@MrsDho11 I'm so sorry you had to go through that for finding the HB, that must have been so stressful. That sounds like a really emotionally draining appointment in general.
@MrsDho11 I'm so sorry you had to go through that for finding the HB, that must have been so stressful. That sounds like a really emotionally draining appointment in general.
Thanks. I’m still kinda emotional about it, and I’m giving myself a hard time over that because, I mean, everything is fine! Stupid hormones!
Me: 30 DH: 32 ~~ TTC #1: Sep 2015 ~~ BFP: Mar 2016 ~~ Daughter: Nov 2016 TTC #2: April 2018 ~~ BFP: May 2018 ~~ EDD: January 2019
@MrsDho11 did you have PE with other pregnancies? I had it with my first and for this pregnancy doctor started me on baby aspirin right away. It has helped and BP has been “normal” so far this time. Something to ask your provider about! Also, during my pregnancy with PE I took a blood pressure medication and BP remained ok until 36 weeks. Hopefully you won’t have PE!
@MrsDho11 Ah! What a whirlwind appointment. I would have been bawling through that scary ordeal as well. Also boo to the BP elevation. Hopefully it was a one time thing. My BP is routinely in the 130s/70s at my OB but I guess since that's my 'normal' there it doesn't concern them (I have white coat hypertension).
Me: 28 DH: 26 Married: November 2015 TTC#1: January 2016 BFP #1: 5/02/16 - MC: 5/27/16 BFP #2: 10/06/16: 6 - EDD: 06/20/17 DD Born 06/23/17 TFAS: April 2018 BFP #3: 03/21/18 - CP BFP #4: 04/23/18 - EDD 01/04/19
I am doing the Centering Pregnancy group at my OB's office. We had our first appointment this past Monday. It was really fun to meet the other women in my area who are all due in January. Got to hear the baby's heartbeat. And then about 1 hour of discussion about the Centering group and how it was going to run and our first monthly topic - nutrition. Which was OK but I feel like it was pretty basic info that is common sense for anyone who has ever tried to lose weight - (portion control, etc.) It was really nice to get that extra time with the midwives (they run the Centering group) so I am looking forward to next month. Also scheduled my AS but its not until September - very jealous of having it so early!
My Dr called and they have reffered me to the MFM. Aty appointment the sonographer said it would be because of the contraction that we saw. But the receptionist was under the impression that it was because of my SCH. So now I don't know what to think and I'm just waiting for the MFM office to call me and schedule my anatomy scan.
@MrsDho11 did you have PE with other pregnancies? I had it with my first and for this pregnancy doctor started me on baby aspirin right away. It has helped and BP has been “normal” so far this time. Something to ask your provider about! Also, during my pregnancy with PE I took a blood pressure medication and BP remained ok until 36 weeks. Hopefully you won’t have PE!
Last time I think they decided that I just had pregnancy hypertension and not PE (though I think it’s up for debate as to whether or not those are different things somewhat lately). I ended up being induced at 39 weeks after my OB conversed with a MFM because my BP was cranking up and definitely all over the place, but I never had any bad labs. They do have me taking the baby aspirin just in case— technically I don’t meet the exact requirements for that, but it’s more of a “better safe than sorry” thing. The extra labs next week are also a just in case thing— so they can have a baseline to compare against later in the pregnancy.
Me: 30 DH: 32 ~~ TTC #1: Sep 2015 ~~ BFP: Mar 2016 ~~ Daughter: Nov 2016 TTC #2: April 2018 ~~ BFP: May 2018 ~~ EDD: January 2019
@MrsDho11 Ah! What a whirlwind appointment. I would have been bawling through that scary ordeal as well. Also boo to the BP elevation. Hopefully it was a one time thing. My BP is routinely in the 130s/70s at my OB but I guess since that's my 'normal' there it doesn't concern them (I have white coat hypertension).
I definitely can have a bit of a white coat issue sometimes, but it has generally been good in the lead up to getting KU this time. This wasn’t an alarming raise, but just crossing the threshold to the 130s had me side-eyeing the machine. We’ll see what the number looks like in another 4 weeks!
Me: 30 DH: 32 ~~ TTC #1: Sep 2015 ~~ BFP: Mar 2016 ~~ Daughter: Nov 2016 TTC #2: April 2018 ~~ BFP: May 2018 ~~ EDD: January 2019
I had the AS done today and confirmed it’s a boy! I’m going to have two boys. Yikes! DH had not been able to attend an ultrasound so he was excited to see Baby Boy today.
Lots of happenings at today's appointment. Doc wanted to do early PE screen and a quad screen AND early glucose. Thanks AMA. Plus side baby cooperated and we found out sex. We aren't telling anyone until the kids know though so I'll post in the other thread later.
Checkup went well, she checked my cervix and said it's closed and feels long but we have an ultrasound to check it soon anyway. She found LG on the Doppler and she had to chase her as she rolled away lol
I have an appointment on Wednesday! (The 8th). From my original estimates, I would be 16+1, but at my last ultrasound the baby was measuring 9 days behind so I might be more like 14+5 at the appointment. I'm not really sure what we're gonna do on wednesday... I'm hoping for another ultrasound, but if not then I hope we at least get to hear the heartbeat or something. I'd really love an ultrasound though, to see how the baby is measuring now.
Also my blood work and pee test just came back, my thyroid is holding steadily in the normal range and no protein or anything in my pee yet, plus my BP has been great so we're looking good so far.
Hi moms, had my monthly appointment (17 weeks) and found out it’s a girl. :-) I was also told that I have “amniotic separation,” something about a clot (either associated with it or resulting in it) near my cervix. Doctor said she had cases of separation elsewhere, but not my case where it’s happened by my cervix. Does anyone know anything about this issue? Very little practical information on the internet besides scary stuff. :-( Trying to remain calm and optimistic. Doctor says I need to reduce physical activity for now.
I had my appointment with the dietician yesterday and it actually went really well. It wasn’t the basic “eat this” one that I got last time, we actually discussed insulin dosing and timing more than food. It really helps when they acknowledge that I know what I am doing and so we can work more as a team. Their advice tends to be much more helpful then. She got my Endo to prescribe nighttime insulin which I’ve been trying to do. She also wants me to try to get a CGM or borrow my dad’s. We’ll see if that actually happens.
I had another quick unltrasound check of my cervix today and everything still looks good. DH surprised me and met me there so he got to see the baby for the first time since like week 7. We saw a different doctor than my normal doctor and I didn’t care for her. Maybe I’m just spoiled by having a long history with my normal doctor but this doc didn’t say much, barely checked on the baby (other than a quick listen to the heartbeat) and didn’t print us any pictures. /end whining
Had my Wednesday appointment, and it went okay. We got to hear the heartbeat, but other than that it was pretty boring. Doctor said I've lost a few pounds since my last visit, but she said it could be because of first trimester nausea and we used a different scale this time. Either way, now I'm just trying to make sure im eating a lot lol.
Next appointment im supposed to do the quad screening, and then schedule my anatomy scan!
@MrsDho11 I had pre eclampsia with my first. So now my blood pressure is always just a little bit high when I get it checked because I’m so nervous about it. Early on my dr suggested using a machine to check my blood pressure at home when I’m relaxed so we know whether it’s consistently elevated. I keep a journal of this and bring it to appointments. It helps tremendously.
Married 6.21.2014 DD #1: 8.16.2015 #2 EDD: 1.13.2019
We have our Anatomy Scan and appointment this week! We are excited to find out whether DD will be getting a little brother or sister (and also means we will actually have to start getting everything ready lol)
@ladystout08 I always try to have a pretty full bladder before appointments. Mainly because sometimes they ask for urine samples and others the don't (for me I rarely have to). But for our A/S with DD, when she wouldn't get in the position they needed, they had me drink some water to try to help her move around
@ladystout08 I'd go in with a full bladder. Easier to release it if you don't need it than to have to drink and wait when you get there (and possibly have to reschedule).
Oct 16: Spontaneous BFP | m/c @ 9w1d (massive SCH) | D&C Apr 17: IUI #1 = BFN May 17: IUI #2 = BFN Jun 17: IUI #3 = Late BFP (18 DPO) | NMC 17Jul17 @ ~6w Aug 17: IUI #4 = Cancelled due to premature ovulation | TI = BFN Sep 17: IUI #5 = Cancelled due to overstimulation (10+ follies) Nov 17: IVF #1 = Cancelled due to non-IF related health issue | TI = BFN Dec 17: IVF #1 = Puregon 200, Menopur 75, Orgalutran, Suprefact trigger due to OHSS risk | 22R, 18M, 16F, 10B frozen Feb 18: FET #1 (medicated) = BFN Mar 18: FET #2 (natural cycle) = CP (beta 1: 54; beta 2: 0)
Apr 18: FET #3 (natural cycle) = cancelled due to missed ovulation
Apr 18: FET #3 (natural cycle) = BFP! Beta 1: 201 Beta 2: 585 Beta 3: 3254 Beta 4: 9715
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@ladystout08 Ditto to what the others have said, plus my U/S tech told me she had to take some photos of my bladder area while it was full, after which she let me go to the bathroom for the rest of the scan. I think there is an actual requirement for a full bladder.
@ladystout08 For sure, and if you feel like you're about to wet yourself before the scan, you can always just go release a little bit - enough that you're not sweating - before your scan. They can see when your bladder reaches its limit and most have some degree of compassion, haha.
I had my 16 wk appt Friday. I asked my OB about scheduling anatomy scan and he checked my previous NT scan. He realized I didn’t get it done at the hospital antenatal testing center he referred me to. I work in healthcare consulting and know just how much costs vary if you go to a stand alone imaging center vs. hospital affiliated one (insurance will charge facility fees for that and depending on deductible, you are paying more out of your pocket).
Well, he told me I needed to get my anatomy scan done at the hospital antenatal center because DD was born a month early. It was spontaneous membrane rupture (water broke) and I wasn’t at risk for anything up until that point. Apparently because of this history, I should be monitored more closely & frequently. He told me to expect frequent follow ups at the antenatal testing center even after my anatomy scan and discussed progesterone shots. He also mentioned they’d want to monitor me for shortened cervix.
I REALLY don’t want to go through what we went through with DD so I’m thankful OB is taking it seriously and monitoring this pregnancy closely.
Otherwise, baby boy was wiggling and his heartbeat was lower than ever! He was always in 170s but it was 154 bpm at 16 weeks. He was waving hi or giving us the finger. I just hope we have a good anatomy scan in a few weeks! Fingers crossed.
So idk why this didn’t dawn on me earlier but a friend of mine is an ultrasound tech at my OB/RE practice but at their other office. I text her and she said they’ll have me empty my bladder before hand and it is transvaginal for the cervical check. She also said they’ll peek at little girl before they start.
@MrsDho11 I had pre eclampsia with my first. So now my blood pressure is always just a little bit high when I get it checked because I’m so nervous about it. Early on my dr suggested using a machine to check my blood pressure at home when I’m relaxed so we know whether it’s consistently elevated. I keep a journal of this and bring it to appointments. It helps tremendously.
Yes! We did this last pregnancy after it started being an issue, and it was usually at least a little better at home. I actually had to email the readings to my OB at the end of every week. I’ve pulled it out already to check a couple times just for piece of mind with a headache, etc., but I haven’t started recording it yet.
im going to add this to my list of questions for my next appointment with my OB though! If/when I need to start doing this again. Thanks for the reminder!
Me: 30 DH: 32 ~~ TTC #1: Sep 2015 ~~ BFP: Mar 2016 ~~ Daughter: Nov 2016 TTC #2: April 2018 ~~ BFP: May 2018 ~~ EDD: January 2019
Had my 16 wk today. Baby is doing well. I met the new ob in the practice. I liked her, but hated having to go thru the traumatic shit of my birth with DD. This new doc is very focused/concerned about PTSD and birth anxiety. It is better than a doc who minimizes it. However, I just wasn't prepared for a big discussion about my PTSD and anxiety. All the other docs in the practice know what happened, so I guess I had to bring the new doc up to speed, but I am just exhausted and sort of emotionally fragile after the unexpected discussion.
@luckymay2x that’s so tough. I had to surprise talk about my PPD at the end of my last appointment and it definitely threw me and left me emotionally exhausted. I hope you’re able to get some rest tonight and wake up feeling better tomorrow.
Me: 30 DH: 32 ~~ TTC #1: Sep 2015 ~~ BFP: Mar 2016 ~~ Daughter: Nov 2016 TTC #2: April 2018 ~~ BFP: May 2018 ~~ EDD: January 2019
U/S went well. Turns out, her head is directly on my cervix which may be why it's annoying me, the length looks good though. I think they want to check it again in a few weeks. She was asleep and had her back to us so the U/S tech shook my belly a little bit and she kicked me, punched and rolled over so we got a profile shot. Pretty sure she has my nose. She took some measurements and I'm measuring at 17w but otherwise, little girl looks good.
Quick update for me. 2nd tri blood work came back with an increase in risk of downs. So we were moved into the "high risk" category, though it's only 1 in 120, so that's good. Logically I know this, but emotionally I'm having a tough time. Going in for an amnio tomorrow afternoon (which I believe involves a mini-anatomy scan at the start of it), and hopefully we'll have (good) results from that in about 10-14 days.
I've been low participation the last couple weeks because toddler and potty training, but we're putting the potty training on hold while dealing with this. So I might try to be on here more. But also I might not really make it on because of the emotional aspect. *shrug* I'll do my best.
Me: 30 DH: 32 ~~ TTC #1: Sep 2015 ~~ BFP: Mar 2016 ~~ Daughter: Nov 2016 TTC #2: April 2018 ~~ BFP: May 2018 ~~ EDD: January 2019
I have my A/S tomorrow. We haven't seen our little guy since 9 weeks when he was just a gummy bear. I'll be 20+2 tomorrow. It feels like it's been forever since we've seen him. I can't wait to see the progress he's made.
Re: August appointments
TTC #2: April 2018 ~~ BFP: May 2018 ~~ EDD: January 2019
Married: November 2015
TTC#1: January 2016
BFP #1: 5/02/16 - MC: 5/27/16
BFP #2: 10/06/16: 6 - EDD: 06/20/17
DD Born 06/23/17
TFAS: April 2018
BFP #3: 03/21/18 - CP
BFP #4: 04/23/18 - EDD 01/04/19
TTC #2: April 2018 ~~ BFP: May 2018 ~~ EDD: January 2019
I definitely can have a bit of a white coat issue sometimes, but it has generally been good in the lead up to getting KU this time. This wasn’t an alarming raise, but just crossing the threshold to the 130s had me side-eyeing the machine.
TTC #2: April 2018 ~~ BFP: May 2018 ~~ EDD: January 2019
Married: November 2015
TTC#1: January 2016
BFP #1: 5/02/16 - MC: 5/27/16
BFP #2: 10/06/16: 6 - EDD: 06/20/17
DD Born 06/23/17
TFAS: April 2018
BFP #3: 03/21/18 - CP
BFP #4: 04/23/18 - EDD 01/04/19
I had the AS done today and confirmed it’s a boy! I’m going to have two boys. Yikes! DH had not been able to attend an ultrasound so he was excited to see Baby Boy today.
Plus side baby cooperated and we found out sex. We aren't telling anyone until the kids know though so I'll post in the other thread later.
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Meimsx no more
DS 05/29/2013
M/C 02/14/2017
M/C 06/05/2017
C/P 03/01/2018
BFP 05/17/2018 EDD 01/27/2019
DS 05/29/2013
M/C 02/14/2017
M/C 06/05/2017
C/P 03/01/2018
BFP 05/17/2018 EDD 01/27/2019
I was also told that I have “amniotic separation,” something about a clot (either associated with it or resulting in it) near my cervix. Doctor said she had cases of separation elsewhere, but not my case where it’s happened by my cervix. Does anyone know anything about this issue? Very little practical information on the internet besides scary stuff. :-( Trying to remain calm and optimistic. Doctor says I need to reduce physical activity for now.
DD- 11/2016
Next appointment im supposed to do the quad screening, and then schedule my anatomy scan!
DD #1: 8.16.2015
#2 EDD: 1.13.2019
Dating: 10/3/08 | Married: 12/27/14
TTC #1: August 2015 | BFP: 2/3/16 | EDD: 10/7/16
DD: 10/5/16
TTC #2: September 2017 | BFP: 4/28/18 | EDD: 1/7/19
DS: 1/9/19
DS 05/29/2013
M/C 02/14/2017
M/C 06/05/2017
C/P 03/01/2018
BFP 05/17/2018 EDD 01/27/2019
Dating: 10/3/08 | Married: 12/27/14
TTC #1: August 2015 | BFP: 2/3/16 | EDD: 10/7/16
DD: 10/5/16
TTC #2: September 2017 | BFP: 4/28/18 | EDD: 1/7/19
DS: 1/9/19
*TW loss and children mentioned*
Apr 17: IUI #1 = BFN
May 17: IUI #2 = BFN
Jun 17: IUI #3 = Late BFP (18 DPO) | NMC 17Jul17 @ ~6w
Aug 17: IUI #4 = Cancelled due to premature ovulation | TI = BFN
Sep 17: IUI #5 = Cancelled due to overstimulation (10+ follies)
Nov 17: IVF #1 = Cancelled due to non-IF related health issue | TI = BFN
Dec 17: IVF #1 = Puregon 200, Menopur 75, Orgalutran, Suprefact trigger due to OHSS risk | 22R, 18M, 16F, 10B frozen
Feb 18: FET #1 (medicated) = BFN
Mar 18: FET #2 (natural cycle) = CP (beta 1: 54; beta 2: 0)
EDD: 07Jan2019 Team Green
My Rainbow Baby Boy born 03Jan2019
DS 05/29/2013
M/C 02/14/2017
M/C 06/05/2017
C/P 03/01/2018
BFP 05/17/2018 EDD 01/27/2019
Well, he told me I needed to get my anatomy scan done at the hospital antenatal center because DD was born a month early. It was spontaneous membrane rupture (water broke) and I wasn’t at risk for anything up until that point. Apparently because of this history, I should be monitored more closely & frequently. He told me to expect frequent follow ups at the antenatal testing center even after my anatomy scan and discussed progesterone shots. He also mentioned they’d want to monitor me for shortened cervix.
I REALLY don’t want to go through what we went through with DD so I’m thankful OB is taking it seriously and monitoring this pregnancy closely.
Otherwise, baby boy was wiggling and his heartbeat was lower than ever! He was always in 170s but it was 154 bpm at 16 weeks. He was waving hi or giving us the finger. I just hope we have a good anatomy scan in a few weeks! Fingers crossed.
DS 05/29/2013
M/C 02/14/2017
M/C 06/05/2017
C/P 03/01/2018
BFP 05/17/2018 EDD 01/27/2019
im going to add this to my list of questions for my next appointment with my OB though! If/when I need to start doing this again. Thanks for the reminder!
TTC #2: April 2018 ~~ BFP: May 2018 ~~ EDD: January 2019
TTC #2: April 2018 ~~ BFP: May 2018 ~~ EDD: January 2019
DS 05/29/2013
M/C 02/14/2017
M/C 06/05/2017
C/P 03/01/2018
BFP 05/17/2018 EDD 01/27/2019
I've been low participation the last couple weeks because toddler and potty training, but we're putting the potty training on hold while dealing with this. So I might try to be on here more. But also I might not really make it on because of the emotional aspect. *shrug* I'll do my best.
TTC #2: April 2018 ~~ BFP: May 2018 ~~ EDD: January 2019
TTC #2: April 2018 ~~ BFP: May 2018 ~~ EDD: January 2019