Barely any pregnancy symptoms..

ghatt87 · January 2018

I just want to tell all the newly pregnant moms out there, it's ok if you don't have symptoms! I've been so worried because I have only had 1 episode of nausea, my breasts barely hurt and I'm not that tired. 8w6d and baby's heart is beating strong at 182 bpm.

derbysquirrel · January 2018

C'mon. There is an introduction thread, a pregnancy announcement AW thread, and a symptoms thread that you could have posted in. Instead you chose to barge in to a community that you've never participated in, make your own thread, and demand everyone give you attention. This never goes over well. Read the thread not so subtly titled "READ FIRST" and get the hang of how things work, then come back and try again.

mrslittlemac · January 2018

ghatt87 said:

I just want to tell all the newly pregnant moms out there, it's ok if you don't have symptoms! I've been so worried because I have only had 1 episode of nausea, my breasts barely hurt and I'm not that tired. 8w6d and baby's heart is beating strong at 182 bpm.

Yep, what @derbysquirrel said. Also QFP. Also, also: the only other place I've seen you post was another AWish thread you made. If I can be completely honest though, that's not the most bothersome aspect. Posting this 13 hours after we had to say goodbye to an actively contributing member of our little community is tone deaf at the least.

Congrats on being a magical pregnant unicorn, though, I guess.

dirtanddiamonds · January 2018

Her EDD is September which makes this doubly AWish and tone deaf, as @mrslittlemac mentioned.

mrslittlemac · January 2018

@dirtanddiamonds I didn't even catch the EDD! Not that I can say anything as I'm technically in the fringe of a late July EDD, but hot damn. Doubt September would receive this post any better, either.

delujm0 · January 2018

My favorite part is that she's a FTM who feels like an expert at pregnancy in just her first trimester somehow. Thanks for letting me know my lack of symptoms is ok, OP. I was really wondering that for this pregnancy, as well as the two I've already been through that lead to healthy kids.

Seriously there are some of us on here that are on #3 and #4, we don't need reassurance from a stranger who isn't even as far along as we are about symptoms. Good lord. I swear I think the Dark Side is punking us today, there has been too much insane activity all over the place.

ghatt87 · January 2018

Wow I'm not really sure what I did wrong here. I thought this was just a place where women posted information so other expectant moms could read that are in the same boat. I must have clicked on the wrong community. Didn't mean to offend anyone...

ecwk · January 2018

ghatt87 said:

Wow I'm not really sure what I did wrong here. I thought this was just a place where women posted information so other expectant moms could read that are in the same boat. I must have clicked on the wrong community. Didn't mean to offend anyone...

You thought wrong. There’s a post titled *READ FIRST* which you should have, you know, read first? It’s not that hard.

ghatt87 · January 2018

Thanks I got that now, I didn't realize there were rules. I'm trying to delete the discussion but it won't let me. Is it necessary to be so rude for an honest mistake?

ecwk · January 2018

ghatt87 said:

Thanks I got that now, I didn't realize there were rules. I'm trying to delete the discussion but it won't let me. Is it necessary to be so rude for an honest mistake?

Is it necessary to be rude by posting what you did? There is no way to delete it and anyway you have already been quoted so just let it die away.

mrsbubbles-2 · January 2018

Oh man - all I need is 'I feel sorry for your babies / DHs / whatever' and I'll have Bingo!

ETA words are hard

jsnakehole · January 2018

I just want to say that not all FTMs are totally BSC (aside from regular FTM nervousness). I feel like some of the most recent stuff is making us look bad.

derbysquirrel · January 2018

.ghatt87 said:

Wow I'm not really sure what I did wrong here.

@ghatt87
I explained to you exactly what you did wrong about 20 minutes after you posted this.

legallykate · January 2018

Also, for some newly pregnant moms, a lack of symptoms or disappearing symptoms is *not* in fact okay, so it's ridiculous to make a blanket statement like that with no caveats.