What should I do?

Re: What should I do?

• Gingermom15 member

  August 2017

  DDRRT1982 said:

  So, any of you ladies that just kicked me out of the August 16 Facebook group want to tell me why?  It's relevant to this post, since this post provoked our conversation over there.  

  
  

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• rainafire77 member

  August 2017

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• missydallas member

  August 2017

  DDRRT1982 said:

  So, any of you ladies that just kicked me out of the August 16 Facebook group want to tell me why?  It's relevant to this post, since this post provoked our conversation over there.  

  
  

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• kalawa member

  August 2017 edited August 2017

  Honestly, I have two DS, and they WILL be taught to respect each, and each gender and sex out there. No matter what they are wearing, not wearing, etc. And I will also teach them that we all have hormones, and they do not define us, nor control us. And just because society STILL tries to give men excuses of rape, leering, whatever...because they are men, is absolute nonsense. 
  

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• DDRRT1982 member

  August 2017

  I am just going to make a long story short.  There was a whole thread in the FB group with screenshots and dialogue about members participating in the BMBs.  From December to March.  If they found it annoying, it was talked about and more than likely screenshot.  It wasn't just normal dialogue about conversations here, which I have experienced before, but more hateful in nature. I called it out tonight, because they were getting butthurt that they were getting flamed in this thread. They eventually started talking about this forum like you guys were ganging up on them.  I'll be honest that I am not sure of the ettiquette on whether it's ok to screenshots and gossip or say hateful things between other forums, but I thought some of the dialogue crossed the line.  I also thought it was becoming a platform for people to rally and then bring their drama here.  I have had a conversation similar to this once on August 16, but it was more about understanding elements of poverty, which I feel many of their members do not understand.  Judging people on clothing options is obviously something that is part of their culture.  
  
  I wouldn't share screenshots bc there are real names and that's not cool.  

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• DDRRT1982 member

  August 2017

  I was removed after I was told it was just a place to share among friends and TB is a public forum on the internet.  I get that, but I do think there should be some limits that are upheld because you have integrity.

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• kmalls member

  August 2017

  @DDRRT1982 so people getting flamed in this thread are members of the A16 Facebook group? 

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• DDRRT1982 member

  August 2017

  Yes.  There are a few of them.

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• babybluu member

  August 2017

  rainafire77 said:

  babybluu said:

  I honestly feel honored to be part of this board  
  *insert eye batting gif* 
  
  i need to learn to gif 

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  Those are great 

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• breezybee member

  August 2017

  Lurker from Dec 17
  
  Well, HOT DAMN this just got interesting 
  
  
  I'm dying to know what your Facebook group was snarking about 

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• kmalls member

  August 2017 edited August 2017

  Huh. Sounds like a miserable group. 
  
  Hey, A16!! 
  
  
  
  

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• becausescience member

  August 2017

  kmalls said:

  @DDRRT1982 so people getting flamed in this thread are members of the A16 Facebook group? 

  DDRRT1982 said:

  Yes.  There are a few of them.

  Maybe you're better off without them???
  
  And now I'm kinda glad I never participated on the Aug16 BMB.  I probably would have been kicked out long ago.
  
  And I also get why some boards go PG early.

  

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• missydallas member

  August 2017

  Welp. I guess it's good we are interesting enough to talk about? 

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  August 2017

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