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CD/DPO of first BFP?
How many months/cycles had you been TTGP?
What did your chart look like?
What were you doing TGKU?
How was your timing?
What symptoms did you have, if any (CS & CD breakdowns welcome)?
Holy shitballs, guys. Holy shitballs. I go here now.
CD/DPO of first BFP? 32/10 (but a squinter at 9 DPO on a Wondfo that I assumed was an indent)
How many months/cycles had you been TTGP? 6 month since IUD removed, 3 cycles.
What did your chart look like?
What were you doing TGKU? PNV, Folate, Ubiquinol, DHA, RRL, Pom Juice, CM, temping (via Ava), Preseed, HIO
How was your timing? -3, -2
What symptoms did you have, if any (CS & CD breakdowns welcome)? I caught a cold at 6 DPO so nothing that I couldn't attribute to that (difficulty sleeping, extreme fatigue) other than my breastmilk production took a nose dive at 7 DPO (only an oz in 12 hours apart when I would normally get 3-4 oz). Last night at bedtime it felt like I was nursing a hungry piranha.
How are you going to/did you tell your partner? So I had what I thought was an indent line on a Wondfo yesterday and showed it to hubbie who said he couldn't see anything at all. This morning I actually woke up before him (which is rare) so went into the bathroom to test then ran out yelling, "There's a second line for real this time!!" So much for my cute plan of buying DD a "big sister" shirt.
Anything else to add? Do you ladies know how absolutely amazing you all are? Seriously. The unconditional support you offer each other is such a testament to the community you've built here and what a special place TTGP is. I'm so happy to be moving on but at the same time it's so bittersweet to not be able to be here with you ladies anymore. I'm literally tearing up thinking of it. I wish you all the best in the future and wherever life takes you. I will be lurking constantly and love titing everything.
Me: 35, Hubbie: 33 Married DH: 2013 DD: Dec 2015 BFP 8/14/17 --> Due 4/27/2018
@fishsticks-n-custard YES YES YES!!!! So glad you posted! Best of wishes & H/H 9 months ever!
BFP 3/21/2020! OMG We're having TWINS! 4/17/2020 -------------------------------- LO arrived 11/9/2018! We have a baby! -------------------------------- Me: 33 | DH: 41 Married: March 2016 TTC #1/IUD out January 2017 PCOS dx January 2018 Medicated cycle 2.5mg Letrozole CD3-7 February 2018 BFP 3/10/2018! -------------------------------
TTGP December Siggy Co-Winner: Favorite Moments from Holiday Movies/TV
@fishsticks-n-custard OMG OMG OMG I was wondering where you were!!! I'm so beyond excited for you, cycle buddy!!! I wish you all the best, and a fantastic H&H 9
Me: 35 DH: 34 Married 07/2012 DD born 07/2014 DD2 born 10/2018 DS born 10/2022
IF history: TTC #2 since January 2016 June-Aug 2017: 3 IUIs w/Clomid = BFN Sept 2017: Dx w/Endometriosis Oct 2017: IUI w/Letrozole = BFN Nov 2017: IUI w/Letrozole = BFN Dec 2017: pre-IVF testing Jan-Feb 2018: IVF--17 eggs retrieved, 13 fertilized, 9 frozen and 1 transferred on 2/10 = BFP on 2/19!!! EDD 10/29/2018 FET Oct 2021: BFP on 10/31! MC at 5 weeks FET Feb 2022: BFP on 2/15! EDD 10/29/22
Congratulations @fishsticks-n-custard !!!!! <img src="https://us.v-cdn.net/5020794/uploads/editor/qz/w8hssx5lwf5x.gif" alt=""><img src="https://us.v-cdn.net/5020794/uploads/editor/8p/f8nwriaqjbhv.gif" alt=""> You have been a great addition to the TTGP community and you will be missed ;)
*Lurking* @fishsticks-n-custard I couldn't be more happy for you, and to have you over in April with us! I'be been stalking the TWW pretty hard hoping that this would happen!
TW
Me: 33 DH: 32 Started Dating: 2003 Married: 2013 Started TTC August 2016 BFP: 2/1/17 MC: 2/8/17 BFP: 3/8/17 MMC: 5/1/17 BFP: 7/23/17 EDD: 4/5/18 BFP: 2/27/20
CD/DPO of first BFP? 28/11 my initial reaction was that it was negative. I'm using wandfo for the first time and it was so faint that I thought, oh that's just where the dye (or whatever it is) is stored, right? So I took out another one just to see if I could see where the lines were before dipping. I couldn't. Tiny bit of hope. So I figured, well this ones already open, might as well dip it too, right? Sure enough, that one showed a super faint line too, but a little more obvious than the first.
How many months/cycles had you been TTGP? 5/4
What did your chart look like?
What were you doing TGKU? pnv, bbt, opk, cm, cp, hioooooo
How was your timing? -4 -3 -1 O +1, luckily FW fell perfectly between a vacation w/o MH and a work trip!
What symptoms did you have, if any (CS & CD breakdowns welcome)? tatas getting a little fuller but that happens every cycle. I also had crazy vivid dreams last night all revolving around a positive HPT! I think that was just my crazy creeping into my subconscious.
How are you going to/did you tell your partner? I feel kinda bad not telling MH first but he was still sleeping when I left for work and he is not quick at waking up. *TW* Last time TTC was so stressful (2 MC before DS) that I just showed him the test out of relief. It was exciting still but I want to think of something sweeter this time. DS just started saying "baby" when he sees them on TV. He already knows "mama" and "belly". Maybe I can get him to combine them somehow when MH gets home *end TW*
Anything else to add? I don't think it's really set in yet. Maybe that's my PGAL brain trying to remain calm and not get too excited in case we meet disappointment again. But today I am pregnant (whoa) and that's really exciting!
I am super gracious and indebted to all the TTGP ladies here. The amount of information I've learned here has been beyond helpful in my TTC journey. I wish I had found this community earlier. But the real impact for me was being able to talk to women going through the exact same thing at the same time. I don't have the same support from friends who are not at this stage in life yet. They try, but they have no idea what CM, OPKs, or FW are. So thank you, thank you, thank you!!!
I can't quit you, so love titties to come ETA: I know there are a lot of you in TWW that are testing soon. GL and I hope to see this thread blow up with grads!!!
@cards10 OMG OMG OMG!!!!! I am so freaking over the moon happy for you!! BOTH of my dpo cycle day buddies are grads. You guys....all the feels!! So going to miss you, but wishing you such a wonderful journey ahead.
Congrats @cards10 !!!! I know you were pretty excited all week, and didn't want to believe that big temp drop. So glad it wasn't AF!!!! OMG!!! <img src="https://us.v-cdn.net/5020794/uploads/editor/hx/quk4q4kr6nx3.gif" alt="">
@cards10 aww hell YES! Another one! Congratulations girl!!! I'm so happy for you!!!
BFP 3/21/2020! OMG We're having TWINS! 4/17/2020 -------------------------------- LO arrived 11/9/2018! We have a baby! -------------------------------- Me: 33 | DH: 41 Married: March 2016 TTC #1/IUD out January 2017 PCOS dx January 2018 Medicated cycle 2.5mg Letrozole CD3-7 February 2018 BFP 3/10/2018! -------------------------------
TTGP December Siggy Co-Winner: Favorite Moments from Holiday Movies/TV
@cards10 YAAAAAAYYYYYYY!!!!!! I am so happy for you girl! I know that PGAL brain is hard but, as you said, you are pregnant today.
I'm excited to hear how you end up telling YH and would not be mad at a PM with the details. Wishing you the stickiest bean and happiest and healthiest 9 months momma!
Re: TTGP Grad Thread- Week of 8-14
CD/DPO of first BFP? 32/10 (but a squinter at 9 DPO on a Wondfo that I assumed was an indent)
How many months/cycles had you been TTGP? 6 month since IUD removed, 3 cycles.
What did your chart look like?
What were you doing TGKU? PNV, Folate, Ubiquinol, DHA, RRL, Pom Juice, CM, temping (via Ava), Preseed, HIO
How was your timing? -3, -2
What symptoms did you have, if any (CS & CD breakdowns welcome)? I caught a cold at 6 DPO so nothing that I couldn't attribute to that (difficulty sleeping, extreme fatigue) other than my breastmilk production took a nose dive at 7 DPO (only an oz in 12 hours apart when I would normally get 3-4 oz). Last night at bedtime it felt like I was nursing a hungry piranha.
How are you going to/did you tell your partner? So I had what I thought was an indent line on a Wondfo yesterday and showed it to hubbie who said he couldn't see anything at all. This morning I actually woke up before him (which is rare) so went into the bathroom to test then ran out yelling, "There's a second line for real this time!!" So much for my cute plan of buying DD a "big sister" shirt.
Anything else to add?
Do you ladies know how absolutely amazing you all are? Seriously. The unconditional support you offer each other is such a testament to the community you've built here and what a special place TTGP is. I'm so happy to be moving on but at the same time it's so bittersweet to not be able to be here with you ladies anymore. I'm literally tearing up thinking of it. I wish you all the best in the future and wherever life takes you. I will be lurking constantly and love titing everything.
Married DH: 2013
DD: Dec 2015
BFP 8/14/17 --> Due 4/27/2018
BFP#3 5/22/17 | MC 6/17/17 at 7w3d
--------------------------------
LO arrived 11/9/2018! We have a baby!
--------------------------------
Me: 33 | DH: 41
Married: March 2016
TTC #1/IUD out January 2017
PCOS dx January 2018
Medicated cycle 2.5mg Letrozole CD3-7 February 2018
BFP 3/10/2018!
-------------------------------
DD: 07/19/18
EDD: 06/22/22
yaaay! Congratulations lady!!! wishing you a h&h 9mos!!
TTC#1 10/2016
TTC/IF:included medicated cycles, IUIs and 2 rounds of IVF with 1 embryo each.
BFP finally in 12/2018
TTC#2 06/2021
planning FET
"Some days are diamonds, some days are rocks,
some doors are open, some roads are blocked"
@fishsticks-n-custard OMG OMG OMG I was wondering where you were!!! I'm so beyond excited for you, cycle buddy!!! I wish you all the best, and a fantastic H&H 9
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Married 07/2012
DD born 07/2014
DD2 born 10/2018
DS born 10/2022
IF history:
TTC #2 since January 2016
June-Aug 2017: 3 IUIs w/Clomid = BFN
Sept 2017: Dx w/Endometriosis
Oct 2017: IUI w/Letrozole = BFN
Nov 2017: IUI w/Letrozole = BFN
Dec 2017: pre-IVF testing
Jan-Feb 2018: IVF--17 eggs retrieved, 13 fertilized, 9 frozen and 1 transferred on 2/10 = BFP on 2/19!!! EDD 10/29/2018
FET Oct 2021: BFP on 10/31! MC at 5 weeks
FET Feb 2022: BFP on 2/15! EDD 10/29/22
Dx: PCOS
Married: June 2013
TTC#1: January 2015
BFP #1 8/24/15 | MC 9/3/15 at 6w2d
BFP #2: 12/12/15 | DD born 8/29/16
TTC#2: June 2017
BFP #3: 7/15/17 | DS born 3/20/18
Lilo and Stitch (2002)
<img src="https://us.v-cdn.net/5020794/uploads/editor/qz/w8hssx5lwf5x.gif" alt=""><img src="https://us.v-cdn.net/5020794/uploads/editor/8p/f8nwriaqjbhv.gif" alt="">
You have been a great addition to the TTGP community and you will be missed ;)
@fishsticks-n-custard I couldn't be more happy for you, and to have you over in April with us! I'be been stalking the TWW pretty hard hoping that this would happen!
Started Dating: 2003 Married: 2013
Started TTC August 2016
BFP: 2/1/17 MC: 2/8/17
BFP: 3/8/17 MMC: 5/1/17
BFP: 7/23/17 EDD: 4/5/18
BFP: 2/27/20
CD/DPO of first BFP? 28/11
my initial reaction was that it was negative. I'm using wandfo for the first time and it was so faint that I thought, oh that's just where the dye (or whatever it is) is stored, right? So I took out another one just to see if I could see where the lines were before dipping. I couldn't. Tiny bit of hope. So I figured, well this ones already open, might as well dip it too, right? Sure enough, that one showed a super faint line too, but a little more obvious than the first.
How many months/cycles had you been TTGP? 5/4
What did your chart look like?
What were you doing TGKU? pnv, bbt, opk, cm, cp, hioooooo
How was your timing? -4 -3 -1 O +1, luckily FW fell perfectly between a vacation w/o MH and a work trip!
What symptoms did you have, if any (CS & CD breakdowns welcome)? tatas getting a little fuller but that happens every cycle. I also had crazy vivid dreams last night all revolving around a positive HPT! I think that was just my crazy creeping into my subconscious.
How are you going to/did you tell your partner? I feel kinda bad not telling MH first but he was still sleeping when I left for work and he is not quick at waking up.
*TW* Last time TTC was so stressful (2 MC before DS) that I just showed him the test out of relief. It was exciting still but I want to think of something sweeter this time. DS just started saying "baby" when he sees them on TV. He already knows "mama" and "belly". Maybe I can get him to combine them somehow when MH gets home *end TW*
Anything else to add? I don't think it's really set in yet. Maybe that's my PGAL brain trying to remain calm and not get too excited in case we meet disappointment again. But today I am pregnant (whoa) and that's really exciting!
I am super gracious and indebted to all the TTGP ladies here. The amount of information I've learned here has been beyond helpful in my TTC journey. I wish I had found this community earlier. But the real impact for me was being able to talk to women going through the exact same thing at the same time. I don't have the same support from friends who are not at this stage in life yet. They try, but they have no idea what CM, OPKs, or FW are. So thank you, thank you, thank you!!!
I can't quit you, so love titties to come
ETA: I know there are a lot of you in TWW that are testing soon. GL and I hope to see this thread blow up with grads!!!
<img src="https://us.v-cdn.net/5020794/uploads/editor/hx/quk4q4kr6nx3.gif" alt="">
@cards10 Congratulations!
Dx: PCOS
Married: June 2013
TTC#1: January 2015
BFP #1 8/24/15 | MC 9/3/15 at 6w2d
BFP #2: 12/12/15 | DD born 8/29/16
TTC#2: June 2017
BFP #3: 7/15/17 | DS born 3/20/18
--------------------------------
LO arrived 11/9/2018! We have a baby!
--------------------------------
Me: 33 | DH: 41
Married: March 2016
TTC #1/IUD out January 2017
PCOS dx January 2018
Medicated cycle 2.5mg Letrozole CD3-7 February 2018
BFP 3/10/2018!
-------------------------------
I'm excited to hear how you end up telling YH and would not be mad at a PM with the details. Wishing you the stickiest bean and happiest and healthiest 9 months momma!
DD: 07/19/18
EDD: 06/22/22
I'm so happy for you!!!
Married DH: 2013
DD: Dec 2015
BFP 8/14/17 --> Due 4/27/2018
@cards10 Congrats! Come join us in April!
Started Dating: 2003 Married: 2013
Started TTC August 2016
BFP: 2/1/17 MC: 2/8/17
BFP: 3/8/17 MMC: 5/1/17
BFP: 7/23/17 EDD: 4/5/18
BFP: 2/27/20
ETA:Trying to get untrapped from the box!
ETA: My GIF won't move.
YAAAAAY!!! I'm so happy for you guys, @fishsticks-n-custard and @cards10!!!!!!!
Married June 2012
BFP June 2013- blighted ovum, D&C Aug 2013
BFP Oct 2013- twins! A&H born May 2014
BFP Aug 2017- EDD 5/8/17