April 2018 Moms

PGAL Weekly Check In 8/14

I hope I'm not stepping on any toes, but thought we could use a fresh thread

How far along are you?


Any appointments coming up?


Questions?


How are you doing? (Dear diary posts and venting are welcome and encouraged here)


GTKY: If you could travel to any place in the world, where would you go, and what would you want to experience there?

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  • How far along are you?
    I am 6 weeks today!!


    Any appointments coming up?
    I have an ultrasound on Tuesday, August 29th (OB is on vacation next week darn it!) to make sure baby is nestled in where he/she needs to be

    Questions?


    How are you doing? (Dear diary posts and venting are welcome and encouraged here)
    I'm still VERY nervous that this is going to end horribly for me. I'm trying to stay positive but it's difficult for me. This pregnancy was a complete surprise for us. DH and I actually only DTD one time last month. I took a test on a whim because I was supposed to have surgery on August 7th to remove a lump from the back of my leg that they couldn't confirm with MRI was benign. I'm still worried about that situation, but I feel like if the surgeon is ok with me not having surgery immediately to remove this mass, then he must be pretty confident that it is in fact benign. It does give me some trouble. It hurts occasionally and sometimes even makes my whole leg hurt, so we will still have to have it removed, just not right now. 

    GTKY: If you could travel to any place in the world, where would you go, and what would you want to experience there?
    I really want to go a tropical island. Some where, dare I say, without children, and just enjoy my husband. We are so busy with work, the kids, and everything else going on that some days we go to bed and we really haven't even had a real conversation all day. Hopefully after we have the baby and we will be able to get some of our family members to stay with all the kids so we can take a little vacation.
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  • How far along are you?
    5 weeks 5 days 

    Any appointments coming up?
    Not until the 28th. Two weeks!

    Questions?
    None that I can think of.

    How are you doing? (Dear diary posts and venting are welcome and encouraged here)
    Good! I've been feeling really optimistic. Each day I wake up and just think yay I'm still pregnant! 


    GTKY: If you could travel to any place in the world, where would you go, and what would you want to experience there?
    i really want to go Bora Bora or any of those other tropical places that have the rooms you stay in over the water. 
  • How far along are you?
    6w2d

    Any appointments coming up?
    next weeeeeeeek! (Can you tell I'm a bit eager for it to get here?)

    Questions?
    I tried to do a prenatal first trimester yoga video today, but I had to stop because it seemed to trigger the abdominal pulling sensations. Have any of you ever experienced an increase in cramps/ aches, etc. While stretching or exercising? It was a really gentle movement, so it took me by surprise

    How are you doing? (Dear diary posts and venting are welcome and encouraged here)
    I ended up being glad my mom found out because then she was able to be a buffer to help me keep the secret from my grandmother. I'll be headed to my hometown the next few days, so I'll have the opportunity to tell my Dad and my best friend. I'm anxious about it though because I had ideally wanted to wait to tell people till after the first ultrasound. It's hard letting people in when I haven't yet been able to see what's going on in there. 

    GTKY: If you could travel to any place in the world, where would you go, and what would you want to experience there?
    I second @toniherdt that anywhere over water would be cool. I would love to go to Asia to experience the food
  • @allowachick, I had the same experience with prenatal yoga.  Every time I went to a class, I left nervous due to pulling and cramping.
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  • @allowachick I haven't tried much physical activity yet but I do notice that when I'm laying down and stretch out I get crampy or even sometimes when I go to pick up my son. It catches me by surprise too so I just try and sit still for a minute or two until it passes. 

  • How far along are you? 4w4d

    Any appointments coming up? I had an US today due to some spotting and they couldn't see anything. The tech kept saying it's just too early and that she couldn't confirm the pregnancy or a miscarriage.

    Questions? Nothing at the moment.

    How are you doing? (Dear diary posts and venting are welcome and encouraged here) The spotting stopped which is good, but I'm just terrified now that I'm going to start gushing blood like the last time. My OB's office will call tomorrow morning once they get the results.

    GTKY: If you could travel to any place in the world, where would you go, and what would you want to experience there? I would like to go back to Hawaii, it was so nice and I just really miss it.

  • I'm sorry about the spotting @ChloandCoco.  FX your results come back with good numbers!
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  • How far along are you? 6 wks, 2 days


    Any appointments coming up?
    Just a normal "first OB appointment" on Friday. Hoping to hear a heartbeat.


    Questions?
    None, really. 


    How are you doing? (Dear diary posts and venting are welcome and encouraged here)
    Going good! I'm very optimistic, especially since I have crazy morning sickness and fatigue, which I take as all good signs. With my previous pregnancy I didn't get any symptoms.


    GTKY: If you could travel to any place in the world, where would you go, and what would you want to experience there?
    I have a million places on my list, but I'd like to go on a tropical vacation to Thailand and eat all of the food and lay on beautiful beaches.
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    DD on a recent trip to London. 3 yrs old.
    EDD 4/7/18
    MC 5/20/17 @8 wks

  • How far along are you?

    6weeks 5 days
    Any appointments coming up?
    i have an ultrasound on Thursday and then I see my OB after.
    Questions?
    None at this time
    How are you doing? (Dear diary posts and venting are welcome and encouraged here)
    I alternate from being calm and assured to freaking out every few minutes, haha.  I have been bleeding since last Thursday,  and while I have bled in my 3 past pregnancies (so I guess it is just normal for me), it still scares me.


    IGTKY: If you could travel to any place in the world, where would you go, and what would you want to experience there?
    Probably to see the Roman ruins, I have always been fascinating by the Roman Empire.

  • How far along are you?
    6w1d

    Any appointments coming up?
    Not until the 29th

    Questions?
    Is anyone else taking oral progesterone? I just started today and I'm not sure what to expect.

    How are you doing? (Dear diary posts and venting are welcome and encouraged here)
    Not great. My resting heart rate has been decreasing since last week and it is triggering a lot of anxiety. Fortunately my OB ordered betas and checked my progesterone. My progesterone had dropped and so they have put me on supplements. However, when I went in for my second set of betas yesterday the hospital didn't have the order and said that they couldn't run the test until they got it from the OB. I called my OB today to get it cleared up and I thought it was but I'm not seeing the tests on the portal and now I'm worried we aren't going to get those results at all. Anyways...lots of anxiety over here right now and having a really hard time not spiraling.

    GTKY: If you could travel to any place in the world, where would you go, and what would you want to experience there?
    I think I would want to travel to the Himalayas and see the cranes migrating. I know it seems oddly specific but I saw it in a nature documentary once and it seemed like the most beautiful thing
  • @sunshinedays-2 I take oral progesterone vaginally. Progesterone taken orally can result in inconsistent levels, but maybe any supplementation is helpful, it seems like every doctor had a different opinion. I doubt you will notice much of a change. Early on supplementation tends to exacerbate early pregnancy symptoms like sore boobs.

    How far along are you?
    7w 0d

    Any appointments coming up?
    Tomorrow we go in for another ultrasound to hopefully see a heartbeat. I am nervous and excited, because if all goes well, we will tell family this weekend.

    Questions?
    Not at the moment.

    How are you doing? (Dear diary posts and venting are welcome and encouraged here)
    I am feeling much more chill than last week. It helps that some if my pregnancy symptoms have gotten worse, which is reassuring. At the moment there is nothing that I can do, but wait for tomorrow.

    GTKY: If you could travel to any place in the world, where would you go, and what would you want to experience there? 
    I second most of the ladies. An exotic faraway place on the water like tahiti.
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  • How far along are you?
    4w4d

    Any appointments coming up?
    For some reason, my doctor's office still hasn't called me back to set up an appointment. I had an awful experience with the last obgyn who did my D&C so I'm hoping this new office is great. How do doctors offices not pick up their phones!!! 

    Questions?
    Not at the moment.

    How are you doing? (Dear diary posts and venting are welcome and encouraged here)
    I didn't really have any symptoms of pregnancy last time, except I slept better and my boobs were maybe bigger. Considering my mini-boobs, that's not saying much! I almost wish I had more pronounced symptoms to tell me I am still pregnant. 

    GTKY: If you could travel to any place in the world, where would you go, and what would you want to experience there?  I would go to Iceland. That is tippy top of my list right now of places to go. I really like outdoorsy vacations with lots of hiking. I bet that won't be true for long :) 
  • @tgortney congrats!  You are going to your appt 3 days before me.  I am dying waiting too.
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  • I woke up this morning in an absolute panic because I didn't have to get up during the night to pee. That's the first time since my BFP. I'm hoping it's just because I didn't drink as much water close to bedtime yesterday, but it's still making me nervous as heck.
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  • @kaymaroo I have been there too. Constant urination was my #1 symptom during the first couple weeks, and I was a little worried when I woke up one morning and I hadn't gotten up that night. But the fun thing about this symptom is it always comes back. It is funny how you can almost sleep walk to the bathroom sometimes.
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  • @linds0503 Thanks for the reassurance! I'm too in my own head about this.
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  • How far along are you?
    7w 2d

    Any appointments coming up?
    I had one today and have another one on the 30th. They will do another ultrasound and blood draw. 

    Questions?
    The nurse talked to me today about first tri genetic screening, the maternit21 test and ultrasound. We've never done genetic testing before but I think we will this time around. Is anybody else planning on doing any testing?

    How are you doing? (Dear diary posts and venting are welcome and encouraged here)
    Still feeling so tired. Softball practice has been difficult and games start tomorrow. I've been delegating to my assistant coaches a lot. 

    GTKY: If you could travel to any place in the world, where would you go, and what would you want to experience there?
    I want to stay in the overwater bungalows in Fiji. They look amazing.
  • @lolablue3 I will probably get the DNA test since I turn 35 next month.  I am not looking forward to it at all, tbh.  
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  • How far along are you?
     4 weeks 1 day

    Any appointments coming up?
    have beta #3 coming up on Monday, had my 2nd one today

    Questions?  How are you doing? (Dear diary posts and venting are welcome and encouraged here)

    I am freaking the Eff out.  I just got my 2nd beta numbers called in to me....two days ago, my 1st draw, at maybe 3w6d (but could be earlier because i ovulated on cd18 this cycle) was 117 and todays, about 46 hours later, was only 216.  It went up, yes, but was only an 84.6% increase.  Ladies I have been down this road...my first was a MMC with no bloodwork til i tracked to 0, my 2nd was ectopic with signs of from the beginning based on unusual numbers (example, started 150, then 250, then back to 150, then 600) and going back for more bloodwork every 2 days is practically giving me ptsd and I am really scared.. I FEEL pregnant, I feel the burrowing, the tugging, my boobs are sore, i have heart burn, no bleeding, but these numbers terrify me and now i have to wait until monday afternoon for any indication :-( i only have one tube left....i thought I was ready for all that early pregnancy entails but clearly i am not. trying to use PGAL mantras but they arent working and im at work all day helping other people deal with their problems and could use any advice from people who understand...

    Me: 29  DH: 31, married 6/21/14, TTC since 7/14
    BFP #1 EDD 7/17/15, MMC 1/9/15 @8w
    BFP #2 4/3/15= ectopic treated with methotrexate 5/1, YET ruptured 5/18/15= One Tube Wonder!
    2 Cycles of Femara, Ovidrel, & Progesterone= BFP #3 DS born 5/17/16
    TTC #2 March 2017 (initially med free) 
    BFP #4 8/14/17 *natural cycle* EDD= 4/25/18, MC @5-6w D&C 9/22/17
    BFP #5 12/29/17 w/ Femara/Ovidrel/Progesterone/Synthroid, EDD= 9/11/18 found out 1/18 ITS di/di TWINS!!!
    DS and DD born 8/21/18 
  • edited August 2017
    How far along are you? I think it's 3 weeks, 5 days (I found out early)

    Any appointments coming up? I just had a beta yesterday, so have to do a repeat on Monday.

    Questions? Not at the moment

    How are you doing? (Dear diary posts and venting are welcome and encouraged here) I am frustrated because I had my first beta yesterday morning and they said they would call with the results. They didn't. I called this morning and they finally told me my number, but said they usually want it higher than that and that we will have to see how it pans out. I look that number up online and it's completely within the normal range. WTF nurse.

     GTKY: If you could travel to any place in the world, where would you go, and what would you want to experience there? I want to go back to Scotland. It is my favorite place! I have only been to Edinburgh though (twice) and would love to visit some other cities there.
  • @Jyoung327 I am so sorry you are going through that! That is exactly what happened to me with my last pregnancy. The numbers went up, but not consistently. I am really hoping that this is it for you! I am stuck in beta hell too. I hate it! I hope the weekend goes quickly for you.
  • @Jyoung327 I'm so sorry you're going through this stress! I don't have personal experience to share, but I remember a few weeks ago someone here was in a similar situation and others were sharing their success stories of slow early beta rise. Hopefully some of them will jump back in and share their stories, but in the meantime, I can say that it's possible that an 87% rise is just fine! FX for better number on the next draw...
    TW
    Me: 33 DH: 32
    Started Dating: 2003 Married: 2013
    Started TTC August 2016
    BFP: 2/1/17 MC: 2/8/17
    BFP: 3/8/17 MMC: 5/1/17
    BFP: 7/23/17 EDD: 4/5/18
    BFP: 2/27/20





  • @sunshinedays-2 that's awesome news! Congrats on a great u/s!
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  • @Jyoung327
    I understand how you feel.
    My first beta was 249 and 48 hours later it was only 380.  My 3rd beta 48 hours after that was 832.  At 6+3 we were able to see a heartbeat.  Hopefully your 3rd beta will come in strong.  Sometimes it just takes a little time to get that spike.  I know how pgal is so I hope this helps a little bit.
  • @sunshinedays-2 congrats at the good news!  Those first appts are seriously nerve wracking
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  • How far along are you?
    5w 5d

    Any appointments coming up?
    sept 18


    Questions?
    No, just trying to keep calm and live one day at a time. 

    How are you doing? (Dear diary posts and venting are welcome and encouraged here)

    Only 2 people know, so my anxiety is very hidden right now. I'm finding myself distracted and trying to just take each day as it comes. I've actually had nightmares about ectopic and Mia carrying already.  Hoping the anxiety lets up soon! 

    GTKY: If you could travel to any place in the world, where would you go, and what would you want to experience there?

    right now I'm imagining a beach in an area where mornings are cool and misty, walking distance to great seafood, and listening to the waves. 
  • How far along are you?
    Still not sure because my cycle never started after last MC, but somewhere around 6 weeks is my guess? 

    Any appointments coming up?
    Not till Sept 1. And I won't even have an ultrasound that day because of insurance issues, which is so frustrating.

    Questions?
    Nope

    How are you doing? (Dear diary posts and venting are welcome and encouraged here)
    Still really anxious. I am trying to appreciate every day that I get to be pregnant but I keep thinking that another MC is bound to happen... that it's a matter of WHEN not IF. I see all these discussions about baby names, the baby's sex, what items to buy for baby, and I envy those women who can feel confident enough to start planning. 

    GTKY: If you could travel to any place in the world, where would you go, and what would you want to experience there?
    I have always wanted to travel to Greece. It looks so beautiful there! 
  • I am approximately five weeks.

    Any appointments coming up?
    The first is September 8. 
    This should include blood work and an unltrasound.


    Questions?
    Not currently.

    How are you doing? (Dear diary posts and venting are welcome and encouraged here)

    I teeter between freaking out about all that happened previously and waiting until eight weeks to figure anything out. We tried and I was on loads of medications the first two times. The MC was one where we went in one week and heard a heartbeat and the next nothing. With my last pregnancy, I had a SCH at eight weeks which was very scary. Now, we were not trying but I was hoping! Ultimately, I just want to know but am trying to let go. 

    GTKY: If you could travel to any place in the world, where would you go, and what would you want to experience there?

    We just got back from Europe with our DD. My dream travel is to Africa to be with the hippos! 
  • How far along are you?
    5 weeks 4 days


    Any appointments coming up?
    September 7th


    Questions?
    Are there any other ladies out there who haven't yet gotten morning sickness, sore boobs,etc. yet? The only symptom ive really had thus far other than missing my period and having positive hpts and blood work is elevated thirst. It has me anxious. 

    How are you doing? (Dear diary posts and venting are welcome and encouraged here)
    I'm trying to stay calm and not stress. However, I know I won't be at ease till after I hear that heartbeat.

    GTKY: If you could travel to any place in the world, where would you go, and what would you want to experience there?

    Spain. I want to experience the food, culture, and architecture.
  • @Knottie1468792800 I didn't have symptoms when I was pregnant with my son.  Since I had irregular cycles, I could have gone on quite a while without knowing I was pregnant if I had not been temping.  The pregnancy was fine and he is perfectly healthy.  So I wouldn't worry about no symptoms, though I know it's hard not to.
  • How far along are you?
    5 weeks 4 days


    Any appointments coming up?
    September 7th


    Questions?
    Are there any other ladies out there who haven't yet gotten morning sickness, sore boobs,etc. yet? The only symptom ive really had thus far other than missing my period and having positive hpts and blood work is elevated thirst. It has me anxious. 

    How are you doing? (Dear diary posts and venting are welcome and encouraged here)
    I'm trying to stay calm and not stress. However, I know I won't be at ease till after I hear that heartbeat.

    GTKY: If you could travel to any place in the world, where would you go, and what would you want to experience there?

    Spain. I want to experience the food, culture, and architecture.
    No symptoms here either. This is my fifth pregnancy and I know by now that symptoms at this stage vary greatly and are not at all correlated with pregnancy outcome so that helps me stay calm!  (Had it not been for the missed periods I wouldn't have known I was pregnant with ds unit he started moving around 20 weeks, but with dd and my second miscarriage I had super nose and sore boobs around 5 weeks, dd and first miscarriage morning sickness started around 5 weeks). 
  • @ashnbubs I have started thinking about baby gear and such, and then I catch myself thinning how much harder it could make it if something happens again. I'm trying to focus on being pregnant and enjoy it (not the morning sickness) but it isn't always easy, for sure
  • @ashnbubs @allowachick I'm with you both on those PGAL feelings. MH just said to me last night that he's starting to get excited, even though he's been trying hard not to, and it made me feel all happy and gooey inside. I have been feeling the same way - excited, and feeling positive, but with that voice in the back of my head warning me not to get too invested or start looking at baby gear or any of that stuff.
    TW
    Me: 33 DH: 32
    Started Dating: 2003 Married: 2013
    Started TTC August 2016
    BFP: 2/1/17 MC: 2/8/17
    BFP: 3/8/17 MMC: 5/1/17
    BFP: 7/23/17 EDD: 4/5/18
    BFP: 2/27/20





  • @hedgepig @allowachick I feel like I'll jinx it if I start planning or tell anyone! Even though in reality I know that's not true and there is nothing I can do to control whether or not I lose this one too. I am just starting to feel some symptoms, which I am hoping is a good sign because with my previous 2 MCs  I didn't really have any symptoms. 
  • Had my 3rd beta today....went from 117 to 216 in 46 hours, to 4 days later it is 651.  My doubling time is 2.5 days.  The nurse seemed optimistic yet i have a 4th draw on Wednesday, she said the doctor would be "pleased" with these numbers, and that i am getting a 4th draw to be "extra cautious." My friend asked me, at what point am i considered to be safe? its so hard for me to feel even a glimmer of excitement. i still have some symptoms, no bleeding, etc... at what point can i get an ultrasound? i would be 5 weeks on wednesday. 
    Me: 29  DH: 31, married 6/21/14, TTC since 7/14
    BFP #1 EDD 7/17/15, MMC 1/9/15 @8w
    BFP #2 4/3/15= ectopic treated with methotrexate 5/1, YET ruptured 5/18/15= One Tube Wonder!
    2 Cycles of Femara, Ovidrel, & Progesterone= BFP #3 DS born 5/17/16
    TTC #2 March 2017 (initially med free) 
    BFP #4 8/14/17 *natural cycle* EDD= 4/25/18, MC @5-6w D&C 9/22/17
    BFP #5 12/29/17 w/ Femara/Ovidrel/Progesterone/Synthroid, EDD= 9/11/18 found out 1/18 ITS di/di TWINS!!!
    DS and DD born 8/21/18 
  • @Jyoung327 my doctor wouldn't allow an early US until 7 weeks but the earliest you can hear a HB is 6 weeks so I think the 7 week range is the safest. I would probably request an US in 2 weeks to be safe. My office tried to offer me just betas and I said hell no, I want an US.
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