**ladies who are not wanting to join FB, we are NOT abandoning you! I know I will be active on both groups for now. But please consider joining us before the end of November!**
Admitting new members now through November 30th. PM your email associated with your FB to one of the admins for admittance @flowerpower5838@MJDsquared@ktcakes87@failuretofly@Marley629DO NOT POST YOUR EMAIL ADDRESS HERE! The FB group is a secret group, meaning NOBODY can search for the group and NOBODY (outside the group) can see ANYTHING you post inside the group.
Before requesting admittance, please ask yourself if you have been a consistent poster, preferably for most of your pregnancy. If the 5 of us do not believe you have been active enough we will ask you to please start contributing on TB more to be added before the cutoff. A lot more personal information will be shared on FB and we want everyone to feel comfortable with who is allowed in. We don't want any creepers or lurkers.
By messaging an admin your email address you are agreeing to the following group rules:
December 2017 Mamas from TB!
Group Rules: No soliciting. If you have a business you would like to promote please add your info/link to the document.
Controversial topics are OK, but please be respectful.
Snark is allowed, but please no bullying.
If you have a personal tragedy please use a Trigger Warning and then post your story in the comments. This will allow people to choose if they would like to read or not.
Vegas rules - What happens here stays here: Please don’t mention things that happen here on TB or anywhere else.
If you choose to share a NSFW (not safe for work) photo, please share it in the comments. Examples: breastfeeding, diaper rash, bathtime, poopy diapers, ect.
Asking for medical advice is not allowed. The answer will always be call your/LO’s doctor. Stories of similar situations may be shared, but do not take it as medical advice.
No GoFundMe links.
Me 29 I Him 26 Married 4/22/16
TTC 9/2015 **TW** BFP 2/1/16 I MC 3/21/16 (11w) TTCAL 6/15/16 BFP 3/23/2017 Team pink! Quinn Leigh EDD December 1, 2017
Hey ladies!! When you join, please be sure to sign all of your posts, comments, replies, etc. with your Bump user name for a while until we are all acquainted. Thank you!
I know there was some discussion on this, but how are you deciding if someone is active enough? I definitely read more than I post, but I've been trying to post more. Everyone here is so helpful and provides such great advice that I will be sad if everyone leaves and I can't go too!
@TigerCakes I will be here with you. I apparently haven't posted enough, even though I do my best. Most posts don't apply to me or by the time I get on here to respond to something that does, If 15 other people have posted, Im not going to post the same thing just to have a reply count.
KayLee77 Hey! We just wanted to let you (and other people that may feel the same way) know that it was the general consensus of the group as a whole that there needed to be a bar set for activity level so everyone felt comfortable with the move to Facebook. There is a lot more divulging of personal information there, so it's been said multiple time since this board opened up that a certain level of familiarity was preferred before moving off of TB. I think that is generally the case for most Bump to FB migrations when it comes to BMBs. One thing that was NOT offered to users on my last BMB was the opportunity to participate more on TB for a short period of time to earn that bit of familiarity needed for FB that may be lacking.
I hope you understand the method behind the madness. Please let me know if you have any questions.
PSA: If you sent a request to @failuretofly recently and didn’t receive a response, it’s because TB won’t allow her to access her inbox. Please send your request to one of the other admins (and no one send a request to her for now). Thank you!
Crap, I keep forgetting to change my email settings on FB. My FB login info includes an @.edu email address I forgot the password to about 10 years ago I'm coming to join you eventually, I promise!!
@elcd458 I don't think we need the email address you signed up with FB; once we send you the link to whatever email address you use, you will be prompted to sign into Facebook with your FB username and password and then you can join group that way
Just a reminder that we do have a time limit on joining the FB group. November 30th is the designated cutoff day.
If you've inquired and were encouraged to participate more, there's still plenty of time! If you've been putting it off closer to our due dates, this is just a friendly reminder!
Again - we just want to reiterate that the "rules" set in place and agreed upon by most are there for a reason. It's not a personal attack on anyone and we hope that you all understand where the FB admins come from when responding to requests to join.
Evening. I'm new here on the group. Could I please be added to the Facebook page. My email r.f.evrka@gmail.com. my little angel Iszabella is due 31st December 2017.
*snip* Before requesting admittance, please ask yourself if you have been a consistent poster, preferably for most of your pregnancy. If the 5 of us do not believe you have been active enough we will ask you to please start contributing on TB more to be added before the cutoff. A lot more personal information will be shared on FB and we want everyone to feel comfortable with who is allowed in. We don't want any creepers or lurkers. *snip*
It was the general consensus on this board earlier on that we would only be admitting people who have been with us for the long haul. Perhaps if you participate like a mad woman and offer boatloads of support over these next 2 weeks before the cut off, the admins may consider allowing you in. Please make your best effort to participate on the board until then. Best of luck. tagging @ktcakes87@flowerpower5838@Marley629@MJDsquared as an FYI
@evreka - don't hold your breath. I've been here for months and was deemed unworthy. There's still some activity here, though, if you have questions or want to share experiences.
Many thanks for your reply. My apologies for not joining sooner.. I have been sending messages on a few other places and seems no one has responded. Guess time will just tell.
Thank you for taking the time to respond to my messages. Think my time di
@jlemons-2 are you sure cause I feel as if it's not due to me been rejected to join the Facebook page as well and it seems I'm not the only one that has been rejected. As it is I can't deal with anymore rejection as I am alone through this pregnancy and was hoping for support.
I definitely second @jlemons-2 and would encourage you to participate here as much as you feel like. Everyone here was new once and we can all learn from each other and share experiences. I also think that the certain level of relative anonymity here can help people be more open.
On a side note, there seems to be kind of a mean girls vibe about this whole Facebook page thing and I wouldn't worry about hitting some magical number of posts to qualify.
Re: D'17 Official Facebook Group
Me: 29 DH: 31
Married 10/13/12
TTC Since 8/2016
DX Diminished Ovarian Reserve, Factor V Leiden Mutation, Secondary Infertility
MFI (SA #1Count 11mill, Motility: 18%, Morphology: 1%)
AMH .328 | FSH 13.2
TTC #1 since 12/2015
BFP 4/4/17, EDD 12/4/17
DX Diminished Ovarian Reserve, Factor V Leiden Mutation, Secondary Infertility
MFI (SA #1Count 11mill, Motility: 18%, Morphology: 1%)
AMH .328 | FSH 13.2
DX Diminished Ovarian Reserve, Factor V Leiden Mutation, Secondary Infertility
MFI (SA #1Count 11mill, Motility: 18%, Morphology: 1%)
AMH .328 | FSH 13.2
DX Diminished Ovarian Reserve, Factor V Leiden Mutation, Secondary Infertility
MFI (SA #1Count 11mill, Motility: 18%, Morphology: 1%)
AMH .328 | FSH 13.2
I will be here with you. I apparently haven't posted enough, even though I do my best. Most posts don't apply to me or by the time I get on here to respond to something that does, If 15 other people have posted, Im not going to post the same thing just to have a reply count.
I hope you understand the method behind the madness. Please let me know if you have any questions.
Me: 29 DH: 31
Married 10/13/12
TTC Since 8/2016
DX Diminished Ovarian Reserve, Factor V Leiden Mutation, Secondary Infertility
MFI (SA #1Count 11mill, Motility: 18%, Morphology: 1%)
AMH .328 | FSH 13.2
DD - 12/28/17
TTC #2 3/2019
BFP 5/2019 || MC - D&C 5/2019
BFP 2/2020 || EDD 10/10/2020
DD - 12/28/17
TTC #2 3/2019
BFP 5/2019 || MC - D&C 5/2019
BFP 2/2020 || EDD 10/10/2020
Married 4/22/16
**TW**
BFP 2/1/16 I MC 3/21/16 (11w)
TTCAL 6/15/16
BFP 3/23/2017 Team pink! Quinn Leigh EDD December 1, 2017
Married 4/22/16
**TW**
BFP 2/1/16 I MC 3/21/16 (11w)
TTCAL 6/15/16
BFP 3/23/2017 Team pink! Quinn Leigh EDD December 1, 2017
DX Diminished Ovarian Reserve, Factor V Leiden Mutation, Secondary Infertility
MFI (SA #1Count 11mill, Motility: 18%, Morphology: 1%)
AMH .328 | FSH 13.2
DX Diminished Ovarian Reserve, Factor V Leiden Mutation, Secondary Infertility
MFI (SA #1Count 11mill, Motility: 18%, Morphology: 1%)
AMH .328 | FSH 13.2
DX Diminished Ovarian Reserve, Factor V Leiden Mutation, Secondary Infertility
MFI (SA #1Count 11mill, Motility: 18%, Morphology: 1%)
AMH .328 | FSH 13.2
If you've inquired and were encouraged to participate more, there's still plenty of time! If you've been putting it off closer to our due dates, this is just a friendly reminder!
Again - we just want to reiterate that the "rules" set in place and agreed upon by most are there for a reason. It's not a personal attack on anyone and we hope that you all understand where the FB admins come from when responding to requests to join.
Thanks!
Me: 29 DH: 31
Married 10/13/12
TTC Since 8/2016
DX Diminished Ovarian Reserve, Factor V Leiden Mutation, Secondary Infertility
MFI (SA #1Count 11mill, Motility: 18%, Morphology: 1%)
AMH .328 | FSH 13.2
Kind regards
See above:
It was the general consensus on this board earlier on that we would only be admitting people who have been with us for the long haul. Perhaps if you participate like a mad woman and offer boatloads of support over these next 2 weeks before the cut off, the admins may consider allowing you in. Please make your best effort to participate on the board until then.
Best of luck.
tagging @ktcakes87 @flowerpower5838 @Marley629 @MJDsquared as an FYI
Thank you for taking the time to respond to my messages. Think my time di
On a side note, there seems to be kind of a mean girls vibe about this whole Facebook page thing and I wouldn't worry about hitting some magical number of posts to qualify.