@nitnat007 that's what I'm assuming. I feel like there'd be more of a 'and we'll be there at like such and such time' to the text if it was an invite. I mean, maybe she'll reach out tomorrow. I'd really like to see her- we were roommates on our Birthright trip, and clicked when we met at the airport. We've fallen out of touch over the past few years, but I'd really like to reconnect.
I don't know why making plans with friends stresses me out more than dating ever did.
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@jsnakehole I get it! I would definitely take @SkilledSailor 's advice and ask when she would be free for a meet up. If nothing else that will prompt the invite to the bar if that was her intention? I hope that you can figure out a time and get to catch up. We all drift apart but it is so nice to reconnect with the important people when we can. GL
Welcome @LeahNicole! It's best to keep mentions of kids to the TFAS thread. If absolutely necessary to mention kids, it should be set off with TWs since some ladies here have been trying for kids for a long time and have still not been successful, and it's great for everyone to be respectful of that. No worries though, you're not the only one who has done that mistakenly!
@SkilledSailor right?!? I mean, why can't I just say "Hey, I really valued our friendship and I'm sorry we lost touch. It would really mean a lot to me to hang out" without feeling like a total weirdo/nerd? But I was totally able to be like "Hey, I really like you, let's keep seeing each other" (or, was more often the case, "hey, I don't see a relationship here but I'd totally be DTF") to guys all the time.
Me: 28 DH: 29 Married: 6/2016 TTC #1: 12/2016 Benched due to deployment- Off the bench 8/8/17!
@jsnakehole sometimes reconnecting is even more awkward than making the plans. I have a couple friends from elementary/high school that I see occasionally when I visit my parents and catching up is painfully awkward. Once my parents move away I doubt the relationship will continue despite the 25 years I've known them. We just don't have anything in common anymore.
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@jsnakehole I always feel the same way when trying to reconnect with someone, or just starting to form a new friendship and make plans. It’s so awkward! I would just tell her to let you know when she’s free while she’s in town so the ball is in her court to invite you out with her friends or make different plans to see you.
Re: Weekday Randoms - 10/30
I don't know why making plans with friends stresses me out more than dating ever did.
Married: 6/2016
TTC #1: 12/2016
Benched due to deployment- Off the bench 8/8/17!
I hope that you can figure out a time and get to catch up. We all drift apart but it is so nice to reconnect with the important people when we can. GL
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Sleep training my 9 month old went so well tonight, my H said..."maybe you were right"...whatttt
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Benched due to deployment- Off the bench 8/8/17!