the same boat with the temps! Try to hold out until Monday if you can 😊
Month/Cycle: 3/3
CD/DPO: 25/9
Timing: High
Typical LP length: 12-14
Testing: Sunday
R/R: After a crazy last couple days for work, I fly home today, which I’m happy about. Also, I kept tossing last night and slept horrible! One of those... if I fall asleep now, I’ll get x hours of sleep.
CS/Q: That said, I think my temp is slightly high because of that. I’m excited that they keep going up, but I’m nervous that the other shoe will drop...
chart in spoiler
CD/DPO: 21/6
Timing: -3, -2, -1, 0, +1
Typical LP length: 13-15 days
Testing: H did his SA today. Results at the end of the week.
R/R: I am so mad at myself. I changed jobs 2.5 years ago and with my new insurance, I can only go to a certain health system. The PCP I've been using for the last 4 years isn't part of this system (of course) and I just realized it yesterday after I did my physical. I was wondering why I had to pay so much out of pocket. I just assumed it was my insurance. The OB/GYN office I have been seeing for the last 4 years is part of this health system. Guess what? I never saw a bill from them in the last 2.5 years. Good thing I rarely go to the doctor but now I know and I need to find a new PCP
CS/Q chart in spoiler. Nothing major happening right now.
10/2018: MFI (2 SA under 9 million/ml)
11/2018: HSG shows right Fallopian tube slightly damaged
1/2019: Husband diagnosed with grade 3 varicocele
4/05/2019: varicocele repair surgery
6/13/2019: BFP!!! EDD: 2/22/2020
7/18/2019: Total Motile Count at 3 months post surgery = 51 millions!! (number must be >20 millions to conceive naturally).
TTC #2
9/07/2021: BFP - CP: 9/10/2021
10/07/2021: BFP - CP: 10/23/2021
12/23/2021: BFP! EDD: 08/31/2022
@chichiphin Sorry for the BFN. I wouldn't discard the temp. 1 hour early might be fine for FF. I know I've done it 45 mins early and still got a blue dot.
@elle-0409 yay for a longer LP!
@marebear15 temps looking good!
@cpiper39 looking good too!
10/2018: MFI (2 SA under 9 million/ml)
11/2018: HSG shows right Fallopian tube slightly damaged
1/2019: Husband diagnosed with grade 3 varicocele
4/05/2019: varicocele repair surgery
6/13/2019: BFP!!! EDD: 2/22/2020
7/18/2019: Total Motile Count at 3 months post surgery = 51 millions!! (number must be >20 millions to conceive naturally).
TTC #2
9/07/2021: BFP - CP: 9/10/2021
10/07/2021: BFP - CP: 10/23/2021
12/23/2021: BFP! EDD: 08/31/2022
married 11.1.14
ttc #1 since 5.18
bfp 12.22.18 letrozole + progesterone
d&e due to trisomy 13/hydrops at 15wks
bfp 7.21.19 letrozole + IUI
little girl A born 3.26.20
@chichiphin sorry about bfn. Still crossing my fingers!
@elle-0409 Yay for longer LP. Have fun on the coasters. I'm terrified of them.
@cpiper39 hope you get some rest today.
@marebear15 Temps looking good!
Month/Cycle: 10/10
Edited for missing words.
@elle-0409 that's great that your LP seems to be responding well! FX that even if this isn't THE cycle that you LP continues for a few more days.
@marebear15 fx that those temps are a good sign!!
@cpiper39 I hope that other shoe stays put. And, I actually want this cycle to look like last ....just needs to end better then that one....
@rikiteacup I hope the SA results are good. Sorry about the insurance issues. Such a frustrating thing to deal with even not TTC.
@asupernovablizzardstorm sorry AF is dragging her feet. It's only even been frozen by a PCP and DIY kits. The stuff the Derm used was much stronger. Then the salicylic acid she has me using is something new. I'll try it. After a few months ill probably just ask her to amputate 😂
CD/DPO: 23/5
Timing: Good
Typical LP length: 13-14
Testing: Next Friday if I can hold out.
R/R: I picked up some extra hours at work yesterday and tomorrow and my workout plan is suffering. I haven't run in a few days and need to figure out when I can over the next few days.
CS/Q: Temperature dropped a bit today, still above the coverline, no questions or SS yet!
@chichiphin Sorry about the BFN
@elle-0409 I'm glad your LP is lengthening!
@marebear15 FX!
10/2018: MFI (2 SA under 9 million/ml)
11/2018: HSG shows right Fallopian tube slightly damaged
1/2019: Husband diagnosed with grade 3 varicocele
4/05/2019: varicocele repair surgery
6/13/2019: BFP!!! EDD: 2/22/2020
7/18/2019: Total Motile Count at 3 months post surgery = 51 millions!! (number must be >20 millions to conceive naturally).
TTC #2
9/07/2021: BFP - CP: 9/10/2021
10/07/2021: BFP - CP: 10/23/2021
12/23/2021: BFP! EDD: 08/31/2022
married 11.1.14
ttc #1 since 5.18
bfp 12.22.18 letrozole + progesterone
d&e due to trisomy 13/hydrops at 15wks
bfp 7.21.19 letrozole + IUI
little girl A born 3.26.20
@chichiphin Good for you on making it to the gym! My goal is to start going back next week when my rec center reopens, after conveniently closing when I finally built up the motivation again
@elle-0409 Congrats on the longer LH! FX that this cycle works out for you!
@marebear15 Your chart looks so good!
@cpiper39 Yay on the temp rising! I hope you get some good rest tonight.
@rikiteacup That is so infuriating. I wish that Dr offices were more forthcoming about whether or not they are providers for your insurance, not just whether or not they will bill to them. I had this happen with a dentist recently where they acted like they were providers but then I got a $250 bill for a cleaning.
@asupernovablizzardstorm I'm sorry about the temp drop
@jessg2223 I've read that a temp drop around 4-5dpo is totally normal. FX for your temp to keep rising!
Month/Cycle: 3/2
CD/DPO: 32/1
Timing: Great
Typical LP length: 12
Testing: Mid to late next week
R/R: Rave/ having real O cramps today and that makes me feel super excited that despite starting out an-O, things are looking up! Rant/ I've got nothing today, just feeling good and trying to stay positive.
CS/Q: Giving my old BBT thermometer a try this week. My super long cycle is bizarre to say the least but I am feeling good about O this time!
CD/DPO: 22/10
Timing: -3, -2, -1
Typical LP length: 11-12
Testing: WFAF (Friday) but my willpower is crumbling fast. I went to two grocery stores this AM to look for a FRER, but both were sold out. Perhaps its a sign to wait.
R/R: The wait is killing me. I just want to know. I'm extra anxious because I'm going home in exactly two weeks to see my best friends for a long girls weekend and for a family wedding. I'm so excited to see everyone I could scream. This would be icing on the cake, but I'm getting ahead of myself.
My head is so unsettled right now that I'm having a hard time focusing on anything other than my uterus. I know that this is all self-induced and that I have the ability to calm myself (thank you, years of therapy) but I think there's a part of me that doesn't want to calm down.
Anyway, I've been bloated as hell the last two days. I'm only able to wear leggings right now. My hands and feet are swollen and I have no appetite. My boobs hurt and my nipples could cut glass. I fell asleep with a hot water bottle last night. AF needs to just show herself or not already. Or maybe its still this Mississippi heat. Who knows.
CS/Q: If you're interested, my chart is in the spoiler.
@elle-0409 yay for longer LP! That's great news. FX for you!!
TTC History:
Me: 36 MH: 39, TTC since Dec 2017
Aug '18: PCOS dx
Nov '18: MH SA - 19mil
Dec '18-Mar '19: Letrozole + TI - all BFN
Apr '19: Letrozole + TI, - BFN. Repeat SA (27mil) & DNA fragmentation test (17%)
Aug '19: Letrozole + HCG trigger + IUI + prog supp - BFN (MH: 16mil)
Sep '19: 2nd IUI, same protocol - BFN (MH: 16mil)
Dec '19: IVF #1 w/ICSI, PGT. 5 retrieved, 4 fertilized, 3 blasts, 3 PGT-A normal.
Mar '20: FET #1, perfect 5AA blast transferred. BFN.
Sept '20: FET #2, 5BB tsf. 9/18/20 BFP!! EDD: 5/27/21. MMC 11w
Feb ‘21: FET #3, last 6BB blast transferred. BFP, EDD 11/2/21. MC 5w3d.
May '21: IVF #2 w/ICSI, PGT. 8R, 7M, 6F, 6 blasts - 3AB, 3AB, 3BB, 4BB, 5BB, 6BA. Fresh tsf 5/13/21 - BFN.
June '21: PGT-A results = 3 abnormal, 1 low level mosaic. Referred to new REI, had consult with 2nd RE in between.
Sept '21: RPL, immune testing normal
Oct '21: IVF #3 w/IMSI, PGT. 33R, 26M, 23F, 9 blasts (7 day 6, 2 day 7). PGT-A = 5 normal, 1 mosaic
Dec '21: Positive for endometritis, RX Flagyl & Keflex
Jan '22: FET #5 - Kitchen sink immune/RIF protocol incl. PRP, intralipids, prednisone, medrol, nivestym, fragmin - CP
Feb '22: FET #6 - Kitchen sink immune/RIF protocol w/higher doses of pred & fragmin - BFN
Mar '22: Mock cycle for ERA - cancelled, repeat endometrial biopsy instead. Still positive for endometritis. RX ciprofloxacin & amoxicillin.
Apr '22: IVF #4 w/IMSI, PGT. 28R, 23M, 16F, 11 blasts. PGT-A = 6 normal.
June '22: FET #7 - Microdose lupron downreg w/kitchen sink immune/RIF protocol - double embryo transfer. BFN.
July '22: FET #8 - Mini stim w/Puregon + trigger, kitchen sink immune/RIF protocol. BFN.
Sep '22: Taking a break
Dec '22: Attempted abdominal myomectomy, fibroid too close to cervix and major blood vessels. Wasn't removed.
Feb '23: FET #9 - Modified natural w/baby asp, HCG trigger, PIO, PRP, Medrol, HCG wash, embryo glue - BFP!! EDD 11/11/23
@harrierwife I would be SS too if I were you, FX for you!! And for everyone else testing in the next few days!
CD/DPO: 29/11 (or 29/9?)
Timing: -5,-4,-3,-1,+1 (or -5,-3,-1,O if I’m 9DPO)
Typical LP length: 12 days
Testing: BFN on a cheapie today, saving FRER for tomorrow and Friday. Was hoping I’d have a definitive result before this weekend - we’re going out of town with family for a wedding and I could really use a drink if I’m able to! But if I did actually O later I might not even get AF in time to have that confirmation 🙄
R/R: Rave: Finally getting into a groove at work (at a new school this year). Rant: I just keep grabbing my boobs like a crazy person. My right boob is definitely sore, like the upper inside part towards my chest. No idea if it’s from all the grabbing or when I Googled, it could just be from TWW hormones. I need to stop grabbing and see if it goes away when/if AF shows.
CS/Q: Temp is still rising... but no spotting yet. I think I usually get a day of spotting before AF so that should be a warning, hopefully before this wedding if that’s the case... My high hopes are slowly being knocked down to normal levels.
married 11.1.14
ttc #1 since 5.18
bfp 12.22.18 letrozole + progesterone
d&e due to trisomy 13/hydrops at 15wks
bfp 7.21.19 letrozole + IUI
little girl A born 3.26.20
@prpl11butterfly I'll be thinking about you tomorrow
@chichiphin Hi crazy! I'm also crazy. FX for you that AF stays away. A longer LP is always a good thing!! I hope you get a definitive answer soon.
@elle-0409 Yay for a longer LP!!!
@marebear15 I always prefer testing on the weekends (if you work regular M-F hours). I hate having to go to work after testing. FX for you!!! All the TTGP'ers in June is going to make me WAY MORE BUMMED if I end up out this cycle.
@cpiper39 I hope your temp is high tomorrow too!
@rikiteacup Chart looks great!! Ugh dealing with insurance is the worst.
@asupernovablizzardstorm Sorry about the low temps
@jessg2223 FX for a rise tomorrow!
@mamanbebe FX that you are right about O and your cycle is finally getting its act together!
@harrierwife I'm right there with you!! All the feels at the end of this TWW, especially with so many of us left hanging!
married 11.1.14
ttc #1 since 5.18
bfp 12.22.18 letrozole + progesterone
d&e due to trisomy 13/hydrops at 15wks
bfp 7.21.19 letrozole + IUI
little girl A born 3.26.20
@marebear15 I saw those posts too! Hopefully, that sends good vibes our way 😊
Sweet baby Jesus there are a ton of you so close!!! I am keeping everything crossed for good news from all of you!!! Well...TBH everything except my legs because FW is around the corner for me. 😉
Sweet baby Jesus is right @lillywonderland Y'all need to poas already! This is like the turtle race on Hart of Dixie for those of you who might be loyal fans.
Regardless of what happens ladies, all the hugs to all of you!
My 7 Year Journey ***Tw in spoiler***
IVF #1 - September 2018; Follistim, Menopur, Cetrotide & Lupron/HCG combo trigger; PGS; ICSI
Back on Levothyroxine
FET #1 - October 2018; cancelled, all PGS aneuploid
FET #1 - November 30th, transferred anyway
Wondfo BFP 5dp5dt, CB Digi 6dpt,
1st Beta on 7dpt 93
2nd Beta on 10dpt 510!
TTC #1 since 2011. Tried for 5 years before we knew there was a one year rule.
Diag w/MS 2016; w/PCOS & IF 2017
New RE 2018; PCOS diagnosis taken away, IF due to ovary adhesions, but prev. RE insists PCOS IF
IUI
IUI #1 July 2017 w/100mg Clo+trigger; BFN; benched w/big cysts
IUI #2 October 2017 w/50mg Clo+trigger; BFN; benched w/big cysts
IUI #3 February 2018 w/5mg Femara+trigger; low P
BFP February; mc March; Subclinical hypothyroid started Levothyroxine
IUI #4 March 2018 w/7.5mg Femara+trigger; BFN
Medicated cycle & TI April 2018 w/7.5mg Femara+trigger; BFN
Tried several cycles on our own; all BFN
My 7 Year Journey ***Tw in spoiler***
IVF #1 - September 2018; Follistim, Menopur, Cetrotide & Lupron/HCG combo trigger; PGS; ICSI
Back on Levothyroxine
FET #1 - October 2018; cancelled, all PGS aneuploid
FET #1 - November 30th, transferred anyway
Wondfo BFP 5dp5dt, CB Digi 6dpt,
1st Beta on 7dpt 93
2nd Beta on 10dpt 510!
TTC #1 since 2011. Tried for 5 years before we knew there was a one year rule.
Diag w/MS 2016; w/PCOS & IF 2017
New RE 2018; PCOS diagnosis taken away, IF due to ovary adhesions, but prev. RE insists PCOS IF
IUI
IUI #1 July 2017 w/100mg Clo+trigger; BFN; benched w/big cysts
IUI #2 October 2017 w/50mg Clo+trigger; BFN; benched w/big cysts
IUI #3 February 2018 w/5mg Femara+trigger; low P
BFP February; mc March; Subclinical hypothyroid started Levothyroxine
IUI #4 March 2018 w/7.5mg Femara+trigger; BFN
Medicated cycle & TI April 2018 w/7.5mg Femara+trigger; BFN
Tried several cycles on our own; all BFN
TTC History:
Me: 36 MH: 39, TTC since Dec 2017
Aug '18: PCOS dx
Nov '18: MH SA - 19mil
Dec '18-Mar '19: Letrozole + TI - all BFN
Apr '19: Letrozole + TI, - BFN. Repeat SA (27mil) & DNA fragmentation test (17%)
Aug '19: Letrozole + HCG trigger + IUI + prog supp - BFN (MH: 16mil)
Sep '19: 2nd IUI, same protocol - BFN (MH: 16mil)
Dec '19: IVF #1 w/ICSI, PGT. 5 retrieved, 4 fertilized, 3 blasts, 3 PGT-A normal.
Mar '20: FET #1, perfect 5AA blast transferred. BFN.
Sept '20: FET #2, 5BB tsf. 9/18/20 BFP!! EDD: 5/27/21. MMC 11w
Feb ‘21: FET #3, last 6BB blast transferred. BFP, EDD 11/2/21. MC 5w3d.
May '21: IVF #2 w/ICSI, PGT. 8R, 7M, 6F, 6 blasts - 3AB, 3AB, 3BB, 4BB, 5BB, 6BA. Fresh tsf 5/13/21 - BFN.
June '21: PGT-A results = 3 abnormal, 1 low level mosaic. Referred to new REI, had consult with 2nd RE in between.
Sept '21: RPL, immune testing normal
Oct '21: IVF #3 w/IMSI, PGT. 33R, 26M, 23F, 9 blasts (7 day 6, 2 day 7). PGT-A = 5 normal, 1 mosaic
Dec '21: Positive for endometritis, RX Flagyl & Keflex
Jan '22: FET #5 - Kitchen sink immune/RIF protocol incl. PRP, intralipids, prednisone, medrol, nivestym, fragmin - CP
Feb '22: FET #6 - Kitchen sink immune/RIF protocol w/higher doses of pred & fragmin - BFN
Mar '22: Mock cycle for ERA - cancelled, repeat endometrial biopsy instead. Still positive for endometritis. RX ciprofloxacin & amoxicillin.
Apr '22: IVF #4 w/IMSI, PGT. 28R, 23M, 16F, 11 blasts. PGT-A = 6 normal.
June '22: FET #7 - Microdose lupron downreg w/kitchen sink immune/RIF protocol - double embryo transfer. BFN.
July '22: FET #8 - Mini stim w/Puregon + trigger, kitchen sink immune/RIF protocol. BFN.
Sep '22: Taking a break
Dec '22: Attempted abdominal myomectomy, fibroid too close to cervix and major blood vessels. Wasn't removed.
Feb '23: FET #9 - Modified natural w/baby asp, HCG trigger, PIO, PRP, Medrol, HCG wash, embryo glue - BFP!! EDD 11/11/23