Re: Need opinions and advice please help

• lalala2004 member

  October 2017

  OP, I strongly suggest reading the pinned threads at the top of the page if you want to participate in the community.
  
  Also, it is against the rules to ask if you are pregnant. If the test you took was negative, you are not pregnant.
  
  To answer your question, the general rule is that 60 days without a period means you should contact your doctor. Since you already have and they weren't willing to help you, I would get a second opinion.

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• lulu1180 member

  October 2017

  knottied996d40a94e4ab44 said:

  My husband and I had our son 2 1/2 years ago. I went back on Lo Loestrin fe (pill) for a bit then came off of it this past July. Got AF Aug 27 and haven’t gotten AF since.... Still nothing... All the pregnancy tests read negative and I don’t feel AF coming at all.. My DR is old school , says to “wait it out” and “keep trying” Has anyone had this happen. Why is my body not getting AF? Is there still a possibility of me being Pregnant just too early even though AF hasn’t shown in like 2 months? And I just tested last Wednesday and it was a negative ? Please give me some opinions .. my dr isn’t answer isn’t very relieving..

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• KristoKekerooni member

  October 2017

  knottied996d40a94e4ab44 said:

  My husband and I had our son 2 1/2 years ago. I went back on Lo Loestrin fe (pill) for a bit then came off of it this past July. Got AF Aug 27 and haven’t gotten AF since.... Still nothing... All the pregnancy tests read negative and I don’t feel AF coming at all.. My DR is old school , says to “wait it out” and “keep trying” Has anyone had this happen. Why is my body not getting AF? Is there still a possibility of me being Pregnant just too early even though AF hasn’t shown in like 2 months? And I just tested last Wednesday and it was a negative ? Please give me some opinions .. my dr isn’t answer isn’t very relieving..
  
  
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  I want to know how your doctor isn't relieving? What did he say? That coming off your BCP can cause this, so chill out, and wait and see? I know that's not what you want to hear, but I can guarantee that you will either be pregnant or AF will show eventually. Maybe chill for a minute and have some patience? It won't be long till you know either way... meanwhile there are women in this group that have been waiting to have a baby for YEARS, so the days/weeks you have till you find out isn't gonna kill you. Promise.

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  BFP: 16 November 2015, loss confirmed 22 November 2015
  BFP: 18 July 2016, loss confirmed same day
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  January 2017: H tested again,  High DNA fragmentation and stainability
  February 2017: Clomid + TI + Progesterone = BFN
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  FET #1: 27 February 2018, 3AA & 5BB, one stuck! BFP 04 March 2018.... Loss confirmed 23 March 2018
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• kiki75 member

  October 2017

  @KristoKekerooni

      

  Me: 34 DH: 38
  Married: June 2011
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  BFP#2: 5/8/17 - CP
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• KristoKekerooni member

  October 2017

  kiki75 said:

  @KristoKekerooni

  I know I’m probably a little sensitive... 
  
  

  TTC #1 since September 2014
  Diagnoses: RPL, Endometriosis, MFI (count, morph, DNI, DNAS, multiple bilateral subclinical varicoceles), low progesterone
  Check out my Infertility blog 
  Check out my Infertility Instagram
  
  

  Loss History (TW):

  BFP: 3 May 2015, loss confirmed 4 June 2015
  BFP: 15 August 2015, loss confirmed 23 August 2015
  BFP: 16 November 2015, loss confirmed 22 November 2015
  BFP: 18 July 2016, loss confirmed same day
  BFP: 04 March 2018, loss confirmed 23 March 2018
  BFP: 12 June 2018, TWINS; D&C 06 July 2018

  TTC History (TW):

  3 losses in 2015
  Met with OBGYN in January 2016
  Me: all clear, H: OAT
  November 2016: HSG = All Clear!
  January 2017: H tested again,  High DNA fragmentation and stainability
  February 2017: Clomid + TI + Progesterone = BFN
  March 2017: Clomid + HCG + IUI + Progesterone = SA/wash: zero count on attempt #1, <1,000 on attempt #2= BFN
  Varicocele Embolization- 5 May 17
  December 2017 SA: Zero improvement after embolization
  January IVF- 25 retrieved, 11 mature, 8 fertilized, 3 frozen day fives (3AA, 3AA, 3AA), 1 frozen day 6 (5BB), 1 frozen day 7 (3CC)
  Three PGS normal (3AA, 3AA, 5BB), one inconclusive (3AA)
  FET #1: 27 February 2018, 3AA & 5BB, one stuck! BFP 04 March 2018.... Loss confirmed 23 March 2018
  May 2018: SHG/SIS = all clear "beautiful uterus"
  FET #2: 04 June 2018, 3AA PGS normal embryo, 3AA PGS hatching inconclusive embryo. 
  BFP: 12 June 2018, EDD 20 February 2019
  Ultrasound, 25 June 2018: There are two! 
  Lost Baby A 02 July 2018
  Baby B not growing, D&C 06 July 2018
  Laparoscopy, hysteroscopy, chromotubation: 23 July 2018: blocked right tube, heavily inflamed, covered in endo. Removed right tube. Removed more endo from uterus, tubes, ovaries. Endo remains on bladder and bowel. 

  Next Up:

  TTC Naturally, possibly IUIs for remainder of 2018. 
  ER#2 ~Jan 2019

          

  
  

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• josie12367 member

  October 2017

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• dpjennifer member

  October 2017 edited October 2017

  I'm with KristoKekerooni on this. OP, you are being exceptionally insensitive. Your cycles can take what, 6 months to a year?, to regulate after coming off of BC. You need to read the "Read This First" Pinned discussion. Then you need to read Taking Charge of Your Fertility. Then you need to buy a Basal Body THermometer and USE it! 
  Take some chill pills OP. I'm really unsympathetic to your plight as my AF just started yesterday after a 50 day Cycle, while I'm charting, and I've spent over 2 years trying to have my first baby and only ending up with 4 MCs. 
  
  

  MC #1: D&C Oct 23, 2015 (7.5 weeks)
  MC #2: July 1, 2016 (5.5 weeks)
  MC #3: October 17, 2016 (CP)
  RE #1: RPL testing November 2016-January 2017
  MC #4: Feb. 28, 2017 (CP)
  RE #2: Additional RPL testing March-November 2017
  MC #5: January 2019 (6.5 weeks)
  
  RE #3: More testing 2023. 
  Egg Retrieval Sept/Oct 2023, 2 good embryos after PGT-A testing.
  Surgery for endometriosis January 2024
  Lupron Depo March 2024.  Benched 3 months.
  

  FET #1: June 3, 2024 (failed)

  Lupron Depo June 2024. Benched 3 months again before next FET.

  FET #2: September 2024 (failed)

  FET #3: December 2024 (failed)

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• BumpAdmin admin

  October 2017

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