The award goes to DH last night. Keep in mind my parents are in town. So i am one of the worse people when you wake me up after falling asleep on the couch before going to bed. Of course it happened after a long day of shopping and a crazy 1.5 yr old. DH wakes me and i get all moody but i finally end up getting up. The minute i get into the bedroom my husband starts throwing F and BS bombs everywhere as he scolds me about not doing that sh;&. Then as i ignore him for being disrespectful he starts nudging my leg in bed because he wants me to engage in this argument. So i move to the floor (dramatic i know). So then he stared poking my shoulder still trying to make me engage in the argument and saying how I’m so childish and how he would be cursing at me if i didn’t act that way. So i got up told him that it’s nice to see how much he loves me but has no respect for me. How he is starting to go back to his ways when he didn’t know how to deal with my ppd. How he is just adding stress on me by doing this and having to worry about another child coming and these actions of his. That if he ever talks to me like that again i won’t speak to him. And if i lose this baby to stress I’m gonna come back to these instances. He then again started to apologize but trying to justify his cursing. And i said no you can’t apologize and try to justify. It’s simply disrespect and what i consider abuse. I’ve gone through this in past relationships and it is abuse. There is no reason for his actions. He shut up and turned around. Who knows if he’ll even go to my ultrasound or if I’ll let him today. He really pissed me off.
I’m sorry @Wildtot that sounds like sucky evening of sleep. I’m trying to understand what his rant was about, was it about your attitude while he was waking you up? Why didn’t he just leave you there? My husband would have said f it and left me on the couch lol. I’m glad you stuck up for yourself. I’m guilty of cursing at my husband when I’m annoyed angry, it’s something I’m working. Hopefully this is just a bump for you guys and all will be well by tomorrow.
We have two sleeping beauties in heaven. Jack gained his wings on 09/02/2016. Kali gained her wings on 07/28/2015. They will be forever missed.
I know it's Wednesday, but my TW of the day goes to DH. Yes, he works a lot, but I do everything at home including everything with DS unless he's home. He's off this week and has been rightfully helping sick, pathetic me with DS and a bit around the house. He's been pointing out every little thing like he deserves a medal. I've been doing it all sick for 3 weeks! Do I get a medal?? I'm grateful he's helping but really, he should be. HES OFF ALL WEEK.
@bdesterhouse yeah all because of how i act when he wakes me up. I’ve told him to just leave me there. I’m on a small couch so I’ll eventually move lol
@acunamatada i can totally relate to that. Hope it gets better as the week goes.
I know it's Wednesday, but my TW of the day goes to DH. Yes, he works a lot, but I do everything at home including everything with DS unless he's home. He's off this week and has been rightfully helping sick, pathetic me with DS and a bit around the house. He's been pointing out every little thing like he deserves a medal. I've been doing it all sick for 3 weeks! Do I get a medal?? I'm grateful he's helping but really, he should be. HES OFF ALL WEEK.
I. FEEL. YOU. I’m a sahm and never ask hubby for help EVER because he works 9-13 hour days 5-6 days a week. But good Lord. When he’s home he can friggin help! He helped DS off the potty and got him dressed in his jacket to go to dinner so I could finish getting ready and pretended he was father of the year! Well the idiot left my child’s genitles pointing up in his pull up and he subsequently peed out the top of his pants and soaked himself. -_- I don’t carry a change of clothes any more because I haven’t needed them. It’s almost like thanks for helping but I got it.
@paytonpedro yes! DH owns a restaurant which means weird hours, long days, no weekend time unless we plan it so I don't ask him to help out much at all. Just pick up after yourself and be a good father/husband when you're home. I'm not your maid. He "did the dishes" yesterday (by his definition). He washed about 8 dishes, 3 of which I had to redo. I need a dishwasher, a housekeeper, and about 3 bottles of wine.
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Jack gained his wings on 09/02/2016.
Kali gained her wings on 07/28/2015.
They will be forever missed.
Jack gained his wings on 09/02/2016.
Kali gained her wings on 07/28/2015.
They will be forever missed.
@acunamatada i can totally relate to that. Hope it gets better as the week goes.
He "did the dishes" yesterday (by his definition). He washed about 8 dishes, 3 of which I had to redo. I need a dishwasher, a housekeeper, and about 3 bottles of wine.