Depends!! So much easier than those thick pads that never stick right. Best tip I was given in my birth class. Then normal stuff clothes, toiletries, phone/charger, and baby stuff. Oh and if you've had trouble nursing or getting baby to latch I brought a nursing shield and my boppy from home. I have almost flat nipples so I knew from my first (saw 2 lactation consultants) I would probably need one for my second. IF you're concerned about allergies and plan to forumla feed would bring your own Nutrimigen or specialty formula. My first 2 had dairy allergies and hospital only gives you regular dairy formula. My first broke out within a day she was born from drinking the formula there because she had trouble latching. Think that's the major stuff.
Two things I wish I brought to the hospital the first time were my boppy and a halo swaddle. With DD we probably called the nurse in 50 times during our stay to fix the swaddle—we just couldn’t figure it out. Also the hospital pillows just didn’t cut it while nursing; it was much easier when we got home and had the boppy.
Charger, humongous pads, phone, books, earphones, snacks, robe, pajamas, onesie, camera, house shoes with stickies on the bottom (essential!), several changes of clothes, shower essentials, and maybe a bottle of wine.
- Chap stick! Hospital air is DRY and I get chapped lips basically on arrival.
- Makeup remover wipes. I know I probably won’t be out of bed to wash my face that first night (having a c-section) and the convenience of cleansing wipes is huge.
- Our fancy DSLR camera for some early pictures.
- Lots of leggings and soft shirts plus an open-front cardigan.
- Shampoo/conditioner, makeup and a hair dryer
- Boppy for sure
- Extra pillow and a throw blanket for DH. Our hospital provides a good bed, but he’s always looking for a little extra comfort!
My hospital supplied everything for me last time. So i really dont need much unless I want it. They dont like you dressing the baby in stuff other then what they supply because if they go to the nursery and have an outfit change, they will toss whatever clothes is on them, so better safe just to keep the going home outfit on them. But they even supplied chapstick and a toothbrush/paste, shower stuff, tucks, numbing spray, etc. So im not going to bring much at all. Also, my hospitals policy is husbands cant stay the night after baby is born. So anything else i may need i can habe DH bring it to me the next day.
@ftm_ohio I know, I was shocked when I had my first daughter and they told me. He had to leave at 10pm and could come back at 6am the next day. They do it so that the mother has one on one bonding time with the baby without any interfearance. I actually ended up really appreciating it because my DH only had 1 week of "paturnity leave" when I got out of the hospital and I was more prepared to be by myself without him.
@sjn00 Husbands can't stay!? What if you can't get out of bed!
- socks, robe - going home outfit for me and baby - SNACKS. - charger - flip flops (thank you sjn00!) - hairbrush and deodorant. Most of the other stuff was provided like toothbrush, toothpaste, tucks, etc. - baby blanket
Mine: -boppy -leggings (lululemon are my go to) -robe -nursing tanks and cardigans -nipple cream (mine cracked before we left the hospital last time...would love recommendations for anyones go to nipple cream) -make-up (wipes too) -shampoo/body wash/face wash -couple snacks -headbands -slippers -DSLR (i just bring my camera bag and different lens)
Diaper bag: (I usually just have this ready regardless of not needing things the hosptial provides) -baby's going home outfit, couple of the newborn shirts, hat/bow (team green) -swaddle blanket, car seat blanket -couple diapers -cream -burp cloths -wallet
SO: -pillow/blanket -snacks -extra clothes -shower stuff -hats (he never goes without!)
Mine: -bobby -leggings (lululemon are my go to) -robe -nursing tanks and cardigans -nipple cream (mine cracked before we left the hospital last time...would love recommendations for anyones go to nipple cream) -make-up (wipes too) -shampoo/body wash/face wash -couple snacks -headbands -slippers -DSLR (i just bring my camera bag and different lens)
Diaper bag: (I usually just have this ready regardless of not needing things the hosptial provides) -baby's going home outfit, couple of the newborn shirts, hat/bow (team green) -swaddle blanket, car seat blanket -couple diapers -cream -burp cloths -wallet
SO: -pillow/blanket -snacks -extra clothes -shower stuff -hats (he never goes without!)
@ekendall09 girl, same. They’re practically glued to his head.
Thanks for giving me an excuse to go ahead and make a list @g_amoss!
-2 outfits for baby-- one for hospital pictures (our's does them) and one for going home
-our own free and clear diapers and wipes (DH and DD both have super sensitive skin and get rashes from everything- DD got a horrible rash in the hospital from using their stuff, so I'm just planning ahead with this one)
-my breast friend nursing pillow
-newborn halo swaddles
-some extra receiving blankets and burp cloths
-one set of open front pjs with pants and a going home outfit for me
-a couple of nursing sleep bras and a couple of pairs of grippy fuzzy socks
-lansinoh disposable nursing pads, lansinoh lanolin, and ameda hydrogel soothie pads (my absolute faves from beginning to BF DD) @ekendall09
-toiletries bag with shampoo, conditioner, face wash and face products, body lotion, toothbrush and toothpaste, hair brush, chaptstick, and maybe a hairdryer and a few basic cosmetics if I'm feeling fancy
-my nalgene water bottle
-my vitamins, meds, and colace
-a big bag of trail mix from SAMS and some bottled water for MH
@sjn00 That's crazy they won't let him stay. Also, do many hospitals still have nurseries? I don't think any of ours here do. I know the one I'm delivering at doesn't and I was really surprised when I did the hospital tour, the security they have because they don't have a nursery. The babies have monitors on them and if they get within 5 feet of an exit door, alarms go off.
I feel my list is realllly long, but this was per another STM vloggers recommendations. I know the hospital gives some of these things, but she recommended bringing your own regardless for comfort purposes.
@scuba_chic mine has a nursery but since being certified as “baby friendly” they don’t encourage parents to use it (in fact, they didn’t let me use it at all last time and I almost switched hospitals over it). Regarding the security, I get the feeling that the monitors and alarms you’re talking about are pretty standard. My hospital has the same system and I’ve noticed it when visiting friends at other hospitals as well.
ETA: just curious about the changing pad on your list — I’ve never heard of anyone needing that! What was the vlogger’s reasoning for it?
@sjn00 Husbands can't stay!? What if you can't get out of bed!
- socks, robe - going home outfit for me and baby - SNACKS. - charger - flip flops (thank you sjn00!) - hairbrush and deodorant. Most of the other stuff was provided like toothbrush, toothpaste, tucks, etc. - baby blanket
@scuba_chic we have a nursery and they incourage you to use it if need be to get rest.
We have a pretty high monitoring system as well. You cant even take the baby to a different floor without an alarm going off if you dont have the pass to signal the okay from the alarm lol.
scuba_chic shaving at the hospital just seems like WAY too much work lol...
About the security, I agree that most hospitals have pretty high security, we have alarms and monitors on baby and mommy. Also, you can't take your baby in the hallway without their rolling bed, you can't just carry or wear them. We do have a nursery though, its not where the public can see or anything though.
I am still thinking on the hospital essentials for the baby, I am probably just going to bring a diaper bag with all the normal diaper bag stuff and a going home outfit, because they literally have everything. And a boppy pillow. For me, I am still deciding on pajamas/outfits I want to bring to wear and it will greatly depend on if I am able to have a VBAC or end up having a csection so ill probably pack different ones....and then some clothes/snacks for DH for sure. and Toiletries (Not including shaver ).
Wanted to edit to add I think its CRAZY that a husband can't stay! wow... I needed SO much help after my csection I can't imagine him not there. Also, its their baby too they need to bond
We have a nursery and ours encourages you to use it for rest as well.
Fun fact I learned, if the hospital opens something for you, your insurance is charged. I feel the provided hospital pads for post birth are WAY better than anything I can buy at the store so I use those and then take them home. If it isn't glued down or heavy equipment you should plan to take things home.
So things my hospital provides that i'll be charged for (so no need to pack):
Diapers
Wipes
Pads
Nipple cream
Chapstick
The good blue nose sucker thing (take that bad boy home)
Perry bottle
Numbing spray
Bathing tub
32 ounce water jug (it's almost a badge of honor to earn one of these beauties)
Things I'm bringing:
Boppy
Toiletries
Nice camera
Leggings (having something tight felt good to me post birth), nursing tank w/loose top to go over
Robe
Socks
Flip flops
Movies
Chargers
Baby book
Thank you cards (might as well pass the time)
Multiple sleepers for baby (have various for blowouts and I like my cute ones better than plain white ones)
Makeup remover cloths, chap stick, hair ties and soft headband, toiletries (glasses, toothpaste, toothbrush, brush, etc), charger and phone, take home outfit for baby and myself, clothing for DH, binky, newborn sticker (for photos!). Most things my hospital will provide.
@angiek1 I totally agree about the huge water jug! I feel like that’s the closest thing you get to a trophy for giving birth (well, other than the baby obvi) and I always seem to bond with my water mug during my labor/hospital stay. I’m sure I’m weird, though.
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@lindsye that water jug was life that first week...like i've never owned anything that could remotely hold water in the same way....then I remembered the multiple yeti's, lilly pulizer and life factory cups/bottles I had laying around and was like uhhhh
@sjn00. Add me to the shocked husband can't stay list. My dh was really helpful after my c section. Actually i had to have someone with me because of some of the medication I was on.
my hospital provided a lot of stuff. Even socks with threads on the bottom. They wanted me to wear them at all times. I was very hot while getting magnesium drip and they brought me my own fan. The nurse said to take it home with me because they can't reuse them.
Wanted to edit to add I think its CRAZY that a husband can't stay! wow... I needed SO much help after my csection I can't imagine him not there. Also, its their baby too they need to bond
@itsrandiyo this is exactly what I keep coming back to. I cannot wrap my head around a hospital making the unilateral decision that only the mother can bond with the baby the first night, completely disregarding the fact that dad needs to bond, too. Not to mention that its crazy unfair to saddle an exhausted, emotional, overwhelmed mother who has just given birth with solo parenting the very first night. There’s just so much wrong with that policy.
OMG this thread is a life savor... ok so a few questions for you ladies. What nursing tanks do y'all recommend? Do any of you suggest bringing your pump with you to the hospital? One of my friends said I should so they can help show me how to use it but I have read that you really shouldn't even use your pump the first 6 weeks you are BF?
Hmm @JJMNO1616 I never heard that you aren't supposed to use your pump the first 6 weeks? I didn't bring mine to the hospital, but my BF issues also didn't show up until I was home. The lactation consultant had me pumping at least 15 minutes after every attempted feeding the first few weeks to try to get me to produce more.
FWIW I used my pump once home from the hospital almost every morning for 5 min for a few weeks. It built up a crazy stash for returning to work and my boobs were so engorged I couldn't get a good latch without pumping first.
OMG this thread is a life savor... ok so a few questions for you ladies. What nursing tanks do y'all recommend? Do any of you suggest bringing your pump with you to the hospital? One of my friends said I should so they can help show me how to use it but I have read that you really shouldn't even use your pump the first 6 weeks you are BF?
These target nursing tanks FTW
I would not bring your pump. You'll have enough stuff to bring already. Plus, there's so much going on after LO is born (hospital staff in and out of the room, nurses checking on you and baby, hearing and other tests for LO, trying to figure out regular BFing, plus you just trying to care for baby and yourself) that I don't think you'll have time to or want to mess with it. A breast pump isn't that hard to figure out. You can find YouTube instructional videos for your pump and just watch those at home- this is what I did. If you want to, you could bring your flanges to the hospital so that you can do a quick check with the LC to make sure they are the right fit for you though.
ETA As far as not using your pump in the first 6 weeks-- I mean, I think that you can use it, but the idea is to get as much nipple stimulation from LO while your supply is getting established in the first 6 weeks, since a pump isn't as efficient as a baby (i.e., don't use the pump to replace at-the-breast feedings right away). My advice, FWIW, would be to do as many regular feeds at the breast during that time as possible and then maybe start throwing in an extra pump sesh after a few weeks to start building a freezer stash. I think I added a pump session for my freezer stash an hour after the first morning feeding (supply is highest in the early AM) starting at about 3 weeks? I don't know if I did that every day right away though. You don't want to go cray with a ton of extra pump to stash sessions right off, because doing that can cause an established oversupply, which comes with its own set of problems.
@JJMNO1616 I didn't bring my pump. They have hospital grade ones. But if you are concerned I would bring it. But most areas have local breast feeding groups that answer all of those questions too
@sjn00 I actually sent my husband home the 1st night but that's because he is a big man and they only provided a recliner. But I had my mom stay and she was a big help when DS wouldn't stop crying. She ended up holding him for hours so I could get some rest.
@angiek1 I took all that stuff home too except for the blue nose thing because it didn't get in my bag. Which I regret.
@JJMNO1616 I think the idea is that particularly during the first couple days, you are telling your body the supply you need based on how often baby nurses/latches. If you tend toward undersupply, pumping more often than the baby wants to feed/latch may be a good idea; however, if you tend toward oversupply (which I do), then pumping in addition to the baby latching/feeding can cause oversupply problems. I will not go into detail here about the issues oversupply can cause (for one bc it’s readily google-able), but suffice it to say it can be a PITA and quite possibly cause nursing issues for baby. Also, I understand that if you need to pump while in the hospital, you can use a hospital grade pump that is much better than home pumps, so I agree that you don’t need to bring yours.
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@JJMNO1616 I always pumped for 10 minutes after LO ate after my second. It made a huge difference in my supply compared to my experience with my first baby.
I feel the need to emphasize that the advice that I gave regarding when to/not to use the pump in the first 6 weeks was based on my own personal experience after birth and my guess on why someone might say not to use a pump at all in he first 6 weeks (again, I don't black and white agree with that suggestion). As @lindsye and @angiek1 pointed out though, every mom has their own challenges/experiences that might indicate the need for use of the pump sooner/later or more/less based on supply and personal situation. I don't think that you can plan for these things ahead of time- you just have to wait and see what your body is going to do and try things until you find what works best for/helps you the most. But, yes, the hospital has pumps that you can use if necessary so that you don't have to lug your own.
@lindsye that water jug was life that first week...like i've never owned anything that could remotely hold water in the same way....then I remembered the multiple yeti's, lilly pulizer and life factory cups/bottles I had laying around and was like uhhhh
@ekendall09 OMG YES! Too funny but I totally felt this way after both kids. I delivered at two different hospitals and DD's only gave me a 24 ounce jug... I was so disappointed but still used the crap out of it
DS: EDD, December 19th, 2014. Born, December 19th, 2014! DD: EDD, July 18th, 2016. Born, July 19th, 2016!
Wanted to edit to add I think its CRAZY that a husband can't stay! wow... I needed SO much help after my csection I can't imagine him not there. Also, its their baby too they need to bond
@itsrandiyo this is exactly what I keep coming back to. I cannot wrap my head around a hospital making the unilateral decision that only the mother can bond with the baby the first night, completely disregarding the fact that dad needs to bond, too. Not to mention that its crazy unfair to saddle an exhausted, emotional, overwhelmed mother who has just given birth with solo parenting the very first night. There’s just so much wrong with that policy.
Yes. yes. yes. yes. I would have been terrified to be alone the first night with DS after a damn C/S and having not slept in two days!!! I was terrified WITH DH there....I can't even imagine having been alone.
And also, DH absolutely bonded the second he was holding that child in the hospital. Because I had a C/S and was incapacitated, he was 100% on duty for the first few hours of our DS's life. HE'S the one that did skin to skin with our son. HE'S the one that held him for the first time out of my womb. HE'S the one DS fell asleep on for the first time. Lord. I'd throw a damn fit if my hospital told me he couldn't stay!
DS: EDD, December 19th, 2014. Born, December 19th, 2014! DD: EDD, July 18th, 2016. Born, July 19th, 2016!
Wanted to edit to add I think its CRAZY that a husband can't stay! wow... I needed SO much help after my csection I can't imagine him not there. Also, its their baby too they need to bond
I agree that it’s crazy *unless* it’s not a completely private room, in which case it makes perfect sense. It would be ridiculously tough for me to not have DH stay with me, but it would be worse to have some rando dude staying overnight in my room when there’s just a curtain or something separating us.
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OMG this thread is a life savor... ok so a few questions for you ladies. What nursing tanks do y'all recommend? Do any of you suggest bringing your pump with you to the hospital? One of my friends said I should so they can help show me how to use it but I have read that you really shouldn't even use your pump the first 6 weeks you are BF?
These target nursing tanks FTW
I would not bring your pump. You'll have enough stuff to bring already. Plus, there's so much going on after LO is born (hospital staff in and out of the room, nurses checking on you and baby, hearing and other tests for LO, trying to figure out regular BFing, plus you just trying to care for baby and yourself) that I don't think you'll have time to or want to mess with it. A breast pump isn't that hard to figure out. You can find YouTube instructional videos for your pump and just watch those at home- this is what I did. If you want to, you could bring your flanges to the hospital so that you can do a quick check with the LC to make sure they are the right fit for you though.
ETA As far as not using your pump in the first 6 weeks-- I mean, I think that you can use it, but the idea is to get as much nipple stimulation from LO while your supply is getting established in the first 6 weeks, since a pump isn't as efficient as a baby (i.e., don't use the pump to replace at-the-breast feedings right away). My advice, FWIW, would be to do as many regular feeds at the breast during that time as possible and then maybe start throwing in an extra pump sesh after a few weeks to start building a freezer stash. I think I added a pump session for my freezer stash an hour after the first morning feeding (supply is highest in the early AM) starting at about 3 weeks? I don't know if I did that every day right away though. You don't want to go cray with a ton of extra pump to stash sessions right off, because doing that can cause an established oversupply, which comes with its own set of problems.
Everything @kbamomma33 said... The target tanks are amazing. I also have some from H&M that I like a lot. I also second everything she says about pumping after baby is born. I would skip bringing a pump to the hospital, but if you're nervous about using one, ask the LC to borrow one from the hospital and have the LC teach you the mechanics of that one.
DS: EDD, December 19th, 2014. Born, December 19th, 2014! DD: EDD, July 18th, 2016. Born, July 19th, 2016!
Re: Hospital Bag
- Makeup remover wipes. I know I probably won’t be out of bed to wash my face that first night (having a c-section) and the convenience of cleansing wipes is huge.
- Our fancy DSLR camera for some early pictures.
- Lots of leggings and soft shirts plus an open-front cardigan.
- Shampoo/conditioner, makeup and a hair dryer
- Boppy for sure
- Extra pillow and a throw blanket for DH. Our hospital provides a good bed, but he’s always looking for a little extra comfort!
Fuzzy socks
Clothes (me and LO)
Charger
Makeup/remover
My hospital supplied everything for me last time. So i really dont need much unless I want it. They dont like you dressing the baby in stuff other then what they supply because if they go to the nursery and have an outfit change, they will toss whatever clothes is on them, so better safe just to keep the going home outfit on them. But they even supplied chapstick and a toothbrush/paste, shower stuff, tucks, numbing spray, etc. So im not going to bring much at all. Also, my hospitals policy is husbands cant stay the night after baby is born. So anything else i may need i can habe DH bring it to me the next day.
Anyway loving this thread ladies, great idea @g_amoss
- socks, robe
- going home outfit for me and baby
- SNACKS.
- charger
- flip flops (thank you sjn00!)
- hairbrush and deodorant. Most of the other stuff was provided like toothbrush, toothpaste, tucks, etc.
- baby blanket
-Colace for that first poop after delivery makes it a little bit easier
-flip flops
-chargers for phone and kindle
-snacks
my hospital provided a lot of the shower supplies and other toiletries.
-boppy
-leggings (lululemon are my go to)
-robe
-nursing tanks and cardigans
-nipple cream (mine cracked before we left the hospital last time...would love recommendations for anyones go to nipple cream)
-make-up (wipes too)
-shampoo/body wash/face wash
-couple snacks
-headbands
-slippers
-DSLR (i just bring my camera bag and different lens)
Diaper bag: (I usually just have this ready regardless of not needing things the hosptial provides)
-baby's going home outfit, couple of the newborn shirts, hat/bow (team green)
-swaddle blanket, car seat blanket
-couple diapers
-cream
-burp cloths
-wallet
SO:
-pillow/blanket
-snacks
-extra clothes
-shower stuff
-hats (he never goes without!)
-2 outfits for baby-- one for hospital pictures (our's does them) and one for going home
-our own free and clear diapers and wipes (DH and DD both have super sensitive skin and get rashes from everything- DD got a horrible rash in the hospital from using their stuff, so I'm just planning ahead with this one)
-my breast friend nursing pillow
-newborn halo swaddles
-some extra receiving blankets and burp cloths
-one set of open front pjs with pants and a going home outfit for me
-a couple of nursing sleep bras and a couple of pairs of grippy fuzzy socks
-lansinoh disposable nursing pads, lansinoh lanolin, and ameda hydrogel soothie pads (my absolute faves from beginning to BF DD) @ekendall09
-toiletries bag with shampoo, conditioner, face wash and face products, body lotion, toothbrush and toothpaste, hair brush, chaptstick, and maybe a hairdryer and a few basic cosmetics if I'm feeling fancy
-my nalgene water bottle
-my vitamins, meds, and colace
-a big bag of trail mix from SAMS and some bottled water for MH
-phones, chargers, camera, Bluetooth speaker
I feel my list is realllly long, but this was per another STM vloggers recommendations. I know the hospital gives some of these things, but she recommended bringing your own regardless for comfort purposes.
ETA: just curious about the changing pad on your list — I’ve never heard of anyone needing that! What was the vlogger’s reasoning for it?
We have a pretty high monitoring system as well. You cant even take the baby to a different floor without an alarm going off if you dont have the pass to signal the okay from the alarm lol.
About the security, I agree that most hospitals have pretty high security, we have alarms and monitors on baby and mommy. Also, you can't take your baby in the hallway without their rolling bed, you can't just carry or wear them. We do have a nursery though, its not where the public can see or anything though.
I am still thinking on the hospital essentials for the baby, I am probably just going to bring a diaper bag with all the normal diaper bag stuff and a going home outfit, because they literally have everything. And a boppy pillow. For me, I am still deciding on pajamas/outfits I want to bring to wear and it will greatly depend on if I am able to have a VBAC or end up having a csection so ill probably pack different ones....and then some clothes/snacks for DH for sure. and Toiletries (Not including shaver
Wanted to edit to add I think its CRAZY that a husband can't stay! wow... I needed SO much help after my csection I can't imagine him not there. Also, its their baby too they need to bond
Fun fact I learned, if the hospital opens something for you, your insurance is charged. I feel the provided hospital pads for post birth are WAY better than anything I can buy at the store so I use those and then take them home. If it isn't glued down or heavy equipment you should plan to take things home.
So things my hospital provides that i'll be charged for (so no need to pack):
Things I'm bringing:
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@kbamomma33 - I definitely needed the ideas/inspiration!
my hospital provided a lot of stuff. Even socks with threads on the bottom. They wanted me to wear them at all times. I was very hot while getting magnesium drip and they brought me my own fan. The nurse said to take it home with me because they can't reuse them.
What nursing tanks do y'all recommend?
Do any of you suggest bringing your pump with you to the hospital? One of my friends said I should so they can help show me how to use it but I have read that you really shouldn't even use your pump the first 6 weeks you are BF?
I would not bring your pump. You'll have enough stuff to bring already. Plus, there's so much going on after LO is born (hospital staff in and out of the room, nurses checking on you and baby, hearing and other tests for LO, trying to figure out regular BFing, plus you just trying to care for baby and yourself) that I don't think you'll have time to or want to mess with it. A breast pump isn't that hard to figure out. You can find YouTube instructional videos for your pump and just watch those at home- this is what I did. If you want to, you could bring your flanges to the hospital so that you can do a quick check with the LC to make sure they are the right fit for you though.
ETA As far as not using your pump in the first 6 weeks-- I mean, I think that you can use it, but the idea is to get as much nipple stimulation from LO while your supply is getting established in the first 6 weeks, since a pump isn't as efficient as a baby (i.e., don't use the pump to replace at-the-breast feedings right away). My advice, FWIW, would be to do as many regular feeds at the breast during that time as possible and then maybe start throwing in an extra pump sesh after a few weeks to start building a freezer stash. I think I added a pump session for my freezer stash an hour after the first morning feeding (supply is highest in the early AM) starting at about 3 weeks? I don't know if I did that every day right away though. You don't want to go cray with a ton of extra pump to stash sessions right off, because doing that can cause an established oversupply, which comes with its own set of problems.
@sjn00 I actually sent my husband home the 1st night but that's because he is a big man and they only provided a recliner. But I had my mom stay and she was a big help when DS wouldn't stop crying. She ended up holding him for hours so I could get some rest.
@angiek1 I took all that stuff home too except for the blue nose thing because it didn't get in my bag. Which I regret.
DS: EDD, December 19th, 2014. Born, December 19th, 2014!
DD: EDD, July 18th, 2016. Born, July 19th, 2016!
Baby #3: EDD, April 16th, 2016
And also, DH absolutely bonded the second he was holding that child in the hospital. Because I had a C/S and was incapacitated, he was 100% on duty for the first few hours of our DS's life. HE'S the one that did skin to skin with our son. HE'S the one that held him for the first time out of my womb. HE'S the one DS fell asleep on for the first time. Lord. I'd throw a damn fit if my hospital told me he couldn't stay!
DS: EDD, December 19th, 2014. Born, December 19th, 2014!
DD: EDD, July 18th, 2016. Born, July 19th, 2016!
Baby #3: EDD, April 16th, 2016
DS: EDD, December 19th, 2014. Born, December 19th, 2014!
DD: EDD, July 18th, 2016. Born, July 19th, 2016!
Baby #3: EDD, April 16th, 2016