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March 2018 Moms
pumpkinpancake
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*TW* This is the end for me... (update with question)
pumpkinpancake
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I hope that I've posted enough to warrant my own post, but it is with a sad heavy heart that I'll be leaving you all now. Unfortunately, I had my follow up ultrasound yesterday, and while they still saw two gestational sacs, they didn't see anything viable inside them at all. Since it's been three weeks since my initial scan, we should have been able to see something if it were progressing, but unfortunately it looks like nothing is developing.
They gave me the option to either wait it out for nature to take its course, or to have a D&C, and I don't know what I'm going to do yet.
It's been great getting to know you guys over the last couple weeks, and I wish you all a happy and healthy rest of your pregnancies.
Update - thanks to everyone for the kind words. I don't want to put anyone on the spot to bring up unhappy memories, but for any of you who may have unfortunately been in a similar position as me, would anyone mind PM'ing me with some advice? I'm really struggling with what to do, and would love to hear from personal experience if possible. Thanks again.
They gave me the option to either wait it out for nature to take its course, or to have a D&C, and I don't know what I'm going to do yet.
It's been great getting to know you guys over the last couple weeks, and I wish you all a happy and healthy rest of your pregnancies.
Update - thanks to everyone for the kind words. I don't want to put anyone on the spot to bring up unhappy memories, but for any of you who may have unfortunately been in a similar position as me, would anyone mind PM'ing me with some advice? I'm really struggling with what to do, and would love to hear from personal experience if possible. Thanks again.
Re: *TW* This is the end for me... (update with question)
Dx: PCOS
Married: June 2013
TTC#1: January 2015
BFP #1 8/24/15 | MC 9/3/15 at 6w2d
BFP #2: 12/12/15 | DD born 8/29/16
TTC#2: June 2017
BFP #3: 7/15/17 | DS born 3/20/18
Married: June 2011
TTC since Feb 2016
BFP#1: 7/7/16 MMC: 8/16/16
BFP#2: 5/8/17 - CP
BFP#3: 6/27/17 EDD: 3/10/18
**TW in Spoiler**
BFP 6/30/16, MC 8/21/16
BFP 05/04/17, 5/10/17 Emergency LAP due to ectopic. Right tube removed.
BFP 07/12/17, ECDD 03/25/18 - Silver Orion Born 3/23/18
BFP 09/30/19, EDD 06/11/20
Me: 36 DH:35
Married: 7/10/2016
TTC#1 - May 2016
BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016
BFP 5/5/2017 - CP
IVF #1 - June 2017 - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo. 7/9 Beta #1 - 161
Married: 5.27.16
Baby Boy Due: 3.18.18
2nd BFP 10/10/11, EDD 6/2/12,natural m/c 10/13/11 at 6w5d
3rd BFP 12/25/11, DD born 8/31/12
5th BFP 11/15, DS born 7/24/16
6th BFP 7/14/16, EDD 3/20/18
Pregnant with #2:
Married: May 2008
DD Born: March 2018
DS Born: April 2019
Due with #3 December 2020!