June 2018 Moms

** Pregnancy Announcements **

edited November 2017 in June 2018 Moms
I thought it might be nice to have a thread where we put how/when we are announcing.  I think we are starting to reach that point where we are getting ready to.  I've included some questions - feel free to answer them if you want.  And of course pictures are always appreciated :)  [If possible, use spoiler boxes]

1. How far along are you? EDD?
2. When will you be announcing to close family/friends?
3. When will you be announcing to extending family/friends?
4. Will you go Facebook/Social Media official?  When?  How?
5. Anything else you'd like to add? 
Me: 28 | Husband: 39
Married March 2016
DD: born 7.22.16
DS EDD: 6.23.18
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  • 1. How far along are you? EDD? 
    10+5  may 31st
    2. When will you be announcing to close family/friends? 
    immediate family and a few close friends know already
    3. When will you be announcing to extending family/friends?
    I'm pretty sure we announced publicly with DS by now. but this time, not till the mat21 results come back (if all is ok). hopefully in the next couple weeks. I'm readdddy!!
    4. Will you go Facebook/Social Media official?  When?  How?
    yes. same as above, once those results come back good. I'd like to do it with a pic of DS.. maybe holding an ultrasound pic? or a sign? we have fam pics on the 19th. but I don't know if we'll have them back before we want to announce, so we might have to wing a pic ourselves. we should also know the gender within days of the results, so we could also just post a video of DS reading the results from the card we asked them to mail us.
    5. Anything else you'd like to add? 
    I'm anxious to see any pic ideas you girls have! I need more.
    me:35 DH:34
    DS: born oct 2012
    TFAS: BFP #1 aug16. miscarriage sept16
              BFP #2 nov16 MMC dec16. d&c jan17
              BFP #3 sept17  EDD 5/31/18
    fingers crossed for our rainbow baby
  • @goldenlola I love how you are announcing <3
    @catlady1215 That is the same reason I wanted to start this post!  I wanna steal ideas :)
    @profmcgonagall love love love the "handpicked for Earth by my sister in heaven" - such a sweet idea 
    Me: 28 | Husband: 39
    Married March 2016
    DD: born 7.22.16
    DS EDD: 6.23.18
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  • @fitzandgiggles Sending prayers for FH’s father  <3

    DD: 09/16/14 @ 37 weeks
    Baby #2: BFP 09/29 @ 11 DPO | EDD: 06/11/18
    Betas: 10/04 - 235 | 10/10 - 2,975 | 10/13 - 8,150 | 10/16 - 21,987

  • @goldenlola Thanks. Right now I'm preparing how to address him mom and sister when we get to Louisiana for the wedding. Neither of them contacted us when FFIL went into the hospital on 11/1. We only found out on Saturday, AFTER his dad was released, because they were "too busy" to tell us what had happened. We live in Atlanta so FH would have needed as much notice that things were looking bad as possible to get on a plane and see his dad in time. So, the fact that they waited to tell him until after FFIL was given the all clear and sent home after 3 days in the hospital got my blood boiling. FH was so upset  :'(
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  • goldenlolagoldenlola member
    edited November 2017
    @fitzandgiggles Oh my goodness that’s horrible. I understand they would have been extremely busy but it would have been so important for FH to get the news in a timely manner. I’m sorry you both had to go through that stress and upset, but glad to hear he’s been released. What are the next steps for him? Close monitoring?

    ETA: words

    DD: 09/16/14 @ 37 weeks
    Baby #2: BFP 09/29 @ 11 DPO | EDD: 06/11/18
    Betas: 10/04 - 235 | 10/10 - 2,975 | 10/13 - 8,150 | 10/16 - 21,987

  • @doxiemoxie212 FH is a high school teacher so he'll be telling his principal in December. He currently has 90 days of PTO saved up, so he'll be home all of July (yay summer break!) and will have a sub when school starts. His current plan is to use about 5 weeks of his PTO and save the rest for the next baby, so he'll return to school after Labor Day. 
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  • @goldenlola Monitoring, some HUGE lifestyle changes, and a boatload of medications. His heart test came back showing it's only performing at 33% :(
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  • I need to learn to hit refresh - 
    @doxiemoxie212 both of our employers already know.  My appts affect our normal work day, and we wanted their support if anything happens/happened
    @fitzandgiggles I am so sorry to hear about FH's Father <3
    @marcus7676 Even though DS is telling everyone - that is so adorable
    Me: 28 | Husband: 39
    Married March 2016
    DD: born 7.22.16
    DS EDD: 6.23.18
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  • @BumpAdmin please sticky this at the pregnancy/parenting resources thread
  • 1. How far along are you? EDD? 7w4d, EFF June 22nd.

    2. When will you be announcing to close family/friends? We each chose one or two person to tell early (I picked my sister and a close friend who is also pregnant, DH picked his brother and another friend). Our parents and other close family and friends will find out on Christmas day.

    3. When will you be announcing to extending family/friends? With DD we did a Facebook announcement at 20 weeks, after we found out she was a girl. We will most likely do that again this time.

    4. Will you go Facebook/Social Media official?  When?  How? See above for the when. With DD I took a picture of DH reading the book "Dude, You're Gonna Be A Dad!" And he made that his profile picture and that was our announcement. This time I'll take a picture of DD sitting on DH's lap reading a Big Sister book, and repeat.

    5. Anything else you'd like to add? For our Christmas announcement we are buying mugs for each of our parents that say "Grandma/Grandpa (Again!) 2018. We are going to dress DD up in a Big Sister shirt for Christmas dinner with the rest of the family and see who notices first.
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  • 1. How far along are you? EDD?
    9+4. June 18.

    2. When will you be announcing to close family/friends?
    We announced shortly after we found out. My family tends to have adult beverages when we all get together for a meal, and they would've known right away. I put DS in a "Best Brother Ever" shirt and took his picture. I bought a frame that said "Grandkids give the best hugs" and put the picture on it. Tada!

    3. When will you be announcing to extending family/friends?
    They all aready know... I play softball and had to tell my teams when I found out because I wasn't playing the same way I usually do. I'm super competitive, so that was a stretch. Our extended families found out after we told our immediate family. DH family is super jealous and if we hadn't told them all on the same day they would have been upset. It's complicated...

    4. Will you go Facebook/Social Media official?  When?  How?
    We already did. Everyone already knew (mostly) and I was afraid I would "slip" and share an article or something along those lines. I posted the picture of DS from the frame and captioned it "My role as an only child is coming to an end, because Mommy is due with my new best friend." We announced our pregnancy with him pretty early too. I understand why people don't, I'm just a talker so it's either post it and not worry about it, or slip and make someone mad... Because you know, it's all about everyone else... *eye roll*

    5. Anything else you'd like to add?
    The holidays are super stressful for me. My family caters to whatever "schedule" we need, but DH family is super controlling and they think that we should do whatever they want us to do, including 3 different get togethers for Christmas, and 2 for Thanksgiving. This was not a big deal until we had DS, then we decided to put our feet down and say we were staying home until at least 11 on Christmas Day, and that made his family so mad at us that they did not speak to us for a few weeks. SIL didn't speak to us for almost a month after we told them we were expecting this baby. The drama in his family is more than my pregnant self would like to handle. UGH!

    DH: 29 years old.
    Me: 25 years old.
    DS: born 12/30/14
    Baby #2 due 6/8/18

  • izza2izza2 member
    edited November 2017
    •We told our close family (our parents, and my siblings/their families) pretty much immediately. My brother came up from Arkansas the weekend after our BFP and we told everyone at the same time that weekend when they came over. H told his close friends the same week we found out, and I just recently shared with my close friends.

    •We haven't really planned any "announcements", but when we make it "FB Official" it'll also be our announcement to extended family. I have a huge family, and really don't feel like going out of my way to tell them all when we're not really close, so they'll just find out at the same time everyone else does!

    •We have planned the sex reveal already, though. H is an avid shooter and wants to fill a balloon with powder correlating to the "typical" sex colour (blue vs pink) and shoot it to find out the sex. I have zero plans of having a party for it, because what's the point? But have every intention of video taping it to share, as that's what he really wants to do.

    I'm thinking we'll probably announce closer to Christmas? I have to go through Pinterest to find some nice ideas that aren't overdone, but we'll figure it out eventually! Maybe I'll ask DSS what he thinks would be a good idea...

    Me: 30 | DH: 34 | DSS: 14 | DS: 4
    PG #2, EDD 10/12/2023

  • 1. How far along are you? EDD? 9+3, EDD June 9

    2. When will you be announcing to close family/friends?  I told my mom and sister the day I got a positive test.  We've been trying for a long time (and they knew) so it was very exciting.  I told the rest of my immediate family a few days after once I saw the test line darkening.  I've told a couple friends and a couple close coworkers (including my supervisor who cried when I told her). 

    3. When will you be announcing to extending family/friends?  I have a second ultrasound on the 21st to confirm growth and I'll be about 12 weeks then, so probably a week after that assuming there's nothing alarming. 

    4. Will you go Facebook/Social Media official?  When?  How?  I'm not planning on making a social media announcement until we know the gender at the anatomy scan.  Most people I know will have already heard by word of mouth, FB would just basically be for very extended family, and it feels more fun to announce with gender :)  My husband is a photographer so I'm hoping he can come up with something funny but not overly cute. 

    5. Anything else you'd like to add? Is there like a set second trimester week?  I've ready anywhere from 12-14 weeks.  Does it really matter?  I read the risk of miscarriage goes down significantly once you've seen the heartbeat, and once I've seen growth at our second ultrasound it doesn't seem like a week or two will make any difference.


    Me: 32 | DH: 36

    Married June 2005

    1/2016 - TTC#1

    4/2017 - Initial RE visit, Dx: Severe MFI (Varicocele, 14% motility, 3% progression, but normal count)

    7/2017 - Stage 3 endometriosis discovered during laparoscopic removal of ovarian cyst

    9/27/2017 - BFP at 10dpo (cycle 22), baby boy due June 9, 2018

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  • @goldenlolaI love it! so cute.

    @kmurdock925 I love that idea, we don't have a mantel. Hmmmm.... but maybe someone could use a custom Christmas ornament 
    Me:27 DH: 31 Married Since: 08/2016
    TTC: 08/2017 EDD: 6/11/2018 FTM
  • @BumpAdmin - Sticky this one too while you're at it!

    Me: 30 | DH: 34 | DSS: 14 | DS: 4
    PG #2, EDD 10/12/2023

  • 1. How far along are you? EDD? 9 weeks today (YAY)

    2. When will you be announcing to close family/friends? Told close family about 2 weeks ago after 1st ultrasound, told close friends slowly. I have one more friend left, and my oldest brother to tell.

    3. When will you be announcing to extending family/friends? Thanksgiving

    4. Will you go Facebook/Social Media official?  When?  How? I'm thinking Dec. 7. I'll be 13 weeks & 1 day. My step mom's birthday is Dec 6, my husband's frat's founder's day is Dec 4 (yeah its actually kinda a big deal like a mini unofficial holiday for them), so after all that blows over. I'm also considering Dec 1 (12 weeks 3 days) to get a jump start on those events IDK yet. I want to avoid Christmas only because we got engaged on Christmas. It was great but I don't really want to do that again (take all the attention all day). Plus I'm fine with leaving Christmas as the day we remember our proposal. 

    I made a cute video on my phone that has like the timeline of our relationship (meet, fall in love, propose, get house, get married) and it ends with baby June 2018. His family loved it, but I think it may be too cutesy (and possibly braggadocios) for facebook where a simple picture would get the message across just fine. My other idea is my niece in a shirt that says "My favorite auntie is busy making me a cousin."


    @RatParade always confusing, I just say 13 weeks bc 40 divided by 3 is 13.3.

    Me:27 DH: 31 Married Since: 08/2016
    TTC: 08/2017 EDD: 6/11/2018 FTM
  • 1. 7 weeks today - June 26th 

    2. My best friend from growing up knows, because she visited me while on leave (she lives in Japan for 6 more months), I wanted to tell her in person AND I couldn't keep it in anymore and needed to tell someone other than DH. So now she and I can text about it which is a relief.

    We plan to tell my family on Thanksgiving when we are all together for dinner and his family the next day when we do Thanksgiving with them. For my family we got a onesie that says "Cousins make the best friends" for my sister to open.  She is due in December so it won't be weird to hand her a gift. She knows I've been buying things for my future niece constantly. For his family we picked up baby Sperry's and baby Ray-Ban knock offs for his mom to open because we have a running joke that she has some baby Sperry's hiding in the closet for when we announce.  They've been wanting us to have kids for four years now. 

    3. Close friends will probably find out right after my family.  It will be hard for me to keep my mouth shut after my family finds out.  Extended family will likely find out at Christmas. I haven't decided if I'll do a Christmas card announcement for them or if they'll just find out from people telling. To be honest, they will probably find out before Christmas since a few family members aren't the best at keeping secrets. My workplace already suspects it because they know there are four different employees trying to get pregnant right now and I didn't attend the last happy hour. So... I think I'll be telling them earlier than most people tell... the week after thanksgiving before our Christmas party. 

    4. At some point I think we'll post on social media but probably not until after Christmas. Maybe a new years post? 
  • 1. How far along are you? EDD?
    9 weeks, June 14th

    2. When will you be announcing to close family/friends?
    We announced to close family and our close friends last week. 

    3. When will you be announcing to extending family/friends?
    Most of my extended family knows, as I'm closer to them than my parents.

    4. Will you go Facebook/Social Media official?  When?  How?
    Maybe end of November. 
  • 1. How far along are you? EDD?  7weeks
    2. When will you be announcing to close family/friendsI've already told my Mum, Nanna and a couple of close friends.  My H wants to wait till Christmas to tell everyone else.
    3. When will you be announcing to extending family/friends? as above.
    4. Will you go Facebook/Social Media official?  Yes around about Christmas time but I haven't thought about how
    5. Anything else you'd like to add? I'm not sure when I should tell my supervisors.  My thoughts are to say now from the off - just feels the most open thing to do. 



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  • 1. How far along are you? EDD?
    8w2d June 18th
    2. When will you be announcing to close family/friends?
    We just told my parents on Sunday and telling my IL's today. A few friends already know because I felt comfortable texting them but we wanted to tell our parents face to face.
    3. When will you be announcing to extending family/friends?
    I think around Thanksgiving, we are all getting together. I was thinking about sticking ds in a big brother shirt and let that be the announcement.
    4. Will you go Facebook/Social Media official?  When?  How?
    I'm not sure this time around, I'm not that active on social media and I just don't have a desire to post anything. I guess if we do it'll be around Christmas maybe Thanksgiving with a photo.
    5. Anything else you'd like to add? 
    Everyone has known we've been trying and since getting BFP nobody has asked about it. It made dh and I feel like they all somehow just knew, but we wanted to do something different with our parents this time around instead of saying that I'm pregnant. So I bought little gift boxes and folded up a onesie, put a pacifier on top, and a little note saying "baby #2 ready to meet you in June 2018" their reaction was THE BEST. My mom instantly started tearing up and my Dad shot up out of his chair just out of excitement, I wish we got it on camera. I'm excited to see my IL's reaction even though I think it'll be about the same.


  • So fun!  I love reading all of your ideas or how you've already announced!!  

    1. How far along are you? EDD? 10+1, 6/5 or 6/6
    2. When will you be announcing to close family/friends?  We've told my parents and sisters and just a few very close friends already. Hopefully we will be able to get together with the ILs this weekend to tell them. I want to tell other close friends individually and in person if possible and that will take some time so over the next month probably.
    3. When will you be announcing to extending family/friends?  Maybe around Christmas?  DH isn't sure he wants to wait that long though.  
    4. Will you go Facebook/Social Media official?  When?  How?  I haven't decided yet.  I go back and forth...I am pretty active on social media, mostly of the kids, most definitely not selfies, but I kind of like the idea of being like all of the sudden, surprise, we had a baby!  But like someone else here said, this will be our last baby and I don't want to regret not announcing and make it seem like it was an accident or not wanted.  
    5. Anything else you'd like to add?  I am thinking about getting another stocking for the fireplace mantel, taking a picture of the four of us in front of it and the Christmas tree and then just have the extra stocking on the fireplace for our Christmas card.  I usually do New Years cards but maybe I'll be ahead of the game this year and actually send out cards before Christmas.  
    BFP #1 October 2008 | m/c Thanksgiving weekend | November 2008 | 7 weeks 2 days
    BFP #2 February 2009 | m/c March 2009 | 4 weeks 3 days
    Testing on mom and dad for possible reasons all came back normal.
    BFP #3 8/4/2009 | DD born 3/28/10 @ 38 weeks
    BFP #4 5/13/11 | m/c 6/15/11 | 8 weeks 6 days
    BFP #5 2/13/13 | CP 2/19/13 | 4 weeks 
    BFP #6 3/21/14 | Heard the HB on 4/16 | m/c 4/21/14 | 9 weeks
    Testing results all returned normal and baby was a GIRL.
    More testing on mom and dad for other issues all returned normal results.
    BFP #7 10/15 | DS born 6/4/16 @ 36 weeks 
    BFP #8 9/28/17 AHHH!!!  |  EDD 6/6/18

    "Dear Lord, I would have loved to have held my babies on my lap & tell them about you, but since I didn't get the chance, would you please hold them on your lap & tell them about me?"
    All are welcome!


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  • @sunshineandwhiskey hey would you mind renaming this thread to something like pregnancy announcements since later on down the road we’ll have a birth announcements thread and they’ll both be pinned? We can only edit threads for a few weeks :)
  • 1. How far along are you? EDD? 8weeks 3 days, June 17
    2. When will you be announcing to close family/friends? We told most of them immediately.
    3. When will you be announcing to extending family/friends?  12 weeks.  First trimester will be over, we will have most of the genetic screening information back, and I will feel confident enough to widen the circle.
    4. Will you go Facebook/Social Media official?  I'm a weirdo with this one.  I'll probably wait until 26+ weeks again.
  • @doxiemoxie212 done :)  
    and @BumpAdmin stickyyyy pleaseeee 
    Me: 28 | Husband: 39
    Married March 2016
    DD: born 7.22.16
    DS EDD: 6.23.18
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  • Due 6/20. Told my top 3 gfs right away (support system). Telling our families at Christmas then taking a vacation in January where we'll be taking announcement pics before 'going public'.

    Planning to get each of my moms matching pendants with their new titles ('mom-mom', 'may-may' & 'bee-bee') engraved and put the ultrasound pics inside the cards.
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