I had a small glass of white wine on our picnic Wednesday with our godbabies parents. It was such a good time and he even proposed to her when we finished eating! I was so giddy about it and them sharing that moment with us
As soon as I’m done with laundry and running payroll I’m going to be irresponsible and lay by the pool for awhile. I’ll just pretend I don’t have a million things to do. I probably should go invest in a bikini that actually fits my giant leaky milk jugs first though. I’ll scar people enough with my white beached whale stomach so I should at least cover my boobs.
My mom wants me to stop at Costco to pick up a prescription she doesn’t need until Sunday. I’m so tired, I didn’t want to do it because I don’t know where it is and I’m out of data. Since they made checkin for my ultrasound at the lab, I stayed after my scan to do my glucose test. I’ll have been gone for so long at that point, she’ll tell me to forget it.
Sometimes I wish that I was more crazy/wild when I was younger and in college, and that I experimented a bit more. Don’t get me wrong, I’m totally happy with where I am now, but I was always a little more on the conservative side (with my actions, not my political leanings/viewpoints), and sometimes wonder what I may have missed out on.
I also feel like we could use some FFFC-after dark around here, so that I could live vicariously through all of you!
@pumpkinpancake I wish the opposite! I was *too* wild and the number of men I’ve been with is crazy high. Lol. No real regrets, but I think I’d do it differently if I could. At least be a little smarter about it all.
@krzyriver I'm in the same boat. I was a wild teenager and basically a sex addict hooking up with lots of men! LOL I'm really surprised I didn't get pregnant or contract a STD. I'm glad I met DH at 22 otherwise I'm not sure if I would have escaped that life! Now I'm more conservative and enjoy the slower pace of life. ETA: I also did almost every kind of drug and it really isn't all it's cracked up to be! Luckily I had a good head on my shoulders and was able to be responsible about my wild side but it definitely was a part of my life I don't look back on fondly.
Me 33 DH 41 TTC since 2016 Due: October 12, 2018 Location: Ontario, Canada
@pumpkinpancake - I didn’t become a wild child until I got divorced. I was 33.
TW: Freak flag waving; may be troublesome for people dealing with infidelity issues.
Now I do all sorts of weird shit with people, including married ones whose spouses know exactly what we are up to, and occasionally show up to watch. (For the record, I have no interest in being party to infidelity; I am interested in ethical non-mongamy.) I don’t regret it at all- and I’m a lot smarter now about relationships, STIs, and long term consequences.
Actually- one of the best things about being a more mature wild child is that I now know how to ask for the things I want and reject the ones I don’t. It is so totally freeing knowing that I never have to have penetrative sex again. I realize that sounds weird, but I have a lot of issues and hang-ups around penetrative sex, and if I never engage in it again, I’ll be just fine.
Oh @sliztee acid is my favorite!! DH and I got into quite the crazy summer at raves and just long weekends on different things. I'm glad we had that crazy summer because now we're okay settling down and restricted ourselves to marijuana. Now that I'm pregnant I don't smoke and DH is smoking a lot less. Now when these Babies come and I have a good stash of breastmilk pumped I might be open to one or two more acid trips then being done for good. Maybe that should be in fffc.
@mamabearcj OMG I personally don't know how anyone could like acid! I tried it once and had the worst trip. I took it when I was already drunk and ended up blacking out most of the day/night. We had been partying for most of the day. I ended up having to be dragged down a gravel path out of a bush party by a guy who could barely carry me so I could get home in time for my curfew (I was 15). I got home an hour late and my mom just put me to bed. I then ended up peeing my bed and waking up on the floor. Could be that I was drunk already and that is why I had a bad experience because all my other friends loved it. I never attempted to try again! Ecstasy however was my jam. Loved going to raves on that and dancing all night then f@cking until the sun came out! I did not like coke, mushrooms (made me puke) and acid. Ended up just being a weed stoner until it made me too paranoid and panicky so I stopped all together in College.
Me 33 DH 41 TTC since 2016 Due: October 12, 2018 Location: Ontario, Canada
@chyvie oh my goodness who did you do acid with! They should not have let you do it that drunk! A little buzz is okay BUT I definitely preferred to do it "sober" Acid is my favorite. Shrooms and Molly are a close second. I hated coke it does nothing for me but gag me out and make my jaw sore from the amount if gum I chewed to hide the taste. DHs choice of drug would be ecstasy which I don't mind but don't love. Just gives me the jitters. The best environment I've done acid in is a either going for walks outside at 3am in the summer to look at the stars and it's comfortable weather, or laying in a comfy space with good vibey music and talking about everything and anything.
You girls are weird. I’m so ashamed of how much money I’ve put up my nose. The taste of cocaine?? Glorious. Unless it’s cut with bad stuff like soda. Honestly my mouth waters thinking of it!
There is NO way I’d ever do acid again now that I’m a full adult with real people problems and a whole human life I’m responsible for, but it was fun in my early 20’s.
Same goes for all the other wasted shit I did with my youth.
I'm so excited this FFFC thread took the turn it did. This is going to seem mild compared to the more recent confessions, lol, but DF and I have had multiple threesomes. In fact, our sperm donor is someone we had a threesome with. Our donor actually asked if he could be our boyfriend following our encounter. We're also into BDSM and DF is my Dom.
Ladybug - April 2013 Dandelion - October 2018 Angel "Aurora" - July 2020 Angel "Sawyer" - May 2021 Angel "Maxine" - January 2022 Angel "Violet" - March 2022 Baby Dove due March 2023
@mytrueloves agreed! I like where the thread is going too.. re: threesomes, that’s kind of one of the things that I was referring to in my earlier post that I sometimes wish we had done. In college, DH and I had briefly thrown the idea out there, but it never went any further than just a fantasy. Obviously I know it’s not too late to try it one day, but who knows?
@mytrueloves DH isn’t into stuff like that (BDSM) sober but we used to have some pretty amazing sex on cocaine. I really wish he’d loosen up a bit because my itch needs scratched again!! Drugs are out of our lives now though for good except weed so not even an option. If anyone has tips on how to get him interested/more comfortable...
Well dayum! I was just coming in here to confess that I haven't been to the dentist since I was pregnant with my 2 year old DS but this is way more interesting than that! I was such a crazy partier from early high school into college.. and then mostly stopped doing drugs after that but definitely still drank too much and way too much casual sex. I also feel so lucky that nothing too bad or permanent ever happened. We’ve found out that these twins are boys and I’m really relieved that I wont have to raise crazy teenage girls. I put my poor parents through so much. As a side note, I don't miss drinking much now but sure wish I could smoke a bit of pot these days! I honestly think it's probably not harmful, especially if using edibles or something without actual smoke but I still resist the urge.
I've shared before that when I met DH he was married and I had a relationship with him and his then wife (which actually ended about 3 years ago this week). They had been with another couple and another woman (who's now a good friend of mine) prior to me. Given that, DH and I aren't really open to sharing. Although, I would love to have another threesome and be with a girl again.
I've only ever done weed. I was very intoxicated the 3 or so times I have done it, which led to some stupid mistakes and me being really sick. (I cheated on a bf with an ex fling after getting high with him). I've always wanted to try ecstacy. I have done Adderall and that also was a bad idea at the time due to a break up and an ex being at the event (a Friend's wedding). I got wasted on top of the Adderall. My sister's dad was also a bad drug addict so it has left a bad taste in my mouth for some drugs. I don't care what others do as long as your children don't suffer.
My first two years of college I was with a long term BF. I entered my junior year of college having had one long term BF and a short summer BF and went a little crazy. To the point where I got in trouble with my sorority.
I love BDSM. I'm more into restraint and bondage with light pain play. More humiliation play. I have felt weird about it since becoming pregnant. We have tried once or twice to have some kinky fun, but I ended up feeling freaked out and worried about baby.
I haven't done anything other than weed, but I've always wanted to try ecstacy, acid, shrooms, something like that. I have zero interest in coke.
I miss weed so much while I'm pregnant. I quit when we started TTC with DD. Then finally got to do it again after she weaned at 1 year, then found out I was pregnant again a week later! So I got a small taste of it again! After this babe weans I'll go back to it again. It's a nice way to take the edge off since I rarely drink.
@sgtpeppers I have a family member in family services like dcyf and she said they were recently informed that the affects marijuana has on the fetus/newborn baby are worse than opiods. It completely slows their cell development and that's all they do in the womb is develop. Don't quote me I haven't looked into it personally but It was enough info for me to decide not to smoke during this pregnancy. I wouldn't judge anyone who chooses to of course that's their decision to make. Its also a new state law where I am that every baby born in the hospitals are to be tested for anything in their systems that shouldn't be.
I've always been interested in being with another girl, DH has been open to a threesome we just haven't looked seriously into it and now that I'm pregnant I wouldn't want to, so if it were to happen it'd be a few years down the road I think.
I haven't had a threesome, but we've had a foursome? Is that a thing? It was with H's best friend at the time and his girlfriend. It was a lot of fun for several months until the GF started to get jealous and told everyone that I was trying to steal her boyfriend from her. It caused a huge scene and we all stopped talking because of it. He ended up marrying her so she obviously had nothing to worry about.
I have been in many threesome/ foursome women senarios. I have also been with three guys at once. I have also been with just one women. I have tried it all. DH is pretty conservative but I honestly got it all out of my system and enjoy my monogamous relationship and don't think I need anything wild anymore. It was fun while I was younger!
Me 33 DH 41 TTC since 2016 Due: October 12, 2018 Location: Ontario, Canada
Y'all are making me feel like the biggest prude LOL
I have never done more than smoked weed and I have had sex with exactly one individual my whole life (DH)!
I was always so afraid to try drugs as there are many ppl in my extended family that have had trouble and or died of drug addiction/overdose. I was always so paranoid to even try.
Dang. I guess I’m pretty tame. Never done drugs. Never had a threesome. I’m bi, so I’ve been with women. That’s the most exciting thing about me I guess. Lol
I am vanilla. LOL never tried any drugs. Only partner - DH. And I wouldn't want it any other way. I am curious about weed but really no desire to actually try it.
Wow. My freak flag is in such great company around here!
My idea of a threesome involves three of us tying on and beating each other. (Well, usually two are tying and/or beating, and one receiving...)
I’ve never been into the use of chemicals other than caffeine.
Amusingly- I’m out to my Mom, and after meeting several of my friends at a birthday celebration, she wanted to know if (1) we were all sleeping with each other and (2) we did drugs. I made the mistake of telling her that what we did was dangerous enough without adding drugs or alcohol on top. (And no, we don’t all have sex with each other.)
I was only with one person, at least sexually, before DF. DF remains the only person who can make me orgasm. I've never done any drugs, including weed, or had any alcoholic drinks. I don't even take pain medication.
Ladybug - April 2013 Dandelion - October 2018 Angel "Aurora" - July 2020 Angel "Sawyer" - May 2021 Angel "Maxine" - January 2022 Angel "Violet" - March 2022 Baby Dove due March 2023
After the babies are here everyone is invited to my house for a moms only smoke sesh! I can get alllll the good stuff legally Chocolate (seriously), dab, wax, shatter, distillate, gummies, the best flower ever...and I make some pretty bomb brownies! Speaking of THC, you can get vaginal suppositories that are amazing for cramps. I was curious if it would help with healing after giving birth too? They’re high in CBD which is amazing for healing. Im sure there hasnt been any research done though...also the nursing thing would interfere.
I’m too much of a control freak to use drugs. I’ve never even smoked pot. I rarely drink (like maybe twice a year), and haven’t been with anyone other than DH since we started dating. In 1998.
I am so sheltered compared to you guys geez! I have also only dated 3 guys,last being DH. First left me to become a woman, and I support that but not the way I was used in the process. I have only smoked weed and drank. I miss weed when pregnant also but it’s never been a big thing in my life so it’s like a craving every 3 months. I am so curious an interested in all the things you have all done, it’s amazing!
Re: FFFC 6/8
I also feel like we could use some FFFC-after dark around here, so that I could live vicariously through all of you!
ETA: I also did almost every kind of drug and it really isn't all it's cracked up to be! Luckily I had a good head on my shoulders and was able to be responsible about my wild side but it definitely was a part of my life I don't look back on fondly.
TTC since 2016
Due: October 12, 2018
Location: Ontario, Canada
TW: Freak flag waving; may be troublesome for people dealing with infidelity issues.
Now I do all sorts of weird shit with people, including married ones whose spouses know exactly what we are up to, and occasionally show up to watch. (For the record, I have no interest in being party to infidelity; I am interested in ethical non-mongamy.) I don’t regret it at all- and I’m a lot smarter now about relationships, STIs, and long term consequences.
Actually- one of the best things about being a more mature wild child is that I now know how to ask for the things I want and reject the ones I don’t. It is so totally freeing knowing that I never have to have penetrative sex again. I realize that sounds weird, but I have a lot of issues and hang-ups around penetrative sex, and if I never engage in it again, I’ll be just fine.
Edit: just realized this is in fact fffc lol
Could be that I was drunk already and that is why I had a bad experience because all my other friends loved it. I never attempted to try again!
Ecstasy however was my jam. Loved going to raves on that and dancing all night then f@cking until the sun came out!
I did not like coke, mushrooms (made me puke) and acid. Ended up just being a weed stoner until it made me too paranoid and panicky so I stopped all together in College.
TTC since 2016
Due: October 12, 2018
Location: Ontario, Canada
Acid is my favorite. Shrooms and Molly are a close second. I hated coke it does nothing for me but gag me out and make my jaw sore from the amount if gum I chewed to hide the taste. DHs choice of drug would be ecstasy which I don't mind but don't love. Just gives me the jitters. The best environment I've done acid in is a either going for walks outside at 3am in the summer to look at the stars and it's comfortable weather, or laying in a comfy space with good vibey music and talking about everything and anything.
Same goes for all the other wasted shit I did with my youth.
This is going to seem mild compared to the more recent confessions, lol, but DF and I have had multiple threesomes. In fact, our sperm donor is someone we had a threesome with. Our donor actually asked if he could be our boyfriend following our encounter.
We're also into BDSM and DF is my Dom.
Dandelion - October 2018
Angel "Aurora" - July 2020
Angel "Sawyer" - May 2021
Angel "Maxine" - January 2022
Angel "Violet" - March 2022
Baby Dove due March 2023
I was such a crazy partier from early high school into college.. and then mostly stopped doing drugs after that but definitely still drank too much and way too much casual sex. I also feel so lucky that nothing too bad or permanent ever happened.
We’ve found out that these twins are boys and I’m really relieved that I wont have to raise crazy teenage girls. I put my poor parents through so much.
As a side note, I don't miss drinking much now but sure wish I could smoke a bit of pot these days! I honestly think it's probably not harmful, especially if using edibles or something without actual smoke but I still resist the urge.
I've shared before that when I met DH he was married and I had a relationship with him and his then wife (which actually ended about 3 years ago this week). They had been with another couple and another woman (who's now a good friend of mine) prior to me. Given that, DH and I aren't really open to sharing. Although, I would love to have another threesome and be with a girl again.
I've only ever done weed. I was very intoxicated the 3 or so times I have done it, which led to some stupid mistakes and me being really sick. (I cheated on a bf with an ex fling after getting high with him). I've always wanted to try ecstacy. I have done Adderall and that also was a bad idea at the time due to a break up and an ex being at the event (a Friend's wedding). I got wasted on top of the Adderall. My sister's dad was also a bad drug addict so it has left a bad taste in my mouth for some drugs. I don't care what others do as long as your children don't suffer.
My first two years of college I was with a long term BF. I entered my junior year of college having had one long term BF and a short summer BF and went a little crazy. To the point where I got in trouble with my sorority.
I love BDSM. I'm more into restraint and bondage with light pain play. More humiliation play. I have felt weird about it since becoming pregnant. We have tried once or twice to have some kinky fun, but I ended up feeling freaked out and worried about baby.
I miss weed so much while I'm pregnant. I quit when we started TTC with DD. Then finally got to do it again after she weaned at 1 year, then found out I was pregnant again a week later! So I got a small taste of it again! After this babe weans I'll go back to it again. It's a nice way to take the edge off since I rarely drink.
Its also a new state law where I am that every baby born in the hospitals are to be tested for anything in their systems that shouldn't be.
DH is pretty conservative but I honestly got it all out of my system and enjoy my monogamous relationship and don't think I need anything wild anymore. It was fun while I was younger!
TTC since 2016
Due: October 12, 2018
Location: Ontario, Canada
I have never done more than smoked weed and I have had sex with exactly one individual my whole life (DH)!
I was always so afraid to try drugs as there are many ppl in my extended family that have had trouble and or died of drug addiction/overdose. I was always so paranoid to even try.
I would totally have a threesome though..
My idea of a threesome involves three of us tying on and beating each other. (Well, usually two are tying and/or beating, and one receiving...)
I’ve never been into the use of chemicals other than caffeine.
Amusingly- I’m out to my Mom, and after meeting several of my friends at a birthday celebration, she wanted to know if (1) we were all sleeping with each other and (2) we did drugs. I made the mistake of telling her that what we did was dangerous enough without adding drugs or alcohol on top. (And no, we don’t all have sex with each other.)
I've never done any drugs, including weed, or had any alcoholic drinks. I don't even take pain medication.
Dandelion - October 2018
Angel "Aurora" - July 2020
Angel "Sawyer" - May 2021
Angel "Maxine" - January 2022
Angel "Violet" - March 2022
Baby Dove due March 2023
Speaking of THC, you can get vaginal suppositories that are amazing for cramps. I was curious if it would help with healing after giving birth too? They’re high in CBD which is amazing for healing. Im sure there hasnt been any research done though...also the nursing thing would interfere.