Highlight: We finally got around to registering and it was so much fun! I can't wait for baby to get here so we can use all of this stuff!
Lowlight: My car got broken into last night. They stole my iPod, which I admittedly did not use very much anymore, but still. I thought they also stole my black leather gloves, but then my husband found them in the yard so, yay I guess?
Highlight: I get paid Friday! So glad that we have peace of mind for a few weeks. Hoping congress can do their jobs and keep the country running! Lowlight: still waiting on labs and to find out if my husband is losing his job or just getting demoted on Friday. I’m in a bad place with lots of regret about being pregnant and vulnerable right now.
@riversdoctor I'm so sorry your going through that and feeling so down. Hopefully Friday you will get the best news possible.
AFM Highlight: I have been feeling the baby much more consistantly lately (AP here, so it took awhile). Lowlight: I have been super emotional lately, which is driving me crazy. Atleast DH is understanding.
Highlight- We finally sold DHs truck, clearing us of all the stupid loan debt my husband put us in behind my back (for those of you that remember that).
Lowlight- My anxiety and depression are still out of control.
@riversdoctor - yay for getting paid! I'm sorry there is uncertainty with YHs job, FX it works out for the best.
Highlight - the building anticipation of these babies joining the family! Feels more real every day.
Lowlight - trying to sleep last night Had intense muscle aches in spots that usually only hurt when I have actually been doing something. Tylenol sucks, and even Salon Pas weren't helping much last night. My brain was even keeping me up. FX tonight is better.
@sjn00 I am so happy to hear the truck sold!! What a relief.
Highlight: My 12 year old had a rough school year last year. We got his progress reports this weekend and he is doing great at his classes. (We homeschool but he takes classes once a week)
lowlight: We had an upstairs bathroom toliet break and make a huge mess. Flooded carpet and it leaked through the ceiling. We rent but it was still a huge mess and stressor to deal with.
Thanks everyone! This anxiety week needs to be over! Ooh but another highlight 5 hours of no coughing sleep last night thanks to protonix! So glad I broke down and took it
@sjn00 Glad that's taken care of, but hate that you had to go through that.
Highlight: Working on booking our newborn photos and hospital/delivery photos! I'm a super private/shy person, so I'm going to have to get over the idea of some stranger taking pics of me in one of the most vulnerable moments of my life, but I know that I'll look back and be so glad I did it.
Lowlight: I'm just so uncomfortable all the time. It's hard to enjoying being pregnant when it makes me feel so miserable all the time.
@g_amoss Yeah, ILs came back and I had a sit down with them. I feel better having them have my back and them knowing exactly whats going on. I currently have 100% control over everything financial, and they are thankful and appreciative of that, and are willing to help and support me in whatever case that may be. His mom is still definitely his mom, and defends his actions sometimes, but also agrees something is going on and he needs to see a therapist or someone to talk through whatever the heck is going on. ALL of the financial stress (loans, garnished wages, credit cards etc) should be all taken care of starting Feb, he is also getting a major promotion at work by Jan 31st and im praying a good raise will come with that (he is very underpaid right now). So still stressful, but I can see a light at the end of the tunnel and now all that there is to work on is fixing our credit after all of this crap. Everything is in that transition phase right now, nothing is completely set in stone, but by Feb 1st should all be done if everything goes right, so its stressful playing the waiting game for everything to go through and be finalized with the loan pay off and garnished wages, apparently they still have to decide if they want to okay for a stop or not ugh.. but yeah.
@g_amoss No, he doesnt think he needs it and absolutely dismisses it. Once things are taken care of officially, im going to push for him to go though. I have done so much therapy and continue to do so. He needs to put forth some effort to help relationship.
@riversdoctor I am so sorry you are in this position. I faced the same thing when my husband lost his job a few months ago. Now I have pressure on me to get a raise or a new job immediately after maternity leave, and I had the same feelings as you. Hang in there momma, you will get through this!
Some of these lows are really low! @riversdoctor I hope you get good news on Friday.
Highlight: Started the new semester and I'm excited for graduation this semester and for baby and all the great changes that are in store!
Lowlights: I have experienced lightning crotch and they aren't kidding - that is PAINFUL. Also I've been setting up preceptors for my dietetic internship which starts in August, and I've gotten all my rotations covered except the last, shortest rotation.
highlight- my husband has really come on board with getting the house ready for baby and I am so excited. my kitchen is done. guest room stuff is being moved this week so I can make it the baby's room and my new chairs for my front room come today!!! I am beyond excited.
lowlight- work is completely stressing me out. I manager a business and when I am on maternity leave my assistant will take over and I feel like the last two weeks he has decreased and keeps forgetting what he has to do. I feel like I am going to come back to a complete mess.
Highlight - My car is paid off!!! We leased it for about 3 years (not recommended) and decided at the end of leasing last July it made more sense to purchase it. We paid it off in less than 6 months with a total of $38 in interest, haha.
side highlight - That Kent and Tatayana are having a baby post. Totally made my day.
Lowlight - Hip pain at night is becoming unbearable. Its so bad it is keeping me awake most of the night now. I've tried everything from more exercise, stretches throughout the day and before bed, lots of water. Going to try acupuncture next week and I need to increase my omega 3 intake. Otherwise, I am out of solutions.
im hoping to post my high and low on Friday bc I have a video interview for a job that I badly need as my current contract ends the end of July! So fingers crossed for a high and not a low!!!
Highlight: I got to spend a ton of time with my family this week because my husband was out of town. It was the plan for me to stay with my parents/sister (they live right next door to each other. I couldn’t do it! Lol) when my husband is gone because of the contractions I’ve been having. I don’t want to stay home alone with two kids with these contractions!!
Lowlight: there’s soooooo much to do for the baby! I am exhausted and don’t want to do it, but we have to move my son’s room in order to get the baby’s nursery going. All the moving things is exhausting!!
@scuba_chic Wahoo!! Such a great feeling!! DH and I are on Dave Ramsey Baby Step 2 (pay off all debt besides the house) and each "paid off" debt is such a huge psychological rush!! It's about momentum, baby!
@riversdoctor Thank you! Yes, it is a great feeling and addicting once you get that momentum you mentioned going. Our house is our next "project." Obviously we won't be paying it off anytime soon as we've only been in it 2 years, but putting extra towards principal every month is our goal. DH calculated how much interest we'd save just by putting a little extra towards the house each month. Its insane how much you can save and how many years it knocks off your mortgage. Congrats on paying down your debt! Once you have the mind of an investor vs. spender, it really motivates you.
@scuba_chic Wahoo!! Such a great feeling!! DH and I are on Dave Ramsey Baby Step 2 (pay off all debt besides the house) and each "paid off" debt is such a huge psychological rush!! It's about momentum, baby!
We do Dave Ramsey too! We paid off our cars in four months!
@scuba_chic my hip pain has been bothering me at night too. It got to the point I couldn't walk without pain around the new years so I broke down and went to the chiropractor. They gave me some stretches and adjusted me. I have been 3 times and already feel better. I still have hip pain but I am sleeping better and I can walk most of the time without pain. This is my highlight of the week
Low light I don't have any patients with my 2 year-old anymore. Lately all he does is cry for no apparent reason and won't tell me what's wrong.
Can I add that my chiropractor gave me magnesium that helps with the muscle cramps.
Highlight: Officially have two specific tutoring gigs a week that will pay my rent in full. The rest is bill/savings money. It's been a touch and go business since kids were on break the last two months, so this will be amazing. Also, I'm still getting hired by people despite being so far along, and I'll have work afterwards still, and it's awesome how accommodating people have been since itll be a good sized chunk of curriculum interruption.
Lowlight: started running this week and man I was ultra super mega sore from the smallest amount of jogging. Getting back on the train, but it's a slow one !
High: government shutdown avoided for now; I have a grant under review this coming week which would have not been reviewed if the government were shut down. Which would have sucked bc I worked on it for 4+ months and submitted it in October (and I need a job!)
Low: I hate interviewing; my interview went well from my perspective but it’s such a crap shoot as to what they are looking for in my field. I hate the evaluation without knowing what they want. I’m surprised I actually got through it with no pregnancy brain flare ups (<- adding that as second highlight)
@nessa1632 I tutor mostly math K-12 and college. It's been kind of my side project before going back to school turned into a full time job!
What field are you in ? About to start the PhD interview process and definitely worried about showing up a) pregnant and b) just being nervous about interviewing and not knowing the "right" answers haha.
Lowlights: it was a hard week at work and my hormones are making me uber cranky. DH is hanging in there with me.
Highlights: construction started on the nursery finally, but at 29w2d today with twins...will it be done in time? I'm hopeful and anxious to put it all together. Slept in today!
@priestess619 I’m a psychologist but I’m postdocing now through a training grant. I submitted an early career grant to bridge my funding. I’m on the assistant professor market though too so I totally feel ya on the interviewing while pregnant! I’ve been told not to let it make me anxious by my mentors as you will find out whether the place is family friendly or not and no where should explicitly discriminate. In terms of interviewing for PhD programs, we’ve had pregnant applicants visit and everything has been fine! It really depends on the place and the climate but you probably wouldn’t want to be at a place that is not friendly/tolerant anyway..... just convey your enthusiasm and your interests, it should be fine.
@nessa1632 awesome ! All the luck with the grants and assistant prof positions. Excited to be at that point in my career, but know its a whole new process of applying to things its never-ending ! Pretty much relying on ONE supervisor to decide whether or not they'll accept me in their lab, which is my fault for not being as prepared as I should have ! Thanks for the encouragement- the guy I work with said "they'll either like it or they won't" and I just got to take that in stride !
Re: Highlight/Lowlight this week 1/23
Lowlight: My car got broken into last night. They stole my iPod, which I admittedly did not use very much anymore, but still. I thought they also stole my black leather gloves, but then my husband found them in the yard so, yay I guess?
Me: 29 DH: 35
Married 5/3/14, TTC ever since
DX: Lean PCOS, Clomid resistant
Femara 7.5 + Ovidrel = BFP! Due 4/15/18
Lowlight: still waiting on labs and to find out if my husband is losing his job or just getting demoted on Friday. I’m in a bad place with lots of regret about being pregnant and vulnerable right now.
AFM
Highlight: I have been feeling the baby much more consistantly lately (AP here, so it took awhile).
Lowlight: I have been super emotional lately, which is driving me crazy. Atleast DH is understanding.
Low: This morning DS screamed at me in the Dr. waiting room that he was going to kill me. The day hasn't changed much since...
Lowlight- My anxiety and depression are still out of control.
Highlight - the building anticipation of these babies joining the family! Feels more real every day.
Lowlight - trying to sleep last night
Highlight: My 12 year old had a rough school year last year. We got his progress reports this weekend and he is doing great at his classes. (We homeschool but he takes classes once a week)
lowlight: We had an upstairs bathroom toliet break and make a huge mess. Flooded carpet and it leaked through the ceiling. We rent but it was still a huge mess and stressor to deal with.
Highlight: Working on booking our newborn photos and hospital/delivery photos! I'm a super private/shy person, so I'm going to have to get over the idea of some stranger taking pics of me in one of the most vulnerable moments of my life, but I know that I'll look back and be so glad I did it.
Lowlight: I'm just so uncomfortable all the time. It's hard to enjoying being pregnant when it makes me feel so miserable all the time.
highlight
I successfully made macaroons over the weekend. They were amazing. I also feel like we made a lot of progress getting ready for baby.
lowlight
my energy is at an all time low. I am so tired all the time!
@g_amoss Yeah, ILs came back and I had a sit down with them. I feel better having them have my back and them knowing exactly whats going on. I currently have 100% control over everything financial, and they are thankful and appreciative of that, and are willing to help and support me in whatever case that may be. His mom is still definitely his mom, and defends his actions sometimes, but also agrees something is going on and he needs to see a therapist or someone to talk through whatever the heck is going on. ALL of the financial stress (loans, garnished wages, credit cards etc) should be all taken care of starting Feb, he is also getting a major promotion at work by Jan 31st and im praying a good raise will come with that (he is very underpaid right now). So still stressful, but I can see a light at the end of the tunnel and now all that there is to work on is fixing our credit after all of this crap. Everything is in that transition phase right now, nothing is completely set in stone, but by Feb 1st should all be done if everything goes right, so its stressful playing the waiting game for everything to go through and be finalized with the loan pay off and garnished wages, apparently they still have to decide if they want to okay for a stop or not ugh.. but yeah.
Highlight: Started the new semester and I'm excited for graduation this semester and for baby and all the great changes that are in store!
Lowlights: I have experienced lightning crotch and they aren't kidding - that is PAINFUL. Also I've been setting up preceptors for my dietetic internship which starts in August, and I've gotten all my rotations covered except the last, shortest rotation.
lowlight- work is completely stressing me out. I manager a business and when I am on maternity leave my assistant will take over and I feel like the last two weeks he has decreased and keeps forgetting what he has to do. I feel like I am going to come back to a complete mess.
side highlight - That Kent and Tatayana are having a baby post.
Lowlight - Hip pain at night is becoming unbearable. Its so bad it is keeping me awake most of the night now. I've tried everything from more exercise, stretches throughout the day and before bed, lots of water. Going to try acupuncture next week and I need to increase my omega 3 intake. Otherwise, I am out of solutions.
im hoping to post my high and low on Friday bc I have a video interview for a job that I badly need as my current contract ends the end of July! So fingers crossed for a high and not a low!!!
Highlight: I got to spend a ton of time with my family this week because my husband was out of town. It was the plan for me to stay with my parents/sister (they live right next door to each other. I couldn’t do it! Lol) when my husband is gone because of the contractions I’ve been having. I don’t want to stay home alone with two kids with these contractions!!
Lowlight: there’s soooooo much to do for the baby! I am exhausted and don’t want to do it, but we have to move my son’s room in order to get the baby’s nursery going. All the moving things is exhausting!!
It IS a great relief!
Low light I don't have any patients with my 2 year-old anymore. Lately all he does is cry for no apparent reason and won't tell me what's wrong.
Can I add that my chiropractor gave me magnesium that helps with the muscle cramps.
Officially have two specific tutoring gigs a week that will pay my rent in full. The rest is bill/savings money. It's been a touch and go business since kids were on break the last two months, so this will be amazing. Also, I'm still getting hired by people despite being so far along, and I'll have work afterwards still, and it's awesome how accommodating people have been since itll be a good sized chunk of curriculum interruption.
Lowlight: started running this week and man I was ultra super mega sore from the smallest amount of jogging. Getting back on the train, but it's a slow one !
Low: I hate interviewing; my interview went well from my perspective but it’s such a crap shoot as to what they are looking for in my field. I hate the evaluation without knowing what they want. I’m surprised I actually got through it with no pregnancy brain flare ups (<- adding that as second highlight)
edited: clarity
What field are you in ? About to start the PhD interview process and definitely worried about showing up a) pregnant and b) just being nervous about interviewing and not knowing the "right" answers haha.
Highlights: construction started on the nursery finally, but at 29w2d today with twins...will it be done in time? I'm hopeful and anxious to put it all together. Slept in today!