This is a place for FTMs to ask questions and S+TMs to share the wealth of knowledge they've accumulated on baby products. Each week we'll spotlight a new category of product to help streamline and make it easier to refer back. This week it's.... Maternity Clothes!
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Re: Product Spotlight Series: Maternity Clothes
all reasonably priced, and I’m a “professional” during the day but dress like a schmuck on the nights and weekends. I had a July baby last time so I’ll be looking forward to recommendations for cold weather clothes.
Married: 2016
BFP #1 4/23/18, blighted ovum 5/29/18
BFP#2 7/14/18, DS 4/5/19
Dating: 10/3/08 | Married: 12/27/14
TTC #1: August 2015 | BFP: 2/3/16 | EDD: 10/7/16
DD: 10/5/16
TTC #2: September 2017 | BFP: 4/28/18 | EDD: 1/7/19
DS: 1/9/19
DS1: May 2016
DS2: Jan 2019
Baby #3 EDD: 6/18/24
Married: 2016
BFP #1 4/23/18, blighted ovum 5/29/18
BFP#2 7/14/18, DS 4/5/19
Full panel didn't work well for me until the bump got bigger, but once it did, I really liked it for jeans.
All that said, I mostly lived in dresses and flip-flops because they were the best.
I also have a somewhat large chest that got very large during pregnancy, and I loved these bras for pregnancy and nursing:
https://www.motherhood.com/seamless-clip-down-nursing-bra/006-98422-006-001.html?cgid=nursing-bras&dwvar_006-98422-006-001_color=006-98422-78
They don't do a ton for shape, but they're very comfy.
TTC #2: April 2018 ~~ BFP: May 2018 ~~ EDD: January 2019
TTC #2: April 2018 ~~ BFP: May 2018 ~~ EDD: January 2019
DS: March 2014
DD: May 2015
BFP: 12/24/17 CP: 1/2/18 @ 4w 3d
BFP: 1/26/18 CP: 2/2/18 @ 4w 4d
BFP: 5/16/18 MMC: 6/15/18 @ 7w 5d
BFP: 9/25/18! EDD: 6/9/19 TEAM GREEN
Married: 2016
BFP #1 4/23/18, blighted ovum 5/29/18
BFP#2 7/14/18, DS 4/5/19
TTC #2: April 2018 ~~ BFP: May 2018 ~~ EDD: January 2019
@CoastieGirl79 I did Le Tote and it was decent. I did find a half off code that worked for three months when I did it though and that helped. I’ll say some stuff still didn’t fit right and you have to send it all back at the same time (and there’s a 4-5 day lag between) but it was very helpful to have a rotation of clothes I didn’t have to buy. Also Le Tote has sales every season where u can buy used dresses etc for $10 or even less sometimes. I’ve done that a couple times.
As for the pants debate... it differs based on the pants. Sometimes i wanted full panel to hold everything up as I got more pregnant and I mostly wore side panel postpartum because the button still digs in. I liked fake pants/jeggings for work wherever the panel was... fake meaning no buttons or zippers
-Jessica Simpson Maternity jeans (worth the splurge)
-Target brand maternity tanks (they are long, stretchy, and soft, and I still wear mine occasionally)
DS1: May 2016
DS2: Jan 2019
Baby #3 EDD: 6/18/24
Anyone have a brand of basic black maternity leggings they have loved?? A brand called Blanqui keeps popping up on my social media accounts and I’m considering it. I think a pair or two of good leggings would be worth a splurge!
Once I had a belly, I much preferred full panel over half panel pants.
I loved the target maternity tanks and target nursing tanks.
I also loved motherhood maternity snap bras. I went from a size C pre preg to an H while nursing.... I called myself tits McGee for a while, the boobs were just ridiculous. They are DD now and I pray to God I do not get bigger than H at any point.
I may have more comments after I go thru my stored clothes.
As your belly gets bigger, full panels pull your pants higher. I didnt plan for that and by the end all my pants were like this super awkward anklet length but I refused to buy more
TTC #1 since 01/16; Unexplained IF; Low AMH; Conceived naturally
Married 11/12; Dating 05/05
Me: 36 DH: 37
Nordstrom. It was sooo comfortable and very supportive. When I was BFing I was a 38G.
ETA: hmm. Not as cheap as I remember, but here you go:
Intimate Portal Under The Bump Cotton Maternity Pregnancy Panties Pack 5-PK Black Soft Gray Beige Heather Gray Purple L https://www.amazon.com/dp/B074V8H5KR/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_VIlbBbMV4NM3Y
FFC: the name “intimate portal” for underwear makes me giggle like a child.
TTC #2: April 2018 ~~ BFP: May 2018 ~~ EDD: January 2019
For bikini bottoms, I bought 1 pair of maternity bottoms but with DD I was due in October so much larger during the summer than I will be this time around. I think this time, regular will be fine for me.
Also, you didn't ask, but towards the end of my pregnancy when my boobs just got too big for my normal bras, I went ahead and bought maternity/nursing bras that fit comfortably at the time so I could use them PP as well since bras are expensive. I like underwire bras so that's what I went with but obviously there's a lot out there.
Dating: 10/3/08 | Married: 12/27/14
TTC #1: August 2015 | BFP: 2/3/16 | EDD: 10/7/16
DD: 10/5/16
TTC #2: September 2017 | BFP: 4/28/18 | EDD: 1/7/19
DS: 1/9/19
I liked the full panel. I just don’t understand how side panels, half panels or fold overs are supposed to stay up. I imagine them just rolling down. Plus I think it’s more comfortable to have something coming up and over the bump that having it practically folding over something (again, that’s just what it seems like to me. I only used full panel. I did try on 2 other styles before choosing though).
Not excited about bout figuring out what to do to stay warm in December and January. I live Alberta and it’s not uncommon to have -25 to -30 C days and sometimes colder. Plus crazy ice. But I’m obviously not the first Canadian to be due this time of year so there must be some options
Eta: all the leggings. Wear all the leggings.
Screw the jeans. Leggings and maternity dresses? Oh man, I am going to try and get away w that as much as possible.
TTC #1 since 01/16; Unexplained IF; Low AMH; Conceived naturally
Married 11/12; Dating 05/05
Me: 36 DH: 37
Im also worried about walking and snow and ice. Especially since I have a now two and a half then almost three and half year old. Who loves playing in the snow and walking the dog. Haha.