I'm actually allergic to cannabis! DF discovered this after vaping in the house on one of our first dates and then had to take me to the hospital lol
Ladybug - April 2013 Dandelion - October 2018 Angel "Aurora" - July 2020 Angel "Sawyer" - May 2021 Angel "Maxine" - January 2022 Angel "Violet" - March 2022 Baby Dove due March 2023
I feel like my confession should be I’ve had exactly one partner in my entire life (DH). In fact, I only kissed one other person in my life. DH started dating when we were 16 so...
A much more mild confession, but I'm barely 21 weeks and I'm setting up the playard / bassinet already. It's going to be in my designated nursing area in the living room. That spot previously had housed ODD's play tent but she lost it today when she broke the frame. So I'm knocking it off my to-do list and justifying doing it so early by telling DF we need to get the dogs used to the baby gear anyway
Ladybug - April 2013 Dandelion - October 2018 Angel "Aurora" - July 2020 Angel "Sawyer" - May 2021 Angel "Maxine" - January 2022 Angel "Violet" - March 2022 Baby Dove due March 2023
Only ever smoked pot, drugs wise. Sex has been mostly vanilla (which is what we both prefer), except for a threesome in college while I was exploring my sexuality and wanted to have sex with a woman without being unfaithful. Kinda an unusual solution but it worked for us.
H and I have been plotting our empty nest phase since we got married. All of our friends were/are traveling and doing drugs in their 20s while we’ve been changing diapers, so we figure our kids will be out of the house while they’ve still got elementary school age kids, and then we’ll get our turn to be the ones having all the crazy fun. Also, in a perfect world (which, I mean, who daydreams about anything else?), there should be some more money kicking around by then so our wild phase will be well financed and particularly bougie.
Well... I was gonna confess today that I drool in my sleep. Like to the point I'll fold up a Kleenex to sleep on so I can throw it away and my pillow isn't wet. seems a little outta place here for some reason
Man. Maybe my FFFC should be that I've never tried any drugs and never will because I have major control issues. I've never even been drunk. Also, I've only had sex with DH and we waited until we were married.
Never done drugs, not really interested. I drink occasionally, but I'm extremely controlling about it because of alcoholism in the family. I don't allow myself to drink if I want one, only if I don't care. Only been with H, but we didn't start dating until I was 20. So... yeah, in this day and age perhaps that's my FFSC. Nothing really kinky or anything. No extra people (H has before me, but while he enjoyed it he didn't think it was really that great - prefers 1.) But H is very open to trying whatever, so I don't feel stuck or anything.
When you guys originally talked about getting like you should have been less conservative I went a whole different direction. I wish I had experiences I'll never have, but I don't regret doing the things I did. But like I've never rented an apartment - I bought a mobile home when I moved out of the house. Better financially to get that back. In college I worked full time overnight and went to school full time during the day. So no crazy parties or even random ones for me. That kind of thing... a little more tame and expected than this went to. Ha ha.
Also pretty tame here...no drugs/smoking/etc for me, just love me some wine Only ever dated DH and we didn't start dating until I graduated college. (didn't I say I was a big nerd in school? ) But, don't have any regrets. I'm not big on regretting things, I think you learn from those experiences, good or bad.
I think what's important is finding a partner who likes the same stuff you do (or allows you to do you), whether you embrace your wild side or prefer to be a little tamer
Heading back in the other direction, did a quick shave in the shower on my calves, haven't shaved above the knee in months! It's exhausting to! Thank God for blonde hairs!!
+1 to no regrets. I'm not exactly proud of how I met DH, but it happened and I met the most amazing man from it. I wouldn't be with him if we hadn't taken that chance.
+1 to avoiding shaving above the knee. I usually shave every other weekend because I have light leg hair, but I'm doing it even less.
I had all my wild times during high school and right after. When I turned 21 I quit drinking because I definitely was an alcoholic and knew I wanted more out of my life. I have the occasional drink at a party, but I’m totally fine going without. The last drink I had was a martini the night we celebrated our wedding in 2015. Totally worth it, it was at Emeril’s in New Orleans! I don’t regret any of my crazy times, but I’m glad I was smart enough to recognize when enough was enough.
I'm pretty tame as well. I've only ever smoked pot in high school and once with SO about 6 years ago now. I'm good without it though. I'm also not a big drinker anymore but I grew up with an alcoholic father so that's why.
I lost my virginity at 18 (drunken night with a coworker *facepalm*) and I kinda went a little wild after that until I met SO a year and a half later. It's only been him since. I'm bi and would definitely be down for a threesom but SO and I just dont have a good enough relationship for that anymore.
+1 to not shaving above the knee. It's just too much work and I really dont see it necessary. Haha
Joining the wild child train. I did a lot of “experimenting” in high school and college. Hallucinating was my therapy of choice. I’ve done it once or twice in the past few years but it wasn’t as enjoyable because my work was really emotionally taxing and I couldn’t stop thinking about my clients and how warped the world is. But when I retire I plan to go spend some time in the woods and trip balls.
In my early/mid 20s I was pretty into the kink scene. Mostly BDSM and swinging. I don’t know how I would have gotten through law school without that release. These days H and I work it into our repetiore but not as the constant theme. Weirdly I’ve gone from being a sub to exploring a more dom role and that has been pretty awesome. H is game as long as we switch it up.
Sub as well but so is DH, *sighs* he's been amazing at taking on the Dom role when needed but I try once in a while and feel so weird doing it. We've been pretty vanilla lately though
I both Top and Bottom. Depends on the day and the partner. Mostly though, I Top. None of my play partnerships allow for us to tell each other what to do though, so no dom/sub. If I end up in a relationship like that, I’m going to find myself a sweet thing to take care of me, since I’m not taking orders from anyone (except my cat).
Re: FFFC 6/8
Dandelion - October 2018
Angel "Aurora" - July 2020
Angel "Sawyer" - May 2021
Angel "Maxine" - January 2022
Angel "Violet" - March 2022
Baby Dove due March 2023
ETA everyone else’s FFFC threads are super boring.
Dandelion - October 2018
Angel "Aurora" - July 2020
Angel "Sawyer" - May 2021
Angel "Maxine" - January 2022
Angel "Violet" - March 2022
Baby Dove due March 2023
H and I have been plotting our empty nest phase since we got married. All of our friends were/are traveling and doing drugs in their 20s while we’ve been changing diapers, so we figure our kids will be out of the house while they’ve still got elementary school age kids, and then we’ll get our turn to be the ones having all the crazy fun. Also, in a perfect world (which, I mean, who daydreams about anything else?), there should be some more money kicking around by then so our wild phase will be well financed and particularly bougie.
DD 3/15/12
DD 6/3/14
#4 Due 10/26/18!
Only been with H, but we didn't start dating until I was 20. So... yeah, in this day and age perhaps that's my FFSC. Nothing really kinky or anything. No extra people (H has before me, but while he enjoyed it he didn't think it was really that great - prefers 1.)
But H is very open to trying whatever, so I don't feel stuck or anything.
When you guys originally talked about getting like you should have been less conservative I went a whole different direction. I wish I had experiences I'll never have, but I don't regret doing the things I did. But like I've never rented an apartment - I bought a mobile home when I moved out of the house. Better financially to get that back. In college I worked full time overnight and went to school full time during the day. So no crazy parties or even random ones for me. That kind of thing... a little more tame and expected than this went to. Ha ha.
I think what's important is finding a partner who likes the same stuff you do (or allows you to do you), whether you embrace your wild side or prefer to be a little tamer
ETA: damn, I used a lot of emojis, what am I, 12?
+1 to avoiding shaving above the knee. I usually shave every other weekend because I have light leg hair, but I'm doing it even less.
I lost my virginity at 18 (drunken night with a coworker *facepalm*) and I kinda went a little wild after that until I met SO a year and a half later. It's only been him since. I'm bi and would definitely be down for a threesom but SO and I just dont have a good enough relationship for that anymore.
+1 to not shaving above the knee. It's just too much work and I really dont see it necessary. Haha
In my early/mid 20s I was pretty into the kink scene. Mostly BDSM and swinging. I don’t know how I would have gotten through law school without that release. These days H and I work it into our repetiore but not as the constant theme. Weirdly I’ve gone from being a sub to exploring a more dom role and that has been pretty awesome. H is game as long as we switch it up.